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>be me, 19 straight cism
>had sex with a self-hating boymoder i met off this board, shes 27
>she was putting her dick up my butt
>i accidentally said "fuck me harder daddy" out of habit
>she stopped and literally broke down crying
>said she doesn't wanna stop seeing me but says she been feeling suicidal lately and it really pushed her a bit further into those thoughts
i feel so fucking bad what do i do? i dont wanna be the cause of her doing anything drastic or hurting herself
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>>42792839
If she can't understand that you're going to misspeak in exciting and high energy situations, she can't be helped.
Her feeling better will be up to her, but that doesn't mean you can't be contrite and supportive. A slip of the tongue isn't evil, and you're not a bastard or "responsible" for her behavior whether or not it's harmful.
It sucks and you can help, but it can't get better if she won't believe you when you say that you didn't mean it in that way, that you don't view her that way, etc. Like laughing at someone falling down, or some degenerate exclamation after getting hurt, some things are just knee jerk meaningless responses. Yes, those slips can inform things like what you engage with, but all this says about you is that you like to bottom and mostly bottom for men
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>>42792943
well, fair enough
Mostly just check to make sure you're not making things about you, if you're worried then use that energy to try and console and comfort her, DON'T beg to be told it's okay or that you're forgiven etc. She should have some experience with how fickle and meaningless words can be, the whole bs what is wimen loaded bullshit being such a big meme, so she should have the tools to be helped over this and recover. It's a shock and damaging to be vulnerable, naked and such with someone, even it's misinterpretation over a misspoken word, so it'll suck. Hopefully since she's made it this far she can figure out how to reel in the frustration and anxiety and you two can go back to having fun and being cute. take care of your sweety anon, it's okaya to have a little oops sometimes
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