>>2881231
NYC will be easier just by pure number and variety

>>2881231
The City of New York spends hundreds of millions a dollars per year on advertising outreach and "marketing" (the polite way to say propaganda)
The annual tax revenue of NYC alone is greater than several European countries.

NYC is not "easier" compared to the rest of the USA, it is uniquely shittier compared to the other major cities or smaller tier 2 cities. It's only easy if you compare it to bumfuck flyover where there are literally no girls

nyc is lot. odl

NYC is no exaggeration 70% (brown) immigrants

>>2881250
If it isn’t easy then you’re poor, ugly, autistic, or all three. Sorry bud.

>>2881258
Performative virtue signaling. For cold approach it is consensus the hardest city in the USA. Literally any other major or minor city that has foot traffic is easier. Matching with 46 year old careersexuals on Hinge or whatever doesn't mean you won

>>2881260
>Literally any other major or minor city that has foot traffic
Nowhere else in the US has foot traffic like NYC.

>>2881268
nowhere else has schizo anti-slut defense shields as high as NYC
any college town is better than nyc

>>2881231
Imagine moving to a city just for women. What an absolute faggot mentality.

>>2881275
>Imagine moving to a city just for women. What an absolute faggot mentality.
This. Straight men only move to a city for men.

>>2881260
all the roasties that move to the big city for college or post college have to be fucking someone tho

>>2881284
No they dont. You fundamentally misunderstand roasties if you think they have more sex than a normal woman. Roastie ideology is inherently sexless. They can go do gay sexless bullshit like Broadway plays and symphonies every day. They can conjure up an endless supply of beta paypigs to be their gay sexless poodle they take with them to a random overpriced museum or restaurant. There's an endless sea of thirsty beta simps who will give up their dignity and never demand a crumb of pussy, and if they have the audacity to dare yearn for such a wretched uncivilized thing like sex, they get dropped immediately.

>>2881260
What? Every time I go out in New York, I am received better than in most other places and I'm 5'9" and poor.

>>2881303
how many u fucc

>>2881258
>>2881303
I always hear this but never understand how. Maybe its the places I frequent but as someone with similar stats and has lived in the metro area I have never had luck with NYC. I do better anywhere else

>>2881231
Wtf is a "dating scene"? Do mutts have a full scene where people go for no reason besides to score? Sounds like a drag.

>>2881260
>cold aproooooch
There's a reason the daygame nonsense is just a few dozen brown guys in London, these days. The whites having killed themselves upon reaching male spinsterdom.

>>2881310
>if it's not on jewtube or tiktok anymore it doesn't exist

>>2881308
For some reason NYC is sold as some mecca for single men. Maybe due to sheer numbers but I dont find it any easier or harder than any other major western city outside of the US. There maybe more young women than men but the men who are there are usually trust funders, finance bros, strivers, and/or good looking tallfags. Even with better looking men in European cities I find there are actually higher supply of uni aged white women compared to NYC, any white woman in general in the US who is a normal weight is extremely gassed up. I feel like the guys who say its super easy possess the traits I mentioned above or just go for ethnic women who they mog by like 2 or 3 points

>>2881338
It's not a mecca but if you don't plan on knocking up your high school sweetheart and both of you getting fat and then divorced and then trying to date other fat divorced people, NYC is better than most once you're older than say 30ish and have actual standards

>>2881339
Are you tall? I don't know, people swarm these threads and jump and down that NYC is this paradise for single men but then will be like well I am actually 6'3. I have had limited success despite doing better in other places. I just don't see the appeal of NYC at all and I know plenty of guys that aren't tallfags/good looking who struggle. I really feel like there is some marketing campaign for this shithole

>>2881338
The east coast as a rule has more single women.

>>2881231
>>2881338
Isn't the rate of STIs in NY much higher than the rest of the country?

>>2881340
No, I'm a manlet. Are you saying that makes it easier for me? Lol. Lmao even.

>>2881341
west coast is better if you racemixx

>>2881231
I'm in NYC frequently for work. From what I've seen cute women are always taken, and the single ones are fridge mode goblinas. There are basically zero white women. Even the Sopranos Italians seem like they're all gone - they've been replaced by Indians. I went over to North Jersey to LARP, and there were more Indian restaurants than any Italian joints, and all the Italian joints were run by Dominicans anyway.

Regardless, I'm probably looking in the wrong places. Literally the entire city feels like a multicultural experiment and my 4chan addled brain doesn't like it. Cute white women here don't exist.

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>>2881231
>women outnumber men 5 to 1 bro!
The problem with that number is that they're going by legal gender, not biological gender.

>>2881365
>. I went over to North Jersey to LARP, and there were more Indian restaurants than any Italian joints, and all the Italian joints were run by Dominicans anyway.
looool kekkek

>>2881310
>talking to girls is over

>>2881340
the only people who insist it's good are going off of surface level vibes and memes(read: propaganda). I visited there for a few days during covid and thought it was good because in testing cold approach I got a lot of numbers. But then when I lived there I learned numbers mean nothing in New York, either you fuck or don't. Every single friend I ever met in New York was an incel or a cuck for an ogre, regardless of height or wealth. And I knew all kinds of people, from illegal spics who work food service to banker "chads" who work at jp. No one's getting their dick wet in new york. You go online and look closely and everyone complains about it. Even itt people are at best saying it's mid

i grew up on long island close to queens, went to college in upstate NY, lived in Denver, Lansig MI, and Lancaster PA, live in Brooklyn now. i've slept with 14 women, and only 2 of them were inside nyc limits. one was a balding pill addict, the other was a chubby girl from ohio. im not claiming to be anything special, but it is not easy to score a hot girl in NYC unless you have all of these qualities
A. Manager level job in a fortune 500 where you only carry a phone or a successful career in performing of some kind (stand up, music, acting, bartending, cooking)
B. at least 5' 11". if you're that tall you can lie and say you're 6'.
C. either full head of hair or completely bald
all that being said i have about 30 decent matches on hinge all from the past couple years here and i've only dated 3 of them. im talking to two girls that are responding a lot and might have a date this friday or next friday because i have a giant zit on the side of my nose that i want to heal a bit more. acne really isn't acceptable in nyc.

ive noticed there are a few stereotypes of women that really come through in nyc, but a prominent one i've noticed here is something i call The Nun. they don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs, don't party, and don't have sex. all they do is read fiction, travel, and sometimes exercise. they're obsessed with their bullshit career doing nonsense, and actually spend 8+ hours of their day at a desk processing paperwork. they're looking for a 10/10 husband while only being a 7/10 all the way down to 4/10, and they think that because they studied hard and got a good job in nyc that they're going to find one. these girls really suck and they're going to die alone.

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>>2881231

The dating scene in NYC is basically:

- White skeezy bitches who moved in for college and who worship niggers
- White skeezy bitches who moved in to work a decent job so they have high and often unrealistic standards (Will only date you if you're a millionaire, otherwise they'll let you take them for dinner and block you after you pay the bill).
- Black/Hispanic/Arab/Indian skeezy bitches who watched too many movies and try to larp as white skeezy bitches either for college or work
- Woke skeezy bitches who made passive misandry and being overly involved in the city's ''social struggles'' their entire identity yet will still fuck a man who pays her bills.

90% of your encounters will revolve around how much money you make and what is your job, everyone who moves there has big dreams and wants status and couldn't give two fucks about the rest so it leads to the most shallow conversations and relationships.

Being an overpopulated multiracial degenerate cesspool of a city, you'll always find women to have sex with even if you're an awkward sperg but for finding the one you can pretty much forget it. The city breaks people and you can see the past traumas and failures in every person you meet on a date.

>>2881732
The Nun
>don't have sex
>looking for a husband
Yeah I'm thinking that's going to be an issue for most men

>>2881250
I don't think NYC is one of our customers, but I know of other American cities that pay 10-100k for my company's platform and it's all about social media "stuff"

It's pretty fucked up, but easy enough to ignore it but not using ig, fb, twitter like a goon. Every time you visit those sites, have a plan and don't deviate from it. Sell your shit on market place and get off.

>>2881385
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>>2881740
How does it compare to European cities? I feel like the only reason Americans gas it up is because they only have their midwestern cities that are filled with fatties to compare it to.

>>2881231
Where's the best place in NYC to find attractive white women in like late 20s - mid 30s? Are there white women there?

>>2881913
>I feel like the only reason Americans gas it up is because they only have their midwestern cities that are filled with fatties to compare it to.
The midwestern cities are better
>>2883240
>Where's the best place in NYC to find attractive white women in like late 20s - mid 30s? Are there white women there?
There are white women in certain areas. Lower Manhattan, some northwestern parts of Brooklyn, and Astoria have them.
Manhattan has the prototypical career roastie wannabe bossbitches. Brooklyn has the artsy hipster vegan adjacent girls and Astoria is home to the quirk chungus variant. All of these areas have both white and asian roasties but if you venture outside of that it's mostly black and brown

>>2883263
>Manhattan has the prototypical career roastie wannabe bossbitches. Brooklyn has the artsy hipster vegan adjacent girls and Astoria is home to the quirk chungus variant. All of these areas have both white and asian roasties but if you venture outside of that it's mostly black and brown
This all just sounds awful.

>>2883264
That's his age range, that's what he wants

>>2883263
>>2883447


That sounds truly awful. I think I'm shit out of luck. I hate reddit shitlibs with a passion, but I'm also not some Manhattan millionaire.

Anywhere specifically? those places you mentioned are massive.

>>2883263
i live in astoria, the quirk chungus' don't date whites. they exclusively date ugly niggers and immigrants.

>>2885017
That's funny to imagine

>>2881231
There are just more options in a large city. Also there it's acceptable to go out with someone who's like an hour + commute away because of the shit ass subway. So it's not that NYC is that special but it's a large densely populated area with lots of choices.

>>2881231
NYC dating scene is great if you can hold a conversation with a stranger.
Women there are insanely attractive and but don't necessarily expect guys to be an Adonis.

If you're just trying to get literally any pussy, then you might have an easier time woo-ing an obese chick in bumblefuck Wisconsin, but NYC has the best hottness-to-effort ratio for guys.

>>2885233
>Women there
This faggit has never been or it's been 30+ years

One of my closest friends relocated to nyc for a job. He’s been there for almost two years and I think he’s gone on two dates total. I think it’s not worth the effort for him. Takes one hour to travel from one borough to another by subway one way, and an Uber from one to another is $50-60 one way as well. It’s gonna be hard to find people willing to put that kind of time, money and energy to hang out with someone they don’t know while they’ve got other shit to do themselves.

>>2885233
>best hottness-to-effort ratio
while there are a lot of hot girls here, its the opposite. there's a ton of ugly girls who get good jobs in NYC who move here and expect to get a stand up comedian or musician or broadway star boyfriend. the hot girls really only fuck hot guys. charisma helps in all factors, but to get laid you need a certain physique.

>>2885351
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>>2885233
>>2885043

Fellas, If you were in New York for only 1-2 days and you wanted to get down, where exactly where would you go?

I'm currently in North Jersey and it's truly the land of boomers, jeets, and fridgemode goblinas. I haven't seen one attractive white woman my age (i'm in my early 30s.) I'm talking which bar/coffee shop/neighborhood etc

>>2885353
anything around FIT will have a few hot young girls in it, but good luck talking to any of them if you're not chad

>>2885353
know your niche and go heavy into it. see>>2883263

>>2881732
Your moniker of "The Nun" is spot on.
If the girl is young (under 25), from a good family (ie, rich), and a virgin (not hard when she checks all of those other boxes), it's honestly not a bad deal. The problem is when these post-wall roasties treat their corporate job like a baby.

>>2881231
>he didnt watch sex and the city

>>2886128
QRD? Didnt watch

>>2886156
Gen X and Y girls watched a show about four 30 something sluts whore around until their biological clocks ran out. The main character even gets stood up at the altar at the end by her favorite hookup.
The IRL lady the show was based on said she regrets wasting her life hooking up with rando's in NYC and wishes she had a husband and kids/grandkids.

>>2886159
so the premise of the show is "hooking up is normal, but it's bad"?

>>2886175
No, it glamourized hookup culture, but even so art can't help but to imitate life sometimes.

>>2886176
How does it glamorize it if she gets cucked at the end? Sounds more like sex negative "all men are pigs and only want one thing"

>>2886182
I'll pretend this is being asked in good faith.
Season 1 was released in 1998. She doesn't get cucked until 2008. That's 10 years of programming before the rug pool. Also lots of subplots among friends, one converts to Judaism for example. One gets cheated on by her husband and becomes gay. One bails on her handsome boyfriend to be a slut again. etc. So on and so forth.

>>2881231
>women outnumber men 5 to 1 bro!
Yeah I'm thinking everything reaches an equilibrium. If there was some paradise with a bunch of hot women and very little male competition, the balance would quickly be restored. The secret would get out