>>34599972 Why do men here like to roleplay like they are apart of some society where every woman is inherently good looking enough to just get a bf at will and every man is inherently desperate enough to accept any random woman.
Men, if one of your friends got a girlfriend like pic related would you tell him break up with her, even if the alternative is for him to stay an khhv incel?
>>34599975 nta Because incels with no social lives overrepresent in these threads. >>34599977 Yeah that's a pretty accurate representation of the males in these threads.
>>34599975 Try out online dating and you can instantly find a man who claims to want to be your boyfriend. Maybe he's lying, maybe he's only looking for a hookup, but trusting people is part of life, you know?
And I know that you'd prefer to meet people organically in real life, by pure chance or luck, but why pretend that the option for an instant boyfriend doesn't even exist?
>>34599991 None, I've never tried them, I already know that the only men I'd match with are the type that swipe right on any living thing that happens to be female, and with the intent of just receiving pics. Nothing actually meaningful.
>>34599996 Okay, so the option does exist, you're just too prideful to use it. Don't say that the option doesn't exist then.
Also, don't make your own low self esteem into everyone else's problem. >Waaah, I'm ugly. >Waaaaaaah, therefore anybody who likes me must be a worthless piece of shit. Be nicer to yourself and be nicer to others too, and you'll be happier.
>>34600001 Way to misinterpret everything I said, you just don't get it. Do you think online dating apps are the only way women and men meet? If I had the physical appearance that'd grant me a man who wasn't just a degenerate coomer then I wouldve been approached by now but it hasn't happened in the slightest.
>>34599998 >Women, has a guy ever fooled you with his first picture like this?? The only red flags was the broccoli hair and lacrosse. If not for those, there wouldn't have been a problem with the other pictures.
Reminder that you don't hate boomers enough. They're the reason women can't be trad wives anymore and men can't have a nuclear family. They took that from you.
>>34600012 >Do you think online dating apps are the only way women and men meet? I already said "I know that you'd prefer to meet people organically in real life, by pure chance or luck". It's a supplement to your existing options, and it's a supplement that you are choosing not to even try.
>a man who wasn't just a degenerate coomer See, there it is again. Why is it your first instinct to assume the worst about people? People you've never met and you know nothing about?
This world only works when we give people a chance, when we judge them on their own merits, when we don't make negative assumptions about them prematurely. If you start thinking more positively about other people, then you might even learn to think more positively about yourself too.
>>34600029 I'm not judging men based on anything but how they act, why would I want to give the sort of men a chance if all they do is instantly talk about sex related things? Its disgusting and dehumanizing. I get men are okay with this since they are very sexual creatures but women value actual love more than lust. >think more positively about yourself too. I haven't said anything cruel about myself, I'm not sure what you're getting at.
>>34600048 I've done ERP with an LLM before, but I'd have to completely lose my mind and give up on being a human being to have an "AI girlfriend". I may as well have sock puppet for a girlfriend at that point.
>>34599975 The average man thinks the average woman is attractive enough, while the average woman thinks the average isn't attractive enough. Logically there are more ugly men than women and a woman would have to be below a 2 or a 3 out of 10 to be considered unfuckable or not worth getting into a relationship with.
>>34600050 >I'm not judging men based on anything but how they act But you've never tried the apps, so you don't know how they act. Get an app, make a bio that says you're only looking for long-term romance and love over lust, and some of the men who contact you will NOT instantly talk about sex.
>I haven't said anything cruel about myself, I'm not sure what you're getting at. "If I had the physical appearance that'd grant me a man who wasn't just a degenerate coomer then I wouldve been approached by now but it hasn't happened in the slightest." "I already know that the only men I'd match with are the type that swipe right on any living thing that happens to be female, and with the intent of just receiving pics."
Stop hating the world and stop hating yourself, please.
>>34600065 >Dyke is a slang term, used as a noun meaning lesbian.[1][2] It originated as a slur for masculine, butch, or androgynous girls or women. Pejorative use of the word still exists, but the term dyke has been reappropriated[3] by many lesbians to imply assertiveness and toughness.[4] I don't care either way.
>>34600048 I like to make AI bot characters, both male and female as a hobby. No I will not be linking any of my bots. >>34600066 nta Oh god it's this shit. No, men being willing to have a quickie with a random dumpy looking chick just because he's horny and desperate isn't virtuous, it's pathetic.
>>34600075 I don't think seeing that as practice is very grounded either, anon. The only thing you'd be practicing is roleplaying with an LLM. You can indulge in "talking" to an LLM, but you should let it placate you to the point of no longer wanting an actual relationship with a woman.
>>34600083 Why bother getting demoralized by what a woman you will never meet or date has to say? Have you also considered that there's a reason she's on camera? Specifically to get a rise out of you, maybe?
>>34600092 When one person posts a video, it's just one person's opinions. When a video becomes popular, it's because it resonates with a lot of people's opinions and experiences.
>>34600067 You seem to be confusing men having lower standards than woman as men having low standards in general, they do not have as low of standards as you seem to think, not that there's anything wrong with that, but that does mean that someone who isnt conventionally attractive is going to not have much of a chance. I also think you're ignoring how men on dating apps will often outright ignore women's wants and message with alternative (lustful) motives nonetheless. >Stop hating the world and stop hating yourself, please. Why do you equate being realistic and self aware with one's looks with self hate? Not everyone is going to be pretty/handsome and that's okay, it'd be self hate if I adjust my self worth based on my looks but I don't, I still think i deserve a good relationship that isn't just sex-driven the only thing I've adjusted (or rather others have on my behalf) is my likelihood of obtaining said relationship but we all already know life is unfair like that.
>>34600092 >Why bother getting demoralized by what a woman you will never meet or date has to say? The concern is that it's not just her. >Have you also considered that there's a reason she's on camera? Specifically to get a rise out of you, maybe? Sure, it's possible. But how would they select for women with high standards when they're looking for people to be in their video?
>>34600107 >The concern is that it's not just her. Why worry about what women like that think? Are you really upset you can't get a woman that superficial? >But how would they select for women with high standards when they're looking for people to be in their video? No one using Tinder and larping as an it-girl from 2007 has high standards, anon. She's a loser and doesn't want you to notice.
>>34600101 >I also think you're ignoring how men on dating apps will often outright ignore women's wants and message with alternative (lustful) motives nonetheless. Men in real life will ignore your stated intentions and hide their true intentions too. Men do it, women do it, everyone does it. It's the human condition.
All people are capable of great maliciousness, and the only way to live a halfway decent life is to force yourself to give people a fair chance, and to judge each individual person based on their own individual merits. Why shouldn't this apply online just as much as it apples offline?
>>34600098 Yes. Kink was normalized by 50 shades of grey, which came out in like 2013. So definitely millennial core. I'm glad zoomers are leaving that bullshit behind.
>>34600077 >Oh god it's this shit. No, men being willing to have a quickie with a random dumpy looking chick just because he's horny and desperate isn't virtuous, it's pathetic. I wasn't just talking about sex, but also relationships. Which is why I also mention relationships in my original post.
>>34600115 >Why worry about what women like that think? Are you really upset you can't get a woman that superficial? What if that's how most think, they simply have the tact not to verbalize it like she does? >No one using Tinder and larping as an it-girl from 2007 has high standards, anon. She's a loser and doesn't want you to notice. Was tinder even around back then? I was in middle school.
>>34600078 That's fair and I can see why, but it might be better than nothing.
>>34600079 I do want a relationship with a woman, but I lack any romantic or sexual experience despite being in my mid 20s. I also don't have what most woman would want in a man, so there's no point. I obviously won't be sexually satisfied, but I could receive a little emotional satisfaction until I become someone who is worth something.
>>34600121 Naw, it's the cause, there are just so many single moms and girls don't want multiple kids from different fathers. Look up the stats and be surprised
>>34600130 >Was tinder even around back then? I was in middle school. This caught me off guard. I never realized you guys saw Tinder as such an enduring institution of the internet. No, it didn't exist yet. facebook had only existed for a few years at that point, and the first iPhone and Android came out that year. The biggest dating sites back then were Match.com, eHarmony, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, etc. Online dating was still something you did at a personal computer back then, not on a phone. >What if that's how most think, they simply have the tact not to verbalize it like she does? Everyone has preferences when it comes to physical attraction, but most people don't sit around and circlejerk about how unworthy people on dating apps are, no.
>>34600140 I think the reason zoomers are so vanilla is because so many of them get so little sex anyway, that even the most basic stuff is revolutionary to them
>>34600116 I don't think any middle ground is going to be made here if you're just consistently taking the safe route by talking about how everyone is guilty of the behaviors I'm talking about, I already understand that women can be shallow and lustful too, but it is mostly done by men.
>>34600140 I'm the third one and am a millennial. I'm not a prude at all, but I'm just not into choking women or being called daddy. The sex with that girl was fantastic otherwise.
>>34600172 Are you actually trying to imply that we somehow can't tell that the gender who is the most lustful to the point of them valuing lust higher than actual love isn't mainly men? I think this is insulting to both our intelligence, but I get that you're biased.
>>34600085 Pussy is literally made to fuck. Crafted by millions of years of evolution to be the best thing to put your dick into. Why would I put my dick in an asshole where shit comes out of
I can't tell attimes if the world is getting worse and there's nothing anyone can do to stop it or if I actively want the world to get worse because a hellscape of a world that only gets better after our lifespands is annoying and unfair, the babies, the hcildren and the teens of today hsould suffering 1000 million times as hard as we of now just now, these feelings are of selfish spite yet I'm certain I'm not alone in those feelings, if there's one thing us humans are about is spite, just watch, somebody somewhere is going to rage quit the planet with nuclear war at some point
>>34600178 >Are you actually trying to imply that we somehow can't tell that the gender who is the most lustful to the point of them valuing lust higher than actual love isn't mainly men? Not him, but if that's his stance, I agree. >I think this is insulting to both our intelligence, but I get that you're biased. What, and you aren't biased? Moron.
>>34600178 We can't tell who is most dishonest, each side accuses the other side of being the most dishonest. You will meet men who claim to NOT value lust over love, and it's your choice to automatically assume that they're dishonest.
>>34600187 >What, and you aren't biased? Everyone's biased so yes, but when it comes to being awful coomers, men easily take that prize, how can anyone disagree with this? >>34600190 >t's your choice to automatically assume that they're dishonest. Because it's something they do time and time again, the experience of a man and woman going out on a date where he comes across as a normal man both before and during the date, only to be upset when she doesn't let him fuck her just cause he paid for her dinner is so common, men view women as an opportunity for sex before they view them as anything else.
>>34600204 And was this experience created by online dating, it didn't exist prior to online dating and it doesn't exist independently in offline dating?
>>34600204 >Everyone's biased so yes, but when it comes to being awful coomers, men easily take that prize, how can anyone disagree with this? I don't really want to continue this slapfight any further after this reply, but women buy lots of sex toys and a lot of literotica. Humans are coomers.
Why are men seen as less emotional when they’re clearly extremely emotional and it causes them to act out violently, self harm, or use addictive substances.
>>34600237 NTA I just find it funny how moids like to hype themselves up as logical and not ruled by emotions because they don't count anger as an emotion.
>>34600226 I would really like to hear an answer from women about this. It's always been painful for me to hear people speak with certainty about how emotionally dull and shallow we apparently are.
>>34600238 I suppose I can only speak from experience, but I've never met a man who doesn't realize that anger is an emotion. Even the dumbest, most senseless men I've met who let their emotions rule them were fully aware of their emotions. I don't guess women get to hear that half of locker room talk, though.
>>34600241 >I suppose I can only speak from experience, but I've never met a man who doesn't realize that anger is an emotion. Clearly they don't considering how much they like to hype themselves up as the more logical sex that's not controlled by emotions.
>>34600153 Women are the one claiming to be "angels". I don't recall any man claiming that all men are innocent and not shallow. No one mentioned tradwives until you did.
>>34600246 For sure. I think all people can be like that, so I've always taken umbrage with the notion that one sex is the emotional sex and the other isn't.
>>34600238 Man here. Life only makes sense because of emotions, if you couldn't feel anything, it would be even more pointless than it already is. And everyone acts irrationally often, it's the people who act like facts ain't facts because they hurt their feelings that piss men off, so mainly leftists and wymynz.
Do men not realize how painful having an abortion is? There’s no reason to attack and harass them like you do when they’re carrying one of the worst burdens a person can go through. Meanwhile men cry about video game ranks
>>34600229 we've reached the naked corruption and the corporations having more powers than entire countries but we left out the neon signs everywhere and the cyberpunk cybernetic body part modification, we'll be getting chips put in our skin tho at some point.
>>34600224 >women, thoughts on men with fetishes for vulnerable and easily exploitable girls? To shreds, you say?
>>34600226 >Why are men seen as less emotional when they’re clearly extremely emotional and it causes them to act out violently, self harm, or use addictive substances. Because men experience the three acceptable man emotions, rather than a full wheelhouse of emotions like an emotionally mature adult should.
>>34600247 Not a bully, don't drink. I stand by what I said. Women in 2026 are 100% a scam. Having a girlfriend in 2026 is gayer than actually being gay.
>>34600256 >Because men experience the three acceptable man emotions, rather than a full wheelhouse of emotions like an emotionally mature adult should I’ll bite. Explain my own feelings and mind to me, Korrasami.
>>34600249 >My only understanding of women is random Twitter posts and Hollywood garbage slop Yawn. >>34600261 Yes and men are the ones who caused that social norm, but I know you're gonna find a way to blame it on women.
>>34600266 I've told some wild fake sex stories on 4chan, my real life sex life actually just consists of having normal, vanilla sex with one person maybe every 4-6 years
>>34600253 depends, if you were raped then I sympathize with you but if you were just being a dumbass that didn't use protection then I don't feel bad for you
>>34600277 Not very new, and I can't say that wearing those emotions on my sleeve has ever been a turn-off to other people so long as I didn't wallow in them or express them through physical violence.
>>34600271 I will be gracious enough to extend this to miggers but that's it. Everyone is biased and holds on to narratives of false causality to explain the world in a way where they're always the good guy and other people the baddies but it's only political retards and wymyn who deny obvious truths because it's offensive.
>>34600282 Sharing a meal or coffee, going to a museum/gallery/zoo/aquarium/open-air market and then hanging out outdoors at a park or walking trail. Time would fly without either of us noticing, and the conversation would flow naturally.
>>34600262 Most men experience joy, sadness, and anger without a deeper understanding of their emotions or their root causes. Like a man will feel angry without knowing why the thing that made him angry made him angry, nor how it might stem from or overlap with another emotion.
Example: my ex once got really angry while doing something because no matter how hard he tried, he couldn't get it right. This made him feel helpless, but that feeling of helplessness wasn't born out of nothing. He was feeling helpless due to being looked over for a promotion at work as well as feeling stuck with his parents, because he also felt guilt over wanting to leave his parents as they're getting older. So the underlying reason he was throwing his tools around the garage was because he fears his parents' mortality, but most men would just chalk it up to whatever is bothering them in that moment.
>>34600296 >Like a man will feel angry without knowing why the thing that made him angry made him angry, nor how it might stem from or overlap with another emotion. I sincerely have no idea how you could come to this conclusion. I would have to think that most women weren't fully sentient to believe this about them. The anecdote you shared also doesn't support it. I can't help but feel a little insulted, reading your post.
>>34600284 Can't tell apart the ones that enjoy this from the ones that would report me to the police otherwise I would be doing this every time. I forced anal sex on a girl I hooked up with a while back, she was drunk in my home at night, we were by ourselves, met on Tinder and invited her over, she had been out drinking with friends, it was one of the last few days of her vacation and she wanted to enjoy herself before going back to her usual routine. She let me know she didn't want it and kept slipping away and pretending to be asleep but that was the only reaction, don't know if she was scared to be more confrontational because of the implication. I kept forcing myself on her and managed to penetrate her a few times but couldn't get into a position to really fuck her and gave up eventually. We still messaged the day after like nothing happened then she blocked me after a few days. I wonder if that actually qualifies as rape. I come across as very polite and nice, maybe that's why she thought it was repulsive.
>>34600315 It takes a lot of intent to rape anyone. The sooner you stop lying to yourself, the more likely you'll be able to die with a clear conscience. I'm not trying to shame you; that would be pointless. Just stating the facts.
>>34600320 It's an anonymous board, why wouldn't you confess things you haven't told anyone? Why try to impress or try to do PR for men? Women do way fkn worse
>>34600339 Rape can happen when both parties are drunk but consent and men go to prison for that genius. Third degree murder is still murder, unintentional rape is still rape you’re an icky nasty sex pest and you’re gonna get intentionally raped by the devil with Harvey wine stain as your butt buddy
>>34600339 >That's what I mean, it wasn't rape because there was no intention to rape, Yes, I realize what mental gymnastics you're performing to avoid confronting the reality that you are a rapist. Again, I'm not trying to flame you, but I feel that you need to be real with yourself about this for the sake of your own sanity and maybe your soul. >If someone is doing something to you and you barely react, that counts as consent in my book. This is what people call victim blaming, anon. You may be desensitized to that phrase because of how sensationalized public discourse is surrounding sexual assault, but it's what you're doing. You are blaming a rape victim for being raped. That woman didn't resist because she was mortally afraid for her life. We men can easily physically overpower most women, and you used that implication to coerce that woman into allowing you to rape her.
>>34600321 Single mothers that push their children on men they don't like and would never date if they were childless are worse. Women complaining about dead beat men reflects poorly on women for picking those men
>>34600356 It was rape, and that is absolutely why she blocked you. The other anon is right; she was in shock. You need to accept that you are a rapist.
>>34600354 Lmao, always this argument. I will agree that some men fool everyone but a lot of women pick very poorly and very apparent to a lot of people. BS argument.
>>34600364 I only said women are worse for doing what I said they do. Worse means that those men are also doing something bad but not as bad, so I actually disapproved of both in my original response.
>>34600366 Yes, that's correct. Anon needs to accept that he was capable of raping a woman. >>34600367 I'm not, anon. You gave us a lot of details and even called your posts here a confession.
women are the only ones that have been nice to me, other men were assholes and treated me like shit, but at the same time they are the ones that have hurt me the most by hurting my feelings.
>>34600370 >Not having the hindsight to know that a guy will turn out to be a deadbeat is worse then being a deadbeat Men really fucking hate taking accountability for their actions, don't they?
>>34600371 Not saying I'm confessing to rape, I confess to something private that is unethical and would damage my reputation, not rape. I blame women for this happening for giving men who are actually a evil pass and saying no when they don't mean it and want you to insist. Blame women, anon.
>>34600374 You're reading comprehension is really low. You can definitely a lot of times is the whole basis of what I said. What you said doesn't follow logically.
>>34600378 I only bring it up because some femanons itt said it was the closest thing they had to /s/ lol But now that I think of it, I think they said /fit/ was better than it
>>34600383 >Yes you can a lot >which means you can’t always >which means you can’t ever >because if we get rid of obvious deadbeats >we are still dealing with the good men and not obvious deadbeats and there’s no way to tell who is which I thought men were supposed to be good at logic
>>34600384 I've only ever had sex with one man and have no interest in casual sex, but thank you for the erotic fanfiction. >>34600389 Alright I re-read your shit, so basically, you're one of those retards who thinks being a stepfather is being a cuckold. You're still retarded, but for different reasons. My mistake. I wasn't aware that moving on and getting together with a new person while you have a child is worse then being a shitty parent.
>>34600392 I just want you to keep typing shit like "Not saying I'm confessing to rape, I confess to something private that is unethical and would damage my reputation"
>>34600346 >you’re gonna get intentionally raped by the devil with Harvey wine stain as your butt buddy This desu, anon is fucked if he doesn't realize the error of his ways
>>34600396 >I've only ever had sex with one man and have no interest in casual sex, but thank you for the erotic fanfiction. Woman speak 101 fellas. She’s had lots of sexual partners but she considers them to be less than men. She’s fucked at least 10 “boys” according to her but one MAN. >those retards who thinks being a stepfather is being a cuckold. This is what gives it away. She’s an unironic “he’s the father who STEPPED up” these word games that disguise the truth sicken any honest individual
>texting girl >in a position where I can easily transition into asking her out >she mentions some thing >I go into a long rant about why I hate that thing and think it's stupid >expect her to agree >she stops responding
>>34600396 Not what I said originally but I don't disagree. I said women who get together with men *they don't like* after they've had a child and are single but we have to admit that women think a lot differently after they have a child, so it's pretty much instinctual for them to do this, so yeah, dating single moms is inherently cucked.
>>34600409 Uh, the reason I say I've only fucked one man is because I'm not a pedophile you fucking weirdo. >This is what gives it away. She’s an unironic “he’s the father who STEPPED up” these word games that disguise the truth sicken any honest individual Look, you can just say "Dating someone who already has kids is too much for me, I don't think I could do it" and that'd be fine. Personally, I couldn't date a single parent myself because it'd be too much responsibility for me. But no, men have to do all these theatrics about how single mothers are evil and being a stepfather makes you a cuck. >>34600418 Okay now I get it. You were jerking off to a revenge scenario where the Stacy who said no to you comes crying back to you after the Abuse Chad she had a kid with abandoned her. Okay, now I understand your mental disability.
>>34600426 Lol, this is why we say women are more irrational than men. Women will instantly put aside any arguments and try to cancel and insult you when you put an uncomfortable truth or opinion in front of them. Imagine if this was Facebook, she would actually call my job and try to get me fired.
>>34600439 It's irrational for me to say you're fucking weird for going on a tirade about how I'm actually a slut because I used the term "man" instead of "boy"? Explain, dear rational man.
>>34600403 >as a parent how would you train a girl to deal with adult me hitting on her? like adult men shouting from their cars to a high school girl? I know a model who open carries and she never gets cat called.
>>34600447 You're replying to the wrong person. I called you irrational for being a child and immediately resorting to insults when you disagree with someone
>>34600447 You responded to the wrong guy but I’ll clarify. You’ve been fucked by ~11 males You call 10 of them boys You call your current one a man Therefore you’ve only had sex with one MAN according to you. The distinction is false and made up in your head so you can feel like a princess. Now please answer. Do you consent to me writing erotic fiction about you in this thread. You thanked me but I think you were being sarcastic.
>>34599975 >Why do men here like to roleplay like they are apart of some society where every woman is inherently good looking enough to just get a bf at will and every man is inherently desperate enough to accept any random woman. I'm a tourist here but the first part of your question is true and the second part is false. Women can get a mate pretty easily but it requires that they adjust their standards and get a guy who will say yes, which definitely does exist. They can't get any guy they want, but they can get a guy.
>>34599976 I typically avoid commenting on my friends' relationships. If I saw her openly treat him like shit, I'd definitely pull him aside and talk about it, but pic related might also be said in a jokingly insulting way (not my thing, but it could be for them), so it depends on context.
>>34600457 Oh because I said something mean to the guy jerking off to his Stacy rejection fantasy? Yeah, I don't care about being seen as a "deep intellectual" on 4chan. >>34600459 I've only fucked one man and zero boys. I was a virgin until the age of 25 and I fucked my current boyfriend. Is that phrasing good enough for your sensibilities, or are you gonna write more fanfiction?
>>34599996 You just proved yourself wrong. Guys would swipe right on you, because they would swipe right on anything. You said it yourself. So the first part of your statement is true. You can get *a* man. You can't get *any* man. You can't have Chad, sorry.
>>34600322 >if you see a future together I feel like it comes up naturally in conversation, at least it should. >>34600403 >adult men shouting from their cars to a high school girl? That's not really being hit on that's just being catcalled, best thing to do is not react. If she was being hit on I'd want her to look theatrically disgusted or afraid and say "I'm 15 leave me alone" really loudly. More to attract people to be concerned than to deter the creep.
>>34600473 I didn’t ask how many men you’ve fucked, it’s technically impossible to do but maybe you have a penis I don’t judges women come in many forms. You seem alarmingly hesitant to tell us how many men have fucked YOU so I assume it’s embarrassing which means it’s probably a high number >>34600476 He’s easily avoided by not hanging out with your cashier at the gas station
>>34600482 They hate opinions that go against their circlejerk. >>34600494 >I didn’t ask how many men you’ve fucked, it’s technically impossible to do but maybe you have a penis I don’t judges women come in many forms. You seem alarmingly hesitant to tell us how many men have fucked YOU so I assume it’s embarrassing which means it’s probably a high number Right, okay, so you're just gonna sperg out over some other phrasing that triggers you. I don't put in as much emphasis in "being fucked" or "fucking others", and most people who aren't on the autism spectrum don't either. I think we're done here if you're going to keep moving goalposts in your desperate attempt to paint me as a slut. >>34600506 >MUH STACY REVENGE FANTASIES ARE REALLY REAL! Go touch grass.
>>34600504 Ohhh, that explains why everyone seems so mean. This is my first week on 4chan and I popped on cuz I'm sporting a nasty ankle sprain, and I was like "woahhh where are my funny anons"
Post gender How do you handle the weight of feeling constantly judged for everything you like and do? I feel like people even make a face when I have a pen ready whenever I need to sign things
Stinky unwashed sex with a femcel after sweaty cuddling where the only foreplay is making out and hand stuff because neither one of us is strong enough or smells good enough for oral
>>34600426 >Look, you can just say "Dating someone who already has kids is too much for me, I don't think I could do it" Not that guy, and there's of course a place for tact and decency when actually talking to a person, but there's no need to outright lie when he can just break things off without saying anything. Both the moral judgement and desire not to raise another man's child are perfectly understandable and legitimate motivations not to consider dating a single mom.
Most single moms found themselves in that situation at least in part due to their own defects in character. It takes two to tango, sure, but we're not looking to date men, so her babby daddy's misbehavior isn't of immediate concern to us, while her own issues very much are. And yes, many men DO feel an instinctual repulsion towards picking up the pieces of a woman's life when she chose some other dude to ruin it in the first place. Does this describe ALL single moms? No, of course not. It's a generalization.
>>34600519 A couple of us are even bumming around on 4chan right now. I bought a couple of disposable cameras recently to use during an upcoming camping trip. I figure if I enjoy that, I'll feel alright spending some money on a camera and film.
>>34600484 >>34600516 I have never posted on crystal cafe. That website is filled with normie women who hate my weeb shit. >>34600517 Anon, you can stop with the fake nicey nice bullshit. You purposefully overanalyzed my words because you're desperate to label a random internet stranger as a slut for god knows what reason. >>34600522 Why can't men just say "Not interested in dating parents"? Why do men feel the need to turn their personal preferences into a moral crusade?
>>34600512 Well, incels can be neets and virgins, but not every virgin/neet is an incel. The point I was making is nobody likes them, not even other nerdy men, which is why they don't have friends to spend time with.
>>34600511 He’s currently licking Stacy’s thigh, his chiseled cheekbone pleasantly getting moistened by her pulsing vagina. She’s gonna go back to France once the year is up and then he’ll be ready for you gals
>>34600526 I'm sorry, aren't men in these threads always crying about being harshly rejected by women and how awful that is? And now you want to justify harsh rejection as a morally good thing? Fuck off hypocrite. >>34600531 Oh, what did I misread? Please do tell me Mr. Intellectually Superior Europoor. >>34600534 It has for the majority of people, sorry to ruin your trad fantasy.
>>34600542 Yes, I've lurked on many different websites before determining if I should post on them or not. I've also lurked on Kiwifarms and know I wouldn't fit in that fucking shithole either. Any other intellectual observations you wish to make?
>>34600515 F. Idk I kind of got over it for the most part via exposure. I still get self conscious that I'm behaving wrong in social settings but I like what I like and do what I want to do without shame as long as I'm not doing anything to inconvenience others. If someone makes a face at me for doing something that isn't against any rules/laws and isn't rude/inconsiderate it's just "weird" to them that's their problem. Not my job to handle their discomfort with it.
>>34600529 >Anon, you can stop with the fake nicey nice bullshit. You purposefully overanalyzed my words because you're desperate to label a random internet stranger as a slut for god knows what reason. Sorry I’m just trying get your goat. >>34600530 I see >>34600523 Reminds me of a girl in doggy style position ready to get fucked is that a picture of venn herself?
>>34600529 >Why can't men just say "Not interested in dating parents"? That's a good solution when it comes to dating itself, sure. Putting that on a description in an app or giving that explanation when pressed on why he doesn't want a second date is a good balance between being direct and not being crude or demeaning.
>Why do men feel the need to turn their personal preferences into a moral crusade? Because coddling undesirable behaviors encourages them. It's strange if a guy spends all his waking energy on the issue, but being open and consistent about disliking a bunch of things surrounding single motherhood is better from his point of view than pretending it's harmless and giving people false hope and incorrect perceptions of risk. Why wouldn't a guy want to influence society, in his own small way, to make it more in line with his preferences? He's not forcing anyone to do anything.
>>34600529 I'm just frowning upon scummy behavior. Women with kids can date men with kids. Women with kids, unless she is a widow or have adult children, dating men without any kids is just women taking advantage of desperate men.
>>34600566 >Because coddling undesirable behaviors encourages them. Speaking as someone who was always resistant to authority figures throughout my life I'm calling bullshit on that. Sure there's plenty of cowards who will always want to blend in with the ground, but there are just as many people who don't give a fuck about whether or not they're engaging in "undesirable behaviors" or not. >>34600570 Maybe once for a laugh. Outside of hating tranny bullshit, I have very little in common with TERFS. >>34600571 >A man willingly making the decision to date a woman with children is the woman taking advantage of him Are men mentally incapable of saying the word "No"? I thought men were smarter than women.
>>34600544 They’re extremely intimate and he’s in there really tight because her legs are wrapped around his head. She’s wants him that close and is so horny that any part of him touching her down there can hold her off until he starts properly going down on her. >>34600551 He only eats her out because he’s waiting as well. Going to third base isn’t bad for the captain of a d1 lacrosse team at a very prestigious college. He models a little too because his sister needed someone to show off her craft belts and he ended up getting signed but he doesn’t book much because his schedule is pretty full
>>34600540 >And now you want to justify harsh rejection as a morally good thing? I specifically said tact and decency are a good thing. I also said that the optimal response isn't a harsh rejection, but simply not getting into detail over the reason. What I opposed is the lie of >"it's too much for me" Which isn't how a lot of men actually feel. It doesn't do anyone, let alone her, any good to give false impressions.
>It has for the majority of people No, the majority of people don't marry and stay married to their first bf/gf. And if you break up and move onto bf #2, congrats, you're now not only promiscuous in pattern (sex without commitment) but in fact (non-exclusivity). This kind of defensiveness only feeds people like the other anon. If you get this assmad at someone trying to be neutral, plenty of people see no point in even bothering with civility.
>>34600586 Well, there's a lot of men here, and one time, a man sang/screamed the theme song into his mic, and so I thought, "hey does anyone here know that song?"
>>34600450 >A travesty Thank you. How am I supposed to eat my tenders without the cayenne ranch?
>>34600515 >How do you handle the weight of feeling constantly judged for everything you like and do? By remembering that people who judge me have no bearing on my life at all. They don't pay my bills. Let them judge you for having a pen, they're the ones delivering your mail for a living.
>>34600587 >He only eats her out because he’s waiting as well. Do men really think you can still be a virgin even when you have oral sex? If he is seeing or touching her vagina and/or she is seeing or touching his penis, then he's tainted, he is ruined, he is not a virgin.
>>34600580 Some men know it's a shitty deal and still take it, doesn't make it any less immoral. It's like modern day slave labor in certain rural areas of poor countries where you have the "choice" to say no to being exploited but you know the alternative is starving. Women skew the dating market to their detriment and other men's detriment by having kids with dead beat men.
>>34600623 >Some men know it's a shitty deal and still take it, doesn't make it any less immoral. Oh okay, so you're just seething about men making choices you disagree with and imagining the reasons why other men make choices you don't agree with. > It's like modern day slave labor in certain rural areas of poor countries where you have the "choice" to say no to being exploited but you know the alternative is starving. You did not just seriously compare being single in the 1st world to starving in a third world country. Men have autonomy and the ability to agree to go out with the women who are interested in them or reject said women. And I think it's really fucking pathetic to obsess about the decisions random strangers you don't know make.
>>34600603 >Church's chicken is the best. Their tenders are up there. Probably third best after Bojangles and Popeyes.
>>34600610 >That time he invited Alex Jones on stage and almost started a riot... I remember him telling a story about crossing the street to avoid his audience, not knowing they were waiting to see his show, because they all looked sketchy.
>>34600651 A man who’s virtuous and noble, and humble because he’s not looked in the mirror once is looking for me, but my hymen isn’t intact due to the village goat and a night of heavy ale swilling and I will be quite elated when I can procure a false hymen that may fool the parish priest
>>34600658 I am the village laundress. I will sew you a false hymen out of goat intestine to fool the parish priest. In return I ask that you invite the bog witch to the wedding; she is very tired of not being left out of things just because she is a witch in a bog.
>>34598995 How about this scenario: You're at a place you attend regularly, and socializing is totally common. A new girl starts to show up. You think she's really pretty. Do you: >A) Ask her out right away. >B) Meet her and get to know her to see if she's someone you'd want to ask out and ask her out as soon as you think you might be compatible with her. >C) Accept her into the group, but not make a move (she needs to make a move first). >D) Do nothing because nothing EVER happens
Men, how would you answer this? Women, how would you prefer a guy answer?
>>34600692 White women aren't beating the allegations. Strangely enough, we always had great danes in my family when I was growing up. Never once did I get the inclination to sexually abuse it.
>>34600669 The girl is actually a virgin but was lying to the guy who asked how she was doing because he was a beta orbiter who she didn’t trust. She sent him to the bog witch who promptly ate him. The seamstress instead created a fine gown, knowing she’d paid her debt to the bog witch of a tainted body (seamstress skills are not costly by witching standards and do not require a virgin) and the prince and princess fell in love instantly and embraced forever. The bog witch was at the wedding and looks at the camera giving a thumbs up at the last frame of the film while the couple kisses
why is the vibrator still charging after 12 hours? Is this shit broken? The manual said the light would stop blinking and to expect up to 8 hours of charging time
>>34600692 I dated a girl with a Great Dane for 2 or 3 months. She was like 5'1" and her dog was bigger than her. I suspected I was being cucked by her dog, but she was just a hassle to be around, which was funny because whenever we weren't hanging out I'd be thinking about wanting to be with her, but as soon as we got alone in the same room together I wanted to be anywhere else.
>>34600595 Neutral between you and a dude who kept twisting your words to call you a slut, yes. I was trying to give credit to each of your points and engage with what you were actually saying. I'm obviously not neutral in my beliefs.
>>34600737 The healthiest state a human can be in is having never washed and covered in bacteria and natural matter. As well as consuming rotten raw meat which creates a healthy gut biome. That’s true hygiene. You can call someone who brushes their teeth, uses artificial scents, soaps, wears polyester or clothes at all and stares at a screen all the the most unhygienic person imaginable DUE the the fact that they replaced their natural bacteria with toxic chemicals. Based on that I wish I had a hygienic gf
>>34600756 This guy here. Hi. Me again. >>34600751 Did you know that tonsil stones are caused by brushing your teeth too much? Yeah, like overproduction of oil from washing it with shampoo too much tonsil stones are similar. You wouldn’t need to brush at I’ll if the only carbs you ate came from unripe fruit and ruminant liver
I'm a little into voyeurism, I think those vids where a couple goes out with the girl wearing a vibe and he's got a controller on his phone is kinda hot
>>34600774 Salt is incredibly toxic. You get enough sodium from eating raw foods. If he puts salt on food he’s probably going to die before you can dump him, so you’re gonna have to rush. If a woman cooked me food I would gently remind her of the toxic byproducts that cooking causes as well as the severely reduced nutritional content.
>>34600794 The carcinogenic black layer that appears on grilled meat for example, or the cauterized calcium in pasteurized milk that accumulates in the body and takes years to detox
>>34600795 “Meds” are extremely toxic and not to be trusted. Look at the case of Purdue pharma, funding studies to prove OxyContin was non addictive leading to extreme loss of life due to opiate addiction. Or vaccines which contain thousands of times the healthy amount of mercury which will never leave the body. Unless you mean actual medicine like raw rotten organ meat in which case I think you for the reminder
>>34600837 >Just move on with the fact that you were discriminated against for daring to questioned a bullshit rushed out vaccine People like you are why more people are becoming full blown anti-vaxxers.
>>34600833 I don't think it worked very well and shouldn't have been mandated but it wasn't this evil poison the right wing would have you believe >>34600834 Polio is mainly a problem with young kids, paralysis is not a fun way to go
>>34600837 I agree. We know the government does everything in its power to pacify its population and shorten the natural human lifespan from 141 years to just over retirement age. The covid vax is nothing out of the ordinary
>>34600843 >but it wasn't this evil poison the right wing would have you believe My nephew was born a stillbirth due to my sister-in-law developing an immune disorder from the vax, but go on.
>>34600852 Because they took it, and every person I know who took the vax developed severe health problems whereas my unvaxxed self didn't. >>34600854 Oh, is that why mandate supporters used anecdotal stories to shame people to follow bullshit mandates? Fucking hypocrite.
>>34600849 >>34600857 You're too frightened by the prospect of the world being ruled by disorganized chaos, so instead you cope by believing in a great powerful organized order, of which you are among its enemies.
Just live your life, man. The person poisoning your life is you, by choosing to wallow in bitterness and rage.
>>34600857 Generally people who develop disorders from medical treatments like vaccines or isotret were always going to develop that disorder, the meds just jumpstart the body into them faster
>>34600857 I never developed problems or have known anyone who did develop problems fro the vaccine. I'm also against mandates because people can choose their own personal medical care
>>34600862 By saying women should cum more? Do you think women should cum less? I think women enjoying the sex they have is the opposite of rape. Rape is not pleasurable.
>>34600878 Why because you think you could rape them without the cops present? Earth to Epstein the park rangers would stop you from raping anyone. How would that solve anything btw
>>34600887 I know he wants to be a forest rapist and probably coercer too. “Hey girl you’re dying of thirst I have a full camelbak right here and it’s iiiiiice cold, but nothing free in this world…..” it’s disgusting what some people would do if they were let off their leash. Makes you wonder if minority report had the right idea.
>>34600891 I don't think 3 days is enough to accomplish that. I think it would make them fearful of the woods more than make them appreciative of running water and electricity.
>>34600896 New stellar blade sequel was announced during Summergamefest and lots of people are angry that it features a very very young looking female MC with ass jiggle physics. Some popular streamers even petitioned to boycott the game
>>34600929 No, men do. I want you to autistically experience the sensation of my tongue digging around in your mouth while you know that you’re perfectly safe now in this big scary world
>>34600938 What kind of porn brained bullshit...I lose both some respect and some attraction towards him. Let sex just be sex instead of preparation for some weird fetish shit for you.
>>34600955 I blame other people's social skills for this. If you've tried to end the conversation 6 times and every time after they say "oh ok I'll talk to you later" or something they then go "oh! and!" you have to just fucking walk away.
>>34600965 Yeah they know in their hearts that they’re genetically deformed albinos and they can never feel the iq, joy or sense of belonging an African enjoys every moment and they lash out
>>34600983 I would assume they would point you to someone less violent if they didn't want to deal with you. Because you can't give blackmail on yourself.
>>34600988 I can't get a gun :/ I'm a white woman I would have to try so hard to get a cop to kill me. The kind of cop who'd do it would also rape me first. Bad plan.
>>34601025 Speed Traps if you take side roads around Valdosta and Moultrie, fuckers are everywhere waiting to write unnecessary tickets to meet their quotas.
>>34601037 How do you put up with all the cyber sexual harassment on here? Do you find it amusing or something? I ask only because that's the way I autistically handle harassment, to pretend like it's a joke and the harassers are laughing with me instead of at me.
>>34601015 Ama. I look like a combination of both guys from supernatural or that’s the closest comparison I could make. Drunk people love to comment on my looks and sober almost everyone is visibly uncomfortable with me in the room and theres a lot of hating going on. It used to be nice with women but I don’t stopped having sex like two years ago to get serious with my life.
>>34601038 >why I don't like this game I don't want to play any more
ECT is that therapy where they shock your brain. Idk I have an issue with being put under general anesthesia for a mental health treatment. Psychedelics are also supposed to do...something? But they mostly make me nauseous and super focused on how bad my body feels.
I saw a picture of myself and I now look like a fat guy with big chipmunk cheeks and giant goofy saucer eyes. Fuck I miss when I was a skinny 20 year old alt dude.
>>34600987 men choose friends they have fun with. They don't like being around boring people or people they do not get along with. It goes the same for the women they choose to be around. They want to be around fun people, who make their lives enjoyable and easier (big oof for that one). Having eye candy or a warm and soft submissive sex doll 24/7 is pretty great, but isn't the only thing. Having a submissive mommy to do his chores and cook for him is not an uncommon expectation for a good amount of guys, esp in the past. Guys also like people who don't judge them or who like the for who they are. It's often appreciated when you got the same hobbies, but then again guys want their free time too, some way more than others.
guys want to be free in a world of restrictions. Find a guy whose personal wants and expectations make you feel free too when you're bonded together
>>34601057 >guys want to be free in a world of restrictions. This is true of emo guys with no day jobs, it's not true of guys who grow up to join the Fire Department.
>>34601067 yeah yeah yeah my last therapist and mother and everyone else thinks that me using this website is a form of self harm you dont have to remind me
>>34601079 Yeah no shit, I went to school with people who amateur vtube, their avatars always look thinner and more racially ambiguous than they are. This is like expecting everyone who does voice over acting to look like their characters, even though that's impossible.
Also I couldn't help notice the unjustifiable Xenophobia with >Ohhh no Indians, so awful!
>>34601048 A hair under 6’1, 170-80, white. I’m above average for fitness going for mainly 10 minute sets with the kettlebell and calisthenics I don’t recommend my routine for best results. My personality varies immensely like anyone’s. I don’t know how I’d act now because I’ve been secluded for a while. But I’m pretty grating and terrible generally and when I’m drunk I try too hard to be funny. I also shut down frequently and at best am too serious. At worst I’m extremely rude. I have low social status right now though so it’s a case of being a guy that people can get away with dunking on who they generally want to as well. I think when things get better I’ll probably be more comfortable and my personality will get more serviceable
>>34601099 I was on this website when I was your age and it is full of people who will try to demoralize you to make themselves feel better, or people repeating toxic bullshit their parents said and projecting it on you.
Granted I'm still here but with enough awareness to know that some of the advice I got ("just drop out of college and learn to code, bro!") on this website when I was in that stage of life was absolute contextually oblivious bullshit.
>>34601050 You wouldn't remember it you'd be put under for it. You'd just wake up groggy with a headache. I can already trigger a brief seizure by injuring myself when I'm low blood sugar lol, chipped a tooth once. >>34601052 I really hurt your feelings huh? >>34601063 What percentage of women that you know have told you about their sex toy ownership?? It's probably like 60/40 split in favor of vibrator
Women, your husband is a huge fan/nerd of 3 typical sports (not like foxy boxing or chicken fights). Which top 3 sports would you be okay with him obsessed over?
>>34601126 As long as he’s watching male sports and not female sports, idc, maybe golf tho since it’s easy and we can maybe learn to play together some time.
>>34601109 >it is full of people who will try to demoralize you to make themselves feel better i know, its just that bad social interaction is better than being alone and i got rid of my other social media.
>"learn to code, bro!" but i like coding :(
>I was on this website when I was your age When i was 12 I had a friend on this website, hed tell me all about incels and "femoids" before it all went mainstream. I had that like rattling around the back of my mind for years before i finally came here.
>>34601110 >Uh, does she know you go on like every other day or something, kek no she doesnt. I have phases where i can manage to keep off. Last academic year was one because my school works me so hard. Its summer now and my mind is too idle. Im online now more than i was a few months ago. Keep in mind ive been in this gen over a year now i think
>I havent seen you do anything offputting, i have crash outs here and there, i dont have a good temper.
>>34601120 yes but i refuse to post him here, hes like, my family. He is the most important thing in the world to me. I would kill myself without my cat. When the cops asked me why i hadnt attempted to kill myself i said i wouldnt want to leave my cat and i cried so hard they made me go to the hospital. if you guys saw him and made me feel bad about him i would never get over it.
>>34601134 Good for her Maybe she likes hockey >>34601138 >how I'm not doing it on purpose. Best explanation I've received so far is that my blood pressure tanks quickly and I go down. Vasovagal syncope I think it's called? I'm not really sure why I sometimes seize. It's not every time sometimes I just faint for 15-30 seconds.
>>34601152 We can be pretty mean sometimes but I doubt we'd bully your cat. >When the cops asked me why i hadnt attempted to kill myself If this is real that cop is a fucking retard
>>34601141 At this point I don't think I will but I tend to gravitate towards musicians. I'd rather be with a guy who wants to go hiking and watch a horror movie rather than watch baseball, or play videogames.
>>34601156 >>34601163 >tf is wrong with the guy >that cop is a fucking retard Well he said he would investigate the stalking threat i received and never contacted me again. So yes i think he was stupid. Mightve been a campus "police officer" idk.
>>34601161 They do shit for you for up to a year until they sense you wouldn’t wanna be without them (In love) and then they strategically take everything away bit by bit until you fully submit. Next they hold their love over your head until you change into what she wants you to be. This process ends when you give her a child. Look into what happens to men in DINK ltrs. It’s nothing resembling a man and a product of healthy instincts gone awry
>>34601170 >we, we are the borg >*struggles to maintain eye contact >you will be assimilated, if you want to >uh, faggot >*sends absurdly disgusting bug-like borg hentai over the comm
>>34601178 If you think patents and copyrights are valid then you should get this. Someone else profiting off my intellectual property is stealing from me. Possibly also damaging my brand reputation.
Your actual self—what is finally and fundamentally you—is not a separate and lonely part of the world, but the real you is the world itself, everything that there is, expressing itself as this particular organism here and now.
On seeing through the illusion of the ego, it is impossible to think of oneself as better than, or superior to, others for having done so. In every direction there is just one Self playing its myriad games of hide-and-seek. Birds are not better than the eggs from which they have broken.
>>34601176 they had me in the dorm's room for their officers or whatever and they were trying to figure out if the reports they heard about me being suicide were true or not and i guess they were just proding around to see if i was being a edgelord or actually in mental distress.
They asked me if i had a gun and intended to shoot myself, since that was what i told someone i was going to do. And i said >no i dont like guns they asked how id kill myself and i said >probably like overdose on random pills or something i realize now that was probably was not the right response if i wanted to sleep in my own bed that night.
if youre curious the reason was stress because i picked a very bad and heavy schedule after transferring to a real university and was too prideful to change that and just wanted to kill myself for being an idiot.
I fell asleep spooning my gf and had a wet dream so I came on her ass and underwear and didn’t say anything. Left in the morning before she woke up fully. She just texted me asking if I jacked off on her while she slept. What should I say
>>34601207 >>34601211 I feel like I should have told her right away though if I was gonna go that route. She’d probably be mad I let her sleep a few hours covered in cum randomly and find out on her own. Femanons what if I said I thought she’d like it is that believable
>>34601205 >>34601214 if youre talking about me, no that is definitely not my type. I mean theres something to be said about conventionally attractive guys and i definitely fantasize about them, but big jocky men scare me, im terrified that theyd like punch me. I hate men who look agressive. I like gentle STEM guys, especially engineers.
>>34601228 There's no other option. Anything you say other than "it was an accident and I was too embarrassed to say anything" just makes you look like an asshole.
>>34601229 I feel like I should tell her I thought she’d like it because she likes cum so it would be nice to wake up to. That way I won’t look like an idiot who left her covered in sticky cum because I was too pussy to grab her a pair of shorts and tell her to change when I woke. At that point it’s better to say you jacked off on her right? I didn’t cum for a few days and we didn’t have sex last night so it was a huge load
>>34601245 He should just ghost her. Better than telling her he did it on purpose. He's not ready to date if he's not ready to be honest. It's cum she's a woman under normal circumstances she might sleep with it all over her thighs he's being neurotic. Like if a guy woke me up to tell me he came on me and make me change I'd be pissed off about being woken up. If she's got expensive sheets I can see why she'd be mad but that's even more reason to say it was an accident. It's either made up bullshit or his head is so far up his own ass that he won't listen to reason and nothing we say matters.
>>34601242 I’ve decided I want to become a vigilante and fight armed crooks with my fists. The only issue is; I’ve come to the conclusion that the local police force are the biggest criminals of all!
>>34599947 Am I gay if I want to sex this trans lady I work with? >actually cute and passes pretty well >bubbly personality >nice voice >not obnoxious about being trans >good, not cringe fashion sense I swear I'm not a homo, but something about her feels magnetic and sometimes I imagine what life would be like if we were together and she could bear our children.
Girls, if a guy was dating a girl for years, and then the girl died, would you think it's somehow wrong if, after a while, the guy started dating the girl's sister?
>>34601293 >According to trans girls Sure, but most of them seem to be retarded so I don't know if I can trust your source. >>34601295 Yeah, that's the biggest downside. Well, and social shame from being thought of as a homo. >>34601297 Pretty sure none of that stuff would make her suddenly grow a uterus and shit
>>34601307 I didn’t know you were so passionate about this Kittenposter, color me surprised >>34601302 With a seed and a dream anything can be possible
>>34601306 That's no good. >>34601308 I don't, but at the same time I would want to make my partner feel good. If my partner had that equipment and the emotional connection was there, I could see myself giving it a shot. >>34601316 I fear there are some dreams that even god can't fulfill.
>>34601314 That's addressed in the Bible. They asked Jesus if a man's wife dies and he remarries, who will be his wife in heaven. He tells them that marriage is an earthy convention and nobody will be married in heaven.
>>34601316 >I didn’t know you were so passionate im not passionate about fertility or anything i just HATE supplements. They scam people into a feeling like theyre working, then boom years later the problem isnt solved, when it could have been easily solved with cheap pills or therapy if they had just seen a doctor when the problem was still treatable.
>>34601328 Maybe it's just the virgin in me desiring human connection, but I wouldn't mind. The biggest hangups I think I have are not being able to have children together and being seen as a gay.
>>34601338 no..... ok i dont know but i figure not cause like they are not inheritable fertility issues. Okay actually one is but if i actually inherited i would have like down syndrome so i know im fine
>>34601341 >i could No you could not, i would not let you
>>34601281 Do you actually want to have sex with her? Like in a way that's physically possible with the body she has if she hasn't had bottom surgery? >>34601296 I'd worry they were doing it for the wrong reasons but refrain from making a moral judgement. I don't know how losing someone that close to you feels so I don't think I have the authority to judge.
>>34601350 Like it's a weird coping thing because they can't let go the widower and the sister don't actually have a connection past caring about the dead woman a lot.
My gooner Instagram account keeps recommending accounts that ha e dumb women posting their shitty articles about men Really would like to know why my algorithm would see my likes ablnd follows for wimen posting ass pics and recommend accounts about manhating commentators
>>34601345 >It’s not like you’re gonna marry the first girl you stick your dick in anyways Now I'm not a religious prude or anything, but ideally I'd only stick it in if I'm in a solid relationship. >>34601349 Yeah. I know she hasn't had the surgery, and desu that doesn't really bother me. >>34601351 This is a concern I have as well, though I don't feel desperate. I can see myself getting into a less than ideal situation without realizing it because of this. >tfw have a family member who we all think is an unironic cuck and we all believe it's because he doesn't think he can do any better
>>34601369 >I don't feel desperate You're a virgin and you're at the point where you're thinking maybe a tranny will do, you are absolutely subconsciously grasping for anything remotely resembling a female.
>>34601365 >check out a thirst trap short on YT of a thicc lady with a cute upper body and large hips/ass >tfw now I have a bunch of fatties in my feed Fucking algorithms
>>34601380 Tough choice. Probably Castlevania 64, Ocarina of Time, or Goldeneye. Any other answers are wrong, just like thinking anything other than Super Metroid is the best game on SNES.
>>34601369 >Touching a dick doesn't bother me But being perceived as gay would? I don't think wanting to have sex with a trans woman makes you gay but would you hide your involvement with her from others because you were afraid of being perceived that way? Sounds problematic, and like it would probably really hurt her feelings.
Anon stop asking them if you should date her. If you like her ask her out, if you dont then dont. You know the answer deep down, you dont need these men to tell you that.
>>34601395 Any girl is also gonna be "right there" when it comes to it and they're already 50% of the population and not a fraction of it What exactly is your plan gonna be with this can you think more than 10 feet ahead
>>34601390 I think that's because your brain is literally incapable of feeling the way you did about new things when you found the stuff that makes you nostalgic for the first time. You can't find the high of finding a new special interest so the memory of the high from discovering an old one will have to do.
>>34601392 >would you hide your involvement with her from others because you were afraid of being perceived that way? Of course not, I have no intention of having some sneaky hidden relationship. I'm straight, not a monster. There probably would be some internal feelings I'd have to deal with, but I'd rip off the band aid and be open with my dating status if the first couple dates went well and it seems like something that would stick around. >>34601400 Lmao I'm nowhere near any kind of planning stage. >>34601399 >tfw can't help but vent to chat and gather varied opinions before trying to make informed decisions because I overthink everything
>>34601404 >Lmao I'm nowhere near any kind of planning stage No shit, that's the problem, you have no idea what you're gonna do with this if you go for it
>>34601410 >tfw probably a virgin in the first place because I have no idea what I'd do if I actually did approach a lady and she didn't immediately shut me down
>>34601414 You said what you wanted in the grand scheme of things, wife and kids. How are you gonna do that with a boywife? You can make yourself less scared of women but you can't make a guy any more pregnant.
After 3 months clean from scrolling I've relapsed and scrolled for 4 hours straight the past few nights. If I had a gf this wouldn't have happened, so who's fault is this really?
>>34601426 A world war would make video games pointless. And since everyone would be bombing each other’s internet stuff video games no longer exist. Single player games sure but nobody will be making anything new
>>34601395 >Don't care desu. At least admit to yourself what you're getting into. If you want to suck dick then suck dick, but don't pretend it's heterosexual.
>>34601439 NTA but lemme make this choice more interesting. The toilet that loves it will moan and make pleasurable sounds while you shit. The toilet that hates it remains silent at all times but you know it hates it.
>>34601456 I'm an android chad so I use fdroid to install fennec which is a firefox based browser that lets me install ublock origin. I can't remember the last time I saw an ad on my PC or phone.
>>34601463 None of those are tolerable Gun to my head, subpar dick. Having a good dick wouldn't matter if I didn't want to fuck him because the rest of him is unattractive.
>>34601472 I was about to make a joke about how women will try to pick the secret 4th option of only accepting a chad with all good features but it looks like a woman beat me to it.
>>34601487 I'm not hot enough for Chad I'm aiming for "good enough" in all categories. There's a middle ground between handsome and ugly and I'm pretty sure that's about where I sit on the women's scale, it feels fair. No part of me is amazing but nothing is disgusting either.
>>34601493 Thems the breaks. I have too many mental issues for a real chad I can get attractive men but there's usually something seriously wrong with them and they only stick around because of my above average head game or because their near crippling insecurity convinces them they can't do better. >>34601496 I have never used a dating app you should stop making up bedtime stories for yourself that upset you.
tl;dr what are you supposed to "do" when you go out?
The other day I stopped by a brewery to say hi to a friend. I'd never been there before since I don't drink but it was pretty nice inside and sort of family friendly so not your typical bar crowd. There were a lot of cute girls there too, so I thought about how it might go if I were to go back there to try and approach girls. Pretty much as soon as I walk in I can scan and see who's attractive, but it feels retarded to walk in and bee line it to a girl, strike out, then move to the next one until I run out and then immediately leave. I don't really have a reason to be in places like that other than just sitting quietly and soaking up the atmosphere, but everyone else there is talking with their people or doing some kind of activity (pool, karaoke, etc). What am I supposed to do if I'm by myself in places like that other than my mental objective?
>>34601502 >I know who you are and what you do even though we're on an anonymous board When you guys do this it reminds me of that episode of always sunny where Charlie's convinced he's speaking fluent mandarin but he's just spewing gibberish.
>>34601509 Let's move on to quotes: >I can get attractive men but there's usually something seriously wrong with them and they only stick around because of my above average head game
>>34601513 Ah, autistic too. I see your problem. People don't stay in relationships just because she gives good blowjobs anon that's a joke that was an excuse to brag.
>>34601512 In this particular situation that actually is possible, because I only have 1 (one) friend. Ironically he picks up lots of girls there but he's social and does karaoke so accompanying him would amount to me sitting awkwardly on the sidelines while he's with his people doing his thing and talking to girls. So I'm not gonna drag down his night, my tism is my cross to bear.
>>34601521 Well if you're just going to sit in the corner and not participate even when you have an in (your friend) then don't bother going. You'd just be forcing yourself to do something you don't even like for no reason because you're not even trying to talk to whoever is playing pool, karaoke, or darts or whatever. I think pub trivia might be fun but you have to show up with a team. >>34601522 >>34601526 You guys are hopeless.
>>34600558 Yes, it's a based show with great songs https://youtube.com/watch?v=i1EzE3da9wg >>34600627 Hey, I'm the real deal, nearly a wizard >>34600633 >doing way better now. He’s been spending much less time here <3 Just been too busy with work and volunteering to post desu. I'm still screaming internally
>>34601537 This is more or less where I've landed too which is why I haven't done it already. Despite knowing that I only have myself to blame for my current situation (of never having had a gf and being a virgin) I also feel powerless to change my behavior. So every time I think through a new scheme I go back to "well this is how I know I work so I know I'm not gonna actually do ___". So I can't come up with anything beyond going in, finding a chair, and dicking around on my phone for a while before leaving.
>>34601463 All men look the same to me so I'm picking good dick, provided it means foreplay and licking the bean and not some stupid shit like dick size. Plus ugly face just in case other women can tell men apart.
>>34601463 A subpar dick is less of a negative than being ugly. And something beigg unattractive about a guy is an immediate disqualifier by definition. So I'll take the subpar dick. That's assuming it isn't unusable.
>>34601558 On what part? Literally every man has short hair and a shovel jaw, plus either a pudgy or wrinkly face depending on his age. When I had a bf I had to wait for him to come to me and initiate conversation since I could never spot him in a crowd.
>>34601559 Why do people in this general always respond to me with weird fanfiction about my life? I don't like transvestites, I love my parents and they love me. I've visited them 3 times this week.
>>34601553 It can, it will usually be the things surrounding the sex (e.g. being treated tenderly and lovingly or being treated callously) that have the real impact, not the physical act though. I think sex itself can also change people but it is a lot more rare than being changed by the whole situation of having sex with that specific person.
>>34601548 I get it. I have no friends I met the last guy I dated because of my mom. And I don't enjoy interacting with strangers very much unless I'm drunk. I hate bars. They are boring and expensive there's nothing redeeming about them. If I was trying to make friends I'd probably try and find a hobby group but even that is just something I don't want to deal with like now I have to show up someplace at a certain time and listen to other people talk, and tell them things about myself, ugh. Have you asked yourself if that's how you work because you genuinely prefer it that way, or is it how you work because you have social anxiety? Is your goal just getting more comfortable interacting with people or is that just in service of the goal of getting a girlfriend? >>34601567 >Why do people in this general always respond to me with weird fanfiction about my life? I swear they're twisting posts to fit a particular narrative so they can jerk off to it. Cucks and chasers who won't accept that about themselves but don't have the self control not to engage in it in some way.
>>34601573 tldr I'm not good at the essential human activity of being a social animal, but I still get bfs because I'm a woman and that's enough to ensure success.
>>34601503 I know it is easier said than done but you have to make priority 1 havinga good time and being as social as possible and priority 2 trying to chat women up. Because you are right, everybody will be able to tell when you just move from one to the other, and it'll be really off putting. The only way to avoid that is by engaging in conversation with everybody so earnestly and with such enthusiasm that it is obviously not performative and then you can move freely between people (again though don't hyperfocus on the women there).
>>34601596 No offense but what's your point? I've had 4 but I think only 1 was a good fit. Getting men to like you isn't hard. Getting yourself to like other people is kinda hard though.
>>34601598 I feel pretty grown up. >>34601603 She's catering to a demographic that I assume pays well since they'll never find a gf into that dynamic. At least I hope it isn't a passion project.
>>34601573 >hobby group I wish I could have success but usually the only hobbies this works in are girly hobbies or just gay as fuck. Before one of my hands got messed up I used to do /k/ things but I didn't roll the 1 in 100000 chance of meeting a girl at the range, and now I do /o/ things but so far there's no girls in my garage and there's only boomers at cars and coffee. >you genuinely prefer it that way, or is it how you work because you have social anxiety? Probably the latter because I definitely don't enjoy my current state of affairs. So I do prefer my current lifestyle in a way because it's comfortable and stress free but consequently very lonely. >Is your goal just getting more comfortable interacting with people or is that just in service of the goal of getting a girlfriend? The latter again but the former is pretty much going to predicate that. I have a job that requires me to talk to people all day so I'm getting more practice but I don't have to worry about jestermaxxing to keep a coworker from quitting his job.
>>34601600 This makes sense but man it's a tough thing to do. A lot of times I feel like a spring getting wound up during conversation and when it concludes I can unwind, so a long stint of talking with a ton of people (including girls) is not an easy task, at least for me. In fact it's exhausting, and I think that normal people just don't feel that way so they can do that with much less effort.
>>34601605 You were telling a guy about basically having life on easy mode, as if that is going to help him. Yes, we know, you don't have to do anything to get into relationships, and yes, "men" are the ones to blame for their shit vibes and the fact that they aren't a good fit for the protagonist of reality (You). Would there be anything else you want to get attention for?
>>34601610 Soundgasm is a repository. Lots of things on there are shared by people with other platforms, where they probably have paid content or otherwise advertise ways to support them. I'm not stupid.
>>34601608 >In fact it's exhausting, and I think that normal people just don't feel that way so they can do that with much less effort. Kind of yes and no, it is also just a matter of building tolerance. Maybe you remember that post-covid half the world was complaining they no longer derived energy from social hang outs even if they would have described themselves as quite social and extroverted pre-covid. Literally everybody starts overthinking more and feeling more self-conscious if they limit their social exposure.
On the flip side, you can absolutely desensitize yourself. I used to feel the same way you do, I would never go to a social hangout for longer than like two hours because then I felt I needed to process and my head was spinning. Ended up working in customer service and speaking to one stranger after another for eight hours a day. Including saying unfortunate, awkward stuff and having to scramble to recover from it. It desensitizes how much of a fuck you give and how quickly you feel you fucked up socially very fast.
Maybe it is an option to spend more social time in an environment with less high stakes to grow a bit more used to the very premise of mingling with strange people?
>>34601572 170cm 58kg, why? Do you think that women have to be fat not to rate men based on their face cards? What's your dick size?
>>34601573 That would make sense. It's almost always sexual fantasies and they often feature cuckoldry. I bet some of them come here specifically to jerk off even though it seems compulsive a lot of the time.
>>34601586 Well maybe not 100% of them. That helps but it's not a significant tell. Even if a guy was also obese and always wore a hat I wouldn't dare to think I spotted the right guy, it could be a different long-haired fat guy in a hat.
>>34601587 I don't struggle to tell women or children apart, it's just adult men that look extremely similar. I don't think this is an extremely uncommon observation, I've heard people complain that they struggle to follow movie plots because the male characters all look the exact same.
>>34601618 People are deeply social creatures who have always directly depended on one another for survival. Social abilities have always been central to our chances in life.
>>34601614 My opinions won't change. At the same time, I know that my opinions won't cause change either. Just go jerk off to whatever you want, I've shared my two cents, that's it.
>>34601622 I don't really agree. An introverted person not that interested in having others play a big role in their life can work a fairly independent job, maybe even from home, and enjoy a range of endless solo entertainment like movies, games, porn, whatever. If anything it has never been easier to pass your time alone. Also more socially accepted in the sense that just a few decades ago, if you had friends it was 100% socially accepted for them to just show up at your house when they felt like seeing you. Now we live in the "even calling without a warning is pretty intrusive" time.
>>34601623 That sounds about average so I can't tell whether you're upset about my picking dick over face and body, or claiming that dicks have nothing to do with being good in bed.
>>34601631 What do you mean with succeeding? If you are talking about work, eh, social skills obviously help there because you will also deal with people when working, but it is very much possible to be traditionally successful career-wise with average or below social skills.
If you mean like a big warm friend circle and full love/sex life, well, that IS social stuff so it is hardly surprising that this works out better when you enjoy it and invest in it than when you are avoidant and try to manage by doing the bare minimum. Of course the people that just legitimately love other people('s company) will have an easier time connecting with them. That is very basic logic and I doubt it used to be different in the past, maybe for relationships but definitely not for friendships.
>>34601634 >Idk about that. Huh, you were very easily convinced and immediately offended at first though. Just goes to show, you are still a reactionary kid.
>>34601608 Yeah I feel like for guys you've got sports clubs or like, mini figure painting. I think it would be a good idea to do your exposure therapy in a smaller group and calmer environment though. At bars there's a lot of sensory input that's just making it harder to stay focused and enjoy yourself. My sister's fiance used to go to this car show that was held by a university. I don't know if they even do it any more. I don't think enough young people have the expendable income for hobbies rn to keep groups that cater to them alive. We're not supposed to have fun we're supposed to produce and consume. This shit is rigged. Talking to people at your job is definitely helpful but it's not going to totally fix it, you need a casual environment. That one friend you have, does he have any more? >>34601609 Oh it's you, nevermind.
>>34601616 Yeah, you're right about that. A lot of times I feel a past conversation affect me more than it should and I know it's because I'm undersocialized and thus not desensitized. I can do ok in an environment where there are no women. I don't really have an issue talking to dudes in any context but with a woman I'm attracted to I create stakes in my head no matter where I am.
>>34601636 Introverted people used to be, at the very least, not deliberately excluded and marked as defective. And this might trigger someone, but quite a few millennials have introverted fathers - won't be the case anymore as introverted men are now incels. A great social evolution, I'd say.
>>34601636 Nta I kind of have to agree with him. The extrovert is more likely to be well liked by his coworkers, more likely to get the promotion. Especially if he is also physically attractive. People still tend to assume the worst if you don't talk much.
>>34601640 I get it and it makes total sense, but I still think it typically does get better only from exposure. Compare it to a job interview, if you never have those, you will be trembling for the interview. But if you've had ten job interviews in the past months and none of them went anywhere, it absolutely will get easier not to be as tense for a new one, because that feeling of "oh god anything could happen" fades, it no longer feels realistic that anything could come out of it, so you can relax. It does work the same even with people you are very attracted to. It is not humanly possible to go through the experience of chatting a woman up 1000 times and feel like you are dying inside every single time, you will get used to it. Just keep on keeping on anon.
>>34601643 I have to concur that it seems our time places a lot of focus on not just looking good but also having a sort of "conventionally attractive/likeable" personality. There definitely used to be more tolerance and acceptance for "odd people" and just generally people being unique and imperfect.
Also the idea of marriage has just changed. Those mothers that picked an introverted partner were often raised to choose a stable partner, someone who didn't drink, who wasn't a womanizer, who wanted kids, who worked hard. Now women are looking for their soulmate, their best friend, the person they can tell everything to and have the best sex with. It has just been a pretty radical shift from marriage being a way to make life easier to marriage being this super high quality super intense on-going interpersonal relationship.
>>34601647 Good social skills yes, just being extroverted/introverted, not really I think. Extroverts that do not have enough social skills to realize when somebody is tuning out or feels disrupted by them are the worst and they get complained about a ton in the work force.
>>34601639 >>34601650 Do you have any ideas for how to hold myself accountable for this? Deep down I know I just need to actually go out to places where people are (bars, markets, etc) a whole lot and then go up and talk to a bunch of people. I've been telling myself to go do that for years and I never do, lol. There's no consequences since it's just me against myself so I just opt for the "safe" option every time.
>>34601651 >but also having a sort of "conventionally attractive/likeable" personality. >a pretty radical shift from marriage being a way to make life easier to marriage being this super high quality super intense on-going interpersonal relationship. It's good that it becomes known who are the enforcers of the new social norms and standards for life on Earth. What I would like is for the mainstream media to stop gaslighting us about it and blame men for something they aren't in control of.
>>34601652 NTA but I get really horny listening to a voice that is audibly aroused, particularly a woman's voice. There is just something in my body where I hear her voice break or get breathy where I'm like, ooh, I know how that feels. Same for sincere moaning. It does not even matter what the topic is, just hearing someone else's real arousal infects me like laughter can infect you. I reckon this is not rare.
>>34601655 No real magic tips I'm afraid, what you describe is understandable and common. I don't think it gets better than finding ways to get the most out of it personally. E.g. maybe you hate going to an event by yourself, but you do enjoy taking pictures at an event and focusing on that, and while you are out and about taking pictures, people are more likely to talk to you.
Also try to think of it as making hours, you are just investing in your goal and even when no reward is coming yet and it is all vague how much you invested, you yourself know you are investing and working on becoming a (slightly) different person. A lot of people that don't socialize a lot are hung up on the desired outcome and I do think you can exert some mental control over getting a feeling of reward/satisfaction just from doing it on its own.
>>34601657 No way. Is there like cum sound effects or something? How does that even work? >>34601659 Okay that I totally get. I personally think that's hottest when the topic isn't even explicit, though. It's also the sort of audio that doesn't feel as weird to make.
>>34601658 It is not something that is enforced by either men or women, though. It is the result of decades of consumerism and social media all explicitly and implicitly giving messages like >you are the main character of your life and what you prefer/want is hugely important and even morally right to go after >experiences and feelings matter and there is no shame in wanting to feel as good as possible as much as possible in life >you have all the freedom and options so if you are not 100% happy then you are a dumb bitch or did not try hard enough, it's your job to live your best life etc. All these kind of messages make it harder for people to accept imperfections in themselves and others, to sit stuff out for long term benefits, to sacrifice personal comfort for something more important, you name it, and that applies to both men and women. Men just lose out harder because women have historically always been more focused on emotional intelligence and learning how to keep good relations with others.
>>34601662 >I personally think that's hottest when the topic isn't even explicit, though. Yeah I feel that. Years ago I found an audio of a woman doing a roleplay where she was badgering her best guy friend to show her how he jerked off. It was filled with just silences followed by her giggling or going "no shut up" or "don't look at me like that" but it worked perfectly, she was so good at bringing to life that flustered mood and your imagination would just fill in all the gaps.
>>34601651 >Good social skills yes Fair point but people think introverts with poor social skills are going to shoot up a school I'd call it a wash for either type with bad social skills. >>34601655 You have to find some way to motivate yourself. If you don't want to go then you'll be priming yourself for failure anyway. You got a bad deal here because I had a couple of boyfriends who went out and did things throughout the years that helped me get out and talk to people and you've never had that. You need something that compels you to go more than the anxiety compels you not to so you at least get out of the house and in a position to try. And then it's just baby steps. You can even make a little checklist of things to do that day like "give a stranger a compliment", "ask an employee for help", and "push yourself to continue a conversation someone started with you instead of cutting it off and leaving". And just like, practice being yourself in front of other people not necessarily interacting with them but doing the thing you want to do (within reason) instead of overthinking it. Forcing it is bad. You should often leave your comfort zone but rarely enter the danger zone. Anxious is fine, overwhelmed is going to make you more hesitant to go out next time.
>>34601673 Talk to her about it. Tears suck and it's worth not having piv sex for a week to let it heal. Hopefully it's that simple. >>34601674 Finally somebody with good taste ITT.
>>34601665 Personally, the messages of companies that want to sell me stuff aren't very persuasive. What is more persuasive is that every single woman I have ever met loves consumerism and the power to influence and command men. That shapes my perspective more than decades of marketing. I've never exhausted my paychecks at the shrine of consumerism. It's not my doing that you're so influenced by it.
>>34601680 >I've never exhausted my paychecks at the shrine of consumerism. That is just one single way to react to it, though.
You live in the same time others do, you consume the same endless commercials others do. Your idea of what a relationship should be like is wholly shaped by the movies you watched and the likes. Your idea of what a good life looks like is shaped by these things.
Culture is like the air we breathe. You are always breathing whether you think so or not. Thinking you don't is just not paying attention to it. Hell, the very fact that you would probably say your goal in life is to be happy is being a product of your time, your father or grandfather never would have given an answer like that.
>>34601685 >Hell, the very fact that you would probably say your goal in life is to be happy is being a product of your time, your father or grandfather never would have given an answer like that. The goal of being happy and chasing happiness no matter the cost are things I've predominantly heard from women. There are more modest objectives out there: not being miserable, not being perpetually depressed, not being seen as a boogeyman, and avoiding financial ruin. It's interesting that you bring up what our fathers and grandfathers would have sought. Life was most definitely harder back then, for both genders, but men weren't so actively hated and marginalized in global courts of public opinion such as Instagram, Twitter, Tea or the New York Times. Now, certain people get to live like social monarchs while others are expected to self-flagellate. There are clear imbalances but you won't ever acknowledge them.
>>34601695 >There are more modest objectives out there: not being miserable, not being perpetually depressed, not being seen as a boogeyman, and avoiding financial ruin. This also reads modern to me, as opposed to the goal of being a morally upright person, a good Christian, a useful part of community, someone who bettered their family name for their offspring - very common life goals in the past when people were still less focused on themselves as the main character in life.
For the record I am not trying to say I believe life only got easier, that is not the case. This time offers a lot of unique challenges too. A situation like divorcing someone you were with for twenty years and having access to chat logs from all that time so you can revisit literal conversations whenever your aching heart wants, is a pretty novel challenge to face that has become very common in no time.
It is not that I think men and women are in the exact same position. There is some backlash against women's rights, but at the same time the overall standard for women's options and autonomy is still higher than it ever was. Whereas for men there is no denying that it is just less cushy now in a western society than it used to be. So it is not that I don't understand anything at all from what you write. The thing is that fostering your own feelings of being wronged and having it harder than others, literally renders you nothing. It'll make you unhappier, less friendly, more thin-skinned, less generous with others. And for what? If you want to compare, I am sure that I won't have to point out to you that male or female, you probably live a privileged life compared to people dealing with real poverty or god knows, Ebola. A lot of people feel they have the right to ignore those who have it worse and only obsess over those who (seemingly) have it better. But it just makes you miserable and for what? What is gained by it?
>>34601700 >This also reads modern to me, as opposed to the goal of being a morally upright person, a good Christian, a useful part of community, someone who bettered their family name for their offspring Quite difficult if you're an enemy. A suspected rapist, killer of women, a suspected conservative, Trump voter, abortion abolisher, and an useless worker who brings no value and no financial security.
>less friendly See above.
>If you want to compare I've just been compared to the previous generations of men and somehow lost in the masculinity and mental fortitude evaluations. This, honestly, happens all the time.
>What is gained by it? Sanity. Instead of being successfully gaslit, sometimes I'm able to defend and preserve my identity.
>>34601721 Cheating mustache methhead Anthony is for 20 years in prison Oh wait you can’t go to prison for meth possession in CA unless you’re a dealer
Is it true that if you accept working on your day off, they will always start asking you? I always said no to it but I wonder what would have happened if I did say yes
>>34601729 >Is it true that if you accept working on your day off, they will always start asking you? I always said no to it but I wonder what would have happened if I did say yes They might, some companies don't even pay overtime
>>34601749 >State gender >How different would your life have been if you were super fucking hot? Wouldn't change much, I'd probably still be a weirdo >How you take advantage of it? I wouldn't, I'd try harder to have worked earlier and try to be a neet(early retirement) and or get a job working from home, with kids, animals or or with people who help from time time in an office.
>>34601749 >How different would your life have been if you were super fucking hot? my 3% success rate would jump to 20% or something it would change my life massively I probably wouldnt have moved to japan if i was more successful with women. but i also wouldve spend less time going after my creative pursuits, because women would occupy my time
>>34601749 F, I think my life would have been worse, not better, if I had been super fucking hot. I was shit at turning men down when I was younger and already struggled with avoiding unpleasant situations with the amount of male attention I got as a normal looking person. Being strikingly attractive would have worsened that dramatically.
Does anyone have any advice for meeting women as a very private/shy person who isn't particularly fond of "normal" people? I've already tried duolicious, and it was really fun until i got screencapped and made fun of on lolcow.. I'm also quite active in a bunch of social nerd stuff online, but I just feel like a creep if i ever try to pursue someone in a space like that..
>remember something embarrassing i did >groan >remember another embarrassing thing >groan harder >remembering that thing makes me remember another thing >cascade of remembering bad things FUCK HOW DO YOU MAKE IT STOP?
>>34601834 You make friends in those nerd circles, get into their cliques, gain rep, and eventually newbie women will gravitate towards you for guidance. And stop saying shit that people will want to screencap and share for laughs
>>34601848 I'm a pretty central figure in what i do, but I hate vying for the few women that orbit the hobby because it inevitably leads to infighting between the guys. >stop doing things that make you a target for laughs They didnt screencap anything i said, just made fun of me for having a pretty normal interest. To be fair some of them also complimented me, but it still turned me off the website for good
>>34601840 Try to remember that nobody else is as emotionally invested in awkward shit you did as you are. Nobody is up at night remember others' foot in mouth moments, only their own.
We should start an /atoga/ alpinist group. After gaining much experience we will go to Everest and offer our services for free so sherpas would go out of business.
>>34601894 I never understood big spoon little spoon. Don't you stack spoons of the same size in your silverware drawer? I don't put small spoons on top of the big spoons, that is ridiculous.
>>34601749 M I'd definitely have a better time meeting people I'd probably just start going to local events and such more often. I end up staying home a lot because I don't want people to look at me as the stereotypical fat nerd that they have to put up with in order to enjoy the hobbies that I like, and while I've committed to weight loss pretty well starting a couple of months back, it'll still be a couple of years before getting down to a weight I'd be comfortable at.
I'd also start shooting my shot with women over 40 real often
Why would you have different sized spoons anyways, aside from maybe a soup spoon. You don't live in high society, the fuck do you need all those spoons for.
>>34601937 This was always how my older sister justified getting out of things, leaving the rest of the family a hand short during her young adult years and then extended to practically dumping her son on us later on.
>>34601939 I need tablespoons because some food measurements require them. But for actually eating stuff I prefer teaspoons, because then the thing I'm eating lasts longer due to smaller spoonfuls.
>>34601967 >he's already made sure to cover for my case with a stated exception >but I feel the need to speak up anyways And a nice day to you too, ma'am
Women I now have a statuette each for Kirby, Pac-Man, Metal Sonic, and Porygon on my shelf. Why am I not immediately dripping with pussy. What's the holdup. Where are you.
>>34601987 I mean I'm a woman and I say yes, but I have opinions and hobbies that most feminists (especially the radfems) would hate me for having so... >>34601997 Find yourself a cute nerdy girl.
>>34602018 I'm a degenerate otaku who likes to play degenerate visual novels. Despite the existence of many female authors and artists in this realm, many western feminists would still decry these women as having internalized misogyny for working on these projects and I think that's bullshit. >>34602023 I'm not your tradwife fantasy, fuck off.
>>34602020 I wouldn't hate feminists so much if they had a point but they don't I just saw a bunch of feminists discredit the allegations against the Maine senate candidate despite #BelieveAllWomen, you can safely say modern feminism is just bullshit
>>34602028 >many western feminists would still decry these women as having internalized misogyny for working on these projects and I think that's bullshit This seems to me to imply that many western feminists think feminism means something else than that flowchart picture claims.
>>34602047 >All media is inherently Jewish, including media written by non-Jews due to internalized Judaism. Isn't that what a large proportion of 4chan posters unironically believe?
>>34601939 It's mostly performative outside your standard teaspoon/tablespoon. There are people that actually have little girly spoons called coffee spoons just to stir coffee, and some even go a step further and have an even smaller spoon called a demitasse spoon specifically to be able to spoon the froth on a Cappuccino, because you obviously can't do that with a coffee spoon right?
>>34602059 It's a strawman of women criticizing their shitty blackpill statistics. Even though there are many reasons to criticize those statistics beyond personal anecdotes.
>>34602067 I've only got two kinds tyvm. Pint glasses and pilsner glasses I do kinda want some steins too admittedly but keep smacking myself on the wrist and not buying them
>>34601970 I find men saying this a really weird flex and an attempt to maintain they are "extra straight" or something when nobody suggested they were anything but straight...
>>34602056 Yes, very much so. The cream should be really thick though, supermarket tiramisu is always too watery. And often it's too sweet. But well-made tiramisu is delicious and occasionally I will still snack on the mediocre kind.
>>34602084 M, let's see pair of work shoes boots steelies converse trainers wellies sandals flip flops slippers So 9 technically, used to have way more and lots of boots back in the day but gave them all away
>>34602090 Same reason many men think women want super muscular women. Women themselves often find tall women very beautiful because they more often have the really slender proportions, elongated legs etc. Models and many actresses are tall. Women are also more likely to romanticize looking sexy and elegant over being cute and attractive in a more everyday way, even though obviously the latter is appreciated at least as most by men, "girl next door" is pretty much the most basic fantasy/dream girl there is.
>>34602098 >"girl next door" is pretty much the most basic fantasy/dream girl there is. Fun Fact: When it comes to tall girl hentai, the most popular subgenre is "girl next door grew up taller than the boy".
>>34602090 A lot of us guys like tall women though... >>34602059 Is the joke that she misses the meaning of "average"? >>34602056 Yes Back when I wrote for the school newspaper I used to make these puzzles called "tiramisu" cause I love it >>34602043 It's annoying when you wake up and find yourself about to fall on the floor though
>>34601937 Wasn't this conceived as analogy to try to explain chronic and mental illnesses to normies >>34601894 Both is good but little is comfy >>34601855 Yes but I try to practice mindfulness
>>34602102 I enjoy sleeping on the floor on a carpet but generally I want to be just me and the woman i am together with in the same home. And no biological children of my own ever she can have hers
>>34601749 M, don't think it'd change much desu. I'd probably try get into modelling for easy money but other than that I'd still be the same dorky autist as before desu
>>34602105 Narcissistic sociopath with a gargantuan ego. She's scared shitless of accountability,of me and of saying sorry for throwing a golden necklace I wanted to give her into the trash. She forged her MD by moving to a country outside EU to "sit" a medical school entry exam that doesn't involve a written or oral examination and she's admitted just via high school grades. Then she sat ,stayed there for a year "studying" and moved back to our EU country where 99% of people,those of us who have a moral backbone sit the med school entry exam equitably . There's 100 questions on it and it lasts 3-4 hours. The fact that she dodged it makes her more than a poor doctor it shows she's grossly immoral. And yet she's scared shitless of me because I'm a psychopath? I would scoop her eyeballs out yes because I fucking her her she insulted and mocked me and my mom but at least I work fairly openly and don't break any sort of gotcha rules .
She's also incestuous with her brother as in french kissing licking etc. and projecting her shit onto us all rest of us. Awww yeah WE are the problem we aren't good friends (I'm not even her friend obviously) we don't do enough but you do so much you do more than us and while we do little and demand us you do much and are so sad you can't help us more. Bawwwww she can sue me my name is D.T.
>>34602110 Modeling is about getting fucked by photographers. Male models have it TOUGH for guys who make 20 k to essentially travel. Look into it, it’s well known that if you wanna get good work you have to make a “deal”
>>34602103 We have one in this thread. She stopped posting about her fantasies after anons started bringing up her posts. Yes, I'm talking about that disgusting freak.
>>34602092 Are you dumb? The majority of men prefer women who are shorter than them. Just look around it's obvious how common it is to see couples where the woman is noticeably shorter (if you ever go outside that is). Men who don't are usually low T non dominant cuck0lds
would date 23-50, my big sticking point on the younger age range is that I don't want a girl who's still in college, probably wouldn't date a girl in grad school either. on the upper end I've always liked older women and it's kind of tracked as I've gotten older but I would be concerned our pop culture tastes would be too different.
>>34602125 I do not wish the AWFUL experiences I've had on anybody except maybe a math teacher who was worse than her ,maths teacher name also being Galatians ironically the part of scripture I hate the most. I wanted beautiful things friends I wanted someone who is patient and kind to teach me all sorts of things about everything around me not the evil I was subjected to. I'm scared shitless of some people here. I'm so scared I want to leave this country forever. I'm never coming back even for 1 million dollars. I'm not a fucking pussy virgin ready to stay for a woman. I'm a grown ass man 23 years of age who's scared of living here. People here are insanely evil especially the infirmaries/sub-nurses in mental hospitals. You can't get in with depression they'll all tear you down
>>34602121 I mean if I was "super fucking hot" presumably I could make money from it without having to whore myself out kek? I did one paid thing years ago that was chill Else idk maybe I'd take the pacifist route and whore myself out to rich women or something so they could donate to charities, so it would be for the greater good >>34602123 M28 21-45
I never should have asked that. I only got stupid replies. Didn't even manage to trigger the person I wanted to. I promise to put in more effort next time.
>>34602160 You bring it up all the time. You use the same lines every time freakspammer. And then everyone points and laughs at how pathetic you are for being an obsessed faggot then you run away. Your pattern of sad faggotry follows you here.
>>34602168 >You bring it up all the time. Show me where. You brought it up out of nowhere here >>34602152 Do you have brain damage or you're just an autistic retard?
>>34602140 I'm the anon you replied to and agree with your sentiments about younger students etc. Wrt older women, I don't think I could date that old because she'd remind me too much of my mom, 56. I'd prefer no more than five years older than me but could probably date a 40 year old.
>>34602184 Show me, where did I bring up the alleged incident of what happened to her? You can't answer this, can you? Because it was you who brought it up.
>>34602146 You can definitely make hot bucks but as far as modeling goes you’re not escaping the local scene without putting out. Side note. Look at any interview with any top model (almost) ever. There weirdly neurotic and dark for people with the best lives you could have on paper they act like rape victims….. And they all allude to issues that they can’t talk about. The notable exception being Hernan Drago who famously refused that type of thing and despite not graduating to worldwide fame he acts like a guy who has a lot to be grateful for. That’s not evidence of course, just an interesting rabbit hole
>>34602192 I don't need to show you. You know you do it all the time and everyone who everyone easily ignores your shit thanks to your repetitiveness. It's just fun to call a faggot like you for what you are every once in a while. :)
>>34602197 >Why didn't it? She'd had a crush on me for a very long time, but when we actually got together the reality of me didn't live up to the fantasy.
>>34602208 I wouldn't. But I was replying to someone who claimed that men reproducing without women was impossible, and pointing out that this is, in fact, something scientists are working on.
>>34602182 I like older women precisely because they're inclined to mommy you a bit lol. Also they tend to be better conversation partners, most women by 50 have learned something about something, it feels like women just pause their mental development at like 16 and never develop an interesting opinion on anything until they hit 45.
>>34602210 Hey remember that time your faggot ass couldn't do math? https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/chunk/34480297/#q34482176 You were so confident with your shit that you embarrassed yourself and hid away like a massive fucking cuck.
>>34602226 >You were so confident with your shit that you embarrassed yourself and hid away like a massive fucking cuck. >cuck That's rich coming from you, lol. https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/33666726/#33667789
Is this why you defend her? https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/chunk/33781983/#33782271 Was it your uncle who touched you too? Kek Trust me, you will lose the archive game. Now do your damage control and pretend how it wasn't really you.
looks like white women today aren't looking to have kids or date with anyone. I guess I'll have to go with Asians. RIP my son's height and ability to drink cow milk.
Unless there are any medditeranean hotties out there who're looking for love
>>34602238 M Not telling my gf that a came on her ass during a wet dream and letting her find it long after I left now she’s mad. A also regret telling her I jacked off on her while she slept to try to make it seem intentional
>>34602246 I don't live in Asia so that isn't my problem. What made you think I was talking about going to those actual countries? You do know that asianz live in places other than asia, right? This isn't the 1500s
>>34602241 >literally ignoring admitting he can't count to spam a made up thing about someone else Nothing your saying happened. I deny what you're saying. But you haven't denied that my link was you. Are you the retard who couldn't count on a calendar? Any other response that isn't a confirmation or denial means you're an embarrassed faggot and you won't get a response. I win.
How would you feel if your bf got too late for a college entrance exam and wanted to lay down with you and cry a few tears while resting in your chest slowly talking about mundane uplifting things?
>>34602268 Yeah, but I'd be settling out of desperation. I'd think he's a total himbo who thinks that looking hardcore is more important than avoiding addiction and cancer.
>>34602276 I'm not the anon you're replying to, but no, it wouldn't. If you choose a time when you are quite definitely not going to see me for at least 24 hours (any less and I will still smell it on your breath and taste it on your saliva), and you do it outside, and you stay outside for at least an hour after you finish smoking, and you shower thoroughly (not only soaping every square inch of your body but shampooing your hair as well, and your facial hair if you have it), and you make sure everything you were wearing is immediately washed as soon as you go back into the house, and you don't expect to ejaculate anywhere near me for at least a week - that might help.
You seriously have no idea how vile tobacco smoke smells, or how powerfully it clings to your clothes and skin and hair, how even a trace of nicotine in the air condenses out on the walls and then STAYS THERE, or how disgusting it makes all of your body fluids taste.
>>34602283 >If you somehow were attracted to a guy who smoked that often but would drop it if you wanted him to, would you date him? AFTER he had dropped it, maybe.
>>34602297 Very reasonable. >>34602294 >You seriously have no idea how vile tobacco smoke smells, or how powerfully it clings to your clothes and skin and hair, how even a trace of nicotine in the air condenses out on the walls and then STAYS THERE, I do, actually, but I've still met some men and women that can tolerate being with a daily smoker despite not smoking themselves. >or how disgusting it makes all of your body fluids taste. Now this I didn't consider. The last two women I had sex with were also smokers, so maybe that's why it never came up for me until just now.
Why do Moids assume that just because a woman travels that her body count automatically must be high? Like you think we are actually traveling just to have sex with guys or they are paying us to have sex and travel with them?
>>34602323 >you think we are actually traveling just to have sex with guys or they are paying us to have sex and travel with them? Yes. That is exactly what they think.
>>34602323 Yes, men think that because they would travel to fuck hot local women that women who like to travel must want to fuck hot local men. >>34602331 And that study points out that a lot of it has to do with purchasing household essentials for domestic chores, but don't let me ruin your narrative.
>>34602323 It’s the perfect crime. You look cultured for going to Italy and nobody knows you got fucked by multiple sun-kissed grease balls. One day you’re gonna get a very poorly worded postcard however covered in spaghetti sauce and your jig will be up when your bf asks about it
>>34602346 nta >Being against males demonizing women about everything is thinking that women are perfect angels Something tells me this won't be called a strawman.
>>34602287 That's a pretty fair assessment. I think that based on the responses to that question, since I'm not looking to date anyone anytime soon, I'll allow myself to roll a cigarette or two for a camping trip and just quit before I want to date again.
>>34602360 No. It means nonretard. Anyone can be handsome outside unless you're unlucky genetics roller. Wear clean clothes, have good posture, drink water. It's when you speak that you ruin the potential of wanting to be around you. Most successful conservative men shut the fuck up.
>>34602363 That's true. It turns you gay and makes your penis fall off. >>34602361 I've smoked all the weed on Earth already. I want to quit smoking it, but I also want to smoke tobacco a once or twice more, maybe.
>>34602368 You can’t. I broke up with my best bro recently because his mindset was so shit after 5 years of friendship. I grew up and accepted the world and he wallowed in self pity until the difference became too great and I had to let him go. Only an insecure person can help themselves by achieving things that are out of their comfort zone and improving their situation themselves
>>34602328 I saw a bunch of women saying he was behind the hate for Indians, like Indians aren't putting in work themselves.
>>34602333 >Why do so many women stay with guys who beat them? Fear. Also, abusers aren't like that all the time. They have these moments of being loving and caring, and people get attached to that version of them, and that makes it hard to leave them when they're abusive.
>>34602360 It's never people you would enjoy being around saying this shit.
>>34602333 Because a toxic relationship follows a pattern and long before he's ever hit her, she has become ashamed of being in a tumultuous relationship, with the guy convincing her at every turn that it takes two to tango and she has her own responsibility in their toxic dynamic. Making someone (feel) complicit is like making someone shut up 101.
On top of that women vulnerable to falling for abusers and not recognizing early red flags (like going very hot and cold with their behavior or being controlling from the get go) are that way because they grew up in an abusive household and their role model for men did not set high standards and made some toxic stuff feel normal/inescapable or familiar. Abusive men are more likely to fall for women who were abused in the past because they just "click", she shows the desired response e.g. fawning and pleasing harder in response to unreasonable demands and criticism. It is hard to leave a man for being violent when life has not shown you much proof that relationships can be without violence.
>>34602361 I never felt this effect personally but most cigarette smokers I have known claimed that nicotine made them sharper and feel more rested and focused, so basically the opposite of what weed does. Also plenty of people simply dislike weed either because it makes them super tired or because it makes them anxious/paranoid. Smoking is also a vice that even now that it is more and more restricted, you can do it at relatively many different situations with relatively few social repurcussions compared to other indulgences.
>>34602368 I don't know. I think first they need to want to change then they need to face their insecurity and learn from whatever they faced without becoming more insecure. You can help with the last part
How do you navigate between 3 girls at work? What if you accidentally flirted with all of them? I want to avoid any drama and I really only like 1 girl
>>34602392 Just that, it's not a single thing, just like how saying someone looks good still leaves plenty of interpretation for how exactly they look.
But I'd say that being friendly and polite, having at least okay conversational skills (so not directing every topic back to yourself, not ranting, no humblebrags or endlessly droning stories) and being interested are usually the brunt of what is meant by it. They are pleasant to interact with and people that you would at least intuitively expect to be reliable and honest. Good folks.
Again though a personality can be good in different ways. Somebody who is very interesting and very funny will often also be appreciated for their personality even if they are not particularly kind and pretty self-centered, because they are deemed fun to be around and bringing a welcome energy.
>>34602392 Basically having a personality people want to be around. You can be funny, kind, thoughtful, grounding, inclusive, or whatever else. If you have a good personality and are a good person, good people will want to be around you.
>>34602390 >accidentally flirted You just have to watch your tone and attitude. If you get any signs suggesting you have implied more interest than you have, compensate by being (polite, but) extra dry and unstimilating for some time.
>>34602406 I am against eugenics. It is undeniable that some issues, including what I mentioned, are more prevalent in low class households because of the circumstances those have in common. (Although you would be very naïve to assume covert and overt relationship violence is rare among higher educated/richer couples.) That does not mean I would consider eugenics an answer rather than wishing society would be arranged in a way to tackle and avoid those problems more often and more successfully.
>>34602414 We need poor people to stay poor so they keep driving trucks and buying crap. There is zero intention from anyone important to actually fix this issue. If you did they’d find another menial thing to do to fuck with each other and you could get mad about (which is what keeps you at the bottom of the middle in a sense.)
>>34602418 I know I'm a huge libtard for this place's standards but it honestly blows my mind that on paper I feel like 90-95% of the population agrees that it's in everyone's benefit to invest in the new generations, even if that means also investing in their parents (where you get the whole debate of "isn't it their own fault and responsibility" - yeah, but not their kids'), and yet there is still so little political support for programs that invest structurally in even the physical well-being of children (e.g. providing high quality subsidized school lunches so even the kids in the households where the diet is most shite get some veggies in).
>>34602421 I fear that you are right and this is exactly the problem, that too many people benefit from a lot of people not being able to live their best life or reach their full potential. But at the same time society also pays the price for that because we miss out on so much human capital that way, not to mention more concrete stuff like how expensive bad lifestyle choices are for a country.
>>34602434 >that invest structurally in even the physical well-being of children (e.g. providing high quality subsidized school lunches so even the kids in the households where the diet is most shite get some veggies in). Thankfully i am not american.
>>34602421 Truck drivers earn pretty good money tho? They don't have much time to spend it due to being on the road all the time but they're not whom I'd describe as poor
What is The Amazing Digital Circus even about, I keep seeing it get compared to I Have No Mouth and I Must Scream but I thought the circus show was some kids show with mature themes like adventure time or regular show. Is TDAC any good?
>>34602437 I am not either, that's the worst part. Or well, I hugely enjoy it of course, but it is dire living in a place that is reputed to be super progressive and yet like in so many European countries there has still been a conservative leaning ruling party for like fifteen years, and there is so many relatively easy (but expensive obviously) stuff to implement like providing patients in hospitals with better quality food - which we already know from research actually pays itself in time because their healing process will be faster as a result - is not even in any way a discussion let alone a plan we are going to execute. Individual politicians, even those of left leaning parties, just don't want to pay the price for proposing ambitious plans that will initially only cost money and might sound "extra" compared to other issues. And then those other more urgent issues (like housing and homelessness crisis) don't get fixed because we haven't decided yet how to fix them yet. It's just tiring.
>>34602453 Bureautic sociaism is better than democracy in many ways. Instead of appealing to the goyim electorate you just do what is correct and appropriate.
Men, would you 'cuck' your GF if she is the one who wanted it? As in she wants to watch you have sex with a woman, said woman is attractive to you but you don't know each other beyond this one time sexual encounter (the woman will change each time to avoid too much jealousy) and the sex will often be rough so she can gauge if it's something she would like to do with you or not.
>>34602461 The issue I have with that is that any system where the people are decided for is inherently very vulnerable to corruption. I personally do not know of an example where it was implemented and this issue with power abuse was avoided altogether. Then it can take a very long time to unfuck what got fucked.
I just wish it was possible to have some sort of system where you get an extra elaborate vote and then it is decided that if you set up this program or do this reorganization of some governmental system, it actually has to be followed through even if by next election parties of a different political color are chosen. The way it is now, every new set of politicians can spend a lot of time simply undoing what was decided by previous ones, with the end result that you have a lot of "fluctuating" laws and short-lived initiatives, and just about zero long term visions or long term investments that pay off. It becomes next to impossible to e.g. revise the healthcare or public schooling system.
>>34602468 FYI the reverse sex cuckolding is called cuckqueaning. Also not a guy but be prepared to be disappointed by how difficult it might be for him to consisistently find new female partners for casual sex.
>>34602470 >the sex will often be rough so she can gauge if it's something she would like to do with you or not. >>34602472 You have to put yourself out there. >>34602475 >cuckqueaning That sounds awful, I prefer cucking even if its not correct.
>>34602481 >>the sex will often be rough so she can gauge if it's something she would like to do with you or not. That's all? That seems like a bit of stupid suggestion of you, have to admit. Seeing something being performed in front of you is not the same as experiencing it yourself. It'd make much more sense we just ramped it up together.
>>34602481 >That sounds awful Yeah can't argue that, it's a trainwreck of a word. Just mentioning it for the practical purpose if you want to look up stories of women that feel similarly and have experience with this.
>>34602486 Don't do that, if you want to reciprocate, actually give him a specific compliment, point out something you love about his looks or at least tell him he is handsome. Saying you too sounds kind of reflexive/polite.
>>34602486 If you really like him, then "Thanks handsome!" in a flirty way If you barely know the guy and he's mid looking, just say thanks, or thanks, I put a lot of effort into it or something
>>34602460 There hasn’t been enough feminine energy here in the last few hours so we reverted to autism. Please make us feel alive so these idiots stop talking about systems of governance
>>34602498 Honestly I just happen to know it is called cucqueaning if you want to specifically refer to the woman being left out of sexual experiences her guy has. I don't know if cucking in practice is only used to describe men left out or to refer to the dynamic itself regardless of sexes.
>>34602501 >If you really like him, then "Thanks handsome!" in a flirty way I did something similar once, he laughed and then told our common friend he didn’t want to meet me again cause he thought I was getting feelings already
>>34602486 Not desperate but maybe socially anxious. I hate the word handsome I think it sounds weird so I usually say cute but some guys have an issue with that they think cute is an insult not a compliment.
>>34602495 >Experiencing it yourself is scary Good relationships are built on being vulnerable with your partner and trusting them they don't go overboard and hurt you. Or if they do, having them know what they did wrong and not do it again.
If you prefer me fucking another woman, then something is already quite wrong with you or our relationship.
>>34602468 My gf wanted to see me fuck another girl so I asked a previous partner if I could show my gf our sex tape and she said “I told you to delete that why are you violating your restraining order” so I ended not showing my gf
>>34602506 >You look beautiful!! >Oh, thanks handsome! >LOL get a load of this needy chick Trash took itself out, you should be glad to not be surrounded by stupid people
>>34602505 Technically the words cuckold and cuckquean, or cuck for short, just means someone who's partner is cheating on them. That's assuming a traditional monogamous relationship. When it comes to weird fetish stuff the term cheating becomes iffy though.
>>34602511 Its easy to want to be vulnerable and try new things with a partner but not so easy to actually physically go through with it. >If you prefer me fucking another woman, then something is already quite wrong with you or our relationship. Re-read what I said, It's only to test the waters and see how I feel about it, not a long term thing.
>>34602508 Imagine fucking a hot blonde big eyed Swedish girl who had no scruples about nudity or sex while your brooding academic Jewish girlfriend watches and criticizes your performance and then calls you pathetic and fucks her instead with a (circumcised) strap on
>>34602529 True but as you mention, it's been picked up by a fetish scene and if this dynamic is consensual it is by definition not cheating. Plus I don't think most cucks think of it as getting off on cheating specifically as it seems most common to want to watch. It is just a form of power play to not be allowed to be involved while at the same time being so close, I guess.
>>34602530 >Re-read what I said I don't need to. Intimacy is generally one of the highest valued things in a relationship. You don't normally just give that away.
>>34602526 Well, yeah sure, but you could also just not date anybody and watch good porn. Still isn't the same. If she wants porn of me, we could record us doing it together, if she's a cuck then sure fine, but I'd want her to get a little something extra out of it too like I am
>>34602529 >>34602531 You're both wrong. Someone can know their partner is cheating. The difference between cucking and cheating is whether the partner that's not doing the fucking is cool with it.
>>34602535 >Intimacy is generally one of the highest valued things in a relationship. Well it shouldn't be, trust and emotional connection is what really matters.
>>34602537 No normies for you. No incels you’d reject them. The only men for you are the freaks who left the world behind. Congratulations you get to experience true love in this life
>>34602541 That's probably a better definition, yeah.
>>34602542 >Well it shouldn't be It absolutely should be. Emotional connection is also a form of intimacy. But if you value something so incredibly important so little, then I would rather not be in a relationship with you and we can quit talking about it.
>>34602315 No, it was torture, I woke up every couple of hours for years and had to wrestle him onto his side and then he'd just flip onto his back and start snoring again. Never dating a snorer again.
>you filthy western barbarian savage, you're our prisoner now >you will be severely punished for entering our territory >you will be given a house, wife, servants, and a translator >you need to fuck them both, it's part of your punishment Who writes this shit? And for whom?
Day 3 of femanon being in a boot bcuz she sprained her ankle: i fear i may die of boredom. there is only so many video games one can play before brain cells are permanently lost
>>34602532 This reminds me of some old scene from Criminal Minds where the traumatic dad hires a hooker to fuck her son, and he's just watching the boy trying his best and the dad's like, "NO! Jesus christ, move! This is how you do it!", and starts fucking her himself, fucking kek
>>34602541 >The difference between cucking and cheating is whether the partner that's not doing the fucking is cool with it. I don't agree with or accept this definition.
>>34602535 I have to say though it is possible to greatly value the intimacy in your relationship and not the exclusivity as much. If you personally do not have any fantasies/turn ons that involve your partner being with someone else, it might be hard to imagine but it is possible to simply not experience them being with someone (or not in a specific setting) as conflicting with feeling like they are committed to you and you are it for them.
I don't know if this applies to OP because it does sound like more of a practical solution for her, but it is possible to experience your partner being with someone else as also something inherently exciting for you rather than any kind of loss or betrayal.
>>34602537 Yeah you might be kind of fucked >>34602539 I haven't confirmed this but yeah I think he moved on >>34602555 This is a good thing >>34602564 Are you old?
State gender You have a crush on someone that you have a Decent friendly relationship or bond with. That crush wants you to be their friends with benefit, but you can’t tell if they want a monogamous relationship or any real romantic interest in you. What is your next course of action? >confess your romantic feelings to crush >don’t confess, accept the FWBs, hoping to improve you relationship until eventually dating >dont confess, accept the FWBs, no longer caring about dating >deny the FWBS and don’t confess your feelings >other
>>34602561 nta obviously, but I'm pretty skinny but also have to do extra shit to not choke to death on my own tongue every night (that was really quite apt btw)
>>34602568 >you're clearly misunderstanding me You want me to fuck another woman. I am an not willing to share that intimacy with somebody else. There is nothing to misunderstand.
>>34602561 He was pretty skinny. My father wasn't fat either and I struggled with sleep my whole childhood just from him snoring in another room. 40% of men snore.
>>34602575 >haven't confirmed this but yeah I think he moved on he's literally in my bed right now. do i cut him out of my life? i have to have a reason and show him proof
>>34602592 I just made the obese comment because i had a snorer in the room next to me for a few days. Thankfully it wasn't too distracting. Enough of the noise was isolated from me.
>>34602579 F Ask for clarification before confessing. If they just want a fwb and aren't interested in me romantically I think I'm too hurt to want to confess and I probably distance myself from him for the foreseeable future. Personally I would find it weird that we're having this conversation before ever getting physical like as my supposed friend how did he even bring this up?
>>34602604 So you are leaving everything to my imagination? You don't know what you're unleashing, buddy. You'll get princess-carried to my car and then we're driving into the mountains so we're having a picnic there.
>>34602579 F, denying the FWB and not confessing feelings is the smartest move. It is not impossible that he is not in love yet and would fall in love, but it's a high risk strategy. Being FWBs without caring about dating anymore is of course ideal on paper but not doable in practice, you are only human. And having sex is sure to deepen any emotions already there.
All this said, of course if I'd been younger realistically I would have been unable to turn down sex from my crush if that were an option though.
>>34602468 M Maybe. Having my hypothetical gf watch as another woman makes me cum sounds like kino. In practice we’d have to have a thorough conversation about this to ensure ground rules there’s no jealousy or guilt and that’s easier said than done. (Also does it have to be a stranger? In my fantasy she’s recruiting a friend to get me off while she watches)
>>34602579 Fuck her, fuck her frequently and well so that she has very positive opinions, as a friend do above-friendly stuff like making her breakfast in the morning after, showering together, lots of flirting and attention but not too simpy. After like a month of interaction, if it isn't already clear that she's been with other guys, seeing as she is the one who asked for the fwb, talk to her about and ask if she has been. If yes, then talk and figure out how she feels about them; if there's someone she really likes, then you're probably out. But if it isn't positive or she hasn't been with anyone, then vocally reflect on the time you've both spent together, or rather how you feel about it (positive). Express your opinions of her, your opinions of the relationship, and what would your future plans for it entail. It should then lead into how she feels about the same topics. If it's all positive, then ask to be exclusive.
If you can't get to the best ending, then at least you had a lot of fun with a person you like and good sex. Communicate well, always take action, be observant, know when to bow out if needed
>>34602622 Nta Most women would never ask a friend. the friend might be insulted, and they have the ability to tell people about it that your girlfriend doesn't necessarily want to know about it. I know I'd be pissed if someone I thought was my friend was like "hey will you fuck my boyfriend while I watch?" I'd never talk to her again and tell all of our mutual friends about it, maybe her mom if I was also pissed at her for other reasons.
>>34602626 >i don't think i'll be able to take it!! That's my plan, I will set up something so pretty and romantic, that you can't take it after three days of isolation and boredom, it's just too much for your little brain... and then I'll cash in your life insurance!
>some of y'all are mean. Eh. Technically you could lie and just pretend to be who you want to be.
>>34602602 You have other people tell you, unfortunately. I used an old phone to record myself while I slept to see when it happened too. There are sometimes signs you can figure out yourself, but you'll often miss them
>>34602631 You can totally do normie stuff just be wary of creeps who start treating you like royalty when they find out you're a virgin. At your age you want a guy who's a little surprised and concerned by that fact not one who's like "jackpot!"
>>34602644 >I'm chubby but half my weight is tits desu, See, now you'll get people adjusting their answers for the wrong reasons. You could have just posted height and weight for a simple "I would lift you" or "I would not lift you".
>>34602638 nta >I know I'd be pissed if someone I thought was my friend was like "hey will you fuck my boyfriend while I watch?" Why would you be pissed? Is it because you’re a femcel thats getting scraps?
>>34602647 >At your age you want a guy who's a little surprised and concerned by that fact not one who's like "jackpot!" What should I tell him? I wouldn’t want him to think I’m a weirdo/failure. It would be worthless to become a normie only to be out as a failure
>>34602654 Not them but I think the offensive part is more the implication that you were part of a shared fantasy and they did not consider it overstepping to actually go ahead and ask you to make that fantasy come true. Not everybody is equally comfortable thinking of friends in a sexual context.
>>34602654 Because it's weird, presumptive, and rude to ask. This is a friend not a woman I've been seeing sexually. She's crossing a boundary I did NOT want crossed in the friendship and she doesn't even want me herself she wants to pass me off as a toy to her boyfriend to be used for some kink shit neither of them like me romantically. It's just a fucked up thing to ask someone to do if you don't already know they're into it. I would feel really disrespected.
>>34602654 Just have some empathy for once in your life. Imagine seeing that person who fucked your bf or gf every time, since they're a friend. That's even more insane than the cucking part.
>>34602664 Does it hurt to be a sacrfiice to Thor? T-T sounds a little scaryyy. DESU i imagine most anons as like "the voice of God," y'know? Just voices yelling down from the clouds things like "stop teasing me" "foid!" "show boobies"
>>34602674 I'll make it hurt only a bit, where it's supposed to, you know. Considering I have received compliments for slutty audios I have sent to femanons before, that could be arranged.
>>34602684 >them NTA Being ambiguous about the sex does not help.
>>34602684 The kiwi is funny to imagine >>34602686 Some of them have posted vocas so there's nothing to imagine. I read bvs posts in that Midwestern trailer trash obese white woman voice. Mostly it depends on how they type
>>34602709 i had asked the boys for a bedtime story and she sent me that haha. it was nice of her desu. i wasn't around during all the stuff i've heard abt so i have no real thoughts on her. I found it nice that she sent that
>>34602713 >>34602706 I thought as much. lol I think women in general are into voices, I have been told my accent is attractive and makes me sound like a "professor", which plays well into how I like to act in bed. Do you like ASMR? It's what turns me on more than anything, with some voice tones and accents just making me feral.
>>34602733 asmr kind of irks me because my brain is like "why would u not just speak up why are we whispering" but i am big on professor types. I've spoken to professors even and wound up wiggling and kicking my feet watching them smoke cigs on video chat
>>34602735 I would say that 90% of the people in these threads are sane and personable. It's just the outliers who are more vocal in their madness and misanthropy.
>>34602743 ASMR does not need to be whispering at all. I don't enjoy that style either, I like it to be explicit though, no covering up or just pretending. That's also how I am in my audios. Do you have an accent?
>I've spoken to professors even and wound up wiggling and kicking my feet watching them smoke cigs on video chat No offense, but I'm kind of afraid to ask how old you are now. lol
If someone says "You exist? Please add me on Discord" then they get laughed at. If someone at the end of a long conversation says "Hey, I want to keep talking with you about this, but I feel like we're disrupting the thread. Would you be up for continuing elsewhere?" then nobody cares. If you're good at pattern recognition, then you can talk to the same person over multiple threads to build up trust before asking for contacts.
>>34602761 Ah, the staple of English American movies and shows then! Yeah, my accent would sound unusual to you then. btw, are you the femanon who recently talked about being new to 4chan and didn't know how trips worked? lol Or we got an influx recently for some reason...
>>34602771 Which even are there? There's like the broad, general one, Southern and then Amish-tier shit? lol Southern is rather unattractive. It sounds like a kind of dumb I am not into.
>>34602769 F Enough people have commented on it when I travel that I can't ignore that it exists. But it's nowhere near as strong as it could be I have the ultra light version of the regional accent. Sometimes people don't know where I'm from they just comment on how fast I talk.
>>34602769 No I’m told I sound extremely Californian when I’m having fun. I’ve been called a faggot valley girl. Otherwise I have the non descript American accent.
>>34602771 M non-american. The only good american accents are the the heavy southern ones. They sound nice. All other americans accents are gay and cringe, sorry
>>34602769 M No, I am aware I have an accent. It's never kept me from talking with others in other languages though, not even when I'm in a different country. And certain women are into it, which is a nice plus.
>>34602792 Eh, desu I can't be bothered to look them up. My guess is they'll just sound quite similar for me.
>>34602781 >I’ve been called a faggot valley girl. lol
>>34602796 They're just a dead giveaway >>34602799 Really, I sound like I could be from a dozen different places. It's an extremely generic North American metropolitan accent
>>34602776 There's multiple southern accents. I think some of them are cute but I get what you're saying. >>34602779 This is also my mom's favorite. >>34602788 Valid, mine is pretty consistently shit on and they're kinda right. >>34602790 I feel like my regional accent is the poor stupid man's version of a brooklyn accent. Thank God I'm from the half of the state where it's not as strong.
>>34602829 You're still new so that's forgivable. If you were using twitter correctly, it would be the same as /pol/. What do you like? You don't like my favorite thing.
>>34602771 jersey and boston aren't positive, boomhauer southern is bad, intelligible southern is charming or endearing like like like ending on a question cali girl is bad, modest high pitch cali is pretty cute long vowel midwest farmer is odd
>>34602837 i like to watch people find new ways to torture pokemon card scalpers, and people talking about my favorite media. one time i saw a guy use a fish innapropriately. i did not like that side of twitter.
>>34602847 >find new ways to torture pokemon card scalpers It is a little wierd to treat those items as investments. What are you a coffeezilla fan too? That guy sucks though.
>>34602850 oh yeah for sure. i don't automatically assume all women are saints, or all men are loli incest roleplayers
>>34602853 no, i don't even really know her. i have the infographic someone made about her, but like i said, im a noob. I've only spoken to her directly twice
>>34602855 i havent watched much of him. I just have my own vendetta against scalpers because I like collecting for myself and opening packs with my friends, and now it's so hard to get any. i'm literally asking my friend in japan to help me haha
>>34602876 Well, she doesn't seem like my type. And I really just like the collecting aspect, so I keep a sorted bulk binder too. I've started buying singles though.
>>34602834 Absolutely not >>34602838 Yeah mine is never positive unless you're from here I get it. I think the midwesterners are kind of endearing it's cute how slow they talk.
>>34602865 I think I'd be more angry if he never loved me, and more hurt if he loved me and then stopped loving me. Never being loved in the first place is easier to get over in my experience. Your brain can process that what they gave you was fake and you can never have it back again. If it was real it doesn't compute why can't they just change their mind back and love me again what did I do wrong. I guess it depends on what your criteria for "worse" is but for me being actually loved hurts more so that's what I'm going with even though it's probably the mentally ill option.
>>34602980 Emo Anthony is on 4chan, not cheating methhead Anthony. Cheating methhead Anthony thinks 4chan is problematic and a vessel of the patriarchy, but not cheating on his girlfriend of five years with a blonde feminist whore from work.
have you ever made a sex tape? how would you feel if you found out you were recorded having sex without your knowledge?
I'd be terrified honestly speaking, I'm speaking hypothetical of course but the idea of my performance being out there for all to see or in the hands of a former lover is really unsettling
Ok why did they have to start the fireworks on June the 7th? I have neighbors a couple streets over who already who go into the end of July during regular years. It’s going to be a long summer isn’t it anons?