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Bump:

How bout it gang? Would you rather have a tussle in the hayloft with a rakish bard, or get railed on the holodeck by a virile klingon?

>>43518908
Near-future Sci-Fi has always been the coolest setting IMO. When it's not so far removed from the present day that it may as well be fantastical (like spaceship battles and shit) you get the chance to bounce ideas around with how the world could be like in 20 or 30 years or whatever. With fantasy you're much more restricted to medieval stuff and what not so there simply aren't as many different directions you can go with it.

>>43519851
Yeah I think that's probably my favorite genre of sci fi as well. I've read a lot more sci fi than fantasy in general though. Clarke, Lem, and the Strugatsky brothers are probably my favorites. I need to read more contemporary sci fi- I liked The Three Body Problem triology quite a bit.

As far as erotic/romantic daydreams go, I think I might prefer fantasy. Getting swept off my feet by a handsome knight sounds great.

>>43518908
>QOTT
Honestly it depends. Both genres can be compelling and fulfilling but both can also be dumb as hell. And often science fiction just ends up actually being a fantasy set in space.

>>43518908
Dating myself but the Terre d'Ange series by Jacqueline Carey is one of my favourite all time series and probably what woke me up to being both bisexual and kinky.

>>43518908
Scifi, better hygiene

>>43518908
>QOTT
a tough one between the worlds of cowboy bebop and space dandy, and the world of beserk, elden ring etc...

I'll probably have to go sci fi sadly

>>43517994
I'm glad to help!
and glad to hear the routine has been going well

>>43518908
I feel like I'm more likely to run into pervert-enabling situations and technologies in the sci-fi world, unless the fantasy one is both HIGH fantasy and horny

>>43520514
I haven’t heard of the terre d’Ange series. Can you make it pitch for it? What about it made you aware of your bisexuality? Is it… spicy? D:

>>43520799
That, my friend, is an excellent point.

>>43520465
Do you like Ursula K. Le Guin? I feel like a lot of her sci fi is kind of fantasy in space, but in a good way.

>>43520851
Cowboy Bebop is so good. Love the show, and it’s such a good setting. I feel like it would be a great basis for a sci fi d&d campaign

>>43521150
Hmm… maybe, but you’ve also got things like “the stocks” and chastity belts in ye olde settings. Sure a lot of that stuff is later Victorian era fake history, but we’re talking fantasy not historically accurate medieval times or whatever.

Also magic seems like it could enable all sorts of horny shenanigans lol

I wish we had mind control tech why isn't this a thing yet? imagine making anyone into ur lover

>>43521239
Literal nightmare world where mind control exists

>>43518908
It really doesn't matter I just want magic or technology that lets women be fat as fuck without medical consequences

>>43518908
Sci-fi would be cool as long as it's not cucked like our real world. I can only dream of being able to explore or go on adventures with a bf. Really hard to do that these days there's not much to explore and everything's a tourist trap or private property.

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>>43518908
>QotT
Fantasy, always was more into it. Fem top knight to bang me up sounds great

is it still hypothetically bisexual if i'm only attracted to enbies

i mean like ONLY enbies i cant really get going with anyone else

>>43521660
Non-binary isn't real so you're just bi
Hope this helps

>>43521760
if they arent real then how do i keep kissing them?

how abt that you buffoon? you slink?

>>43521660
no, thats called enbian I think

>>43521184
cbbb introduced me to jazz and philosophy and only one of them gives me panic attacks but i'll let you decide which because it's funny

>>43521184
>Can you make it pitch for it?
Alternate-history medieval Europe where the state religion includes a cult to the god of BDSM, essentially. The society has permissive views on sexuality, and believe all people are some degree of bisexual and that love and sex are holy. Sort of Games of Thrones vibes with the medieval court political drama and dense fantasy world building.

Sorta flipped a lot of switches for me in high school.

>>43521954
Op here; you’re welcome as far I’m concerned!

>>43521660
>I'm only attracted to women with strange haircuts and piercings, does this make me bisexual???

Where is my bf at?

>>43521954
You're attracted to a specific look on both men and women. You're bisexual.

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>>43523523
Here

>>43523523
Haven't you raped enough trannies from 4chan Jorge?

>>43523220
*as far as I’m concerned- sorry I was out drinking with my partner earlier when I responded to your post.

Went on a date with a dude. Slipped up and he asked me with I'm bi, I replied and all chemistry died.

Tbh chemistry wasn't amazing prior to that but it seemed to be going fine?

Is this a common experience?
Felt kinda bad desu

>>43525509
Asked me if I'm bi*

>>43525509
Are you male or female? Just wondering if this would have been a same sex or hetero date.

It hasn’t happened to me firsthand, but I’ve seen a bunch of people on bigen report similar experiences. Gay people assume bisexuals aren’t really gay enough; or that we can’t be relied on for an ltr because we’ll eventually freak out and dump them for a partner we can have kids with. I’ve seen a bunch of bi guys here say they’ve had straight women turned off by them being bi, I guess because they essentially just see us as gay. I’m guessing straight dudes generally don’t care if women are bi, but I think that’s more to do with them being porn brained meatheads than anything else lol.

These obviously aren’t universal rules, but anecdotally yes plenty of gay and straight people dislike bisexuals. I’ve been lucky and only ever dated other bi people, so it’s never been an issue for me.

Most bi guys end up with women. This is 100% because obviously most of the people who'll date a man are women but it's still something that gay guys have in the back of their minds when dealing with us. It took quite a bit of effort to convince my gay boyfriend that I'm serious about him. Like he was shocked when he found out I'd told people I was seeing him

>>43522947
Oh that’s interesting. Is the idea behind the BDSM cult like it’s the elements of self flagellation in Christianity dialed up to 11 and made sexy?

Thanks for the recommendation! I’ll keep it in mind next time I’m looking for a fantasy series.

>>43521986
Lol yeah that really could go either way. The opening theme is pretty frenzied

>>43521535
A person can dream!

>>43521602
Exploring strange new worlds with your cute boyfriend is a very appealing fantasy. Preferably on a heavily customized spaceship that acts as your home as well as your mode of transportation. A window over the bed so you can look up at the stars while you cuddle would be nice too.

>>43521657
Good choice. Sir Mommy expects her squire chaste and compliant lol.

>>43526066
I'm male, so it was a male-male date.
I probably should have questioned if he's okay with my being bi after he asked but didn't think about it at the time.
He said he's "100% gay", sounded like he's proud of it, so perhaps there's something to it.

He was looking for ltr and so was I

Well, onto the next one I guess

>>43526080
Surprisingly the two bi guys I know irl said their gay dates never had an issue with it. Maybe they got lucky I guess

Perhaps I should just put bisexual in my dating app bio

>>43526224
>I probably should have questioned if he's okay with my being bi after he asked but didn't think about it at the time.
He said he's "100% gay", sounded like he's proud of it,
Yeah that sounds like he’s not into bi guys. Oh well, at least you weren’t vibing with him to begin with.

>Perhaps I should just put bisexual in my dating app bio
That would certainly screen out anyone who’d have a problem dating a bisexual, but it might shrink your dating pool quite a bit. I honestly don’t know how pervasive the anti bi bias is, so I don’t know how much having it listed on profile might impact things. I feel like people tend to be more judgmental and likely to make snap decisions when flipping through profiles on a dating app versus when they’re talking to someone in person. My point being that some guys might skip past your profile if you’re listed as bi, but if they actually met you irl it wouldn’t be dealbreaker.

I would definitely tell anyone I wanted to date long term I was bi. It’s pretty important to how I see myself, and I don’t think I’d get along with anyone who had a problem with that.

For men I mostly just like twinks. A little body hair or a little fat is fine, but still mostly twink adjacent. On rare occasions I find big boys attractive.

For women I LOVE fat ones or at least solidly chubby ones. Slim women just look like stock images to me.

I would like to have kids but I hate the idea of adopting in a gay relationship.

I may be a turbo virgin who hasn't been in a real relationship, but which side should I go for? Get shunned for being "gay" or get shunned for liking fat bitches?

>>43526336
>Get shunned for being "gay" or get shunned for liking fat bitches?
You're too concerned with what uninvolved people think. Do what's right for you.

>>43526389
You're right I just wish I had a more socially acceptable option

>>43526432
You could also get fat and then date a fat woman. People would say "Oh OK that makes sense"

>>43526304
>My point being that some guys might skip past your profile if you’re listed as bi, but if they actually met you irl it wouldn’t be dealbreaker.

I'm worried about that too, especially for women.
My assumption would've been that it would reduce the amount of men somewhat but basically zero out the women lol

I'm not planning to keep it secret for a serious ltr of course

>>43526448
I don't wanna be fat... I already work out :(

I don't wanna be fat simply because it's unhealthy, which is another thing to consider when trying to date a fatty

>>43526494
Hmm… maybe try leaving it off your profile for now, and just tell people you match with early on you’re bi. Then if you keep running into people who react badly you can add it to your profile to pre screen the haters.

I’ve been in a relationship for years now though, so I’m not really sure what the state of online dating is currently. I don’t even know what the major apps are at this point. So maybe take my advice with a grain of salt lol

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>>43526530
Well, depending on the type of fat women you like, maybe you as a fitness guy could match with a strongfat woman, and then things would still make sense.

>>43526636
I actually wouldn't mind that but I'd probably have to get absolutely shredded. I'm just a 6'4 twink with a sleeper build

I also don't know how I'd even find a strongfat woman. Feels insanely rare even at my gym lol

>>43526686
Careful, she might just see you as a source of lean protein in her quest for gains

>>43526686
>I also don't know how I'd even find a strongfat woman

You'd probably have to join a serious powerlifting gym?
Very different vibe from a commercial or body building gym I guess.

I was fortunate enough to have been with a 160/70kg amateur power lifter, not quite the same scale you're talking but she was sooo hot.

I just met her on an app, but alas she moved away

>>43518908
why is every article on the bi resource site framed from a female-only perspective? only pictures of femmes, only femme celebs listed, etc.

>>43526898
Nobody thinks bi men really exist

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Is pic rleated true?

I have heard that cis bisexual women always end up with straight cis men. If they find out that their bf sucked dick, they will leave him. Even if they claim to be bi.

>>43526944
IDK my gf is bisexual, I'm bisexual, we're both mutually turned on by it.

>>43526970
Same situation for me and my bi gf. She’s a big time fujoshi and spends a lot of her downtime watching BL dramas with absurd plots and hot dudes kissing. I pretty regularly catch her staring at me hungrily like I’m one of the boys on her shows lol. We’ve never talked about it, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she’d enjoy watching me with another guy.

<3 Bi4bi

>>43518908
Sci-fi because I want to cross lightsabers with Queer-Dong Jizz and Dontcha-Wanna Blowme

>>43527133
Nice. My gf has told me straight-up she wants to see me with another guy. I want it too, just need to pull the trigger at some point (this summer maybe?)

My one bi girlfriend was bpd incarnate and I'm pretty sure was cheating on me so I decided to stick to men

>>43527328
Hell yeah anon, let us know how it goes if you do!

>>43527351
An SO with untreated mental illness can be really exhausting. Hope you’ve had better luck since then

>>43527387
>Hell yeah anon, let us know how it goes if you do!
I will!

>>43526944
It's strange that this is mostly a women (straight or bi) disliking bi men thing, while men almost never see it as a problem if women are bi.

>>43528934
I mean I think this is mainly straight dudes excited about the idea of potentially getting to have mff three ways. I imagine a lot of straight men wouldn’t actually enjoy dating a lot of bi women though, because they’re less likely to conform to traditional gender roles.

>>43526944
>I have heard that cis bisexual women always end up with straight cis men. If they find out that their bf sucked dick, they will leave him. Even if they claim to be bi.

I am a bisexual cis f and yes, this happens a lot. It's part of the reason only my closest friends know that I'm bisexual. To most people in my life I'm just "gay" or "queer". Some people probably assume I'm a theyfab, but I'm not.

I'm gonna guess around 80% (number pulled from my ass) of "bisexual" women are bisexual for male attention and to be "edgy" and "quirky" and are not actually attracted to women in any meaningful way and are often repulsed by male bisexuality. They're just bigtime hypocrites.

Something about me just makes other people shun me. My whole life, school years up to adulthood. Something about me and the way I am gets me excluded from even the most low stakes social interaction. My vibes are bad. I don't know what it is about me or my personality. If I did I would change it.

I met a girl recently at a sport I'm doing, but unfortunately we haven't been able to meet up much for it. At times she seems very interested and happy to text, while other times she doesn't reply for a few days.
At first I figured she just has an avoidant personality, but the more I think about it the more I'm starting to suspect that she is autistic, or at least has autistic traits - not just from her texts mind you, but her expressions, body language, our conversations etc.
I'm not really sure where to go from here though - on the one hand I had considered asking her out, but on the other hand I know that if she actually is autistic then dating her would probably be rough... I suppose I should just get to know her better first.

Why am I bi but only attracted to queer people? This shit is basically forcing me to be gay.

>>43531301
Same same. I'm cis f and date women way more often than men. Dating straight men is a pain in the ass, and very few bisexual men are out.

I'm dating a gay man and I think I'm in love

>>43532372
Congrats anon. First time?

>>43532410
First man. I was married to a woman until a couple of years ago (I'm in my 30s)

>>43532433
Congrats again. I hope he feels the same.

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did porn make me bi? i am confused.
>be me
>normal kid
>had my first crush on a female celebrity
>started having crushes on female celebrities around age 6
>started having crushes on female classmates as i got older
>hit puberty at age 13
>started having more crushes on female classmates and random women in my life.
>started having sexual fantasies about women.
>boobs and ass started activating my neurons.
>never had a single sexual fantasy about a guy in my entire life.
>never had a crush on a male celebrity or classmate in entire my life.
>started consuming porn around age 15
>started with images of naked women
>slowly switched to videos
>mostly watched vanilla porn but i preferred lesbian and solo female porn.
>never watched more porn than average. i would just watch maybe twice a week or so.
>be around 17-18
>discovered trans porn
>felt confuse at the beginning.
>started watching just because of curiosity, because LGBT stuff is taboo in my society.
>realize i liked it more than normal porn.
>chaser mode activated.
>started exclusively watching trans porn for a while. maybe 60% of the time and 40% of the time cis porn.
>slowly moved from trans women to androgynous guys and femboys.
>just happened naturally as i got femboy porn recommended to me as i watched trans porn.
>then at some point i was watching straight-out twinks. not even femboys.
>slowly moved away from mainstream porn sites as this shift was happening to different places (eg, discord, 4chan, different forums etc...)
>fast-forward a few years in my early 20s and nothing has changed.
>i am still attracted to women (both cis and trans) and very feminine and androgynous looking guys.
>it has been 6 years now.
>nothing changed.
>porn didn't sent me down any other rabbit hole.
>i never developed any extreme or unconventional kinks or fetishes from porn.
>initially i got bi-cycles, but overtime i found myself attracted to both men and women equally at the same time.

>>43533310
>did porn make me bi? i am confused.
I didn't even read the rest of your post - porn can't change your sexuality, you were born that way bud

>>43533404
well i know. but the issue is that i didn't like boys when i was younger. but i still had crushes on many girls. my attraction to boys is something that developed around age 17-19.

>>43533774
That's probably not true, in all honesty. That's probably just the age your attraction became unavoidable.

>>43533774
It was probably just dormant. I wasn't attracted to other dudes either until my early teens

>>43533310
this is why you should NOT EVER look at porn. it will corrupt you, and cause mental illness </3

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>friend and I are both into somno but we're light sleepers and can't get anywhere before the other wakes up

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More queer genre art for the thread

>>43533774
Yeah I didn’t really get that I was bi until college. I don’t think I’d been actively repressing it, I just hadn’t seriously considered it an option. It took meeting a guy and developing feelings for him to wake me up to the idea of being bi. There were a ton of earlier signs I recognized after the fact though.

>>43532372
That’s awesome anon- I hope it goes well! I am a little jelly if I’m being honest though xD

>>43530274
I’m sorry that’s been your experience, anon. Have you ever been able to sit down and talk about it with someone who knows you? Maybe you could try a therapist or possibly a lifecoach? Life coach’s seem pretty scam-y to me, but it might be possible to just get a vibe check about how you’re coming off to people, and some advice on how to improve that.

>>43531301
Most of the people I’m attracted to are queer. I can appreciate attractive hetero people, but there’s rarely much genuine feeling behind it for me.

Goodnight bigen, sleep well <3

>>43518908
Both fantasy and scifi are good enough I would just flip a coin.
>>43530274
Similar situation with vibes and lack of charisma killing me irl.

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>>43534519
Idk man I think the day I pay money to a life coach is the day I lay down on the railroad tracks.

>>43534494
7.5mg zopiclone approx 1 hour before. You'll sleep.

>>43518908
>Fantasy or Sci-Fi?
It's genuinely hard to pick. I feel like SF generally has more interesting concepts, cultural relevance, philosophical depth etc. But there is a lot of untapped potential in fantasy. It's sad that fantasy writers usually default to the same generic medieval setting and recycled LOTR tropes. If I had the attention span to write a genre fiction book, I'd write a fantasy novel influenced more by antiquity than by the medieval period. It would, of course, expound the virtues of brutal authoritarian rule and racial purity, and there would be a lot of gay stuff in there

>>43533310
nigga do you really expect me to read all that shit (by you)
>>43533404
"born that way" is nonsense

>>43533774
I am 28 and realised I was bi a year or two ago only
it was something I was repressing though since teenage years I think

>>43534519
>There were a ton of earlier signs I recognized after the fact though.
this is the funniest thing to me I think
looking back, it is so obvious that I was queer
from the things I liked, how I acted etc
I have a gay friend from school years (though at the time I didn't know), and he apparently always thought I was queer
so he knew before I did hahaha

I've always known I was into guys, the question was always if I'm gay or not. Ultimately not a super important question to answer because I'm happy in my relationship

>>43535295
>Coin flip
Good answer

>>43535610
Yeah I mean I’d probably never see a life coach, but it sounds like you could could use some advice about how you’re approaching people/the vibes you’re putting off. I’m not really sure who you go to for that.

>>43536786
Are you still in touch with your gay friend from school?
>there were signs
I remember there was this tall guy in highschool with pretty green eyes and an olive complexion. We didn’t really talk at all, but I remember always exchanging warm smiles with him and getting butterflies in my stomach whenever we passed each other in the hallway. You know, super straight guy stuff xD

>>43537549
Do you like women too? Yeah the label doesn’t really matter if you’re happy

>>43536715
>"born that way" is nonsense
The alternative would be that it's a choice and/or decided by your environment. But who the fuck would choose to be gay in places like Saudi Arabia or Iran?

>>43538154
My theory is that it works like this: everyone is bisexual -> people built more or less effective barriers around a part of their sexuality, thus becoming "gay" or "straight" -> for some people, those barriers erode or change over time -> most people literally cannot erode them in adulthood, thus giving the impression of immutable sexuality ("born that way")
my source for this is divine guidance, ancestral intuition, bibliomancy

>>43538189
>My theory is that it works like this: everyone is bisexual
Complete nonsense; the world would look very different if everyone was actually bisexual deep down.
>my source for this is divine guidance, ancestral intuition, bibliomancy
Nevermind, you convinced me.

>>43538250
>the world would look very different if everyone was actually bisexual deep down.
Uh, no. "Straight" people are not aware of their same-sex attraction. But they can be made aware of it, which is why there's so much social contagion going on right now. My theory explains this very neatly, much better than "born that way"

>>43538273
In all seriousness, I think it's pretty much the same as with left-handedness. As being left-handed became more acceptable more people would report being left-handed, but with the curve representing left-handedness flattening out over time at 10-12%. I have no idea what the percentage of actual bisexuals are, but I doubt it's more than that.

>>43538295
The world was actually better when we retrained left-handed people to be normal. They can't even use fountain pens properly, they need weird hand posture to cope, etc. I pity them

>>43538308
Funnily enough there's a correlation between left-handedness and being gay. Don't know if that counts for bi as well.

>>43536715
Bisexuals are actually born that way. It's monosexuals who pick a side.

>>43538250
Correction: the world would look very different if everyone accepted their bisexuality deep down

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Maybe we're born with it....

I don’t really care if it’s something we’re born with or develop through other factors. I just love crushing on dudes and women.

>>43541090
Also true. Doesn't really matter if you're "born that way" or not. Do whatever you want for any reason you want.

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Any of you nerds play D&D or a similar ttrpg? What was the last character/most memorable character you played as?

I usually end up DMing for my group. I think the last character I played was a gnome illusionist.

One of my close-ish friends is becoming increasingly intolerable. He's always had some of these behaviors but it's becoming more frequent and exhausting. Need to decide whether I want to distance myself or address it with him.

>>43542591
I did for about five years with a group of friends, but our DM was a control freak and liked to keep the story on rails mostly. Really it was just an excuse to hang out once a week with friends

>>43542975
Is he the sort of person who responds well to feedback? It's her mature enough to hear criticism without being defensive? That's always the deciding factor for me when I'm choosing whether to address an issue or ghost someone.

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>>43536700
You may enjoy The Will of the Many.

>>43543451
It's unironically 50/50. Sometimes he's receptive, sometimes he will get aggressive or be dismissive. He's someone in a small-ish circle of friends so it won't be a total ghost as much as just avoiding any extended conversations.

>>43543488
That blows. I knew a guy like that. You couldn't tell him anything but then turned around and was shocked when people started drifting away. Never any introspection on his part. Just a perpetual victim complex and bad attitude.

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>>43518908
>qott
okay instead of a peasant girl or a bold space explorer, can I be an alien peasant who gets picked up by THE RIKER

>>43543437
Too bad about the control freak DM. D&D is mostly just an excuse to chill with friends even when it's being run well. I try to keep some forward moment going with the campaigns I run, but I'm fine with the players fucking around and cracking jokes. The only thing that really gets on my nerves is if one person ends up monopalizing the conversation and other people don't get a chance to weigh in. We've got like 6-7 players and we do it as a video chat through discord, so it's easy for people to get drowned out.

>>43543559
YES YOU MOST CERTAINLY CAN, TOP TIER PICK!!

>>43543602
he's so frikjasdlgkjhaKEDRGHA i love him so much

>>43543663
100% agree! I knew you had good taste in bats, I didn't know you were also a connoisseur of
Starfleet officers as well

>>43543726
okay so its like, him as the heartthrob, Cisco as my ideal husband, and probably fling with like, Chakotay, Worf(if I was even worthy) and absolutely dax, preferably Jadzia

>>43543780
I FORGOT O'BRIEN OMGOSH I CAN'T BELIEVE IT HE'S ALSO AN IDEAL HUSBAND

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>>43543780
Very respectable list, and I appreciate you stopping to pickup O'Brien. He's a gentle soul and a provider.

I've always liked Picard as well. So serious and dutiful. Pestering him would be a delight. He and Q have the perfect marriage.

>>43544005
They really do, but picard to me is too much of a twink imo, nothing wrong with that, he's very respectable and would probably give me a night I'd never forget, but I reapect his relationship with Q too much to dare muddle that

>>43543533
Yeah it's difficult. I don't think I'll really have to make a decision, it will just happen.

>>43544035
>but I reapect his relationship with Q too much to dare muddle that
True true, I wouldn't want to be a home wrecker (Captain's quarters wrecker?) either.

>>43544113
NOOO DONT INCLUDE MY TYPO IN THE GREENTEXT AAAAAAAA

>>43544122
lol sorry, I'd actually been considering correcting it, but I thought I'd be taking a liberty. Apologies!

>>43544074
What sort of troubling behaviours does he have?

I never thought id encounter multiple hardcore trekkies in bigen

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>>43546298
It’s a bold new era!

Goodnight bigen <3

Goodnight, /bigen/

>>43547501
Good morning bigen

>>43546829
Hm. Yes

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What the fuck is a bicycle

>>43548476
It’s not something I’ve experienced personally, but I’ve seen other people on here talk about going through periods where they’re more attracted, or even exclusively attracted, to one sex. So they might go through years just liking men, and then years of just women. people refer to this process as a “bi cycle”, if that’s what you were asking about.

Alternatively it’s those two wheeled things you sometimes see people zipping around on. Not the loud ones, those are called “motorcycles”.

>>43549284
Actually informative response, great job anon I was not expecting that. I was just memeing but now have come away from this interaction with more insight on the bi-cycular pattern that some fellow bi people seem to have. Me personally im mostly attracted to feminine people, but some masc-y folks do it for me too lol, it's more like a tricycle with the front, larger wheel being fems and the rear, smaller wheels being mascs

>>43549336
I figured it was a goof, but thought I’d offer up some info in case it wasn’t :) I like your tricycle analogy for your own proclivities lol

>>43549469
Same!! Product of me smoking after work lol. It makes sense because all 3 wheels are doing work here all the time, it's just one is really doing the heavy lifting lol.

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>he's bi
>he's a top
>she's bi
>she's a bottom
do you ever get tired of it all?

>>43549570
Well I'm a cis f top but yeah it do be like that most of the time

Every day I get a little closer to pulling the trigger. I've been reading accounts of other people's suicides and all I can think of is how lucky they are that they don't have to be here anymore. I remember my friends who've committed suicide and remember how furious I am at them. I've wanted to be dead since I was ten or younger. I've done therapy, taken medication for twenty years, nothing has made a dent. This life is all we get and it's so not worth it. The only thing that keeps me from going through with it is my partner. It would destroy her if I killed myself.

>>43549570
My boyfriend would be rather disappointed if I wasn't a top

>>43551952
Does your gf know you feel that way? Kind of sucks for her that you seem to feel like a ticking time bomb. I hope you can figure out a way to be a little more invested in being alive. It'd be a bummer if you two got married and then you offed yourself in your 40's-50's.

>>43549570
>biological essentialism isn't real, chud!
>look inside
>man is top, woman is bottom
They don't think it be like it is, but it do

>>43552226
She knows, but I pretend I'm doing better than I am.

>>43552649
That doesn't seem tenable. I hope you get yourself sorted out, or she leaves you before you snap.

>>43521184
Le Guin is not just the scifi goat, but possibly the greatest american author of all time. Top 5-10 easy.

>>43553155
Thanks.

Is bisexuality still good in your thirties or is it all just
>closet gay men cheating on their wives
>weird swinger couples
>losers too weird/unattractive/autistic to talk to girls
I used to put a leg over the other side of the fence when I was younger but that was before I became a grown ass man with hemorrhoids and beer shits and it became tougher to play "pretend I'm a girl"

girl talked to me today, help i dont want to get married

>>43553676
I mean maybe I fall under weird swinger couple cuz my wife is a bi fujo (although we haven't had a threesome yet), but I still enjoy being bisexual in my 30s. I don't see the problem. Even if I only ever sleep with my wife for the rest of my life, I'm still bi.

Also if you have hemorrhoids consider checking with a proctologist or something, it's usually pretty easy to resolve.

>>43553676
30s and still bi, though with a long term partner

You should take better care of yourself

>>43553676
I think you stop being LGBT either once you get married to someone of the opposite sex, or once you hit 35.

>>43553676
>>43553845
Oh, and there are definitely people to whom that doesn't apply. They're mostly maladjusted, perverts or sociopaths, people like that

>>43553174
based

>>43553676
Also in my 30's and bi in an ltr. I think a lot more people in their 30's are in relationships vs doing casual dating. This means you're more likely to be sticking with one person for a long time, and thus you're not re-upping the bi part of your bisexuality as often.

Having said all that I'm feeling at least as bi now as I have at any previous point my life.

>>43552328
By this logic most gay men should be tops, which is not my lived experience

>>43555056
No, by being gay they accept the woman's role

>>43554974
cute

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Virgin here (m)
I have a dick appointment on thursday. Any advice?
Should I have a beer beforehand? I'm a somewhat nervous person

Friend I would jokingly hit on is getting married soon so I am going to be at a wedding this week.
I wish I could get married.
>>43553676
>losers too weird/unattractive/autistic to talk to girls
I didn't ask for this kind of call out.

>>43556156
I'm regretting being married because I want to die

>>43556156
Weddings are a place to flirt, get after it

>>43555794
Be sober, lube up, be honest about your inexperience, have fun

>>43555794
Do this >>43556928 just try to relax and enjoy yourself :)

Goodnight bigen

Someone jumped off a bridge in my city today.

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>>43518908
>Fantasy or Sci-Fi? Would you rather be a bold bisexual space explorer, discovering new worlds and romancing the alien inhabitants? Or a beautiful peasant boy (or girl or enby, you get the point) swept off his/her/their feet by a heroic knight, and taken on adventures of derring-do??

One is for tops the other is for bottoms

>>43519851
Near future sci fi will be data centers, AI replacing every aspect of human life and break down of social fabric. We will all be living in section 8 housing with govt UBI where we mindlessly turn to entertainment to distract ourselves. You'll be too poor to explore but have enough money to eat, sleep and play AI generated vidya. There's no cyberpunk future or anything human just humans becoming less relevant and machines taking over with few on top.
>>43520005
Aliens are just sci-fi rehashing demons in modern setting. No alien race will travel light years to come to a planet like ours to conquer. It's human ego thinking we're so special that once aliens become aware of our existence they'll try to invade us.

>>43520005
Btw few people in three body problem who worship and work with aliens who are light years away is just demonic cultists communicating with demons.

>>43560582
>Near future sci fi will be data centers, AI replacing every aspect of human life and break down of social fabric. We will all be living in section 8 housing with govt UBI where we mindlessly turn to entertainment to distract ourselves. You'll be too poor to explore but have enough money to eat, sleep and play AI generated vidya. There's no cyberpunk future or anything human just humans becoming less relevant and machines taking over with few on top.
No, that's reality. I want science FICTION lmao

>>43520851
>a tough one between the worlds of cowboy bebop and space dandy

We will never explore stars , see space or have faster than light travel any time soon. Your future is living in block A1 room 56 with water , food and meager spending money cause most human jobs have been automated and few are left for exceptional best. You'll die alone in a dark room cause you lack financial independence to roam.

>>43521602
>Sci-fi would be cool as long as it's not cucked like our real world. I can only dream of being able to explore or go on adventures with a bf. Really hard to do that these days there's not much to explore and everything's a tourist trap or private property.


You don't have a ship of your own now but think any random guy can get a spaceship in future to travel with?

>>43560604
Maybe in the future, (not in our lifetimes), but today's equivalent would be buying an RV or a travel trailer.
>t. 1.5 years living in an RV

>>43560591
>No, that's reality. I want science FICTION lmao

If you want sci fi cyberpunk space operas you'd destroy AI right now. Imagine Star Wars but instead of human commanders , pilots or soldiers it was all robots. There'd be no drama , high stakes or emotional twists when it's just machines vs machines.


There'd can only be a future with humans or AI you can't have both. What prospects do humans have when you go through school, college and learn but an AI trained in a year does it better and no company has an interest in teaching you ropes. Biggest enemy to mankind isn't immigration, climate change or meteors but slow decline of man where he offshores his mental faculty to machines. There'll be no artists , musicians , designers , coders or it'll be fringe when normie can say make me gay Star Wars fan fic anime for me with 12 episode in blink of an eye.
>>43560628
There's no future for humans until every data center is destroyed

>>43560668
>There's no future for humans until every data center is destroyed
Yeah it sucks and they're just building more. Word has it they're building a bunch of AI data centres in Vancouver and Kamloops BC Canada and it has the government's full support and some funding (and this is the company that got caught masking its customer service phone agents accents with AI)

>>43560547
Yeah but which one would you rather be? Or pick a secret third option if you prefer!

>>43560582
Sure sure, anyone can tell you that’s the most likely near future we’re heading toward. But again do you wanna woo hot aliens, or go on adventures with a handsome knight? Or again, an unnamed third option!

>>43560628
>Maybe in the future, (not in our lifetimes), but today's equivalent would be buying an RV or a travel trailer.


We won't have capital or money to do that in future though anon. We will all be as poor as a North Korean citizen who's given basic minimum to survive. You'll be a drag to society consuming energy , food and water while contributing nothing to it , a relic of past that continues to persist. If our overlords are compassionate liberals they'll allow you to live your days in a opium den until your demise but if it's Elon he will personally see fit of your genes are worth continuing then send a drone to kill you if your genetic potential is below grade C.


>>43560698
>Yeah it sucks and they're just building more. Word has it they're building a bunch of AI data centres in Vancouver and Kamloops BC Canada and it has the government's full support and some funding (and this is the company that got caught masking its customer service phone agents accents with AI)


These are equivalent of mass immigration but instead of blue collar jobs they'll take every middle class job that allows you to live well off life. It might not be Tommorow or in 5 years but it'll be inevitable to point that entry level jobs will stop existing. And worse of it all the more you use AI the dumber you get in same way you don't work a muscle you'll lose it. And this is happening in formative years of Gen alpha and gen z anon where you can open google doc's who can write your essay for you, make a presentation, cater images and research for you. You'll become so dependent on AI that you won't function without it and those who resist will not be hired.
>>43560727
How does it not make you mad that your whole future is being stolen from you anon? How can you not hate AI when it's existence is to solely destroy human utility while only profiting those who had capital.

>>43560668
You understand that sci-fi doesn't necessarily have to conform to what the real world is going to look like in the future, right?

>>43560778
Sci fi is humans attempts at predicting future whether dystopian or utopian anon. It can use plots as boat for these purposes but any good scifi is presenting itself as a warning or dream for human to aspire for. Star Trek , Star Wars , three body problem , ghost in shell , matrix , Prometheus and terminator. They all give us a small glimpse into a potential curry for human kind

>>43560758
>How does it not make you mad that your whole future is being stolen from you anon?
Oh believe me I’m aware of this and mad about it. I’m an illustrator, so this topic has been top of mind for me for something like 4 years now. I’m also frankly despondent about humanity’s future, and am basically just trying to get through my life as happily as I can. I made the QotT as a silly little thing for people to have fun with.

>>43560853
>I’m an illustrator, so this topic has been top of mind for me for something like 4 years now.


Is op image your art?

>>43561026
Nah, I haven't ever posted my work on here. I was just pulling some stuff out of my inspiration folder that felt relevant to bigen. That piece is by someone going by "Frostbite Studios" if you wanna see more though!

>>43561097
Why not post ur art we could Definitely use more creative art work on these threads

>>43561174
Sorry, I like having my anonymity here. Maybe I'll draw something just to post to bigen sometime

>>43560804
Tell me you are autistic without telling me you are autistic.

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I have accepted that I dearly love two men in my life and will continue to do so no matter what.

The first one I fooled around with before he started a relationship with a woman. We're all friends. I urged him to go for her because it's healthier. I regret it sometimes, even though I feel it's correct. We still have a special bond and there's a mutual respect and connection that I think will never break. It's both nice and hurtful but in a weirdly content way.

The second is another friend that's going through tough times and I'm helping him as much as I can. He says he's straight, but I can't shake the feeling there's something there. We discussed my feelings for him, I almost blundered and ruined the relationship once, but because of that we now have an extremely honest and caring friendship - we cook, exercise, hang out together as much as we can. We send each other good mornings when we wake up. We stay up until 3AM talking about life. He says he feels comfortable with me and that makes me all fuzzy inside.

I've started dating around again and am hoping to have these feelings with a woman, but I have realised I fucking love these two dudes. I'd die for them. I want to express my love for them both, all the time, in any shape or form. Makes life worth living.

I'm just yapping here, thanks for reading my blog. I hope you feel love (and loved) the same way.

>>43561971
That's nice you have that kind of close loving relationship with a couple guys. I have some really long running friendships like that.

Any consideration to dating men? Why just women?

>>43562016
I've never had anything good or healthy with a woman. They either weren't interested in me (which is fine) or it was manipulative BS. Men were mostly just casual fun, but I had some nice friendships come out of hookups. I'm not opposed to dating men, but I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone and focus on finding a GF. Before I used to do something like that while trying to ignore the feelings I already have for others that didn't want me, but now I came to realise it's pointless. Instead of replacing these feelings, I'll just accept them and try to move on. Life has improved significantly over the past year, now I'm trying to focus on my health, weight loss, general well being, so trying to date again is part of it. No results yet, but I just started.

I hope your friendships stay strong, too. Thanks for listening!

>>43562113
Thanks anon! gl with your self improvement + dating jouney. Glad to hear your life's gotten better since last year :)

what guy wants to be my hot daddy

>>43562113
But why is dating women the goal? If you have an easier time making connections with men, why not also pursue men?

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>>43564129
Thank you for your service.

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>>43564890
I wanna be the guy with only his hands in frame

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I went from 190lbs to 137lbs and I still feel fat as fuck. Should I lose more weight or what? Mantain? Gain muscle? I'm just tired of dieting and want to be comfortorble in my body.

>>43566227
Gain muscle. You're not fat, just a bit flabby from lack of (or not enough) exercise. Your weight doesn't say much without knowing your height also.

>>43566727
5'7

>>43566875
Then yeah you are right in the middle of a normal BMI. You just need to exercise then your weight is fine where it is, plus you're gonna add some (healthy) weight anyway with muscle.

>>43567060
I am exercising already. Should I just try to mantain and continue my routine or try to excersei harder I guess

>>43567405
Make sure to eat healthy too - lots of protein. I'm not an expert on fitness/bodybuilding (I switched to bouldering only), but any decent PPL program is probably fine.

>>43566227
Would

>>43566227
Congrats on the progress

Sweet dreams bigen

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>>43568647
Bonjour Jorge