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Is it really so gross for a man dating trans woman to be hesitant about her getting bottom surgery? Don't get me wrong, if I could snap my fingers and have my gf get the body of her dreams so she can look and feel exactly the way that makes her comfortable I'd do it in a hearbeat, It's not like I date her cause she got a penis, I like pussies too, but I don't trust artificial pussies created by turning a dick inside out yet, it just creates a reaction of disgust in me even if I wish it didn't.
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>>43274204
proof cissies are unfortunately undateable
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>>43274176
Dating pool for trans people is already super limited to bisexuals and some gays. SRS tends to filter out even more. Personally, idc what people do to their body. It's just obviously going to make things harder. A lot of this board seems to be like a few SRS havers regretting their decision and attempting to drag others down like crabs in a bucket.
The few guys I've ever met who'd date a tranny said pretty explicitly that SRS is just a really gross, imperfect surgery. I've even seen a lot of trannies who don't want a dick yet would never get SRS. The science isn't there yet.
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>>43276108
i love how shit like this comes from people who don't have neovaginas and have never interacted with one yet are for some reason taken as more authoritative than what those of us who have one have to say about it
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>>43276017
I like doing two things.
I go in grindr, i chat to moids. I say, "are you ok with dick?" They say ofcourse. I reply, sorry i have a vagina, i dont sleep with faggots
Secondly i like hooking up with hot men, and not telling them I've had srs, but that i am trans. They utter shock when they see a vagina is hilarious. A lot actually think i was lying to test then, and that im cis gender.
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>>43276108
>94% of moids are straight
>get vagina
>"uhhhhu actually you're shrinking your dating pool not making it larger"
Based on what? Because i have a neo pussy and the amount of men interested is higher than ever. So whats your statement based on? Mumsnet?
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I have similar worries and my answer is to only date trans women who are totally fine keeping the dick or ones who have already had SRS for awhile. If it's fully healed and they aren't having problems I don't think it would bother me at all. I just don't really like the idea of suck a drastic physical change to the person I'm dating that has such a high impact on how we have sex, especially one that can result in them getting fucked over if things go really bad. Maybe it's just some of the horror stories that might not even be real getting to me, but I also haven't eaten a banana since I saw a video of a spider breaking out of the skin, so I'm probably just overly susceptible that kinda thing in general.
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>>43276520
how does that make any sense given that women live longer
>>43276637
hilarious
i also like turning "transbians" into a boyfriend
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yeah once it's been done for a while there's really nothing to it..we just have a pussy like every other girl
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>>43276905
>yeah once it's been done for a while there's really nothing to it..we just have a pussy like every other girl
I love how the brain adapts and is like "yep, thats real right" feels right to have a vagina.
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>>43276520
your brain operates differently if you don't have that physical part of you it doesn't go, this is women it's more like this is neutered. It's Import that one go through lifes developmental stages. I think it makes sense to get neutered at some point in a transition but it really does take years to get to that point and there's no good reason to stress about it.
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>>43276108
100% true. I had to break things off more than once because of the state of what they had going on and the smell. Apparently not an uncommon experience. You might be right about the bucket thing, people make SRS propaganda every day and shit on MTFs with no interest in it. Buyer's remorse lol
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have you ever seen a srsussy irl
i ask because the internet is full of horror stories that are mostly a psyop to instil the exact sense of disgust that you feel
theres also a preconceived bias a lot of cis people have to such surgery, based on projecting their own ideas of bodily sanctity and pureness on to trans people. eg: 'i think surgery is unnatural and therefore bad because i like my own body as it is'
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>>43279494
I haven't, no, what are they like exactly? I assume they don't have clits, and I have no idea how it'd compare to a cis one, is it possible to get sexual pleasure from them? Might be a dumb question but idk, it seems like that surgery would do a number on the nerve endings down there.
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>>43276108
Bisexuals and some gays? This shit is killing me man, what's been happening lately? Men who don't mind that trans girls have a dick are gay now? Also>>43276637 trans girls who get the ick and find it pathetic if a guy doesn't inmediately get grossed out at the idea of a girl with a dick. Have chasers poisoned the well so much now that any man who isn't disgusted by the idea of dating a trans girl is creepy and gross? Does chaser just mean "man who doesn't mind the dick" now?
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>>43279763
Can't believe we're entering the age of lgbt discourse where trans girls now only wanna date super straight men. No I don't wanna suck on the dick, no, my attraction is not exclusively fixated on the dick, yes if my partner just so happens to have a dick I will not be grossed out by it, and yes I may even get some sexual pleasure from seeing it flop around uselessly while we fuck or poke fun of how much smaller it is to mine
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>>43277561
sample size pls
>>43277615
Actually say something with more substance please.
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>>43279797
Even if a guy wants to suck on the dick or is attracted to it there's literally no reason why that's bad, there's no real argument, it's just a matter of sexual incompatibility if you ask me, idk why trannies try to moralize it by saying "oh they are pathetic and trying to fetishize me", you can just say that it gives you the ick that a guy would want to suck a penis because it breaks the image of masculinity, or say that it makes you feel sad because you hate your own penis and someone else liking it meshes wrong in your brain, it's ok to have these feelings, don't make it about the dude being evil somehow.
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Its normal form women to find homosexual partners not ideal. Why are you dating a woman if you like male parts so much? Pretty weird. Thank god for srs