Have you ever asked a girl out?

Acting attractive is better than looking attractive. Why fat comedians get girls chasing them

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>>34600501
Becuase your duty as a man to the state is to marry a woman and have children and be a provider. Find a woman and pump a baby into her, you will be happier for it.

>>34600501
>>34600612
This.

What have you tried?
What have you not tried?

We gotta earn our luck !

>>34600501
>What's wrong if a man is attractive enough to look fuckable but isn't fucking?
They are probably "throwing themselves" at you, but you're too autistic to pick it up.

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>>34600501
Being attractive is not the be all end all. You still have to know how to talk to women and pick up social cues. Shy dudes who went through childhood thinking they’re ugly and weird and then turned around and got /fit/ and/or good-looking in adulthood tend to go through this.

The good news is that you have a solid foundation to build on, meaning since you’re not bad to look at people will be more open to know more about you. This also means any autistic little quirks you have can be interpreted as cute or endearing by the right kind of people.

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>>34600612
>Have you ever asked a girl out?
Only a few times but it never worked out. I feel like every girl has tons of options by default so luck is big factor.

>>34600848
>Shy dudes who went through childhood thinking they’re ugly and weird and then turned around and got /fit/ and/or good-looking in adulthood tend to go through this.
Yeah no matter how fit I become I still feel like the weird kid in high school. My self perception in relation to women is fucked up because of it

>>34600501
>What's wrong if a man is attractive enough to look fuckable but isn't fucking?
You lack confidence.

>>34601560
>You lack confidence.
Yeah but that's not really unreasonable. Every girl has so many options that thinking you have a chance is borderline delusion.

>>34601602
The average employer has more choices than the average woman and most people end up employed anyway. If you don't send those applications then someone else will. That other someone is not inherently better for the position but he will eventually get the job/girl because he was out there giving it his best shot.

>>34601602
>Every girl has so many options that thinking you have a chance is borderline delusion.
Then how would any man anywhere have a chance if we follow this logic? How are there men with women (many of them absolutely nothing special) at all then?

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>>34601727
>That other someone is not inherently better for the position but he will eventually get the job/girl because he was out there giving it his best shot.
That's true but that doesn't address the issue of confidence. You can't expect someone with 0 success and knowledge of the horrible odds against him to approach women with true confidence. Its more like learning to fight, you have to accept you're gonna need to suffer through being bad at it.

>>34601753
I'm not saying it doesn't pay to try, just that doing so confidently is delusional.

Like if I had to go ask out a girl right now but you had to bet your life savings on the outcome, you'd bet against me because you know the odds. You'd be crazy to bet on me not getting rejected.

>>34601791
>you'd have to be crazy to bet on me getting this one specific job

correct but you still need income so you have to keep applying even though you know for sure there will be dozens of bad results before you get a hit

>>34601791
>you'd bet against me because you know the odds
Then make yourself more likable so your odds go up.

>>34601753
>How are there men with women (many of them absolutely nothing special) at all then?
Because a lot of women are with men for reasons other than love and attraction (convenience, money etc.)

>>34600501
99% Of guys who say shit like this are just average looking and aren't even 6'0

>>34600501

>What's wrong if a man is attractive enough to look fuckable but isn't fucking?


Most men are average at best, if not ugly, and they still manage to fuck moderately attractive girls.

As an ultra-late bloomer who didn't glow up until his late 20s, I used to carry that old high school mindset of feeling unworthy of getting laid/receiving affection.

But our experiences from 15 to 20 years ago don't define who we are now, nor were they an indictment of our value back then.

>>34600848
>Shy dudes who went through childhood thinking they’re ugly and weird and then turned around and got /fit/ and/or good-looking in adulthood tend to go through this.
Yeah, this is me. I grew up being really fucking weird and there was never a moment that I actually worked up the courage to talk to a girl in person. I ended up cultivating an online image and asking out women on dating sites, and that worked for a while. But even if women look at me or show obvious interest in person there's not a thing I can do about it to this day.

>>34600501
>Millionaire but I can't a afford groceries