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I'm a tranny and I had crippling dysphoria as a guy, but now I often wish I could be in a gay relationship with a man as a man, but I prefer being a woman otherwise. What am I supposed to do with this?
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>>42820568
So basically boymoding?
>>42820585
Uh I know two cis fujos who does that.
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What >>42820568 said can be a very good short term solution.
Long term, however, you might look into forcefem. You have to transition mentally too, not just physically.
You are a straight woman. It's a good thing you want to be in a relationship with a man and you're a woman socially. But you have to grow into a woman mentally too.
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>>42820633
Gotcha.
>>42820642
Uh I'm not sure how I'm supposed to fix that. A friend also told me I still perceive myself as a guy and only focus on fixing my body/social dysphoria.
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>>42820704
>I'm not sure how I'm supposed to fix that
Unironically mef shit. Affirmations, fpov and straight porn, things like that.
Also mannerisms. Nearly all can be trained (cisfs also get forcefemmed in this department as teenagers btw).
It takes a while but it's a highly essential step towards a successful transition (regardless of whether you want srs or not).
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>>42820880
Probably not, tbhon.
You're still malebrained about this. You gotta start where you are, not where you want to be. I only started enjoying some smut after srs.
How's your masturbation patterns? Doesn't matter how often, but how you do it. Vibrators on dick and dildos. Never jerk off. See things like these - https://www.tranny.one/pl/483223/
Do you top? If not, then get on rewiring your brain to always expect to bottom. Tranny porn is ok but only if the tranny bottoms. Like this - https://www.tranny.one/view/1068074/
Masc x masc is absolutely no go for you. Masc x tranny or straight. Solo cisf maybe (if you plan on getting srs).
Steps 3, 4 and 5 from this also apply to you - https://archived.moe/lgbt/thread/41887627/ (especially 4 and 5)
Transing your sexuality is simply leveraging neuroplasticity. Takes a while and feels weird at first, but consistency and practice works.
Your brain must always think of you as female at all times. Sexuality is the most vulnerable, that's why it's easier to start from there.
On mannerisms: Here's a guide on walking - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOAo2M43kTs&t=293s (do this all the time, even if nobody is watching, you can do this in public because nobody notices or cares)
Here's a guide on posture - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9PIDqW2hU
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>>42821264
How well do you do number 4? How strict? How extensive is the routine?
Some of the shit I did pre-op were so strict that they're basically default even now when I don't necessarily need them anymore. For instance I don't conceive masturbation without a vibrator even though now I can touch/rub my clit. Or I have to legit force myself to walk in a masculine pattern (haven't even tried in years). I bought a chastity belt because too often I feel weird without it even though as srsoid I objectively don't need it.
#5 is far more important than trannies on this board want to admit. At last for binary transwomen (srsoids or not).
Sexuality is when we're most vulnerable. That's why insisting there first is so important. No longer seeing yourself as a man even after multiple orgasms is fundamental.
Exercise this today, fr - https://www.tranny.one/view/1177925/
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>>42821511
That's a good start. But there's so much more.
Again, add vibrators. Learn to orgasm without an erection with a vibe. This is highly useful if done consistently (twice a week). In a few months it trains the brain to associate orgasm with general feminization. If you don't plan/want srs, you should keep this as routine/permanent practice.
If you've been volcel for more than a year, it may be time to look for a bf or fwb, preferably masc top only. I get it that you're switch, and you can go back to that (much) later once you fully view yourself as a woman. I use strap on as srsoid but it doesn't bother me. Pegging is a lot more common in straight relationships than people think.
But for now you need real life experience as sub with a masc dude. Even the most "dommy" women still have a very strong submissive side that they default to. You need to get there.
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>>42823199
Yes and not, but that's also expensive.
Start cheaper with a bullet vibrator. Also, a bullet vibrator makes it harder to orgasm by prolonging the build up (literally a feminine pattern). Use it with an affirmation/training audio or video.
Start with this position - https://www.tranny.one/view/1178643/
That's why magic wands aren't particularly good because they're best used while you stand on your back - which is gr8 if you're srsoid (or heading there) but not too great if you don't see yourself as female sexually.
Still, there is a hot use case for magic wands - https://x-tg.tube/video/58331/maddietwt-aka-maddietwt-onlyfans-i-cut-a -lot-out-cause-it-was-the-same-thin g-for-a-while-i-was/ [I still do this even post op, it's hot]
If you struggle with self-insertion, stick to straight or masc x tranny material as long as the tranny doesn't top or jerks off. Select before hand.
Of course, it's no tragedy if some slip-ups happen but the point is to consistently orgasm in feminine patterns while self-inserting as the woman. It's easier with a masc bf, but you can do this while searching.
Also, if you're not anally trained, start that yesterday lol. Ideally you should orgasm predominantly from anal with no erection.
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