that sounds like work mate

>>84366158
Life or what?

>>84366139
in my experience, no. my life got fucked up during school and i never achieved anything or found happiness since. if my hs crush decided to date me instead of tall chad everything would be different, id have a nice job, family and a life

>>84366139
This is the crux of my problem and I'm considering roping because of it. I'll try therapy first though, but I have a feeling they're not going to understand

>>84367016
therapy won't work. They'll never understand and never shall.

>>84366139
I didn't really miss out on them. I made choices to be an asshole, to not talk to women, to fail all my classes and spend all of my free time either commiting crime or trying to get a freelance job.

>>84367027
I just want somewhere to whine and let it all out. But I'm scared they're gonna call me an incel and put me on a list.

I never understood how everyone I know has been to therapy, this shit is genuinely hard to get. Been on a waiting list for a whole ass year.

>>84366139
You didn't miss out on anything because there was no alternative to begin with.
>is life worth living because I didn't get le 1980s Jewish coming of age movie experience
yes, nigger

>>84367125
I can literally go outside and see people living the life I wish I had. I'm not asking for a millionaire chad life, just a non-incel one.

>>84367125
>>is life worth living because I didn't get le 1980s Jewish coming of age movie experience
What the fuck are you talking about? I'm talking about actually having done something in your teen years other than rotting.

>>84367151
What's wrong with being a stone cold incel? You get a lot more time to spend on your hobbies.
>>84367176
most people throughout history didn't do shit through their teen years. It really isn't that important. Rotting is actually pretty nice compared to working in a factory or a coal mine.

>>84367196
>Rotting is actually pretty nice compared to working in a factory or a coal mine
Sure but we haven't been doing that in over 100 years here. I had the opportunity to go to a good school, be healthy, utilize growth paterns and maybe get a gf. But I wasted and missed out on it all.

>>84366139
Op how old are you? Unless you're like 60 years old you haven't missed shit and are just wasting time by complaining instead of doing.

>>84367196
>You get a lot more time to spend on your hobbies.
I also wasted those years not doing any of that. I didn't play video games throughout many years of my life even when I wanted to. If I went to jail ages 16-19 it would have been as productive as what happened.

>>84366817
waylining. it's this new thing everyone wants to try. politicians hate it though.

>>84367211
23. Ages 16-19 I did not do anything at all other than basically watch random youtube videos. I did not work out or eat healthy which messed my growth paterns and body up. I didn't learn anything, I didn't meet anyone, I didn't do anything fun like play vidya so I wasted it all on nothing. Those are important years where you mold yourself. I was so mentally ill I did not allow myself to do anything.

>>84367196
>What's wrong with being a stone cold incel? You get a lot more time to spend on your hobbies.
Problem is that I'm too depressed to do anything. I literally rot in my bed all day, even when I'm supposed to be "working" from home. I'm so miserable and I have no idea how to fix it.

>>84367226
23 is nothing. That's young as fuck. Leave this place and get out there man. If you have trouble socializing just practice via exposure, easiest ways are family school and work.

>>84366139
>Make a post with image
>"You gotta wait 300 seconds or give us your data"
>"You have to do this boring ass captcha or give us your data"
>"You can't post an image because uhhh your area has been banned for no reason even though you haven't used 4chan in weeks, give us your data to fix it"
The FBI should've shut this shit down years ago.

>>84367251
23 is unc age for zoomers.

>>84367251
Also at that point you lost most of your brain plasticity and your growth plates are either fused or close to.
Most people this age are already well established in life. So good luck meeting someone that hasn't been through it all.

>>84367251
Bro I don't even have an education beyond primary school. That is extremely rare and basically handicapped level. Even literal retards are more well achieved in life than me

>>84367251
23 is still young, but that's when the regrets started for me. I'm 29 now and it's just been a downwards spiral since.
The one major advantage is that 23 is still socially acceptable to meet up with other people. When you're 30, you start looking like a creepy unc