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Can a loner man in his early-mid 30s change his lifestyle to hang out with younger people and party and fuck college sluts if he travels? What are the best travel locations for this?
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>>2867607
I met a guy in his early 40s in a Budapest hostel. He went out clubbing and talked with a lot of people. I never saw him score with any woman, but he never made it awkward and he fit right in with the rest of the 20 something's
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>>2867645
Bullshit. I guarantee that nobody is asking you where your parents are or why aren't you in school.
>>2867607
All those years of being alone have atrophied your social abilities in a hundred different ways that well-socialized people can't help but pick up on. Sometimes you'll encounter a girl who is tired of hyper social normie chatter, but such types tend strongly toward friendzoning. Best bet is to stop trying to analyze the shit out of sex having (a peak incel trait) and go out there to experience it instead.
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>>2867649
>All those years of being alone have atrophied your social abilities in a hundred different ways that well-socialized people can't help but pick up on.
I just barely got out of the shower after coming back to my room after having experienced that from someone I actually kind of thought I'd click well with because I briefly met with them a previous night and chatted/flirted. I then returned to their bar just tonight.
I felt like I was going down the beta boy route with our conversation and then just started asking about how they work in the bar and what rates they have for "studying" since I'm sure they do it. They just ended up quoting me a way higher price for the night or an hour than I ever got and they kept asking how old I was and then watching tiktoks on their phone. Fucking GOD.
It's obvious I was perceived as "old" and my ego was hurt and I was disappointed because they gave me the highest quote I've ever received from anyone and I thought it was total BULLSHIT. After they saying I was handsum. Piecing something else together I think there was a group chat of those bar girls in the area because when I left and walked into another bar I was actually greeted by some random woman as grandpa when I jokingly told the first one I was with I'm grandpa.
I'm not even 40 and I'm getting rejected and mocked for my age and given jacked up prices and apathetic treatment.
Got fucking damn fuck you all.
It's increasingly obvious to me that they're not going to really like me for much more than my money and so I'm just going to have to buy empty dopamine hits. Fuck you all.
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>>2867607
>college age
Realistically, you'd need to buy a villa in Tulum, Ibiza, or Cabo, and be a really good host and guide (get free drinks, organize transport, club connections, etc).
Traveling from place to place and larping like the most interesting man in the world is just really not realistic IMO.
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>>2867671
Ehhh, I'd say go for mid twenties to late twenties women, they're peak and safely out of the retard phase.
>>2867693
Obsessed. What is it with you clowns? Unless you are mentally stuck in grade school for life, you age out of being interested in 20 year old women eventually.
Get over having spent your twenties as a loser, compensating for that years later is embarassing.
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>>2867607
>Can a loner man in his early-mid 30s
sure? When I went to Eastern Europe for work and decided to have some nightlife, there were people from all walks of life out and about. It was a normal thing. The same when I went to Japan. I truly believe its only in the USA where clubbing/nightlife had become so hostile.
>change his lifestyle to hang out with younger people and party and fuck college sluts if he travels
now this is where it gets complicated. If you are balding, overweight, have no sense of personal goals/ambition or lifestyle, no fashion sense or friends- why would they go with you? They can go with a younger, more successful, handsome and outgoing guy. So you also have to compete against those type of men. You have to stand out in other ways. They can travel like you, have friends their own age that you don't. What sets you apart?
>What are the best travel locations for this?
Just go to oldschool Europe. Helsinki in Finland. Anywhere in Eastern Europe. Asia. South America.
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>>2867739
Probably a skill issue. I fuck mostly 16-24 year olds and most of them are very active in bed, especially when encouraged.
Being attractive personally is only one element. Actually knowing how to arouse and seduce a woman is another.
Work on your touch and hand game before the main event. If she isn't leaking into your palm, she isn't ready.
Go ahead and post your cope now, but this is your wakeup call. It's not even a debate, you're just fucking up and im informing you of the fact.
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Taking a flight to a random destination isn't going to magically make you a Lothario, but every loner hopes that going to a city like Prague or Bangkok and lurking around a street full of bars will lead to a series of happenings that will manifest a buoyant escapism they never felt before and result in a memorable night. How often does such a breakout actually happen? Rarely. It's called the law of accumulated advantage. But that doesn't stop guys from trying their best.
Paralysis by analysis is another pitfall. You spend so much time thinking and fantasizing about women in the abstract that when you encounter a foid IRL, your brain freezes up for that crucial moment when you had an opening, too cluttered with endless hypothesizing to react to a developing situation. Then it's gone forever, and you descend further into obsessive self-criticism...or else clear your mind and become entirely focused on the humans in your environment...which is how you attune yourself to the behavioral cues of a population and gain confidence for the next crucial moment of initial approach.
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Only if you look like this.
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>>2868001
No, im a 6' even 40 year old multi millionaire American, which easy-ish because I worked hard in my 20s and was buying stocks and crypto.
It sucks that you're Indian but we all have our own struggles.
Maybe if you put in your time you can get arranged married to your fat cousin and enjoy her mustache on your curry stirrer.
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>>2868032
This is a good post. I dropped gaming as a hobby/time waster almost entirely (from 40hours a week down to 2) and a lot of my depersonalization/brain fog went away. I also quit porn and dont save it to my devices. That took some willpower but I got over it.
The end result was that I could actually talk to people and be engaged with them irl without any issues at all, since socializing is an activity which can be enjoyable if you arent dopamine fried already. Not having 8 hours of gaming to sink into means you arent pressured to rush anything else, so people go from 'obstacles to getting home and playing vidya' to 'the reason I came out'.
Many anons are now mature enough for thst conversation. I wasnt strong enough to do it by sheer willpower. I had to leave the laptop at home and fly to another country for a couple months and force it. The boredom was excruciating, so I just went and did stuff. Anything. And I had a great time and met people.
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>>2867609
this pretty much
also dont be retarded and punch out of your league
you know it, sometimes you get lucky though in that case take the chance
dont ever be disappointed, if you strike out just leave dont dwell on it. improve
honestly did better when i was a brokie then i suddenly had money and i turned into an incel, so really it dont matter what you have so long as youre confident and take care of yourself, bitches can smell desperation and will likely take your shit
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>>2867607
Your entry ticket to the prime teen pussy palooza as a 30something is still having a full head of hair. I’ve seen a few chud comments about having drugs or seducing women.
Those things don’t matter if you’re not attractive and having hair is required to be attractive unless you are in perfect physical shape and have an attractive face
Take me for example. I’m 2 months from 35. I still look young, especially clean shaven. Most dudes my age look like dumpster water. Why? Balding or bald.
Jack Morgan the YouTube would look like a meth head begging for change outside a strip mall if it wasn’t for his hair