Autistic dude with Obsession-girl type girlfriend Anonymous
06/07/26(Sun)08:51:30
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We are like opposites, I am very emotionally dull, she is hypersensitive and slightly crazy. We both have a very strong attraction to each other, our personalities match but we don't have so many common interests. I am into gaming and sports, she is into all this emotional, psychological stuff and following the news/economy. We both actually wanted to see the Obsession movie, and after seeing it she realized she had several things in common with the girl:
1. She has told me hundreds of times at this point, that she thinks she loves me more than I love her.
2. She has repeatedly asked to watch while I'm in the bathroom or wants to be in the bathroom with me even if I'm taking a dump, asked to hold my dick while I pee etc.
3. Repeatedly just stares at me while we're watching something and I have to turn her head manually.
4. Constantly treats me like I am some sex god or that I am the most beautiful man on Earth or something. Look I try to tell her all the time I find her beautiful, that I am attracted to her and make her feel that, but she goes above and BEYOND with her praises of me to the point where it often feels strange.
5. Looked through my phone and computer, found my porn collection etc.
6. She has watched me sleep. Several times. Also likes taking pictures of me and recording me.
7. She probably would become depressed or something if ever broke up with her (I don't want to don't worry).
Thing is I do really love her and have had the best sex of my life with her by a country mile. But sometimes her emotions do become very intense for me to understand, it's like she is on this rollercoaster and I have no idea what to do besides be chill and non-chalant and try to get her focused and calm. Sometimes her level of love is frightening and intense though, thankfully she never became violent like the movie. But she does become very jealous of my past partners (many, I was young) and any woman who interacts with me. Should I be scared?
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>>34601529
>Should I be scared?
Well, you know her far better than we do. Nothing that you've said here makes it sound like she might be violent; but her mood swings won't go away. You're looking at a lifetime of having to deal with her flying into a rage for almost no reason and taking hours to calm down, or crying for hours and being inconsolable, etc. Only you can decide if the highs are worth the price of the lows. And if you ever do decide to break up, she will be absolutely broken by it, and knowing that will make it very hard for you to square breaking up with your conscience.
One bit of practical advice: get her assessed for ADHD. Lack of emotional regulation is often associated with ADHD, and the medication can help a lot.
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>>34601529
Probably has bpd and or bipolar or ocd. Make sure she sees a good psychologist. Eventually that type of relationship will fizzle put and you'll end up wanting to break up with her, and dont say you wont because you will inevitably want to break up with her. Don't end up on the news anon be extremely cautious
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>>34601529
I think it looks fine anon. Women will always create some drama, get jealous etc. These are small voltage jitters in your current to check the pulse of the relationship. You being nonchalant is an anchor to her tsunami. If you want, you can both explore the topics in Seduction by Robert Greene which talks about main points like how you should maintain a push-pull balance together to create sexual tension. She should leave you alone regularly and not bother you physically or in messages etc. Since she is obsessed with you and into you a lot, she won't do anything bad in this time but she might feel uneasy so you need to teach her to do this regularly for desire.