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To a guy that may not care:

Kind of embarrassing of me to do this considering I am the one who did it, it's only been two weeks, and I don’t know if you’ll ever even see this or go here still, but I wanted to get this out there.

When I said I was offended/hurt, that wasn’t really true. Honestly, I don’t fully understand my "reaction" to what you said, because I believe it. I ended things suddenly because I felt like I didn’t have anything meaningful left to say to you and that I was wasting your time.

Instead of saying that directly, I made something up on the spot so it was more than me just ghosting or only saying “I don’t want to talk anymore,” which, in hindsight, would have maybe been a bit better to say than, yknow, lying and making you seem like the bad guy. I also wasn’t, and still am not, in a great place mentally, which probably contributed to everything. I was diagnosed with MDD that day and my parents hadn't been very kind to me about it.

I really enjoyed talking and playing games with you, if that means anything. You were a good friend to me despite me not giving much in return. I don’t expect anything from this. I'm sorry C.
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woman moment
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>>34931208
not my best
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>>34931202
Bumping so C... Can C this...
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>>34931230
live n learn i guess
well good luck to you
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>tfw no insane gf who unironically posts vague /soc/ threads when im afk for 1 hour
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Hits hard. Something similar happened to me today but from the guys side

Here is a bump from me
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>>34931375
Oh yeah? What'd you do?
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>>34931390
I was the guy in my version (in op post). If she didn't say it happened two weeks ago, I would have thought the post was about me

Ended over month ago, but kept talked as friends until I was blocked on everything today. Specified to me that I didn't do anything wrong before doing it. It just hard not seeing that she is there, online, where I could reach her if I wanted. 2y.
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>>34931402
Oh you were talking to them for 2 years and they just blocked you? That's rough. I guess you just have said some fucked up shit
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>>34931425
Nah, just a relationship that ran its course but I hoped to stay in touch at least as friends, which we tried for 1 month. Until today
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>>34931433
Hm, something in the air, lots of break ups happening, shifts in moods and desires. Decuffing season is upon us.
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>>34931439
Yes, you might be right.

It help me a bit to vent so thank you for your inquiring, friend
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>>34931402
it's always another man. you do realize that, right? you never stop competing. ever.
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>>34931202
How long were you guys friends for?
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>>34931643
about 7 months
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I just farted, idk why I ate fast food slop now my gut is fucked up
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>>34931480
Yes very likely. Her moving on is something natural. Just wanted to be in her corner supporting her throughout life as a friend
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Honestly I feel like this is genuine and heartfelt on one hand, on the other hand I don't know If I really can empatize with behavior like this. I have very mixed feelings about it. Honestly don't understand why people act like this, but at least you realize it's not ok and felt the need to come clean which is more than what some others do.
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What people want long-term, the oxytocin, is in direct conflict with what people like short-term, the dopamine.
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>>34931202
Yeah it's me I rabu you, show boba plox
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>>34932420
you realize she's mentally ill and completely at the mercy of her illness (and her female sexual imperative)? if the poor sucker takes her back she'll do it again and worse. there's no coming back from this sorta shit.
if only you didn't get locked up for beating them. they want to be beaten. it's all a giant tantrum.
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>>34932387
that never works out. don't try it again. they always resent you. it worked out for me once but i'm special.
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>>34931202
C is for cookie. That's good enough for me.
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>>34932515
I've plenty of exes with which I have a good standing with and can talk too. Hence why this was a bit of a shock :/
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To a girl that may or may not care:

I wonder what happened to you and I miss you. I think about what I could have done differently or if it was always doomed to be as such. Too much distance put between. It was fun while it lasted A, hope you feel the same. If you're around, tell me how it went.
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>>34933507
Alright let's hear it, what's your sob story how did it fall apart?
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>>34933495
welp, it sucks bro. but wanting to hold on to all these women, idk man, what's the appeal? like when you actually examine your feelings
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>>34933507
Adrijus?
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>>34933534
I have never heard that name in my life
>>34933521
It was a long time ago the details don't matter anymore
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>>34933539
Then why even vaguepost? Doth thou desire to wax poetic? Lmao. Lemme help you out, what's the first letter of your name
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>>34933587
Please sir, you misunderstand me. The fine lady in question would recognize my post if she were to see it. I don't wish to be so messy as to spew private details of her life into this cesspit, but I do have some small desire to hear from her once more before a final parting. I have no name, call me nemo if you must.
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>>34933532
The good memories will always be there even if the passion ended and such, I still care about their wellbeing. I'm a very resourceful person that can help out in many ways if they need help and that makes me happy to be able to.

I should add that I have gone through many relationships and they all have many good memories. Most of them we knew wouldn't work out from start but that doesn't mean I don't care for them afterwards, as you would for a good friend
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i wish things worked out with my person, but he didnt want me. i miss you, m.
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>>34933897
What happened, anon?
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>>34934061
i put months of energy and being patient for someone who just didnt care or value me. i had to unadd him eventually, it really hurt me

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