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Why does cold approaching girls feels so unnatural and fake? I can easily talk to the prettiest girls with no anxiety if the interaction came about naturally, but I literally cannot think of what I would say during a cold approach that doesn't feel like I'm forcing it.
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>>84368356
you're autistic but you overcame the social aspect of it where you're able to read the room, but now you're stuck because you're horny when you're in the horny room but cold approaching only works in non-horny rooms
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>>84368356
Retard built no rapport and just rapid fired questions jfl. Unless he's Chad, which we know he's not considering how she reacted to him, he's not getting a text back. Sucks to succ
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>>84368356
Cold approaching random strangers is unnatural. Look at the ethnicity of every guy into pua shit.
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because this is not how humans made friendships or relationships, ever. just think about how fucking weird it is to randomly walk up to some guy you saw on the street and trying to talk your way into being his friend and to get his number. its really fucking weird, and doing the same thing to women but trying to get a relationship out of it makes it even weirder
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>>84368356
Because it is unnatural. It's an extremely modern phenomenon caused by the destruction of our regular social structures. Throughout most of human history you'd meet a girl through social connections.
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>>84368356
>two phones
yeah this is totally not staged
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>>84368551
most cold approach crap on the internet is staged because theyre all scammers trying to sell you tactical soap and pua courses
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>>84368356
Cold approaching us the weirdest shit ever and I don't think we are built for it but what do I know.
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I can't watch these they're so cringe
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>>84368390
P u a bullshit peaked around 2014.
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>faggots itt seething about cold approached
>I fucked a girl in a motel she paid for by cold approaching her
>Feelsgoodman
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One time when I was in college my roommate and I were sitting in the grass petting the neighbors cat. Two girls walked by. I waived at them and said hello. They came over and talked. My roommate and I both got a girl's number, it was surreal.
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You hide your revelations in the silliest shit you know that right

You know I love you
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>>84368610
congrats you put your penis inside a retarded moron who fell for your make believe act and you couldnt keep her around once she realized youre a fake
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>>84368356
Yeah I'm sure shoving a camera in a girl's face and blasting her with tons of completely retarded, uninteresting, boilerplate checklist questions is going to win her over. If you believe this shit kys.
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"i can see you're fit" when she's a fucking whale
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>>84368662
in pua retardation thats called negging, its a back handed compliment thats supposed to manipulate her into feeling insecure. thats how weird the pua people are
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>>84368648
>Coping

I was walking through the city and she approached me a bit later

Hahahaah u mad
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>>84368672
Yeah I don't think that's what was happening there buddy
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>>84368676
terrible english, changing his story. good morning
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>>84368691
Lmfao copecel go find a bridge
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>>84368588
Same. I need to build my cringe resistance through vigorous cringe compilation training.
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because it is. try not to be a candy ass nigga challenge: mission impossible 2 opening no religion
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>>84368682
anon that is pua 101 they do stuff like that all the time
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>>84368356
this is the ideal female form fuuuuu muh dick
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>>84368356
you just need to have something she wants. girls strike up conversations with me a lot just because my car looks nice. but they don't want me they just on some level want that car and whatever it represents about the way the world works. but this applies to everything. somewhere inside her there is something missing that she needs to have. and if you have that inside you, you become the mystery about herself that she now needs to explain to make the world work how she wants it to. she has to know what you are to confront that mystery. thats what makes you interesting.
but on your end? all you're trying to do is make her as jealous as humanly possible lol
how delicious is the scent of shame lol
oh did you want this?
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>>84368672
>negging
Some girl said I was negging her once. I had no idea what the fuck she was talking about since I know nothing about PUA stuff. I guess some women assume all men are on some manipulation shit. I even combed through our messages looking for what she might have been talking about and couldn't find it. I was 100% genuine with her the entire time and any "insults" I said was just friendly bants that I'd do with men as well. Really sucks to be accused of something you don't know exists. Unless I'm just a lil negger from birth. Biological negger. Glow in the dark CIA negger.
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You really are suppose to just have a social circle with girls in it. Cold approach is for guys who have a weak social circle.
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>>84368538
>Throughout most of human history you'd meet a girl through social connections.
Not exactly cold bar approach was a big things 50 years ago.
Internet and social media in particular ended it.
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>>84368390
>>84368538
This. Women themselves will tell you not to cold approach because it's awkward and makes her uncomfortable being put on the spot even if you're good looking. Normalfags never actually meet and form relationships that way they do it through mutual social settings where you can make small talk and see each other repeatedly like school, work or bbqs etc. Ask any real couple how they met and it's never going to be pua artist bullshit. I even tried myself a few times in my 20s just to see and every girl was polite but just said she had a boyfriend or gave a fake phone number which is probably what this girl in the video did.
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>>84368790
well whatever you said she took it as a back handed compliment. a lot of women know about this stuff now and thats why it doesnt work anymore. a lot of pua was about negging because its supposed to make women desperately seek your approval after making her feel insecure.
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>>84368729
Him calling her fit isn't him negging her dude, you're misreading
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>>84368356
Because you're approaching strangers with an entirely selfish intent. It will never feel genuine.

That's not how people approach you, that's not how you met the people you have met in your life.
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>>84368813
>Ask any real couple how they met and it's never going to be pua artist bullshit.
things is we have crazy fast social changes last decades. 2025-2020-2010-2000-1990 are just different social epochs people cant keep up with changes from their personal environment slumber.
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>>84368824
i think you need to watch some pua vids to understand how these people think and what theyre trying to do. she is obviously flabby and not fit, she knows it too, hes trying to make her feel insecure and seek his approval
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>>84368835
>Because you're approaching strangers with an entirely selfish intent. It will never feel genuine.
oxymoron.
Its year 2026 ffs.approach is selfish. Who are going to trick about this?
Its selfish and another side is estimating what do they get from this themselves.
Who are gonna trick with "le genuine" trick, no really??
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>>84368853
Lmao dude you're legit retarded
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>>84368551
>>two phones
>yeah this is totally not staged
I have my main phone and whore phone.
How is it staged?
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>>84368356
Cold approaching is super awkward, but sometimes I wish it was possible to do it non-awkwardly. If everybody was as autistic as me, I could actually walk up to a woman I find attractive, proposition her, get a clear yes or no and then go on with my life. Why can't everyone have autism?
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>>84368869
im sorry but youre naive and dont really understand these pua guys
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>>84368551
What if he was walking around with a helmet mounted gopro?
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>>84368885
I'm not naive, you're just reading too deep into it. I've been into pua shit since I was a teenager so this kind of thing isn't new to me. You're simply reading too deeply into a throwaway compliment meant to get her to be open to talking to him. I'll say, maybe it was a neg, maybe, but I just don't think so
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>>84368919
i dont know how you can be into pua and not see that as some type of negging insecurity bait, shes clearly flabby dude
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>>84368932
Do you not understand the concept of a compliment that is a lie to make someone feel good about themself? Guys will lie to women all the time to get into their pants, is this new to you? And I'm the naive one?
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>>84368948
>Guys will lie to women all the time to get into their pants, is this new to you? And I'm the naive one?
After PUA who made it standard in liek 2005 you are naive one yes.
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>>84368985
But do you acknowledge that guys will lie to women to get in their pants?
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>>84368356
I fucking hate your thread and I hate reporting it would do nothing, fucking low quality spam
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>>84368356
Its cause you are scared to show you are attracted to a woman. Thats whats unatural

Ugly men only have this fear. When you talk to a girl at a resturant taking your order she knows you arent trying to fuck her.

Its your brain coping with your genes going extinct. Similar to how ugly women become lesbian
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>>84368996
>But do you acknowledge that guys will lie to women to get in their pants?
wHAT QUESTION IS IT? YES.
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>>84369003
>Its your brain coping with your genes going extinct.
I am happy about this. I wish i was never born.
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>>84368356
3rd world indian men whove no self awareness do this kind of shit, its pathetic and weird

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