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how do I stop confusing my heterosexual desires for dysphoria?
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>>43553287
what do you mean?
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>>43553353
I know I have a straight male sexuality but instead of wanting to fuck pretty women I want to look like one. clearly there’s some wires crossed in my brain. how do I undo this
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>>43553287
i would sell my kidney for a cal jabobs bf
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>>43553398
get vagina then everything will make sense. im not even joking
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>>43553398
AGP. Get well soon.
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>>43553287
gay scene btw
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>>43553287
Find a GF, project your desires for femininity onto her
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>>43553398
>I have a straight male sexuality but instead of wanting to fuck pretty women I want to look like one
it's not straight male sexuality to want to have sex with men as a woman
in fact that's the opposite thing
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>>43553649
I know this would help me but I’m scared of meeting people
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>>43553675
Not OP but I want to have sex with women as I look like a pretty woman
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>>43553705
that's just extreme male sexuality
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>>43553398
>straight male sexuality
Sadly, you don't. You have a "straight" streak compromised into an autosexual / mild bisexuality.

You'll be licking other transbians in no time!
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>>43553675
I don’t think I really think about sex at all actually, it’s more just like other straight men I notice pretty women but instead of imagining fucking them like I should I instead I imagine being them and being all cute and happy. all I want is for my brain to align more with the other straight men, I know I’m exactly like them except for in this one aspect
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>another rep thread
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>>43553721
So uhh, how should I properly affirm my sexuality?
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>>43553854
have sex with women
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>>43553745
I’m not a repper, I don’t want to troon, I just clearly have some weird developmental issue in my sexuality. I tried going to therapy but was too embarrassed to talk about it
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>>43553872
do you want to be a woman in general, or just sexually?
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>>43553398
>>43553872
>I want to look like [a pretty woman]
>but im not a repper
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>>43553929
how are those things even remotely related
>>43553908
I don’t want to be a woman im just envious of their looks and lives
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>>43553398
yeah this is called AGP
If you think you can handle transitioning and will be happy with the results you should start E
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>>43554087
>I don’t want to be a woman im just envious of their looks and lives
what's the difference?
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>>43553854
be a straight guy?
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>>43554113
I would much rather adjust my brain to match that of a normal straight cis male. I wish I could get into the heads of the men I know and study their inner thoughts so I could copy them
>>43554126
I have a firmly male identity. so sure I would love living the life of a woman but it wouldn’t feel like me
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>I’m not a repper
>I don’t want to be a woman im just envious of their looks and lives
>I notice pretty women but instead of imagining fucking them like I should I instead I imagine being them and being all cute and happy
Sorry OP, but you're some form of AGP.
How you cope with it is a choice. But no, there is no way to "solve" this permanently.
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>>43554162
>I have a firmly male identity
what does that even mean?
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>>43554087
>>43554162
You are describing being trans
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>>43554162
>I have a firmly male identity. so sure I would love living the life of a woman but it wouldn’t feel like me
When you see a woman in the mirror, when it becomes painful to use your old male voice, when you feel a pussy between your legs... your idenity ain't going to be able to stay the same
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>>43554185
it means I see myself as male, I believe that my thoughts are male thoughts, and I think that male life choices and values are ultimately better for me even if I don’t necessarily enjoy those things. The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender. Even if I woke up tomorrow as a woman I would feel very uncomfortable bc I implicitly believe that being feminine is wrong for me.
>>43554195
see above I am not, the mere idea of being seen as feminine makes me uncomfortable bc it would conflict with my view about myself and who im supposed to me
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>>43554289
Get on some of that feminizing hypno, girl! You will be feeling womanly in no time!!
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>>43554162
This is just what happens when you aren't a youngshit you already built up an identity based on your conformity to straight male socialization but that doesn't mean that's intrinsically 'you' or the identity that would make you happiest it just takes time to deconstruct
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op have you ever had sex with a woman, you have straight cis sexual orientation right? how did that go for you? Did you have any... issues
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>>43554289
What youre describing is normal for eggs yeah
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>>43554327
im not sure I really believe in the idea of an intrinsic self, ultimately if I made the effort to conform with other straight men it says something about my own identity. most fags and trannies are effeminate their whole lives bc they never see themselves as the same as other men and thus have no reason to conform.
>>43554338
i had a gf in high school which was like 10 years ago and yes we had sex and yes there were issues but I think that was bc of my anxiety I wasn’t questioning my sexuality at the time
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>>43554289
>The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender
no it's not, the fundamental part of being trans is having gender dysphoria
gender theory is for activists
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how old are you? how tall are you? what's your social & career situation like?
if the answer are: bad, bad, bad and bad, it ain't gonna be easy, but know agp isn't going anywhere. maybe you can find a way to manage it without it making you go crazy and blow up your marriage on grindr
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>>43554289
>The fundamental part of being trans is believing that your “inner self” is the opposite gender.
This is actually completely incorrect. If you have sufficiently lethal dysphoria you can come to this conclusion but for many of us, it manifests as a longing to be female and a hollow pain at being male

Is your current gender something you are enthusiastic about, or do you merely accept it? Do you kinda envy trans men for really liking being male? Do you *wish* you *could be* transgender so you could "legitimately" transition?

You have gender dysphoria. This cannot be fixed by any means other than affirmation because the root cause is that you're a girl. Welcome to the club, sister.
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>>43554790
>actually believes in the dsm
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>>43554402
>most fags and trannies are effeminate their whole lives bc they never see themselves as the same as other men and thus have no reason to conform.
False
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>>43554909
>but for many of us, it manifests as a longing to be female and a hollow pain at being male
Exactly
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>>43553675
Not if you're amab
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>>43555101
wanting to have sex with men as a woman isn't straight male sexuality no matter how you're born
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>>43555033
>actually believes in judith butler
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>>43555129
If judith butler isnt real then who eats the milk and cookies and leaves gender under the tree on performancemas? My parents?!
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>>43555129
tf u mean the dsm and critical bs go hand in hand. I believe more in biological determinism
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>>43553398
welcome to hell
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>>43554790
I don’t think I really have any of these. again it’s just a weird sexual thing for me
>>43554909
I would much rather just figure out how to be enthusiastically male. Really I feel like all I need to do is fix my sexuality and my social anxiety, I’ve just never figured out how to do that. To me transitioning only makes sense for those who are already naturally physically, mentally and socially feminized
>>43555080
not in my experience

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