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I belong nowhere.
All my fucking life I have tried to find connection in one group or another, but all seem to reject or elude me, communists or nazis, trannies or terfs, it doesn't matter, you name it: I have been there.
The only people who have accepted me are punk rockers who are hardcore drug users and have links to my abusive family.
Every day I have to wake up and contribute to a society that has only taken from me, driving me insane and into destroying what gave me purpose.
Every day I have to wake up and see those who bullied and abused me living happier healthier wealthier lifes than mine.
Where do you from here?
The looney bin labels are "sperg" and "agitated depressed" if you are interested.
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1. Drop the victim complex.
2. If it's bad enough, move, and tell no one.
3. Build up confidence through competence; get /fit/, and pick up /diy/ and creative hobbies.
4. Improve your social presence with proper cleaning, grooming, fashion, cologne, and body language.
5. Get a job that: pays well, you enjoy doing, is close to home, and/or fits your schedule. The more boxes you can check off, the better.
6. Put yourself into social spaces that align with your goals, values, and hobbies; sites and apps like Facebook, Meetup, and Bumble BFF can help with finding groups and events. Volunteering is good, too.
7. Actually talk to people. Socializing is a trainable skill; you'll suck at first, but you'll get better over time.
8. Realize you're a completely different person after only a few months and wonder why you didn't do this sooner. Worked for me as a depressed friendless virgin loser at thirty-eight, anyways.
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Thank you for your reply, I agree with everything, however I take issue with the first point
>1. Drop the victim complex.
I have been told this before.
I have been through some really fucked up shit nobody should go through, I'm not claiming that nobody's got it worse and I'm not claiming that everyone doesn't have issues, but I'm certainly in the 95 percentile of people that has been through some shit.
Is it really a "victim complex" if I'm a actually a victim?