>>84051760
Somehow this is the most homosexual post on this board, even though there is nothing gay here.

fuck her right in the choochie. whats wrong with you?

>because "that's how you ruin valuable friendships".
Already is. The moment she let it slip, it was all or nothing. If you accept, you have a gf. If you reject, things will always be awkward with you two.

>>84051760
yea sorry but she already ruined the friendship. her feelings arent going away any time soon and you would basically be friendzoning her if you try to continue being friends. either date her or stop being friends, you can be reasonable and explain why you csnt be friends anymore without seeming like a piece of shit, just explain you dont want to be the asshole who friedzoned somone who has feelings for them because its not healthy at all

wtf is wrong with you anon, like ofc be her bf wtf is wrong with u actually? dude i would cut off my own finger to be in your position. is she cute? has she ever had sex before? how often do u hang out? dude people would fucking KILL TO BE IN YOUR POSITION FUCKING DO IT FAVGOT

>>84051760
Are you attracted to her? Turning her down will also ruin the friendship. Just go with your gut.

Just because you wrote a wall of text about your headcanon doesn't mean it'll be true. Keep dreaming.

You do know that relationships are often borne out of friendships, right?

Would you NOT want to be with someone you feel comfortable with? That you enjoy being around?

women keep people single, that bitch who told you it would be a bad idea is simply keeping the both of you single. Women keep others, especially other women, single.

Are you fucking retarded OP? The greatest love stories started as long-term friendships. Don't listen to that female friend she's trying to keep you both single.

>>84051931
I think I made it clear what the situation is.
I think she is kinda cute. Not exactly a girly girl but she's barely 5'0.
I think she has never had sex, like I'm basically the only guy she has hung out with, aside from her brother. Though that's not my business.
We have hang out basically every day.

Might as well give it a try since things are not going to be the same like before now the secret is out.

Fembot here.

Women are constantly competing with other women and your female friend (not the tomboy) most likely said that to keep her away.

If you like her then go for it, if you don't then don't lead her on.

>>84051971
>sub 5 foot tomboy
Are you actually a homosexual? Or just incredibly beta?

>>84051971
>I think she is cute
Then date her retard

>>84051971
then what is stopping you from agreeing to date her. post a pic of her anon post a pic of her blur her face out if u want but i wanna see her fucking do it. do u have discord? i wanna be friends with u and get updates. add me on discord.
brlrder

>>84051961
yeah this. u have been friends since u have been babies and hang out every day. u think having sex with her is gonna make things much different or worse? holy shit anon. most couples meet when they are in their 20s or 30s u have the luck to have known tbis girl since childhood goly fuck anon holy holy fuck. this is the opportunity most people dont have the priveledge of having. im gonna die alone anon i can never get anyone to stay for more than a few years and u manage to know someone for 19 years. tbis could be ur partner for life are u retarded? fucking go for it holy fjxkikimg sbit

Sure. Why not try and see how it works out? Also, this: >>84051991
>most likely said that to keep her away.
I find men funny sometimes. They forget that we are the most vicious to our own sex. Look at pick-mes and nlogs as an example. Men can hate each other but become best friends right after, while us there is no fkrgiveness.

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>>84051760
you havent spoken to her since??
what the fuck is wrong with you?
genuinely what is your malfunction??

>>84052159
I just don't know what to say to her. I feel conflicted. Hurting her is the last thing I want to do.

>>84052187
NEVER let her go nigger, virgin foids are like 1% of the population

>>84052198
I'm just not good with girls

>>84051785
>>84051790
>>84051931
>>84051984
>>84051996
>>84052000
>>84052159
You simps are the reason why women don't respect men and think men are easy.

Why does he have to date her just because the opportunity arises?

>>84052243
Because he said he thinks she's cute? Do you think men should just never date women or something?

>>84052243
virgins are massively rare, OP may never get a chance with one again

>>84052256
Dude like 10% of women in their 20s are virgins it's not THAT rare lmao. It just narrows the market.

>>84052243
he is never going to have a chance this good with a girl. not only she is a virgin but they are best friends and have known each other since birth. sure he could find virgin foids again if he is incredibly lucky, but he is never gonna meet a girl he has known since childhood who also likes him

>>84052263
OP will get older and older, i'm 21 and not a SINGLE foid i meet is a virgin. Women in their 20s is when they slut around to "enjoy their youth"

They almost always lose their virginity throught 16 to 22

>>84052254
> Because he said he thinks she's cute?
So? Did he say he was interested in her? That's all that matters. You people are just implanting ideas inti his head and trying to get him to live out the life you want

>>84052256
> virgins are massively rare
What does that have to do with hits attraction towards the female friend? If he liked her, he would've already accepted and wouldn't be here debating out about the offer

>>84052274
> who also likes him
All of that is negligible if he doesn't like her back. A relationship built on a list of desires/requirement almost never works how the person imagines.

Tell her everything you just told us in this thread.
Just tell her the truth and see what she says and feel it out from there. Life isn't all or nothing. You two clearly like being around each other so you should be around each other and form the relationship in a way that feels right.

>>84051760
Sounds like another good example of women can't be friends to me. Ditch her, if the feelings ain't mutual it's bad news.

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>>84052315
>What does that have to do with hits attraction towards the female friend?
When OP is older he will have to pay hundreds and hundreds of dollars every month so a roastie that has ridden and sucked 50+ cocks can give him a chance. He should try his luck with his virgin friend instead.

>>84051760
>"that's how you ruin valuable friendships"
No, if you reject her it 100% will ruin your friendship

It all comes down to whether you're able to see yourself romantically involved with her or not. If you hard reject her it'll definitely kill the friendship, if you soft reject her (friendzone or siblingzone her) maybe she'll consider staying in your life as a friend, but eventually it'll fade out and you'll be nothing more than acquaintances

So think about it

>>84052315
If he likes her personality and finds her attractive why wouldn't he be interested?

>>84052243
>telling someone to try it is now simping
Found the sour grape incel.

>>84052566
It's always been seen as simping to be easy to women. This is nothing new

>>84051760
I hate you. I hate you so much. The childhood friend turned gf/wife is the purest form of love there is. It's all I could have ever wanted. But I never got it. I never had a female friend and never will. I'm 29, bitter and alone.
I hope you get brain cancer.

>>84051760
if that were real you should marry he

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>>84051760
If bait, kill yourself. If not, still kill yourself

>>84051961
What straight guy has 2 female friends anyway?

>hello /r9k/ my cute virgin tomboy friend confessed her love to me
>im going to reject her lol
>also this is all.real

>>84051760
IDFK, most of my friends are dudes and I think the only reason have gay feelings towards him is cause he's the only one willing have me get physically close with him. Not sex, just cuddling and taking care of him while he is sick. Which is doubly weird cause mofo has a gf who lives with him so I don't know why he calls me to take care of him when he's sick and she been trying her best to set me up with chicks.
>>84052159
>genuinely what is your malfunction??
NTA but I'm just not pretty enough. Brain buffers when random chicks walk up to me.

>>84051760
Some good advice and some bad advice here in this thread

Can it ruin the friendship? Possibly, but if you're both mature it may not, or it will end on positive terms. But what else can ruin the friendship is if you refuse to date her, she gets in a relationship with another guy (which she will) and then either he gets in between you or you simply drift apart because life, geography and time. You're still young and inexperienced so you're worrying too much about shit that will likely happen... Or not happen regardless of the choice you make. Before the 2000s almost all relationships started as friendships, and these also make stronger relationships

You already know her well, she seems decent, not showing fatherless behavious from what you've said and she had the courage to be honest and ask you out instead of playing mind games. You will likely never meet a woman that good again. I can say this having talked to many good women, evil women and women who mean well but are just too much of an incompetent fuckup to be a viable partner.

My opinion is that enjoy each day as it comes and enjoy each moment you get with her as it may be your last. If you like her you're a retard to not date her... Waiting for something that might happen or avoiding something good in case a bad outcome happens is a stupid way to live. You have the chance right in front of you to make it and escape this hellhole but you're taking your chances of staying on r9k as an incel forever because???

>>84051760
that's cute I like those shoes on her

>>84052243
putting your dick in a pussy is many things but simping aint one of them

>>84051760
i mean u can try being a couple and than if it doesnt work out u can work to being friends again, desu if someone has caught feelings it already over, u should try it and see where it goes desu

>>84051760
yeah you're pretty fucked, your only chance is getting lucky with which choice you pick, you could lose her either way

Why not? Me and my significant other started off as really good friends.

>>84051760
this is 100% troll thread

unless you had better options (you're here, you don't) you'd give it a shot

>>84051760
Mommy Hinoka

>>84053257
This is what i'm talking about, OP will NEVER meet a woman that good again, especially after he gets older and older and all the women around him become used up whores

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>>84051760
you are in such a unique position that most people can only dream of, to have your best friend tell you they want to be with you
bro if you dont do this you may not regret it now, but you will deeply and thoroughly regret it later
i would give so many things to be in your position
hope you come to your senses

>>84051760
you should impregnate her asap

I had this too. Unfortunately she died about a year ago

>>84055482
I'm so sorry man, what did she died of?

>>84055705
Cancer. It was completely symptomless until it was too late.

>>84051971
OP, I say this with all my heart. You may be the dumbest fucking man alive. You are living other people's wet dream and choosing to compromise it. Stop it. Date her.

>>84055726
:(((
what type of cancer? did you reciprocate her feelings?

>>84051760
She had feelings for you for 6 years and you never noticed? Women make it obvious when they are interested in you

>>84055845
Aggressive lung cancer with metastases basically all over her, including her brain.
Yes I did.

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>>84051760
>dating your childhood friend
JUST LIKE IN MY WAPANESE ANNIEMAYS HELL YEAH

>>84056174
waow!!! sugoi!!!

>necrobumping a thread with a soijak
Cringe.

>>84052315
well so far, femanon, the relationship between him and this girl has been working out for almost 2 decades, so you cant tell him that it wont work out when it already has been working out for longer than 99% of the relationships anons have on this site. He is not going to find anyone else he is more compatible with. And the girl may not be able to handle rejection and may hurt anon

>>84053382
Who is Mommy Hinoka?

>>84056291
Nigger I just wanted to say something about osananajimi so why do you always have to be a bitch??

>>84051760
>When I talked about this with my other friend she told me it would be a very bad idea, because "that's how you ruin valuable friendships".
it's already ruined, you have 2 options, either you reject her and she drifts apart (and finds other men to replace you with) so the rejection hurts less or you don't reject her and you become a couple

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>>84051760
GO OUT WITH HER YOU FUCKING RETARD. You will never have an opportunity like this again. If you don't go for it now, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Okay update I sent her a message telling her I want to be with her.

>>84057894
Way to go, OP. Her admitting to you, it was a make-or-break situation. Might as well take advantage of it.

>>84057894
post the chat, i don't want you to ruin this faggot. I bet you were too dry

>>84057894
You better not fuck it up, anon. You've got a golden opportunity here.

>>84058338
It's not in English tho.
But she responded with a lengthy spill about feeling awful and guilty about potentially ruining our friendship. I'll meet her tomorrow to talk with her more. But she says she is "happy".
But I gotta apologise to her in person for taking so long to answer.

>>84059545
please add me on disc anon i need to get updates please add me - brlrder