/r9k/ - Thread 84369853

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)22:20:05 No.84369853

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)22:20:05 No.84369853 [Reply]▶

>be me
>late 20s
>virgin
>in uni, but can't get a job
>overall kind of a dick
>go to uni therapist because i'm going to be homeless soon and maybe she'll give me adderall or something
>she tells me i'm depressed because of my childhood
>she focused on school but i start blaming parents for my personality and absence of education on my own
>theorize that they lined everything up to keep me depressed and always have me under their control
>check myself every time i act in a way that they'd approve of
>actually start making friends and getting invited to things
>approach girls and chat with them easily
The empirical facts don't lie. I need to strike back though, can't have them suspect what's going through my head. I'll continue to be their sad boy because something tells me being happy would be crossing a line with them, at until a miracle happens and I have a job.

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Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)22:24:38 No.84369871

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)22:24:38 No.84369871▶

Your parents are most likely just incompetent, not concocting some evil conspiracy

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)22:34:20 No.84369914

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)22:34:20 No.84369914▶

>>84369853
>>she tells me i'm depressed because of my childhood
Yeah totally nothing to do with your are broke and get 0 pussy and doing theroetical bullshit meme all day (uni)

You got played by the femjew

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)22:36:33 No.84369926

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)22:36:33 No.84369926▶

>>84369914
My point is that you have the cause and the consequence in the wrong order. As for not getting pussy that might be about to change actually.

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)22:54:05 No.84370045

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)22:54:05 No.84370045▶

>>84369853
Congrats on the self-actualizing.
Next step is you need to do everything in your power to get away from them. You must not rely on them after college, even if it means suffering. That shits only temporary.
And this >>84369871 is the final redpill. Realizing your parents are failures but not malicious. It doesn't absolve, but it helps you move on

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)23:07:14 No.84370118

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)23:07:14 No.84370118▶

>>84370045
Thanks anon. I'm already away, that's why I could realize in the first place. And I'm suffering and have been for a while, but for some reason it doesn't bother me nearly as much as the stagnation I felt around them. I've been trying to be independent for a long time but this might be the one thing I'm the absolute worst at, this shit might be even harder than getting laid for me.

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)23:09:52 No.84370139

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)23:09:52 No.84370139▶

>>84370118
>this shit
Getting a job I mean. I just can't figure out what it is that recruiters or shopowners or anyfuckingbody at all wants from me.

Anonymous
04/16/26(Thu)23:27:31 No.84370238

Anonymous 04/16/26(Thu)23:27:31 No.84370238▶

>>84370118
>>84370139
Well that's good you're already away. Wish I could help with better advice on the job front, but i've been stuck in NEET hell for so long I don't know which way is up.
Best I can say is leverage the shit out of whatever college friends, advisors, classmates, whatever. Don't get hung up on your degree, just connect with people who can connect with people etc.
All I can suggest is do the things I didn't.

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