>>34599239
It means you don't like her and should break up with her

>>34599239
You're in the honeymoon period of a relationship, this is usually when attachment is strongest and both people get high off the idea of discovering someone new and finding out things about them etc.

It will wear off eventually, also you don't "base your whole day" off your partner, that is not a healthy nor sustainable relationship. Who's causing it to be like that? Is she clingy and wants a call/time spent together constantly or are you someone who thinks a relationship means entering into a pseudo-married state where you spend your entire life with this person instantly.

Either way, be happy with what you have and realize how you can turn this into a normal, healthy functioning relationship with boundaries so you can enjoy your anime in peace.

>>34599239
REEEEEEEEEEE fakecel
>>34599246
bad advice giver

>>34599264
I think he means more like "when you have work in X hours, so you can't mess around"

>>34599264
>Who's causing it to be like that? Is she clingy and wants a call/time spent together constantly or are you someone who thinks a relationship means entering into a pseudo-married state where you spend your entire life with this person instantly.
Well she wants to be with me all the time. We live close to each other and she wants to go out all the time or she wants me to come to her place or vice versa. She told me that when I come to her place I can still do my own thing but when I'm there and want to watch that anime for example she gets upset I'm not paying attention to her. She tells me I'm on my computer all the time. She also gets upset when I don't want to watch something with her, like yesterday she wanted to watch some TV show but I didn't want to so she got upset. Basically I feel under pressure because I have to do everything with her.

How my moon is with me

Sun

>>34599299
Why did you accept to be in a relationship if you just want to watch anime all day long?

>>34599313
Bc I started to like her and didn't know how it would actually look like

>>34599239
damn that was quick lol

>>34599266
Wtf is a fakecel

>>34599239
You're clearly not ready for a relationship. Break up.

>>34599299
Relationships don't (always) just naturally work out, you have to manage them if you notice something doesn't work. She says you can do your own thing but clearly she can't deal with the reality of that, so your first step should be to spend less time with her and tell her it is because you do not actually feel free to do your own thing with her and that means you will reserve some time specifically to do that. If she gets butthurt, point out that you will not keep enjoying the relationship, even though you like her, if it means having to give up on all your solo hobby/relaxation time.

Obviously a relationship takes time and effort and that means you will have less alone time altogether. But if you do like her it is worth trying to find a compromise where you get some of it.