I’ve been a cuck for 8+y in a regular basis with lot of 3some 4some and 2some without me present and that wasnt the reason that the relationship ended. It was actually that bring us close at that time.

We've been together 27 years. When we were younger we'd have threesomea with women, date women as a couple, etc. my wife loves licking pussy while getting fucked. We haven't done it in years though - we're old now and just not into sex as much. We do have a female friend that we want the three of us to live together but that's not about sex.

So no. We're a team and always will be. You just have to make the commitment and have the mentality that you will always be together no matter what.

>>948382526
Married with kids, been together for 18 years. I'll stay with her forever. We had foursomes and threesomes 10 years ago, and remember them fondly (the other couple broke up and we never developed the same kind of trust with any others).

>>948383521
> foursomes and threesomes
Greentext one of the lesbian anal experiences you saw your wife have

I took my wife's virginity freshman year of college. She swore she was a lesbian before me. Now she's addicted to finding me women to fuck while she watches and sucks on my balls. Loves cleaning my cum out of their pussies and spitting it in their mouth.

>>948383521
sure dude, lemme guess, she fucked a dude while you 'totally joined in' prolly even held a foot up for a while

>>948382526
Nobody on /b/ has a sex life that interesting and anyone saying otherwise is full of shit.

>>948382526
Only if either or both are insecure and cry about stuff after, if not no problem to add a third and have some fun sometimes and then get back to every day life after

>>948385268
I wish this was true

>>948385294
This is the truth

>>948385658
The few women who show up here have a more interesting sex life than us, and they're losers too

>>948385913
Probably true. Like I have a gf, been together a long ass time but I’d never write about our sex life because honestly it’s boring and vanilla as fuck. And I think that’s pretty common

>>948382526
I remember the search here for the video of this photo set that didn't exist

>>948382526
>Is it true most couples who so much as have one threesome or foursome (any combo or orientation) are speedrunning to a breakup, no matter how much they enjoyed it?
No. I shared my wife ages ago and we're still happily married.
Much depends on the reasons and the relationship

>>948382526
Started swinging 17 years ago. Still happily married.

>>948382526
Yes it's true. Used to be into kink communities like FetLife and went to a few munches. 90% of people iinto open relationships were into the idea because you could clearly tell they were trying to avoid the legal shitshow of divorce. At best, they'd be in the community for 5 years and magically disappear. Usually stuff was uploaded to the woman's account and the man's was just thete. Also, whether they split or not, ALL polygamous people are the FUGLIEST fuckers you have ever seen.

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>>948383038
>>948383521

Interesting, did you guys have to deal with any hidden jealousy from your spouse or yourself at the beginning?

>>948382526
i assume you've not been in the scene, the "lifestyle". Yes that's a thing. In my data point of my own experience, no. Most couples arent like that. I know one marriage that divorced. I know another 5-8 long term and married couple still together so, that's one observation that's biased in who i (we) meet with

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it's crazy, my go to fantasy is thinking about sharing my gf in a threesome or how she fucked other guys before me
i'd never do it irl as it would probably fuck our relationship

When proposing this to your wife how did you guys settle the FFM vs MMF debate?

is that mila foxyville?

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>>948392833

Yup

Here's the hard truth.

Everyone into this is ugly. Sometimes my wife and I have threesomes, but it is always initiated by my wife, based on social chemistry and it happens naturally.

My point is, my life is great, but also, everyone into this in some fetishy way is always ugly.

So, yeah, yuck.

>>948393028
haven't seen her in nearly 20 years and damn

Ive had 2 and it fucked it up for me both times so id say yeah

>>948382526
https://photoleakguard.com/

>>948382692
A romantic relationship is based on the fundamental concept of need, meaning that one person constantly needs the other and that they complement each other. That's why it's more than just friendship. If you felt your relationship improved during that period, it's because you started acting like friends and partners again, exploring new situations. But if your partner stops needing you because they see you as interchangeable, that's when the relationship breaks down.

I think it's fine for everyone to live their life as they see fit, but being a cuckold definitely means putting yourself emotionally under someone else's control, even if you think you're the one in control.

>>948382526
Now you know you won't get a straight answer on /b/. The place is full of cucks.

>>948396182
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>A romantic relationship is based on the fundamental concept of need, meaning that one person constantly needs the other and that they complement each other.
This is not the definition of a romantic relationship. It is the definition of a codependent relationship.

>>948382526
For the vast majority of them, yes, it will destroy their relationship/degrade it. However, there are plenty of people that stay in shitty relationships for life. It isn't hard to find old women that stayed with some dude that cheated on them or basically abused them for 50 years, or guys that are pathetic cucks that let their wife walk all over them their entire life.

Plenty of unhealthy relationships keep going, and the less desirable the people are, the less likely they are to leave one because they are scared they won't find another. People can stay in loveless marriages and with people they even hate just because of the stability.

On top of it all, you will find people that have managed to keep bizarre and generally contrary normal human relationships going simply because there are tons of people, and some have different brain wiring, doesn't mean a particular thing doesn't fail for 99% of people, but you will always find some.