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>meet girl through social media
>we go on a date, got dessert, enjoyed it, we made out
>after the date, she seems receptive
>she seems to text less bc shes busy with school or wtv so I just dont bother texting her anymore
>she eventually says she had a dream about me and wants to audio call. I said yes
During the call, the topic of films were brough up and she said "have you seen Donnie Darko with Jake Gyllenhall? He's so hot." I was really hurt bc I thought it was disrespectful, but I tried playing it off saying "he has a big nose and big eyes." This bitch then says "he just has an aura, and you don't." I was so stunned to the point of speechlessness. She then said "I like insulting you. you just take it." Again, I was so stunned and speechless. I just went quiet. She then said apologized after a few seconds. My incel trauma was activated. I've also had girls in the past complement male celebrities like this so I'm really traumatized by this. I felt hurt and disrespected.
Here's the thing: this all happened one month ago. After this call, neither of us reached out to each other. I thought she ghosted me. Then this past Friday, she texts me out of the blue asking if Im free that night or sometime this weekend. She said she didn't mind seeing me late at night after my shift on Friday. I declined bc I was busy this weekend. She now wants to know if we can hang out tomorrow.
Should I even see her considering what she said on the call? I feel that she is only reaching out to me bc other men (chads or men approximating chads) are done with her. Do you think she wants to have sex or am I expecting too much?
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>>84046456
no, anon. dont tolerate disrespect. tell her to fuck off. just do it. it will give her what she deserves and also she will like you more due to it and it will make her more thirsty for you which will hurt her more becuse she cant have you. do it.
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KEK so this bitch played me. I told her that I am free at 7:30 but I am out of ideas and asked if she knew any places. This morning she replies with
>Something happened last night and I do not think I am really feeling like going out.
I just said ok then because that is clearly a lie (unless that something means reconnecting with a chad). I feel like a sucker.
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>>84046456
bro COMMUNICATE if you're really that uptight about it
but desu u could have a better sense of humour
what she said was somewhat hurtful i guess but u could also tease her back about something
and the 'you just take it' could be made into a funny game between u guys like maybe ask if she would scratch her name into your back with her fingernails or some shit idk be creative
but yeah bro like call her and talk and ask her to care about your feelings more and if she just dumps you after that you can tell her what a terrible person she is on the way out but don't come here complaining about actually HAVING a girl even if there are some issues
no one is perfect, including you
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>>84046456
She treats you like a commodity that's only as valuable as far as her idle curiosity and boredom allows and you just take it for some reason. Why are you being a doormat? If you do meet up again just manhandle the shit out of her and treat her like a kid because that's what they want. They never emotionally and mentally mature past gradeschool and you have to treat them that way.