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>HATING PEOPLE WITH BPD IS WRONG
>THINKING BPD = BAD PERSON IS WRONG
>YOU ARE WRONG
>RANT
People with BPD really are not as bad as you say! Sure, they have episodes, ups and downs, even veritable freakouts. Some become obsessive and get hurt over very minor things. All of them are different, so stop lumping them into one pile!
People focus on the bad, never mentioning the good of a BPD friend or partner. In my experience, people with BPD are dedicated friends and partners. They understand how much it sucks to lose someone and go to their wits' end to prevent it.
>THREAD PURPOSE
If you have BPD or don't mind BPD, post in this thread looking for a friend or partner.
>asl
>friends or dating
>experience with BPD
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>asl
38/m/est
>hentai
cute dicks, small breasts, lolicon, moe, oral, glasses, oneshota, sisters, tomboys, traps, brown girls, futanari
>animu
bocchi the rock, yuru camp, k-on, dragon maid, nichijou, aria, shirobako, girls' last tour, machikado mazoku, hidamari sketch, ruri rocks
>vidya
pokemon, skullgirls, katawa shoujo, final fantasy tactics advance, disgaea, twinkle star sprites, magical pop'n, cotton, umihara kawase, arcana heart, rosenkreuzstilette
>looking for
any gender
mutual nudes
sharing hentai
romantic friends
>not looking for
just goon
zero nudes
face reveal
voice calls
>discord
out.sub
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I cured my bpd. Therapy failed, medication failed, but what finally worked was realising women are incapable of love.
Love is a masculine quality, and while most men are also incapable of it, some are. Women aren't able to at all, though.
Instead, they seek value and gravitate towards whatever provides it. Men also do this, but only generally, not as a rule. Women are only capable of seeking the value, and becoming attached to it, whether it's sex, money, power, status, security, etc, and will only stay with someone they see as capable of providing those things. If it vanishes as a possibility, so does the "love".
Example, two people get together, one has a high paying job, but loses that job. They stay together, because the intention is to get another one. Two people get together, physically slim, one puts on a lot of weight, but they stay together because the intention is to lose the weight. Alternatively, the person says they don't want to get another job, the person says they don't care about gaining weight, etc. Their partner starts having doubts and wants to leave. Most men and all women will do this. They will stay as long as the main factor is there, and leave when it isn't. The factor can vary, but the pattern is always the same.
It is meaningless to pursue love with a woman, because they cannot feel it. This is not an issue for any man who is the same way, because they can leech off each other, but for men who seek love, there is no respite. Unless you're gay, which I'm not, the solution is to make peace with God's love, and die alone.
This realisation is the cure to bpd.
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A thread of faggots who have never tasted pussy making excuses for why they have never bothered to better themselves and live like normal humans.
Bpd is the excuse that retarded maladjusted basement dwellers use to explain away why the act like stupid faggots and can't keep a relationship with anyone.
The real issue here is that you are a bunch of porn addicted niggers who rots away in your room. The only problem you faggots have is a lack of motivation to do better.
Sad to see this many losers fail to realize they are the problem.
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>>34822770
That's because men don't go to fucking therapist since psychologists to see what actually is wrong with them, they make it. everyone else's problem until they literally can't anymore instead. women are also more likely to be raped than anyone else, especially at a young age, which is one of the triggering factors for BPD. get your head out of your ass. I don't even have the shit, largely can't stand BPD, and this fucking comment pissed me off.
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>>34823291
by the way, retaining a fake calm/condescending tone doesn't actually admonish you of the dumb shit coming out of your mouth. what you said was inherently manipulative and bad faith, which anyone with a functioning brain not completely clouded by incel-blackpill propaganda can see. so like, anyone who has actually touched grass or a woman without it being sexual assault. have the day you deserve
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>ASL
19/F/USA
>Looking for
lately ive been feeling like something is missing in my life & i think having someone i can truly bond with will heal my soul. my ultimate goal is to form a serious relationship. i want a lifelong partner (aka a husband) that i can eventually meetup with irl. i will get to know you first and see where things take us. please dont add me just to immediately sext me, not interested in that until we've established that sort of relationship. being able to vc sometimes is a plus.
>Not looking for
ghosters, unironically rude people, people immediately interested in sex, doesnt contribute to conversation, consistently taking forever to respond, people who do not live in the USA, people not looking for a serious long-term relationship, people who dont want to have children, NEETs
>Interests
singing, video games, cooking, tv shows, voice acting, fashion, food, doomscrolling, hiking, animals, just started getting into jigsaw puzzles and i love it
>Discord
lovecassie
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>>34823289
You really over reacted to this comment. You should try to become self aware of your black and white thinking. You just wanted to attack men and not actually try to discuss the topic even if he was trying to trigger a response from you. You shouldn't have given him the reaction he wanted
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BPD means bad person. I don't care if they pretend and gaslight everyone into thinking "they don't mean to be cunts". If you can't accept accountability for being a cunt due to BPD, you can't accept accountability for being nice either. It goes both ways
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>>34823349
They are pretty awful to deal with. It is a problem it's a childs emotions in an adults body. They can get over it with therapy. Their behaviour should never be excused but that doesn't mean it is a problem for them. They just need to work on the issues
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>>34822283
Bpd women rape and kill their children, there is no good in them except occasional good sex.
>>34822330
Capeshit, I'm afraid
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>BPD thread turns into /r9k/ thread about how awful BPD women are, 0 actual contacts posted that aren't spammers
BPD isn't even real, it's just how traumatized women with disturbed nervous systems are and you guys can't handle it.
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>>34822283
I'd date a BPD chick if she would never cheat on me, ghost, or just randomly decide to drop me. I like chaotic girls, but I don't like getting thrown off the ride. Is that even possible for a BPD person though?
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>>34824246
Dating a clingy and jealous girl is SO fucking EXHAUSTING. Having someone threaten suicide on top of that when you've gotten fed up? Naahhh bruh. I've already had my fair share. I'm fucking good. It's only fun the first time. The second time you're fucking retarded. Third time you're irredeemable and deserve everything that happens to you.
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>>34824527
I don't understand this. Number one you should know after dealing with them threats of suicide from BPD girls are just calls for help and attention 99% of the time. Why is it bad to have to give your SO attention when they need it? I know they can be exhausting, but like it's like you said, if you go into a relationship with one you should know ahead of time they'll be clingy and continually need attention and love. I like that personally. My issue as I said before is that they will usually just suddenly change how they feel about you completely in a split second which leads to cheating, ghosting, and them dropping you. That's the outbursts that actually hurt because it completely destroys the relationship no matter what.
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>>34824671
Because it's just as you said. Clinginess and jealousy stem from insecurity which could or could not be a result of BPD. All of which, is extremely fucking exhausting to have to deal with, even if they're incredibly adoring or caring people. Which to be real, is often the case. People cheat for a variety of reasons, in cases like this, it's usually a protective mechanism/way to get control of a situation they feel they're losing control over. I honestly only wish the best for the girls I've dated with legitimate BPD, but it's just something that's extremely difficult to have to actually live and deal with. If they aren't making any efforts to help their BPD it's just one of those things doomed to fail. I always have this moment of lucidity where I'm like, Bro... why the fuck am I even dealing with this bullshit? Which is always hard because it can be difficult to tell where the person ends and the BPD begins. Legit BPD can be fucking hell. Most of what people on here call BPD is just like a catchphrase to describe shitty toxic girls
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I think I may have bpd but Im not diagnosed and I never got therapy or psychiatric help so I won't self diagnose or post
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>>34822283
This image alone is why you should be annihilated
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'Untreated BPD is linked to chronic relationship instability,frequent intense conflicts, push-pull dynamics, cycles of idealization/devaluation, higher risk of breakups, and mutual exhaustion. The fear of abandonment can fuel clinginess, jealousy, accusations, or impulsive actions (including sometimes cheating as a maladaptive coping mechanism), creating a feedback loop that's tough to break. Partners often describe it as emotionally draining, with little progress if the core issues aren't addressed. While some natural improvement can happen with age or life changes (BPD symptoms often lessen over decades even without intervention), untreated cases frequently lead to repeated relational turmoil, isolation, or other complications."
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22/mtf/US
L,T, bpd, audhd yayyy
lonely neurotic traumatized
>interests
pokemon, i play legends z-a and it would be cool to have someone to post to about it
>looking for
people smarter than me to put 100% of the effort in
no men
>not looking for
anyone who expects effort from me
non vidya-focused talk
anyone who plays league
men
"hi" "hru" "what's up" and any other 1-4 word opener...
https://nohello.net/en/
very dumb/very insecure people (not what i need sorry)
i like attention, game analysis, weed, i mostly just want to talk about pokemon though
>discord (no men)
lumvyiuex
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>>34826779
>I doubt it but I like them, I wish they would talk to me.
Weak beta males say shit like this not realizing that the endgame with bpdemons is them accusing you of being a rapist/abuser/whatever and roidtranny cops throwing you in jail to be abused by niggers. It would certainly be funny to see you try though, thinking that it'll be manic pixie Scott Pilgrim shit and not just some roastie who gets away with her terminal bad behavior all the time
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>>34832903
Dead foids tell no tales
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>>34832903
My ex had bpd and I enjoyed the thr fuck out of the rollercoaster of really high highs and low lows in the relationship. But I’m not going to frame it like that so my future bpdemon waifu doesn’t see me as some sort of chaser, also because some bpd chick would flip a table if an ex were mentioned. Basically stfu and kys retard you don’t know me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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23/M/USA
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