>>84360856
Dating is annoying, consumes endless resources and has uncertain returns. Same reason I don't gamble.

Small thinger. She always wants to make me the gf.

>>84360856
god damn i need a white gf so bad!

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>>84360856
>What actual reason do you have for not being able to get a girlfriend?
I don't have a social circle and am too ugly for online dating.

Women are ontologically evil and will suck the life out of you whether it's a BPDemon or a perfect wife fembot. Can't have shit after they're done with you.

>>84360865
>>84360885
And is your masturbation hand going to cook for you and have your children?

>>84360886
1. Yes, I do use my hands to cook.
2. Children are the worst thing that exists.

>>84360856
Boils down to fear of rejection/embarrassment and lacking the discipline to turn my life around

In order to get a gf I would need to get full-time work (probably requiring a third run through college), move to a city hours away from my bumfuck hometown, overcome my anxieties about driving, lose nearly 100 pounds, fix my raped hairline, defeat my autism to acquire social skills, revamp my entire wardrobe, pick up a bunch of hobbies I have no genuine interest in to get a social circle, and probably do several other things I'm forgetting

>>84360886
Women can't do this shit any better desu

>>84360856
Same reason most anons on 4chan don't. Women want chad and not a sub 5 guy

>>84360856
It's too late. I missed out on all the good picks and now only the rotting fruit is left.
>Ummm ackshually your value as a man doesn't peak until 35! That's when you start getting prime pussy!
Lol

>>84360856
I hate pretty women so much. Just imagine splashing one in the face with acid and ruining her life. That's what you get for fucking abusechads and then living in a mansion of betabuxx while cheating on your providing, caring hubby!

because im a white christian virgin and wouldnt settle for a girl who isnt those three things too
but im also autistic so none of them would like me
and i also dont like most people's personalities so i would not like them either

>>84360886
>And is your masturbation hand going to cook for you and have your children?
die for israel goy

>>84360928
>white christian
>wouldnt settle for a girl who isnt those three things too
Do you actually not see a contradiction here?

>>84360931
please explain, wise one

>>84360934
Christianity doesn't like racism

>>84360939
its racist to not marry a brown person? is it "ableist" to not marry a retard then? is it kidphobic or whatever the fuck to not marry a child as well? i guess you'd also be breaking the 5th commandment by not banging your mom and dad

>>84360856
A certain paraphilia that precludes bring tolerated by women
>>84360948
Respecting ones parents is the fourth commandment. Protestants have them numbered wrong

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>>84360856
>Don't you get anxious you aren't trying hard enough?
no point in being anxious about shit we cannot control.
a few mm of bone here, some autism there, some bullying and trauma, and it's how you end up at the bottom of society.

>>84360886
>cook for you and have your children?
women won't do that either so why go through all the suffering?

>>84360948
>the atheist faggot pretending to care about christianity in an attempt to make me eat my words so he could screenshot it and send it to reddit for upvotes ended up not responding
ABSOLUTELY RAPED

>>84360856
I could but it would be a lot of work and not worth it.
If I had a gf 20+ years ago and she wasn't a slut maybe I'd be a more productive person.

>>84360856
Looks
Chad never has to try, he can simply stand mute in a corner and women come up to him, no effort needed

im too cool and awesome to give another human exclusive access to soul

>>84360856
I have low sexual market value and because of that women don't want me as a sexual partner.

>>84360856
I have no confidence because no bitches
I have no bitches because no confidence
Also chopped+short+don't drive
>Don't you get anxious you aren't trying hard enough?
I tried hard enough a few times and it never goes anywhere, I have given up years ago

>>84360856
I never really tried, the internet being a source of constant distraction meant I never felt force to forge deeper interpersonal relation.

She dumped me.
Now all I do is rot.

>>84360856
I'm ugly, don't want an obese gf and I don't have enough money to compensate.

>>84360886
>implying I would ever want some little shit wallet leech

>>84360856
ive had gfs, all BPDemons, or at least so fucking crazy they act like it.
im getting older though, I dont want to marry a whore, I want kids, I want to provide, etc. it's getting to a point where I settle with what I hate or keep chasing, yk?
but also, for like 2 years, I let myself go so I have spent some time to get back where I wad physically and shit and didn't wanna talk to anyone in general during my lowest point kek

>>84360856
I don't meet women and don't put any effort into doing so. On top of that I am afraid of the relationship failing and I don't want to go through a dozen heartbreaks to maybe get a chance at finding the right one.
Complaining about being single is much easier to do.

>>84360886
NTA but I haven't been with a woman who could cook or who wanted to ever have kids in almost a year

>>84360856
I just dont socialize at all or try to get one, unless im drunk. Which is weird because I really want one but I never do anything to try and get one

>>84361042
>he can simply stand mute in a corner and women come up to him
Do you actually want that? Do you know how it is living with that? Do you think your life would be good if it ever happened to you?

>>84361261
>Do you actually want that? Do you know how it is living with that? Do you think your life would be good if it ever happened to you?
most helpful head-shrinker

Is this a tiktok of a tiktok?

>>84361288
You don't know shit, anon. Ugly short men with small dicks have it the best.

>>84360886
Wait... which body part do YOU use to cook?

>>84360856
>What actual reason do you have for not being able to get a girlfriend?
I don't want to. It's not like I actively sit and don't want. I know I don't, because this is not a priority for me. I focus on other things first and girls second. I choose to do something else every second of every day. It's my responsibility, I get that, the world is not at fault. But first things first.
>Don't you get anxious you aren't trying hard enough?
No, I have other things in life to be anxious about and I focus on fixing them. Not aiming to be perfect, but getting back in shape and stuff is a must for me. For myself. If I don't see myself as being desired by half of the women in the world, then I should fix the shit I'm in full control of. Such as the body/weight. Plus losing weight will make my dick bigger. It's ego. Some autosexuality even, if you want to spin it this way.

TL;DR: I don't want to at this moment. There are other things to be done first.

>>84360856
I am:
>Ugly
>Too old to be inexperience
>Socially awkward because of shitty parenting I never grew out of
>Not naturally talented at something that could offset the other bad things

>>84360886
I'm a wizard. My masturbation hand can perform the somatic components tk cast unseen force and cook for me.

I'm 5'3 and have extreme social anxiety (two giga-icks for women).
I don't think I've ever had an interaction with a woman that could even be misinterpreted as them having romantic or sexual interest in me.

>>84360856
I am autistic, too sensitive, neet and lives with parents

>>84360856
>Don't you get anxious you aren't trying hard enough?
Imagine allowing yourself to be emotionally blackmailed by society lmao what a weak ass bitch.

>>84360856
Never tested my testosterone but I'd imagine it's always been pretty low. I'm also short enough for low test to be a death sentence. My cousin is shorter than me, but he pulls, because he has high test and social intelligence. He says arrogant shit to women and they respond. He would also fight a dude with no hesitation.

I was raised by a single mother who thought being an absolute pussy was cute and not a problem, in a middle class environment where I didn't have to fight a lot. I never had the instinct to fight. My first and last fight was in middle school, with this black kid half my size, and I couldn't throw a punch. I just froze, he hit me once, and I called it off. When I was a teenager we moved to a place that was entirely different; crackheads everywhere, stabbings in school, fighting was a regular thing for people. Shit broke me, I got beat up a lot.

Flirting too, I just lack the instinct.
Women seem to think that flirting is staring at you and smiling/waving or talking about you and giggling with their friends. I don't know what to do with that. I have a few women interested in me every now and then, but as soon as they realize what I'm like, they lose interest. I've taken autism tests, I don't have autism; I'm just weird dude. The things people take for granted like having the ability to assert themselves in any small way are beyond me, like a superpower. Every day I disappoint myself.

>>84360856
No girl has ever shown any interest in me. I'm too ugly.

>>84360856
Im 40 years old and I just never understood how to have a casual conversation with women. Either they were just too boring or uninterested in me.

Because I'm naturally a loser and there's nothing to do about it. I really wish being normal, ie saying the right things and having the right body language, came to me naturally. I became a loser in my childhood and if it wasn't in my nature from the start it is now. No woman will ever love me for me, because I am a loser and no one loves a loser.

>>84360886
You realize that women today dont know how to cook or want to have kids?

>>84360856
I lost the will to try at anything in life + I'm awkward. Can't really talk when all NPCs like the same things I don't and I can't force myself to like them.

>>84360856
I'm not trying at all. I'm lazy, uninteresting, boring, have nothing going for me or anything to offer women, and addicted to solitude

>>84360856
Mostly because I'm broke.

>>84360856
I no longer care, women haven't shown any interest in my for my entire life because I'm quiet and shy instead of outgoing and confident, which is how I've always been and I have no interest in developing a fake clown persona to try to entertain a woman enough to trick her into going on a date with me. Meanwhile, I've seen women fall over themselves to make themselves available to guys they find attractive or outgoing enough, regardless of any of their other traits. Seeing as I'm now 28 years old I have to conclude that any woman that would show interest in me at this point doesn't actually like me and is simply desperate for a partner that's financially stable and average-looking because they never got to lock down someone they actually wanted.

being autistic Ive struggled talking to women all my life. dont know how to talk about interests or anything that would make women like me and I dont really care to learn at 35. plus im a fat fuck and most women dont want to date an obese man

>>84360856
Even if that girl was madly in love with me I would push her away. She's too attractive and would look out of place with me

>>84360924
yea they should give nice guys like you a chance

>>84363339
>falling for the acidchad
Typical w*man, bet you'd never go out with me, I only use bases to melt women's faces. Let me guess, high pH gives you the "ick", right foid?

>>84363339
Yes they literally should I am a nice guy except they hate me for it so I hate them. If a woman were to be kind and loving towards me I wouldn't want to throw acid in her face, but that's extraordinarily unlikely.

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>>84360856
Women are the issue here, not men.
Ask women why they aren't dating....

Lmao look at all these losers

>>84360856
I'm really socially retarded.

>>84360886
Well kind of. You work with your hands, and with the work you do with said hands you can buy an egg to fertilize with your own sperm. Same for cooking. You use your hands to cook. So yes. My hands can give me children and cook for me

this weekend i flurted with a girl on the subway in a wheelchair but she ghosted me.

>>84360856
A girlfriend wouldn't fix me and I have enough already with myself

>>84362511
I don't understand this arrogance stuff, if someone talks to me like he is hot shit, I usually just leave and don't bother interacting with this person ever again, but women seem to be attracted towards a behaviour every responsible father would beat the shit out of you for.
For me it seems like that if your parents succeeded into raising you to be a kind and respectful human, they pretty much doomed you into a life of loneliness despite their best intentions.

>>84364170
I'm somehow about as socially retarded here as I am irl so it blows everywhere.

I'm fat and schizophrenic.
My SMV is in the negatives.

>>84364988
Most fat schizos have gf though

My life follows this routine:

1. Get up early
2. Go to work
3. Return home and spend time alone in my room
4. Rinse & repeat

The most I go out is to to a movie alone or to the supermarket. I really don't see how I'm going to meet a girl this way. I think not making a social media in my 20s was a huge mistake, because I'm essentially a ghost at this point.

>>84364131
Reminder that women actually know fuck all about this stuff and would not know IN PERSON who is 5'11, 6'0, 6'1, 6'2, 6'3, 6'4 and 6'5

>>84360856
I don't enjoy nagging and whining. The emotional labour required just isn't worth it. When you get home you want to relax not have to hear for hours about uninteresting work things like Sharon stole her tampon. I'm open for a relationship but a very low percentage of women are actually functioning adults with interesting personalities. They're snatched up early and are out of the market the majority of the time. So they're basically impossible to gf.

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>>84360856
>Don't you get anxious
Anxious, my anxiety doesn't allow me to cold approach women and even if I do I have no idea what I should say to them. I have no friends so I can't use them to find a GF. Dating apps never work, at all actually. I don't think it helps that I am also a black anime nerd, it's probably over.

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Let me see
>37
>wizard
>balding
>not particularly handsome
>probably won't listen to a thing you say
>schizoid and avoidant personality
>no real interests besides literature and fishing
>no goals or ambitions
>codemonkey job where I mostly slack off all day
>hate myself while also think I'm better than everybody

>>84360856
I haven't talked to a woman in over ten years

>>84360856
One has to wonder, how tf does literally anyone ever convince anyone to have sex with them without just being born so good looking people just throw themselves at you. Is sex supposed to be hard or easy to obtain? I'm not talking relationships. I'm talking just sex. Is it supposed to be hard? How is literally everyone able to do this except me?

>>84360886
Funny how women are strong independent fishes who don't need no bicycle, but the second you ask why anyone would enter a relationship with one then it's
>cooking
>cleaning
>sex
Women know what men want. They aren't giving to us eithe out or spite and/or feminist brainwashing, and I don't know which is worse

>>84361261
>Do you actually want that?
NTA but yes, I would like it for women to show me sexual interest with minimal effort
>Do you know how it is living with that?
No but considering Chad is not suicidally lonely, I doubt it's worse than what my current situation is
>Do you think your life would be good if it ever happened to you?
refer to previous point

>>84361261
Yes, no, yes. I fumbled with women entirely due to not being Chad.

ah walk a lonely road
it's kind of new to me- which is what i would say if i haven't been stagnant for 15 years

>>84360856
What actual reason do you have for not being able to get a BOYfriend?
Uhhh , reTArdEd.

>>84360856
I'm too old to get away with being a broke loser now.
t. retired normie

>>84360886
I like cooking and am better at it than them anyway. The lack of children part is a serious drag though.

>>84360856
I have high standards because I actually have self-esteem, self-respect and self-love. Now I'm too old for dating really plus I'm relatively poor which adds to the difficulty of finding compatibility and meeting young women. A some point you have to accept when you're not going to be getting what you want. Modern generations are crazy delusional because media has convinced people "it's never too late" for anything when that's not at all how life works. Eventually you do in fact run out of possibilities and opportunities that's just the way it goes life isn't infinite. It just sucks for us men having a built-in never ending libido and sex drive for life most of us wish we could just stop wanting women all together at some point.

>>84360856
im too mentally ill to connect with people in general
>t. finally left my comfort zone and left home and got a job, and i still have never had any small talk with any of my coworkers in the past 5 months
it feels hopeless at this point

>>84360856
Im ethnic and poor

>>84360856
Why have a woman when you can have money?
If you say money won't buy happiness, I have two answers:
a) neither can women,
b) if money isn't maling you happy, then clearly you don't have enough.

>>84360856
Women are free to spend their time in my company if they like. I'm not going to push myself on them, or strive to "win" their fickle affections that will abruptly vanish one day without warning, because she woke up wishing she had somebody different in her life.

>>84368050
Specifically, money can buy the solution to 99.99% of sources of suffering which is the foundation of happiness.

>>84360856
>overbearing parents smothered my youth
>arrogantly didn't make the most of my freedom when I did have it
>eschewed social media in my teens and 20s
>broke, unemployed, unemployable
>isolated myself so much I've devolved into the very thing I ridiculed, lost all passion and enjoyment
I'm not stupid, I have nothing to offer a "normal" woman.
And girlfailures don't want someone to struggle and work together to raise themselves out. They want someone to rescue them, like a lot of people here

>short
>ugly
>ethnic
>poor

God just likes some people more than others

>>84368608
None of those are a reason at all you'd not have a girlfriend, though.

>>84368801
Are you retarded?

Those are the least desirable male attributes. Hundreds of studies proving so and Im not talking out my ass I can reference them

Short - Bumble 2018 study on height filters on dating apps

Ugly - Tinder insights on % of men women swipe on

Ethnic - Okcupid and the League dating app race reply percentage.

Poor - #1 reason for divorce. Average Income of single men vs men with gf/wives

>>84368946
None of them in themselves preclude you from having a female partner. Please do try to compose yourself and avoid your impulse towards inflammatory outbursts as you respond to my highly rational observations, as well.

>>84369083
youre fucking stupid. holy fuck. kys.

>>84369120
That is not a logical argument that would have refuted my statement.

>>84369544
nta but i'm the polar opposite of him and i've never had a girlfriend either. I'm 31.