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I'm cisfemale and my ideal partner would be a "perfect" man (akin to what you see in video games or books, where they are male but beautiful with feminine-androgynous traits) that doesn't really exist IRL like that. That type of beauty and personalities. But if the man isn't that, then I am not attracted to men. So basically 99,9% of men.
But I do find a lot of women attractive and women don't give me the ick like men do.
Now obviously I guess it's just bisexuality but I want to know if anyone can relate?
Basically, if my partner can't be the "perfect man" then I'm only into women.
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>>43845119
I think this is quite common, especially in cultures like China and Japan where they have different male beauty standards. Gackt, Kamijo, Atsushi Sakurai, etc. Guys like that are attractive visually, and more typical masculine men are attractive for their energy and personality (like what they will do for you in a relationship).
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umm, those type of males exist irl, i think i'm one of them, except i'm not straight anymore and am generally saving myself for a gay boyfriend.
actually i have similar tastes, i'm totally uninterested in masc men, which is ironic, given my sexual behavior. i'm only into androgynous dudes, probably because they're -as you've ascertained- the ideal mate. i honestly can't imagine what it's like to be attracted to a masc male, they truly gross me out lol
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>>43845934
Bro, you have just proven that men like this don't exist by saying you're gay. These fictional men generally (with some exceptions) are straight, have no desires to suck or fuck dick or troon out. They are completely straight women-only men who also happen to have beautiful, feminine faces like no normal adult cisman has past the age of 18.
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>>43846015
Well in the sense that it's a man but he is as beautiful as a woman in the face to a degree that adult men can't really maintain hence why most cosplayers of anime/fictional/video game characters that are "pretty" tend to be women or FTM or photoshopped.
And then obviously added traits that normal people don't really have like that being very charismatic, powerful, loyal to death.
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>>43846063
You just know this woman is chopped as fuck
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>>43846076
I'm not attracted to the normie definition of Chad.
>>43846090
Possibly.
>>43846025
I'm not opposed but I never had sex, no idea.
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>>43845119
I would be interested in what you would want your role and your ideal partners would be in that relationship. As a Trans women I'm not really attracted to anyone and find more meaning in deep friendships.
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>>43846125
Honestly with my "ideal" man (which doesn't really exist and when I found a man beautiful I'd often learn they are a woman in cosplay pretending to be a man) I would like him to pamper me and treat me like a sacred child. But with women generally I do not feel that way, I want to spoil and protect them, I hold their doors open, I want them to be precious and taken care of by me. I'm also tall so that always played into me I guess feeling protective of women and stepping into that position.
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>>43846121
She admits she ugly as hell. Cis woman are insane and have stupidity unrealistic standards this is why pathetic trans girls built like lolis are better
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>>43846150
hmm, this idea of a ideal partner sounds like something I experienced when I was a repper. Men like that don't really exist and the ones that do are bpd demons. You should get some more life experience and leave the fantasies in a book where they belong.
I think the best way you could have this kind of relationship would be manifesting this idea as tulpa in your head that you can interact with.
good luck sweetheart
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>>43846063
>I am exclusively attracted to tall top 5% attractiveness androgynous dark triad men
surely you are also top 5% attractiveness for your own gender and are seeking your looksmatch and dont have ridiculously unrealistic expectations for a partner right nona? gooning to fantasy men is one thing but expecting that irl is setting yourself up for disappointment
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>>43845119
You are femcelsexual.
Preventing incels from getting pussy with your unrealistic standards.
Opinion on "Cry, Or Better Yet, Beg"?
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>>43845119
I'm like that but the opposite, I'm a moid, I'm attracted to like 0.1% of women, but normally to other men (also not that many of them, but more than women).
Though my ideal partner would still be a man (or probably rather a theymab or something).
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>>43846325
There are no men like that IRL. So now I am not attracted to the top 5% men, because fictional men like that do not EXIST. They often have faces of literal women.
>>43846245
Thank you. Something to think about.
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>>43845119
I'm a repping freak and I can't cope with this either. I like masculine men too, I am attracted to real men, but I love feminine and androgynous that it fucks me up. Discourse among other men is always about sissification and fucking them in the ass "straight" dominance but that couldn't be further from the way I feel about it.
I know it's mostly fictional but even then it fucks me up knowing that there's such a massive disconnect between me and 90% of other men, and I feel isolated in this sense. MTFs don't even feel this way, and I'm not going to pretend I'm female brained at all either.
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>>43845119
Similar to you, I'm bi cis f, but my preferred type of man is definitely twinky/femboy. I also like masculine men, but my preference is definitely on the fem side.
For me, I think the attraction is partly due to my preference for queer partners. I hate dating straight guys. I hate being expected to adopt a "straight girl" role in a relationship even when the relationship is technically heterosexual. When I date queer guys this is rarely a problem.
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