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Why does cold approaching girls feels so unnatural and fake? I can easily talk to the prettiest girls with no anxiety if the interaction came about naturally, but I literally cannot think of what I would say during a cold approach that doesn't feel like I'm forcing it.
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>>84368356
you're autistic but you overcame the social aspect of it where you're able to read the room, but now you're stuck because you're horny when you're in the horny room but cold approaching only works in non-horny rooms
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because this is not how humans made friendships or relationships, ever. just think about how fucking weird it is to randomly walk up to some guy you saw on the street and trying to talk your way into being his friend and to get his number. its really fucking weird, and doing the same thing to women but trying to get a relationship out of it makes it even weirder
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One time when I was in college my roommate and I were sitting in the grass petting the neighbors cat. Two girls walked by. I waived at them and said hello. They came over and talked. My roommate and I both got a girl's number, it was surreal.
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>>84368356
you just need to have something she wants. girls strike up conversations with me a lot just because my car looks nice. but they don't want me they just on some level want that car and whatever it represents about the way the world works. but this applies to everything. somewhere inside her there is something missing that she needs to have. and if you have that inside you, you become the mystery about herself that she now needs to explain to make the world work how she wants it to. she has to know what you are to confront that mystery. thats what makes you interesting.
but on your end? all you're trying to do is make her as jealous as humanly possible lol
how delicious is the scent of shame lol
oh did you want this?
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>>84368672
>negging
Some girl said I was negging her once. I had no idea what the fuck she was talking about since I know nothing about PUA stuff. I guess some women assume all men are on some manipulation shit. I even combed through our messages looking for what she might have been talking about and couldn't find it. I was 100% genuine with her the entire time and any "insults" I said was just friendly bants that I'd do with men as well. Really sucks to be accused of something you don't know exists. Unless I'm just a lil negger from birth. Biological negger. Glow in the dark CIA negger.
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>>84368538
This. Women themselves will tell you not to cold approach because it's awkward and makes her uncomfortable being put on the spot even if you're good looking. Normalfags never actually meet and form relationships that way they do it through mutual social settings where you can make small talk and see each other repeatedly like school, work or bbqs etc. Ask any real couple how they met and it's never going to be pua artist bullshit. I even tried myself a few times in my 20s just to see and every girl was polite but just said she had a boyfriend or gave a fake phone number which is probably what this girl in the video did.
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>>84368790
well whatever you said she took it as a back handed compliment. a lot of women know about this stuff now and thats why it doesnt work anymore. a lot of pua was about negging because its supposed to make women desperately seek your approval after making her feel insecure.
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>>84368813
>Ask any real couple how they met and it's never going to be pua artist bullshit.
things is we have crazy fast social changes last decades. 2025-2020-2010-2000-1990 are just different social epochs people cant keep up with changes from their personal environment slumber.
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>>84368824
i think you need to watch some pua vids to understand how these people think and what theyre trying to do. she is obviously flabby and not fit, she knows it too, hes trying to make her feel insecure and seek his approval
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>>84368835
>Because you're approaching strangers with an entirely selfish intent. It will never feel genuine.
oxymoron.
Its year 2026 ffs.approach is selfish. Who are going to trick about this?
Its selfish and another side is estimating what do they get from this themselves.
Who are gonna trick with "le genuine" trick, no really??
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>>84368356
Cold approaching is super awkward, but sometimes I wish it was possible to do it non-awkwardly. If everybody was as autistic as me, I could actually walk up to a woman I find attractive, proposition her, get a clear yes or no and then go on with my life. Why can't everyone have autism?
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>>84368885
I'm not naive, you're just reading too deep into it. I've been into pua shit since I was a teenager so this kind of thing isn't new to me. You're simply reading too deeply into a throwaway compliment meant to get her to be open to talking to him. I'll say, maybe it was a neg, maybe, but I just don't think so
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>>84368932
Do you not understand the concept of a compliment that is a lie to make someone feel good about themself? Guys will lie to women all the time to get into their pants, is this new to you? And I'm the naive one?
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>>84368356
Its cause you are scared to show you are attracted to a woman. Thats whats unatural
Ugly men only have this fear. When you talk to a girl at a resturant taking your order she knows you arent trying to fuck her.
Its your brain coping with your genes going extinct. Similar to how ugly women become lesbian
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