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>>84047028
>Still texting her via the dating app after the first date
Fucking lmao she isn't interested at all. You're supposed to transition to texting via phone number if she actually likes you. I don't even bother with dating apps dude. I met my fiance irl and just asked for her number.

>>84047042
>Fiancee
>fuck off normalfag
also normally I ask for her number or give her mine if she wants to go out again but its too much of a humiliation ritual to do so before she agrees
Sorry anon I just didnt feel that spark

>>84047028
Idk, its hard to tell. Some women are really shy and have trouble initiating, or prefer the man to initiate. I would just be honest with her and ask straight up if she would like to go on another date, yes or no. Just get a straight answer and dont waste your time if she says no.

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>>84047070
>asking for a woman's number is a humiliation ritual
Incel brain. Will be alone forever at this rate.
>I just didnt feel that spark
Then why even make a thread? Sounds like you don't even like her.

>>84047028
she unironically looks like she got down syndrome bro

>>84047028
>ice cream date
>that weak ass text
>she responds a whole day later
>still using the app and didnt get her number
Nigga are you 14?

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>>84047086
>>84047082
In hindsight I'm kicking myself because I should have just asked her out again and she seemed a little meek, I think I had just been burned by so many girls, one girl says she wants to be married withing a year and then have kids since she is 34
>think about if I could be married in a year, turns out she unmatched me in the 15 minutes it took to drive home
>one girl says she needs to delay a date by an hour, fine whatever its saturday
>show up and she is wearing a suit jacket and slacks in 100 degree weather, she works as a hotel manager, she leaves after 3 minutes of speaking to me, says her dogs got out
>think she might have been upset at how I was dressed, wasent even wearing anything bad, khaki shorts and a school polo
>match with teacher, set up date for coffee on saturday
>she messages me on thursday night saying she needs to go to work
>bs detectors start ringing off the charts figure she might not be lying since she gave me two days notice
>ask if she is free Sunday
>get unmatched

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>>84047113
Like I said before I had been burned bad by foids and was just feeling a little tired I guess, also I messaged her at darn near midnight, she responded on her lunch break

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>>84047116
Get off the dating apps dude. You come off as a 30+ year old who has zero idea what he's doing. I promise you if you can't get pussy irl then it's simply not worth having. Bitches on dating apps are the bottom of the barrel and you, the man pursuing them, are the bottom of the bottom.

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>>84047146
forgot the storytime on this one
>match with this chick, traveling audio tech that was working the two week long county fair
>she says her friends want to go to a bar downtown
>tell her I dont want to meet her friends on a first date because I want to talk to you alone and see if we like each other or not
>she reschedules for a tuesday night after work
>tells me she is gonna be pissed nad look like dogshit
>ask her if she is free on the weekend because she seems like she is in a bad moo
>get unmatched by a crazy music carnie
probably for the best

>>84047116
After the date you are supposed to immediately ask if she wants to meet up again. If she says no then you ghost her and dont waste a minute more of your time. If she says yes then you are basically pretty much in. If she cancels the next date, you ghost her and dont waste your time again.

>>84047215
after the date like while we are still there together?
Oh also I asked the dog girl if she got her dogs inside alright, when she didnt respond for a day I said that is if there even got out at all.
Reported her to bumble for bad offline behavior and she got banned, kek

>>84047028
Why are you using her name in every sentence?
Why were you wearing a lime green polo?
You sound more autistic than me and I get neetbux because I'm too autistic to live.

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forgot about waitress girl
>match with girl she works at a burger place with a lot of event space
>mention I went to a christmas party at a different location of her work, said it was nice but a beer was like 13 bucks at the private event
>she says there is no way the beer could be more than $10
>she unmatched me when I said maybe the waitress pocketed the difference
>>84047235
Lime green polo because it sticks out from the crowd and makes it easy to find me
I hate when girls dont tell you what they are wearing so you have to go to the meetup searching like wears waldo

>>84047250
>good luck in your journey
Yuck

>>84047250
Okay so I'm not fluent in insecure normalfag but I THINK what happened here is she feels attacked because you are 'attacking' 'her tribe'. Normalfag subtext shit is fucking retarded.

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>>84047235
This is op btw, whats wrong with how I look?

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>>84047344
Probably, she must have been a retard to not realize a private event bartender than just sticks around to serve a small group of 20 or 30 people is allowed to charge more than a bartender working a normal shift where you have dozens and dozens of people coming and going

I forgot about Taco Tuesday girl
>take girl out to taco tuesday because its a cheap event I was going to anyway and its not skin off my bone if they flake or whatever
>she comes in, greet her, we go to order
>Look at her and ask what tacos she would want
>she steps a head of me, orders $2.50 cents for of tacos (1.25 each) then whips out her card to pay
>wasen't sure if I would interject say I got it, then give my order
>she seems a little pissed that I didnt pay for her food.

When i talked to a foidfriend she said she must have eaten before she got to the place or had a really big lunch, some girls also dont like eating in front of a dude apparently
>>84047366
I'm like 20 or 30 lbs heavier and a spic but close enough

>>84047376
Honestly, just focus on having fun, the best way to ruin shit is to go in expecting anything out of it. I met my wife though one of those apps and we have been together 8 years and have a son. But I get the fatigue, I know how annoying the game is.

>>84047070
how fucking difficult is it to ask for a number
stop beating around the bush faggot

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>>84047113
>he aint no shake date
gay homo

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>>84047433
No because Im not a fat little bitch boi like YOU
>y..you want to pick up ice cream..?
Fuck outta here

>>84047449
im a skinny fuck, bet i weigh half of what you do fatty

>>84047028
Honestly man eating her sundae isn't a big deal. Most women don't mind a man with a big appetite as long as you're not gross or slobbish about it

>>84047235
>Why are you using her name in every sentence?
I work at a call center and we're supposed to do this when dealing with customers. I feel like it comes off as awkward and overly formal when talking to a woman, so I don't know why OP was doing that.

>>84047146
>a beta's textgame
You are supposed to make things enticing or exciting

>>84047028
This girl is just being polite. Move on I'd say, or you're going to waste a lot of time and stress over something that by the look of it won't go anywhere. When you see how girls, even shy girls, text when they are actually interested it'll blow your mind.
>Also I couldnt tell if she liked me or had a good time from her text maybe im just autistic
If they're talking to you like a Tech Support assistant it's a good indication that they're not that interested.

>>84047028
She politely cut you off.
>>84047116
Hotel girl only needed three minutes to be crept out by your behavior. It was not just your clothing. Every single one of your dates so far have been turned off after meeting you. You can't blame her for not sticking around while feeling uncomfortable.
>>84047250
People don't like negative Nancy's who always immediately assume the worst and who'll talk shit about people without knowing the full circumstances.

Hope that helps, you autist. There's no use thinking about a singular detail just being the reason for a date failing. It's the little things that add up, the vibe.

Why do you use her name like that
It should be used to get someone's attention in a group or to start a letter or email. Using it over and over like that makes you seem esl or performatively formal in a geeky way. Just trying to help

>>84049828
Self-help books often tell males to frequently use the name of the person they're talking to. They argue that it makes the other party feel heard and included, which when done sporadically is true. The autistic writers and readers of books like 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' however don't understand nuance and will bomb you with your first name until it gets obnoxious.

>>84047028
Should have eaten the whole thing.
If you know you know

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>>84050256
nah nigga I do NOT know, you will inform me (pls)

>>84049343
I was 6'2 and 230 so I didnt want to look like a lardass
>>84049809
Hotel chick just seemed like a cunt. Also there was some confusion about the dating location, I ask if she is good with this one coffee shop, she asks if we could move it to a different coffee shop downtown because she liked their iced coffees and had to have a dental appointment that morning. Then she texts me that her dental appointment was canceled so I show up to the first coffee shop. She says she is at the other one and I walk 10 minutes over because its a nice day.

Cant even really recall what I spoke about, I asked her a few things about her degree in hospitality management because I had never heard about that program.

With waitress girl I wasen't talking shit I know I paid a higher amount for the beer than what she said was possible. Look if that dumb cunt wants to cancel dates on a dime its on her for being single

>>84050280
Showing her you can like ice cream is like licking cunny or ass

>>84050873
These girls have been nothing but nice to you, you fucking freak.
>the coffee shop confusion
You were retarded to think her appt being cancelled meant she wanted the first location.
were you dropped on your soft spot as a baby? kek
>says cunt multiple times
incel melty

>>84050888
Leaving after 3 minutes is a cunt move, she could have at least waited 15 or 20 to fake an emergency