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>>43553398
>I have a straight male sexuality but instead of wanting to fuck pretty women I want to look like one
it's not straight male sexuality to want to have sex with men as a woman
in fact that's the opposite thing
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>>43553675
I don’t think I really think about sex at all actually, it’s more just like other straight men I notice pretty women but instead of imagining fucking them like I should I instead I imagine being them and being all cute and happy. all I want is for my brain to align more with the other straight men, I know I’m exactly like them except for in this one aspect
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>>43553872
>I want to look like [a pretty woman]
>but im not a repper
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>>43553929
how are those things even remotely related
>>43553908
I don’t want to be a woman im just envious of their looks and lives
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>>43554113
I would much rather adjust my brain to match that of a normal straight cis male. I wish I could get into the heads of the men I know and study their inner thoughts so I could copy them
>>43554126
I have a firmly male identity. so sure I would love living the life of a woman but it wouldn’t feel like me
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>I’m not a repper
>I don’t want to be a woman im just envious of their looks and lives
>I notice pretty women but instead of imagining fucking them like I should I instead I imagine being them and being all cute and happy
Sorry OP, but you're some form of AGP.
How you cope with it is a choice. But no, there is no way to "solve" this permanently.
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>>43554162
You are describing being trans
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>>43554162
>I have a firmly male identity. so sure I would love living the life of a woman but it wouldn’t feel like me
When you see a woman in the mirror, when it becomes painful to use your old male voice, when you feel a pussy between your legs... your idenity ain't going to be able to stay the same
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>>43554185
it means I see myself as male, I believe that my thoughts are male thoughts, and I think that male life choices and values are ultimately better for me even if I don’t necessarily enjoy those things. The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender. Even if I woke up tomorrow as a woman I would feel very uncomfortable bc I implicitly believe that being feminine is wrong for me.
>>43554195
see above I am not, the mere idea of being seen as feminine makes me uncomfortable bc it would conflict with my view about myself and who im supposed to me
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>>43554162
This is just what happens when you aren't a youngshit you already built up an identity based on your conformity to straight male socialization but that doesn't mean that's intrinsically 'you' or the identity that would make you happiest it just takes time to deconstruct
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>>43554327
im not sure I really believe in the idea of an intrinsic self, ultimately if I made the effort to conform with other straight men it says something about my own identity. most fags and trannies are effeminate their whole lives bc they never see themselves as the same as other men and thus have no reason to conform.
>>43554338
i had a gf in high school which was like 10 years ago and yes we had sex and yes there were issues but I think that was bc of my anxiety I wasn’t questioning my sexuality at the time
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>>43554289
>The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender
no it's not, the fundamental part of being trans is having gender dysphoria
gender theory is for activists
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how old are you? how tall are you? what's your social & career situation like?
if the answer are: bad, bad, bad and bad, it ain't gonna be easy, but know agp isn't going anywhere. maybe you can find a way to manage it without it making you go crazy and blow up your marriage on grindr
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>>43554289
>The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender.
This is actually completely incorrect. If you have sufficiently lethal dysphoria you can come to this conclusion but for many of us, it manifests as a longing to be female and a hollow pain at being male
Is your current gender something you are enthusiastic about, or do you merely accept it? Do you kinda envy trans men for really liking being male? Do you *wish* you *could be* transgender so you could "legitimately" transition?
You have gender dysphoria. This cannot be fixed by any means other than affirmation because the root cause is that you're a girl. Welcome to the club, sister.
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>>43554790
I don’t think I really have any of these. again it’s just a weird sexual thing for me
>>43554909
I would much rather just figure out how to be enthusiastically male. Really I feel like all I need to do is fix my sexuality and my social anxiety, I’ve just never figured out how to do that. To me transitioning only makes sense for those who are already naturally physically, mentally and socially feminized
>>43555080
not in my experience