How do I feminize myself

I'm a retarded twink and I wanna be a princess too ( ⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝)

>>43158092
Forcing myself to be in public at the outdoor mall today.

did all the princesses die:((

I had a conversation about my feelings and being MEF. My conclusion is that actually I think what I'm feeling is an increased libido due to aligning my body with how my brain has always pictured it, and being hot with a hot boyfriend

>>43158092
we are so back!!

>>43158174
first step shave body hair
then mannerisms behavior clothing hormones

>>43161657
clothing / style + mannerisms seems best so far. then, see if women are smiley with you, if men call you man, bro vs. buddy.

>>43158174
Shave body hair.
Get into a strict skincare routine.
Learn how to light make-up.
Get on duta.
Start mental training:
>if your native tongue is gendered, start referring to yourself in the feminine
>change your masturbation patterns
>change your porn/fantasies
>get into romance (lean into contextual attraction)
Mannerisms:
>walking patterns (just google feminine walking patterns and practice)
>posture
>language training (speak softer, use softer language
See how these work. Then consider other things.

Being a gynephile who loves MEF makes you very estranged. In an ideal world I could find someone in I would transition happily, I wish I could be bullied for feminizing myself. However it makes me not want to transition because it would be so hard to find anyone and I feel that it would be very socially isolating. I enjoy imagining sex with men but I feel little androphilia and I get turned off quickly by it. Oh well, I wish I could get bullied for being my true self..

>>43161834
I also feel my family would be unsupportive which factors into the social isolation fear.

>>43161834
It's why I microdose and flame/fagmode.
My gf is supportive of that, but thinks trooning would be too much. Also, finding a good job as a troon in my area would be really tough. But nothing stops me from becoming more fembrained tho :3
I wish my country accepted "ladyboy" as a legit identity :(
>>43161844
My family is surprised I haven't trooned, lol.

>>43161679
How do women behave with femmes
I feel like I've kinda been bullied in the past but they could have done it for retarded reasons

>>43163290
it is specific to you imo. you need to be a bit scientific about it.

>>43158174
VOICE TRAIN!!!

DO IT!

DO IT EVERYDAY!!!

I did it every morning in the shower (take super hot ones), and while I was commuting to work. Songs help extend your range, hair metal from the 80's works if you have to hide it.

>>43163242
I do wish the third gender thing was
more accepted. And I am in a conservative area so societal acceptance would be very hard, would have to stealth. Good luck on being fembrained! At least your gf is somewhat supportive, better than many

>>43163426
How

>>43165036
Societal acceptance for trannies is okay. Legal and professional? Not so much.
I could proooobably do full stealth but I know for sure I can do ladyboy - aaaalmost stealth but not quite.
>Good luck on being fembrained!
Thank you. I'll be the most fembrained feminine-looking straggot I can be. I'm already doing ok with the voice, tailored dresses for me, and have gotten deep into how to re-frame things to sound softer and more demure/feminine.
>At least your gf is somewhat supportive
She loves it when I do the femvoice and cuddle with my increasingly soft skin.
I sometimes joke (but not really) that we'll be lesbian-passing (-ish) in 2-3 years. Really unfortunate that I can't simply transition and just be a ladyboy. I don't insist on being she/her or change my name, or w/e. I just wanna look a lot more fem :(

>>43160228

We didnt die but this thread is giga cringe rhe pinned "resource" is ancient outdated generic introductory stuff about AGP and passing/transitioning.

it'd be helpful if it'd include transmaxxing resources, desu.

>>43160228
thing is since MEF is more of a sexual thing it's hard to be like "so yeah I had ice cream on sunday" like you would on mtfg. it's too limited to stay alive i fear. but cool general i enjoyed it while it lasted.

>>43167750
nta but I quasi-girlmoded today for the first time in public. I'm not even on hrt yet (starting next week) but holy shit, now I get why my parents assumed I've been DiY-ing for at least several months already.

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literally me

Dear diary today I wanted to be sort of a domme

>>43167394
Transmaxxing because you are into MEF >>>>

>>43169244
nta but yes. I mean that is why I'm trooning. I'm probably 'fake' by 'official' guidance, but I just want to.

>>43169244
What's so wrong with that?

Seems like passively consuming girly content doesn't work. Grok said to treat girly mannerisms like an "elite skill" where you practice actively an hour a day until it becomes second nature (movement and voice). Still don't see how I can apply it IRL without seeming like a homo or being judged by people. You really have to keep up a massive shield of manly protection against predatory and heteronormative normies. They are used to one kind of (You) and will freak out if you change in the slightest bit.

>>43167394
Sure I can start adding transition resources to the OP. Any contribution is welcomed!

>>43170589
Part of the path to emasculation is being fine with being perceived as a "fag"

>>43170589
>>43170728
>Part of the path to emasculation is being fine with being perceived as a "fag"
^^^this.
Fagmoding is a necessary step. I learned to fucking love it. So much so that I ended up starting hrt almost a year later when I was craving it physically because I taught myself to hate my erections.
>Grok said to treat girly mannerisms like an "elite skill" where you practice actively an hour a day until it becomes second nature (movement and voice)
What is this shit? It's not an elite skill. It's the new me. I'm a failed emasculated male 24/24 not 1/24. At the pace "recommended" by grok unironically ywnbaw.
Girly mannerisms are my first/default nature by now. Attraction to men and only men is my default now.
>You really have to keep up a massive shield of manly protection against predatory and heteronormative normies
Or you could just come out as a fag.
Also, I want to be a heteronormative normie woman by 2030 at the latest. Who gives a shit what other people think except men willing to love me.

>>43170728
How to even do that tho my whole life centers around being tough so people don't fuck with me.

>>43170817
Well I'm an actual masculine guy trying to fuck with my real personality for a fetish. It's probably not advisable psychologically to be honestt. Not sure if that was the case for thou.

>>43170837
I was a straight masc guy in January 2023.
Now I'm 3 months into the relationship with my bf and trying to further accelerate my mental, sexual and physical feminization. We're moving together in May.
Ideally I go girlmode full time by the end of this year and come out as trans.
I was never a real man. I just larped as one.
>fuck with my real personality for a fetish
or, you're trying to unveil your real personality hiding behind your current persona :3
>It's probably not advisable psychologically to be honest
It's always advisable to accept yourself first. Before asking/expecting anyone else to accept you. I accepted myself as a failed male long before anyone saw any changes in behaviors or presentation or w/e.

>>43170820
Idk but I had that issue for a while. It's just something you learn to let go.

>>43170817
>i'm gay
why say many words when few do trick?

>>43168131
wtf is this real

>>43171035
it's over

>>43170817
what do you do if you fagmoded for a while but like, eventually stopped? I started manmoding again and now I'm passively womanmoding but I don't fagmode at all with the cunty sweaters and stuff.

>>43171007
I guess it's possible I'm feminine underneath some kind of veneer but I give it a low chance. Hypothetically if I was a normal guy avoiding reality by changing themselves for a fetish I wonder how that would pan out. It's kind of wild but I guess not as bad as a heroin addiction or something like that.

>>43171043
>I'm passively womanmoding
giwtwm. But I'll get there.
I want to stop fagmoding and graduate this year. I already get confused for a woman quite often and my behaviors start to pass slowly.
I don't want to come back to fagmoding once I come out as trans. Ideally I want to be an average woman socially. Not super hot but not ugly either.
If things work out with my bf, I want to accelerate my submission to him. Not in a tradwife thing but socially and sexually. Helps soulpass better and it feels just right to me. The contrast gets me euphoric.
>I don't fagmode at all with the cunty sweaters and stuff
That's good imo. Ideally a year from now I'm never perceived as a fag at all. And in three years I'm never perceived as a tranny either.

>mef
>cis passing
sux that i can't get a boyfriend because any man would inevitably stop feeling the need to reaffirm my femininity

>>43171056
>Hypothetically if I was a normal guy avoiding reality by changing themselves for a fetish I wonder how that would pan out
Maybe that was me, maybe not. I honestly don't know or care. Ever since I accepted myself as a failed male, I've gotten better at every single aspect of my life. I'm not going back.
>It's kind of wild but I guess not as bad as a heroin addiction or something like that
Good comparison in a way.
Real men are the sum of their own vices.
Failed males can choose to accept themselves and focus that energy on that, or try to emulate real men's vices. I chose the former. The less moided I became, the better I've been feeling with myself. So I'll just carry on.

>>43171101
I kinda liked the cunty sweaters but I just feel gross wearing them now.

It's just t shirts and jeans for me now. Get she/her'd a lot but not the most consistently.

>>43158092
Are toys / chastity good? I want to use them, but it seems so degenerate.

>>43171331
yeah, theyre good. can't speak on chastity but that's more because i think a lot of the arousal comes from having a keyholder. butt stuff feels way better than jerking off

>>43171331
>but it seems so degenerate
MEF is "degenerate" and it is about letting go of shame. I am a failed male anyway so who cares.
>chastity
Fun if you have a live-in partner. Otherwise, not so much.
I got the idea form another thread here on fufu clips. Now I wear one almost daily (easier than tucking) for aesthetics but also to get my brain used to a flat crotch.
Vibrating through a fufu clip feels amazing. Also helps with training to orgasm without an erection. Gotta disconnect erections from pleasure.
>>43171382
>butt stuff feels way better than jerking off
Oh yeah. Cumming handsfree is amazing. The dildo on the wall did more for me than any affirmation.
I'm slowly getting myself to view jerking off as a disgusting fetish.

>>43171587
i just get immensely dysphoric when i do, i hope i can get a flat cage at some point so that i don't have to feel it getting erect.
ive only managed to finish without any frontal stimulation a few times but it feels leagues better than jerking off ever did

>>43171738
>i just get immensely dysphoric when i do
not quite there yet, but lowkey I want to psyop myself to that so i get the snip.
in the meantime, almost a year without jerking off and figured out how to finish without an erection using a vibrator.

>>43171113
date bifags who are into forcefem

>>43171587
nta
>The dildo on the wall did more for me than any affirmation
Sex with men does the most. Ideally in missionary.
>getting myself to view jerking off as a disgusting fetish
It can be fun... for men. Failed boys aspiring to be women absolutely shouldn't do it to themselves.
>so i get the snip
Based. You should get it sooner rather than later. Waitlist+recovery can be up to two years. Life's short and it moves pretty fast.
I waited for 3 extra years because I was retard. Don't repeat my mistake.
>finish without an erection using a vibrator
If you can tolerate cypro, use that. Not all can, but it does wonders for this purpose.

It's a very disturbing feeling to realize I am failed male and I would benefit from transitioning.

>>43172692
Why is it disturbing to you?

>>43172724
I guess I wish I didn't fail so I wouldn't need desire it. It would be far simpler life to be a man with a woman, rather than yearning to be a woman with a man.

>>43172736
>I wish I didn't fail
You didn't fail. Those like us are mostly born like that. It was over before we even knew it.
>It would be far simpler life to be a man with a woman, rather than yearning to be a woman with a man
Blessing in disguise. It's simpler to date a man. And then everything else becomes more fun.

>>43172839
>It's simpler to date a man
I was referring to being the woman part also.

>>43172865
With the love of a man by your side, feminization becomes not just easier, but fun too.

>>43172889
Where do you find the love?

>>43172980
I found my guy at a hiking event, lol.

>>43173430
Lucky. How did you get together?