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>>84768698
Part of normie metaphysical view of the world.
Their favorite passtime, as well as self-consolation method is fellating themselves. Therefore, the normie looks at his life, which has been good to him and a truly adequate life by all accounts, and he concludes that since his life has not been fantastic to him and a truly exceptional one, he has overcome excessive hardship just to be alive and present to receive the gifts of Providence.
His girlfriend? He earned her. He put in the work and earned enough cosmic goodboy points, which he exchanged like tickets at the arcade for a stuffed animal.
The normie believes he can actually determine outcomes outside of his own agency, because he has had everything he's ever wanted handed to him on a silver platter.
So what about simps or wannabe normies? They don't have what they want. So why do they subscribe to normie metaphysics? Well, for the simple reason that the idea of normie metaphysics being real is more comforting than reality. If an unfortunate man thinks he can create fortune in his life, this gives him something to live for. He will build his entire personality and identity around it. He will propagate it as much as he's able. He will make sure the entire generation that proceeds from his will be brainwashed with it, because it simply must be true. If it isn't, that's unthinkable. Dissidents will emerge, and they will be punished for being pessimists, doomers, blackpillers, demoralizers.
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>>84768706
It's actually worse than that, but here you go
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>>84769309
So are you a normie who's lost his way and found himself here, or are you in the other category of simps/wannabe-normies who are just incels who reject reality?
Do you actually believe in cosmic good-boy-points? How many do you have to earn in order to exchange them for a gf? Where is the arcade ticket counter; who do I exchange the goodboy points to in order to collect my gf?
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>>84769327
I'm married with kids.
>cosmic good-boy-points
no. if anyone is telling you to collect good-boy-points and that is how you get a girlfriend, they are trolling you. you fell for a troll. many such cases. i met most girls just through social experiences.
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>>84769346
So you proved his point. You fell into situations where your inborn social ability and looks were able to get you across the finish line, and you somehow think that this is all due to actual effort on your part
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>you will have a gf if you try hard enough
Indeed. It's bullshit. Foids hang around men they want, so they get that cock.
Me? Foids will stare at me every several years, and say fucking nothing. Always cockblockers around too.
Perhaps if a foid fucking spoke to me, carried conversations, and didn't require endless dates and princess treatment. Just take me to bed, FFS.
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>>84769354
I didn't prove his point though. He was talking about good-boy-points, which means he simply fell for a troll. There is no "finish line" until you die, if I stop taking care of myself for a month there will be practically no physical or social difference between me and you. And if you're talking about talent or potential, yeah sure but there are different social classes and communities, you're not that special if you are simply lazy and smelly from birth; your parents had to get together to create you in the first place.
>>84769356
I enjoyed live music a lot when I was younger, and coed sports.
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>>84769391
I went to concerts and social events when I was younger and women seemed repulsed by me if I was even acknowledged. Some of us never get that chance, but life is unfair and I'm ambiguous at this point
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>>84769391
>I didn't prove his point though.
You are a normie to whom Providence has bestowed a more-than-adequate life to live, and you've somehow lost your way and have been posting on an internet incel ghetto.
You maintained your normie metaphysics that you did indeed earn your woman, and that everyone who hasn't earned a woman for himself is 'wasting his life.' Fair enough. But under scrutiny, when you were asked how it was that you determined an outcome that was outside of your agency, you said...
>i met most girls just through social experiences.
You didn't even bother changing the passive language. Life just happened to you.
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>>84769430
Do you think nobody was repulsed by me LOL
Yes life is unfair, but if you're willing to pretend to be self aware about how life treats you, you should try to be self aware about what you actually want from life. Some people really don't want to build relationships or relate to the opposite sex, and yes much more rarely than anyone here assumes, some people are just too retarded (slow) or disgusting - but they don't have self awareness of it or why, hence why they don't change.
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>>84769454
To be fair, your 4chan posts simply just happened to you but you are still acting like you haven't been Bestowed a more-than-adequate life. Your initial question was about cosmic good-boy-points, which reveals that you have simply been fooled. Whether passive or active, you are still a fool in the end who believes in good-boy-points.
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>>84769491
>but you are still acting like you haven't been Bestowed a more-than-adequate life.
I have not been bestowed a woman by Providence.
You have.
Now you are saying that everyone has been bestowed a woman? Then where is mine?
>Your initial question was about cosmic good-boy-points, which reveals that you have simply been fooled.
I'm the one who made up the phrase for this discussion. Since you believe you have somehow earned a woman, then that means there is some sort of implicit cosmic ledger, similar to karma, which is affected by your deeds in life, to which you can "earn" a determination that was previously not up to you.
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>>84769535
You have been Bestowed the 4chan posts that you think that you have posted yourself, when you definitely have not done that yourself since they just happened to you by Providence. It's not the woman in this case that made your life so fortunate, it's the 4chan posts.
>I believe in good-boy-points
Explain why this would even be a real thing in your mind? Your teen angst bullshit is mostly just confusing cause and effect with gamified and exaggerated transactional relationships. Nobody is telling you to accumulate cuck points. Everyone is telling you that there are consequences to your actions. The outcomes are probabilistic, but the context of your good-cuck points would be within an environment where you are already developing relationships with girls; your reputation, your understanding of each other, your history together, etc. It would not be an independent system that has nothing to do with your social or intimate relationships.
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>>84769322
You omitted this part. Because it destroys your narrative.
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>>84769581
1. naturally you would be comfortable doing what you actually want. the meme here is that some large group of men and women fall into a routine and lifestyle that makes them uncomfortable relating to each other or building trust/intimacy/etc.
to that point, comfort is retarded. comfort is irrelevant. you need principles and the conviction that a relationship and the downstream consequences of that relationship are more important. eventually you do become comfortable with your new lifestyle.
2. having learned helplessness to the point where you need to repeat yourself constantly that you had been dealt a bad hand is inherently painful, intolerable, and a feeling of failure even through coping mechanisms. it would be fine to just stop caring but that's not what this is.
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>>84769580
What does this 4chubs discussion have to do with my woman, whom you've implied that life has bestowed equally unto me as well as yourself? Where is she? You have not answered that question.
>Explain why this would even be a real thing in your mind?
As you admit by noting how they're "probabilistic," outcomes external to your agency are not determined by yourself. Therefore, you would need to appeal to some external force in order to determine the outcome, much like cavemen sacrificing to their god for good fortune on their hunt. Whatever you want to name this force is up to you, but I am challenging its existence; I do not think it's real.
>>84769597
I read it, but it's just retarded gibbering like picrel
I think he thinks he's clever or something for wasting time
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>>84769645
I answered your question. Your belief in good boy points is unrealistic, and you still clearly have a good life handed to you. There is no guarantee that the food you eat gets digested and gives you sustenance, yet you feed yourself anyway. Really makes you think about all your teen angst cuckoldry learned helplessness trash
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>>84769634
My friends are all single and also looking for girls to date
>you can meet new women by just going out to any event.
I unironically do that all the time and have never met a young woman in any of those.
Where do you live? In a big city?
>What do you mean? I met a bunch of people at the pool recently.
I went to a litteral olympic pool semi regularly last year about 30km from where I live. I did meet people, but only guys, never saw young girls going there
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>>84769688
If they are looking for girls then they will not be spending time with you, are you a girl?
I live in a small town.
The pool event you are talking about was for the gay community. All the swim classes and open swims Ive seen are mostly girls.
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Yeah, if you have a delusional view of women as princesses that are in constant need of white knighting sure. You can step back relax and throw yourself into maybe even lose yourself in socializing. You can be firm in the understanding that most women just have resting bitch face and that is just how they look and they do not hate you at a glance because you cannot read their minds. The problem was never that incels couldn't get a girl, it's that they're terrified of the consequences. On one side most women these men have experience with are trashy bitches who they would have to completely give up on thoughts and hopes for intimacy and reciprocal romance for, on the other the women know damn well they can do whatever they want and the ultimate white knight, Uncle Sam or some other big brother esque government, will step in and offer to save her from you when she gets on the rag and gassed up on 5 volumes of girl porn romance fantasy or meets some nig at the sandals resort and fucks him behind your back. Can you tell I really don't have straight friends in stable relationships?
>>84768861
Youu're the only man stupid enough to put it in a blown out loose bitch with a kid and she'll do the same to you that she did to the kid's dad you fucking retard
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>>84769696
>then they will not be spending time with you
Do you not understand the concept of friends?
>live in a small town
Which one if you dont mind saying?
>was for the gay community
We have no such event.
>All the swim classes and open swims Ive seen are mostly girls.
Not where I live. Its mostly guy and grannies
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>>84769623
extraverts naturally crave human interaction, which generally makes them good at it and thus comfortable with it. not everyone can (or needs to) rationalise the benefits of a relationship in order to maintain it.
as for being dealt a bad hand, i don't think it's always inherently painful - oftentimes it's even beneficial to be open and upfront about your various weaknesses (denial can make things much worse).
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>>84769687
You've done nothing more than take everything I've said and rephrase it nonsensically in order to not address the point. I have no belief in cosmic goodboy points. The idea that your deeds have some driving causal effect towards the agency of other people is absurd, and you are the one maintaining the position that such an idea is true. You cannot seem to understand what you're reading, or you're deliberately wasting time.
>Really makes you think about all your teen angst cuckoldry learned helplessness trash
A six-part compound word, lol. Even if I can't force you to discuss in good faith, I sure made you mad. I'll leave you to stew in it.
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>>84769740
>Do you not understand the concept of friends?
Yeah I do. But you said they were looking for girls, do you understand what that means?
>Which one if you dont mind saying?
Arlon.
>We have no such event.
You just said you go to male-only events for naked men swimming together.
>Not where I live. Its mostly guy and grannies
I would never live there.
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>>84768706
Its true but women are mentally retarded being that think through the lens of emotion. So the good news is that if you are funny or rich or high status, her emotions will dictate that you are actually good looking and her eyes deceived her. The bad news is, no woman is ever going to find you attractive unless she knows you or has assumed your identity in her head based on stereotypes.
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>>84769767
>I have no belief in cosmic goodboy points.
Why are you backpedaling now? Your whole premise in this thread is that you believe cosmic good-boy-points are a real thing normal people discuss and collect.
>The idea that your deeds have some driving causal effect towards the agency of other people is absurd
Your actions have consequences. They can be good, bad, or meaningless. A bad driver on the road can ruin my whole day in some circumstances. It's over for retards like you.
>I sure made you mad
Peak irony.
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>>84769843
>But you said they were looking for girls, do you understand what that means?
That means they were on dating apps and that wed go to clubs and bars together.
>arlon
Great, do you mind posting the swimming classes you went to ? As well as the concerts and events were you met your wife in arlon? Theres probably a lot of events going on in this town?
>You just said you go to male-only events for naked men swimming together.
I go to swimming classes. You are just projecting your own fantasies
>I would never live there.
I didn't get to chose where i was born/work
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>>84769687
>you post on 4chan therefore you have a good life
LMFAO, you realize there are pajeets living in poop huts with 20 room mates posting here right? Anyone with an internet connection can post here. How is that evidence of a good life?
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>>84769882
>That means they were on dating apps and that wed go to clubs and bars together.
How many girls have you met this way?
>Great, do you mind posting the swimming classes you went to ? As well as the concerts and events were you met your wife in arlon? Theres probably a lot of events going on in this town?
There are tons but it would really be irrelevant to you, since you don't live in Arlon.
>I go to swimming classes. You are just projecting your own fantasies
How many girls are at these classes?
>I didn't get to chose where i was born/work
I chose to relocate like 4 times in my life, the first time I had no money.
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>>84769872
>our whole premise in this thread is that you believe cosmic good-boy-points are a real thing normal people discuss and collect.
No that was your retarded ass being unable to interpret his sarcasm. His implication was that you believed in karma, not him.
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>>84769852
>but you participate in the social activity that is 4chan, you hypocrite!
hurr durr, don't be a smartass, you know exactly what i mean. some people also do not want to "hang out" with people or have phone conversations or whatever with them. i could just as easily be having this conversation with a literal bot instead. that's not "human interaction", that's me formulating some shitty idea and committing it to writing.
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>>84769910
>How many girls have you met this way
Many but they were all very old
>How many girls are at these classes?
A few but they were all 50+ or litteral high schoolers
>There are tons but it would really be irrelevant to you, since you don't live in Arlon.
Post them then for future reference?
Also since you live in arlon you must have many picture of the area right? Post them? Do you live in frassem?
>chose to relocate like 4 times in my life, the first time I had no money.
Where did you relocate to and how? Id like to relocate but idk how and where
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>>84769587
This isn't some own, the graphs show that both sexes were going for people that they found relatively attractive. Even taking this at face value, this data itself is old and other data contradicts it. This could also be explained by preference shifts, women care less about face as they age and instead become focused on "muh provider".
Spamming the same cherrypicked graph doesn't prove anything.
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>>84769962
>very old
So your friends only look for old girls?
>50+ girls in my swim class
Do you even know what a swim class is?
>frassem
No
>how
Unless you are couch surfing, id suggest finding a local community somewhere of migrants similar enough to you that you could get an odd job to start. I relocated because we had offices in different countries and regions so I already had a job. My dad relocated via friends and restarted in fast food and driving a bus
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>>84770063
>So your friends only look for old girls?
No but there arent any young women attending
>Do you even know what a swim class is?
Post the swimclass you went to then? Show us the demographics of this class?
Post the mutliple events and communities in arlon that you attended and where you supposedly found your wife then?
>relocated because we had offices in different countries and regions so I already had a job.
Youre not replying to my question, which countries/cities did you relocate to? And why did you chose this small belgian city out of all places?
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>>84770098
>No but there arent any young women attending
So they aren't looking for young girls if they don't actually look for young girls.
>Post the swimclass you went to then? Show us the demographics of this class?
Post wrist.
>Youre not replying to my question, which countries/cities did you relocate to? And why did you chose this small belgian city out of all places?
You're trolling. I'm not the one in this thread who pretends to have trouble dating.
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>>84770474
>So they aren't looking for young girls if they don't actually look for young girls.
You cant create women out of thin air. If women dont show up you cant make them show up
>waaaah i refuse to reply because i am trolling for yous and dont live anywhere near arlon
We knew you were bullshitting. Youre probably single.
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>>84770853
>You're the one looking and showing up
Thats what I am doing but women dont attend any group activity and dont want to meet new people.
Also still waiting for your supposed many activities that made you meet your wife in arlon, or do you admit youre just lying for yous?
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>>84769587
This looks like an own but only because women's ratings are so skewed. They find less than 1% of men attractive, which is why less than 1% of all messages go to them. More than 50% of the messages women send go to less than 20% of men. And keep in mind, this was 15 years ago, back when hoeflation wasn't as rampant as it is now.
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>>84771936
Still waiting for you to post the supposed many group activities with women in arlon since you said you lived there and met your wife there (with pictures to show that young women actually show up).
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>>84772184
Post wrist or you are trolling. Stop obsessing over my town. Go out and enjoy your own city. If there are no young women there, enjoy being gay or whatever your problem is. I wouldnt last two minutes in your city if I was single.
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>>84772261
>dodging the question again and asking bs in return
Ok so you dont live anywhere near belgium/europe and have no idea about what its like to date over there. Got it.
Serious question do you enjoy making the most retarded statement for (you)s and bait people for hundreds of posts or are you just this mentally ill?
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>>84772326
Prove that its your town then. Show us what its like to date in a small town. Post the many activities you said there were. Post the many single girls you said were waiting everywhere.
But you wont because youre just one very mentally ill person who got btfo by a guy from arlon and got obsessed ever since.
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>>84772418
>bet
Post it then.
But i know youre this troll, from the uk who has never been to belgium. https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/82341697/#82350321
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>>84772455
Ive never been to the uk. I have hung out in France and Switzerland though. Schizomaxxing has nothing to do with the topic. If you are just some data mining troll, find a data mining gf. There are plenty of female scammers in your industry.
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>>84772812
>makes a lot of statements and bs claims
>refuses to back up and immediately escapes and double posts when exposed
Youre projecting hard here. Answer the question? Have you been to arlon and have you tried dating here?
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>>84772820
Stop acting dumb. https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/82341697/#82350321
This is you.
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Honestly if you want a girlfriend you probably shouldn't have one. The people who have girlfriends don't even really try they just do what comes naturally and end up with someone and before they know it they hate that person and wonder how long they have just been autopiloting through life? Just be alone and save a fuckton of money then spend your last years having fun in life instead of being stuck in one place with nothing fun to do and no money
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>>84773047
You know and you also know there zero young women where I live atm, zero events, zero parties. Which is why you have been unable to post even a single one.
>>84773075
They do exist because women dont want us.
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>>84768698
We have to stop condemning promiscuous women. As long as we force them to choose "only 1", they will chose the best one, that is top 1%. Hating women won't do shit, but respecting promiscuous women can do miracles.
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