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>>35062109
damn its so long. blonde rasputin
>>35062137
shut the hell up
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>>35062086
Not me (obviously) but this is basically the style I'm trying to grow my hair out to, I think long hair looks cool as fuck on guys and the only people who disagree are dudes who are balding lmao
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>>35062086
face not included
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>>35063669
gay predator
>>35064120
you just know this nigga be stankin it up and plays magic the gathering unwashed
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>>35064783
1v1 me hair for hair right now faggot i guarantee i'll fucking end your whole career
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>>35065389
photo came out weird
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>>35064171
we'll accept it cute stuff
>>35064540
god its so thick. love the layers
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>>35066191
good hair and attractive features
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>>35066119
okay please send my mother 10 heads of cattle and i will be shipped to your house posthaste
>>35064567
no thats my actual real face
>>35066101
thank you, it ususally doesnt look like that because im so lazy and dont style it, i do enjoy my high volume hair though
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>>35063669
100% closet troon (you'll never pass)
>>35064171
you look like an anorexic version of that gay youtuber that fucked his cat
>>35064540
ching chong tranny
>>35064834
pedophile troon with a scat fetish
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>>35062086
everyone in this thread looks really scary. i fit right in
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>>35068575
hair's not long plus you're ugly
>>35069995
stringy and the latex gives sex pest
>>35070170
highly filtered picture and the hair doesn't look real in a lot of areas
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>>35064540
mom wanted to revise my haircut and also styled it differently what do you guys think? is my mom good at this hair stuff
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>>35062086
whoa
unkempt mediocre hair alert
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>>35073774
ew
>>35075495
ugly
>>35077694
unga bunga
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>>35077712
you talk all this shit yet you’re browsing a thread for dudes with long hair, you insufferable faggot.
Sounds to me more like you have a long way out of the closet and a whole mess of a stick to pull out of your ass.
Never mind the fact I’d happily deprive you of the very essence of life with my bare hands, pussy
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>>35078153
not bad actually
>>35078186
i'm not reading that shit kek, stay mad faggot
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>>35076931
kindness is good for you, i hope things are good 4 u also
>>35077551
i promise i am
>>35078932
thank you i like it a lot also, it looks a lot better styled that way,
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On a related note, does anyone in this thread have experience with hair that doesn't dye well? Mine really doesn't like to take any kind of color, my ex tried to do a partial bleaching as you can maybe see but even that didn't really take like I wanted, and when I tried to dye part of it blue that washed out within a couple weeks.
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>>35079362
As for the blue, that was admittedly a half assed drunken impulse, never combine drinking and hair dye. Thankfully alcohol stopped working for me recently, sucks in some ways but overall it's for the best, I don't think I would have survived another decade and a half of alcoholism.
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Honestly pretty much everything in my life stopped working, all in one really shit month. First my relationship (although that was a slow and painful three week process), then alcohol started sucking, then my PC broke down, had to move across states completely uprooting my life and to top it all off I'm living in my mum's new house in the place I swore I'd never return to 6 years ago (SF Bay Area). My hair is just about the only thing I have left.
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>>35062086
My mop.
I don't know how to take selfies, so I just awkwardly look into the camera.
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>>35062086
Reporting for duty o7
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>>35078960
would have sex with/10
>>35082772
would play with your hair/10
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>>35083454
Funny enough you sound like my type, dykish autist foid
Almost never come across those types except online, irl all the "bisexual" girls are just man haters and dykes are all exclusively lesbians so if you're a guy who is unironically into "boyish" women, you're fucked lol
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>>35083215
would bury my face in and smell your hair/10
>>35083454
>I’m almost 30 now anyway so my time is done as far as foidery goes
don't fall for the hitting the wall rhetoric, I'm almost 30 myself and I've never been more popular with men than I am now
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>>35085829
It’s a little different when you’re autistic. You can ride your youth a little harder to maintain a man’s interest when you’re socially incompetent. My monotone voice and dress for “comfort” aka sensory issues becomes more apparent and unappealing as I age. Add the fact I am constantly busy with work and family matters that come with age, eh. Doubt I’ll ever get to experience that youthful honeymoon high. I’m too grounded in reality and all that romanticism is dead. Dating has me pretty jaded. I find myself agreeing with sprinkle sprinkle lady. Women don’t really get anything out of interacting with men past a certain age, unless she’s still attracted to them purely physically. That’s impossible for me because of how I’ve been treated since childhood. My social differences made me a third wheel and only perceived as a friend by boys/men. Even in my relationships, no compliments, no flowers, no physical pursuit. Men genuinely perceive me as a man, and have told me that. It doesn’t register I still have the same needs as other women. Very common for women on the spectrum. We’re jokingly called honorary men or male-brained. I think it’s just because we’re less inclined to perform femininity. The straight male brain registers this as disinterested or “like them.”
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>>35083712
you look like an orc
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gross
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>>35086833
It could help to date a male autist, someone who can relate to at least some of your struggles and is less concerned about performance, although our own social foibles can make that difficult. Certainly I've never been very good at the "pursuit of a woman" thing, even with more normal women it's extremely hard for me to tell when that's what they want. Directness helps a lot, the less you make them guess the better results you will get.
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>>35087121
I have dated male autists before. Directness is inversely proportional to attractiveness. It doesn’t matter if a man is NT or on the spectrum. Men find it revolting, even if subconsciously. His behavior and treatment of you changes. You can see when he’s losing attraction. Never chase a man. I had to learn the hard way. The problem is when you’re masc and autistic, men will not pursue. The work-to-put-out ratio is so disproportionate it’s not worth it. You end up not feeling desirable the whole “relationship” and unable to O anyway. I’m at the point where getting an escort is easier. Men are an absolute pain in the ass.
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>>35086833
I feel for you femanon but I'm autistic too and my experience with dating has been very different, maybe I get given more grace bc I dress very femme and don't look my age so men are more willing to put up with me acting like a child in a normie's eyes. There are plenty of cute clothes that are still comfy/made of 100% cotton if you ever felt like changing up your style.
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>>35087139
>Men find it revolting
This is definitely not universally true, certainly I prefer directness over building resentment that surprise ends the relationship. I think most women don't like it for the "desirability" part though, obviously if you have to remind your guy to compliment you that doesn't feel great.
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>>35087156
hottest guy in this thread are you single/10
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>>35087156
agreed
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>>35087169
The problem is most feminine NT women don’t have to ask out or remind their man to compliment them. Their men feel the need to naturally do these things, at the very least, in the honeymoon phase/beginning of the relationship, even if there are period of waning as they settle-in. I’m tired of trying to be the source of ignition for a relationship in and of itself. Men don’t like me. Full stop.
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>>35086868
Thanks
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>>35087156
hnnngg
youd be hotter with nip length
>>35087347
whos sanako
>>35087380
aww i dont think you look like an orc
the orcs were elves once, anyways...
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>>35062086
Just went to the pool and my shoulders are red but youuuu caaaan't seeeee ittttttt
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>>35087646
crop ur pic SLIIIGHTLY before you upload and then for some reason it wont rotate
>>35087639
ho ree fuk you're an archangel. lucky you have that veil of hair to hide the sunburn, but id rather have it braided for you!!
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>>35087639
also did you at least do the little mermaid hair flip while you were swimming
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>>35086833
Since you didn't post a contact and so there is no real indiscretion involved I'm gonna go ahead and ask, do you actually enjoy whatever sex life you have solo or if it's about as tepid as your hopes and fantasies?
Because maybe you are just unhealthy and have lower hormone levels and get 0 sexual exercise. That could certainly have you feeling *and* thinking the way you describe.
Like how are men supposed to perceive that you have needs when you demonstrate that you're happy to neglect them yourself? Other people can only amplify and highlight elements of what you already have going.
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>>35087760
I don't know how to braid my own hair nor do I know how to actually swim I kinda just bounced around the bottom of the pool the whole time
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>>35087795
ill braid it for you goofball :p
also relatable. but you'd be the perfect ariel thoughever
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>>35087784
A lot of people just don’t seem to understand autism, not even professionals. I don’t experience excitement from my own touch. Arousal comes from size and temperature difference outside of the psychological (connection, duh) Touching my own clit either feels like nothing or is sensory meltdown inducing. This isn’t exclusive to autistic women. I’ve seen NT talk about it on Reddit. I can somewhat get into penetration from toys, but I can’t climax because that psychological pursuit isn’t there. I’m tested. As far as hormone panel, I’m normal. I’m in decent physical shape, and was pretty fit at one point as well. These facts about me are unchanging. I experience intense sexual arousal, but only when desire and flirting is obvious, and touch is tight (think hugs). Brushing can be hellish with no warning (my own touch for example). I will literally not register a man’s interest in me unless he is a Hollywood suited gentleman or cowboy stereotype. Turbo masculine. They’re the only ones who make it obvious.
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>>35087238
Have a hard time believing no men are into you, where do you live where this happens because where I'm at, autistic women who are blunt about their interest do extremely well or at the very least never have "bad dates" per say.
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>>35087888
Have you tried a vibrating wand with a few different caps? Very easy to control the level and location of stimulation like that, you can put something in between to make it milder too. /rhetorical question, do not answer it ms. autismo
My analysis abridged is... if you can get aroused reactively, you can get aroused actively; if you can throw a ball, you can aim, throw a ball, hit something too.
"I don't *experience* the ball going into the goal", yeah you missed it. You still have legs *though*.
What you describe sounds more like PTSD than like autism, 10s of percents of people with autism have that, I don't remember the exact stat.
Really you just come off demoralized, and arguing specifics won't get you the life experience and understanding to recognize that the things you now may think are unchangeable, outside what you could ever affect, aren't.
I hope you figure out an *actual* solution, one better than complaining while you come to terms with that you gave up on something you don't actually want to give up on!
>sorry for OT long hair thread
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>>35087980
I’m not saying there isn’t initial interest or novelty, but that wears off fast. Men do not like bluntness as a relationship progresses because he doesn’t feel he is pursuing or winning her. There always has to be a feminine mystery, and that’s often lacking in tomboyish and/or autistic types. It’s generally only a positive with a certain type of bisexual man, and I just haven’t been lucky enough to come across one in the wild. You think I’d have better luck being in California.
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Even the lowest setting is too strong, but I’ll take your advice to put a sheet between it. I don’t know why that never occurred to me. It won’t bring me there regardless though. Permanent edging, fucking sucks.
Yes, I also have PTSD. Don’t really know what the solution is. I’ve gone through therapy, psychs, and medication. The advice of my psychiatrists have always been to stay single, and that I shouldn’t feel pressured or pressure myself into a relationship if nothing (like flirting) feels right.
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>>35088238
>because he doesn’t feel he is pursuing or winning her
Yeah I don't understand this, any guy who cares about this is retarded to me.
>There always has to be a feminine mystery
Yeah I don't know what this means honestly.
>It’s generally only a positive with a certain type of bisexual man
Coincidentally I am bi, though I guess "straight leaning", though I've lost count of all the straight men I've encountered who hates pursuing because it's exhausting and can become an effort/money sink very quickly. Dating/pursuing is only fun for women because of this.
>California
My condolences, no wonder you're having a horrible time.
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>>35088238
Yeah dating on the West Coast is a dumpster fire, it's why most of my relationships have started online and required travel to actually meet. Anyone who's ok with being in a "polycule" is not really someone I enjoy associating with in any capacity, let alone joining that sort of cesspit.
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>>35088251
>Yeah I don't know what this means honestly.
Neither do I, but your typical masculine straight man will tell you it exists if you’re a woman like me who asks about his waning interest. I am a very detailed and passionate person, and I am generally not closed off if there’s decent chemistry and respect. I’ve been told my initial conversations come off as desperate by NTs, and I’m just trying to make conversation! This goes into the pursuit thing. What men perceive as “mystery” that makes him want to pursue her, is a woman that doesn’t dedicate a lot of time to him because she has multiple suitors and potentially securing that bag (eggs in multiple baskets). It makes men competitive and more invested. Men get bored of me fast, even though I feel I don’t run out of conversation topics. Maybe they find it overwhelming. I don’t know. I just look for friends who match my energy now.
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>>35088271
Sounds like you're surrounded by the most retarded men on earth, I live in Florida and dudes would look at you crazy if you actually liked any of this shit. If a girl doesn't dedicate much time to you, you drop her and find one who actually cares.
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>>35088271
>a woman that doesn’t dedicate a lot of time to him because she has multiple suitors
Yeah no, that's actually the fastest way to get dropped completely by a guy, if you don't have time for me why should I have time for you?
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>>35088238
I should probably emphasize that I'm a guy, I just also happen to have PTSD and dated a girl significantly more autistic than myself who had worse PTSD for basically my whole young adulthood. Left me a pocket dictionary of ways sex can fail lol, was super painful.
I'd throw the sex problems on the PTSD pile, that's what I did anyway... PTSD can be healed, autism the jury is out. I'm getting an adults' autism diagnosis specifically to keep the two more clearly distinct and manageable.
Hope I was at least original with my little "see what sticks to the wall" bit. I've the corded one with the highest power rumble on the market lol, if I squish it into my knee my whole leg goes numb to the toes.
I get that edging could suck if it's not your (first) choice... you could try sexualizing the temporary reality that you can edge but can't cum, there's a subreddit about it (fem_aleorg_asmden_ial without the _). Or you can make one kind of stimulation "boring" (like a light edge? non-intense, thus less frustrating) and then see if you can find a complement, figure out which stimuli multiply.
Relaxation and a somewhat clear, calm mind is also important, so ritual can help, time spent in nature, sports... a martial art if you have issues feeling safe and confident, maybe a big guy fills that gap for you temporarily but that doesn't mean you have to jump into dating one or feel unsafe without one in normal situations... like when taking a fucking shower at home, or whatever other mundane situation that can turn low-key scary by association.
>therapy, psychs, and medication
Not sure how these would contribute, unless you include finding a nice strain of weed to vape, physical therapy, a sex therapist, or pain meds to put an actual medical issue aside for a second.
I wouldn't worry about dating people at all is also really what I'm saying, let alone seriously.
>I just look for friends who match my energy now.
Always a good idea, friends who are comfortable and noble.
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I'll wear it back when I'm painting or sketching
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Anyone else had a catfishing problem lately? So it's been like this the past few times; I match with a 6-7/10 girl, she looks perfectly healthy and normal, maybe only light makeup, and we agree to meet at her house. So I arrive a few seconds later and every time I see them in person they're completely white in the face, yelping at the top of their lungs or gibbering half-remembered prayers in the corner until I leave. Why do I only seem to attract freaky bitches? Pic related is me btw
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>>35073774
agree. I got mine layered in the front, although idk what else to do with it
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>>35062086
my gf dropped by a few hours ago unnanounced, told me she didnt want to break up and didnt know what to do but couldnt carry on like this. i should have taken her out on a walk or something. eventually she broke up with me. i knew it was coming for a long time, i was even procrastinating doing it. we both broke down in tears. i didnt realise i would feel this miserable. my hair is not that long compared to others in this thread by any means but it is the longest i have had it in my life.
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>>35095777
Went through something similar recently, wish I could say it gets better but it hasn't for me yet really. Just don't do what I did, leave well enough alone and don't pick at your wounds by messaging her, that will make them worse.
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>>35093321
Holy shit you're all beautiful. Please say you hate troons.
>>35083454
Literally go to bar sinister or any other aggrotech/cyber goth/etc night. I promise you'll find a straight dude who looks like that and is autistic as you are. Also don't be meme'd into believing in the wall. I'm way more attractive at 31 than I was at 18.
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I hoped we could at least stay as friends but she doesnt want that, her reason being is that she still loves me a lot so it will be painful for her to see me often. I would be lying if I said I didn't miss her a lot. She was right, we weren't at all similar and didn't click well, but we knew each other for 11 months, and got used to each other, so of couse there will be pain of this person leaving. I'm not bawling my eyes out like I was when she left me, but I am still somewhat sad. I wonder how I will feel in the future, I wonder what will happen in the future. She has a few eating disorders and self harm habits and I must know that she gets over them in the future. I want her to be happy.
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>>35096617
Thank you! Try as I might, I'm too chalant to be mysterious :p
>>35096717
>Please say you hate troons.
I reserve my hate for only a few. Not fond of them tho
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>>35090430
>dumb spelling mistake
Sleep derpivation is a bitch. I don't know how I managed to make a mistake that bad, despite reading the entire trilogy and watching the first movie (US). It's been ages though.
>routine
The changes in routine weren't actually AS drastic as I first described, though I did notice the mistakes I was doing the first time around and managed to circumvent them. TURNS OUT; NOT combing your hair 3x/day (and doing it while it's wet/drying) MAY be a bad idea in hindsight. I also started using sprays and oils that nourish it whilst not making too oily, and those help A LOT especially when you're on a silkier side. Also started eating healthy and consuming a ton of concentrated vitamins every day. Don't wish to write a novela here and describe every little thing I changed, but these few were more than enough for me to start noticing less strands of hair around the house/when washing, change in form and gloss whilst keeping it soft and silky as ever (with zero adjacent downsides) Sorry to have kept you waiting, I was afraid these weren't enough to warrant holding your breath and updating or whatever.
PS. I appreciate the little edits you keep making (this one especially is super cool ohwow)
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>>35092370
Misplaced. Even still, you mog me in every other department desu.
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Wonder what genre it would've been?
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>>35102654
this pose is killing me i keep thinking of that one limp bizkit photo
>>35101941
that makes sense if im interpreting the brushing part correctly, 3x a day seemed a bit excessive. brushing, especially for wavier hair does damage it gradually overtime, probably lot less for very straight hair but still
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