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Sexual frustrated due to gf libido
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Basically sex drive is very different between me and long term gf. It started fine, with sex at leas...
Thread #34429553
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Girl I wanted to ask out has a small tattoo in her right arm shoulder. I don't think can't take her ...
Thread #34437644
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I accidently shot cum onto my headphonesWhat do?
Thread #34430760
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My boyfriend can masturbate (including to photos of me) but can only have sex with me with Viagra. I...
Thread #34436909
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How to find a nerd boyfriend? I adore guys who are very passionate about some topic and can talk abo...
Thread #34436331
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How do I meet someone when the closest place near me to meet someone is the 7/11?(It hasn't worked a...
GIOYC
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Feel free.
Thread #34436963
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My father keeps telling me I'm the one who needs to change when I say everything sucks.Why can't I f...
G.I.O.Y.C
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Vent here. Its safe here frenz
Thread #34435982
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I'm 30, been working as a programmer for 6 years and got in right after graduating uni with the equi...
Pornography addiction
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I don't think I need to tell you why it's pornography is extremely harmful for your wellbeing. I kno...
I love my kid but I regret becoming a parent
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I became a father few months ago. I love my kid but I don’t think we’ve made a good decision to ...
Hacks to ascend (if you want to try)
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Since I was not getting women irl or on dating apps, I decided to use other methods. Some of you her...
Thread #34437287
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Have you found success treating Instagram like a dating app? I saved this advice a bit ago and found...
Thread #34432176
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Everytime I call this person, the phone rings three times before saying>your call has been forwarded...
Running away
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I was thinking of hitting the road without telling anyone, just disappear. I'd be homeless and live ...
How to appease a subreddit ban?
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So I recently got permabanned from a subreddit, all because I told some tranny that they will never ...
Thread #34437548
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How difficult is it to become a professor in academia? (fine art field specifically) as someone with...
IT or nah?
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Is IT still worth pursuing in 2026.>muh A.I and layoffsYeah yeah yeah. I'm aware. But this is someth...
Failure
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I'm posting this here as I just need to say it.I feel like a failure.I can't clean the house, make m...
Thread #34433710
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Is life better if you avoid women? Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone, but then again it...
/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #343
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>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your ques...
Thread #34437480
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going to a natural reserve to make a short film with my dog. Pets are prohibited, this is in México...
Thread #34436089
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I have a business, it is making decent money but it is just drudgery work. my passion and talent is ...
Why do black people keep barking at me
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Bearded Dragon Care
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It looks like I'm going to be fostering a Bearded Dragon for some indefinite amount of time. It's be...
Thread #34436818
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do any of you anons have any advice on how to rescue this dog from its caged kennel? the previous ow...
Side income
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I'm looking to make some extra money each month. -things like being a handyman in my state are illeg...
What should I do about it?
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I was sitting at my Uni today when I heard two girls talking about having group sex with their two m...
Save My Degree
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I have ~2 months to try and learn my entire university course. From an old exam paper I did got ~6% ...
Thread #34437147
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Why is everyone so cruel? To me and each other? Why do they lie telling themselves and others they'r...
Do I deserve love?
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Feel like life is hitting back after being such a degenerate and disgusting human bean for so long. ...
I am a MASTER SEDUCER - AMA
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Having trouble with women? Use this as a thread to enquire.I am a lifelong student of psychology, ev...
How To Get Out?
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I’m looking for advice about a long-term relationship that I feel stuck in.I’ve been with my par...
how do i get a latex freak gf in a 200k+ city in central eastern europe?
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what are the requirements? How do you find women that are into latex? Is it just fetish sites? Do yo...
Is this too rude?
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How are you?>Thanks, but you don't have to pretend to care about that. I know you don't like me. I t...
Thread #34434434
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I have been banned across 5 different twitch channels because I started arguments on discord servers...
Thread #34436177
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>put one of my moms tampons up my asshole to see what it feels like>didn’t realise you are suppose...
Thread #34436069
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I can give you advices and guide you through hardship, help you make good decision. AMA
How can I cope with ugliness and wasted potential?
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I used to be good looking but now I'm bald and creepy looking. I've never managed to fit in and now ...
When do I get a serious gf
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23M here. I have recently started to make a lot of money for my age, and have started setting lofty ...
Thread #34434343
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How do I tell my Jewish girlfriend that I'm an anti-Zionist who supports Iran and Palestine?
Thread #34436808
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>Went off my meds>Was on Wellbutrin>Started taking control of my life and had optimism>went off 2 mo...
Thread #34436620
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At 30, with a criminal record (misdemeanors), do you think I can get a paralegal degree and get a co...
Thread #34436701
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I believe I made a crazy good app for the pebble smartwatch.There is a contest and the app is doing ...
Thread #34436753
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Wtf are you supposed to do when your girlfriend is getting physically abused by her mum? And the gir...
Bf cat aggressive
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First of all, I just want to say that English isn’t my first language, so I’m sorry if anything ...
Thread #34436993
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Every woman I've approached has rejected me because I didn't like some shit that they like.And if I ...
people finder tool
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I am looking for a summer job in France and I am looking for CEO/director personnal email/instagram/...
Chasing Success
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I want to be a filmmaker but I have no connections, no friends, and this dream of mine seems hopeles...
funny insta memes?
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improviser at my improv club does these memes on insta. theyre fine but hes all about the numbers no...
Is this normal behavior from a gf?
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She gets very agitated if there is any sexual scene in a movie and I don’t turn away. And even on ...
Thread #34435627
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my bfs into feet but im too embarrassed cause im lwk autistic and walk on my tip toes at home and my...
Thread #34436616
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How do I become more well behaved?
Likelihood of Getting Breadcrumbed?
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My friend says that this is more than likely but I think he's a retard and a cynic. Then again he ha...
Thread #34431187
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Do you need to step down as church pastor if you commit infidelity?
Thread #34436718
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How do I go to college if my gpa is like 1.7 last time I checked. I have a diploma.. should I claim ...
Thread #34436585
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do you think it's possible that i'll get to be with my soulmate after i die? i'm not a very religiou...
Thread #34436815
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what would you guys recommend me to do?i have a lesbian friend who i developed sexual feelings for b...
HELP
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I don't wish to have bastardized children. I don't want my children to be known as that of a mommy w...
Thread #34435561
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I lost 100 pounds, write 75k words into a book, optimized every step of my life, reached financial s...
Thread #34430002
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Manlets who do well with women how? Do they approach you or what?Also how tall
Can a man see an ugly woman's inner beauty?
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I'm far from conventionally attractive. in fact I think most people would agree I'm ugly/below avera...
Why do I love big women?
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I dream about having a big wife I come home to, kiss her and rub her big belly then fucking the shit...
god i wish i was rich
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I'm obsessed with the idea of being rich at a (relatively) young age and time is dwindling for me. T...
How to deal with emotional difficulty and my own mind in a romantic relationship?
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After many years of isolation, a girl popped up in my life that loves me.I love her as well and whil...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
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How can I deal with guilt?
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I used to steal my mom's panties when I was a teen and I touched her boobs while she was sleeping tw...
Thread #34436038
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I have a deep-seated fear of intimacy stemming from childhood abuse. I'm in my 30s and have had only...
Thread #34429901
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Are people primarily or at least mostly a product of outside stimuli? I ask this question in relatio...
Toddler tantrums.
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Yes I've read all the shit off Google about how to deal with them. But my toddler seems to be rather...
Thread #34435364
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What would you do if you had millions of dollars but you already did everything you wanted to do in ...
Thread #34435218
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is it worth taking a bachelor is business and economics to eventually self business maxx and escape ...
WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE AT 29
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>tons of life plans fell out, dropped out of college almost 4 times>decided extremely solidly I need...
Hooking up while traveling
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I'm a very mentally ill anon, though I am handsome and travel oftenFrom the anons who travel and man...
Help with side hustles
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You guys know about any side hustle i can do from home? I've tried dataannotation and outlier AI, bu...
locked out of heaven
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i know women don't want to talk to me or be my friend, i don't try to waste their time flirting or g...
Are men capable of love?
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Or is the best they can do lust-fueled obsession?
SSRI
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Has anyone ever sucessfully quit these things?I am not depressed but I have used Zoloft most of my a...
What are some things I can do for fun while I’m on IR?
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I’ve got multiple ligament tears in my wrist which is going to prevent me from doing a lot of acti...
I can't cope I hate that everyone exists
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Call me a child or whatever but it's so tiring everyone has problems we will always be like that unt...
Thread #34403925
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Alright, simple fucking question.I wear women's lingerie when I'm masturbating or just lounging abou...
I want a cat but keep getting rejected
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I've been applying for cats at animal shelters and rescues and I never hear back. Sometimes they get...
Given my utter incompetence, should I pursue an intership you pay for?
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>be me>20 years old going on 21 in May, Finance Major, Junior>I don’t wanna work in sales>An autis...
Thread #34433655
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What is there to do in Southern Arizona (Tucson, Phoenix)?
Thread #34435350
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>spent 2 years working a job I hated, would constantly fantasize about travelling or doing some type...
Girl I loved went back to her bf, she still cheats with me
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>meet girl few months back>29yo both of us>not my type but decide to be friends since we clicked>she...
Uplifting media
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I am bedridden for at least another month, and nobody to interact with. What's worse is I've been jo...
Thread #34384000
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I want to have a large family. What steps do you need to take to have one? Where and how can you fin...
How do you get a gf these days?
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I'm a male, late 20s.I really want a girlfriend, but I don't know how to get one. I have a job, but ...
Thread #34432396
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What advice do you have for someone who feels extremely cynical, pessimistic, and wholly outcasted f...
Thread #34435745
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Should I just get it over with and hookup on Tinder? I'm a 25 year old KHHV, I don't have sex since ...
how to get out of hospitality work
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i am 22, and all of my work experience is in hospitality/kitchen work. i dread imagining im going to...
Can I be prideful in my work
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How do I stop feeling like a loser for working at McDonald’s at 34(All I could get as a 5-yr forme...
No opportunities to date?
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I am trying everything you guys. Real life and online dating. With online dating, I have been on hin...
Zoning Out
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Lately I have been chronically zoning out incredibly hard. Everything was going well a few weeks ago...
i love being pathetic because I think I'm worthless
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I feel trapped in an endless cycle of behaviors that reinforce and deepen my selfhatred. I overapolo...
I'm a 3/10
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Should I start looksmaxxing in the hope of reaching a 6 or 7, or just double down with the uglymaxxi...
Thread #34432513
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Hey /adv/, I came here a couple of years ago asking for advice on how to get a gf, and managed to ge...
Thread #34434209
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Should I try Feeld if I'm just looking to meet women with the same kinks as me but NOT get into ENM/...
I don't understand what I'm doing wrong
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>be me>senior in college about to graduate>decide to fix life so I can finally get a gf>hit the gym ...
Thread #34434889
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21 years old...never kissed a woman or even held hands...nobody has ever expressed any romantic inte...
Thread #34432387
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How do I leave Britain and migrate to a better country? I need to do this ASAP. I can't stand it her...
Thread #34433986
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hey does anyone have advice for getting black queens as a white guy? ive met some that are funny and...
Why do men hate being bald so bad
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I dont understand why do they feel so insecure about it? Its not even realistic kind of insecurity i...
Thread #34434923
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If I tell someone I study black holes, are they going to think I'm a pervert?
Issues with memory
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How do I achieve mechanical memorization that is accurate? Is there a trick or is it just spending m...
Thread #34429771
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Is it worth paying to watch pornography?There are billions of free pornographic materials on the int...
No friends no community no people no world no life
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What the fuck am I supposed to do this life shit fucking blows. Whats the sense in being an endless ...
Thread #34433293
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I am 23 and I am kissless virgin. I have been to this school for almost 3 years now and have made no...
Escaping California
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How do I leave California? I want to move to a different US state.I’m pushing 30 and still living ...
Thread #34432249
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Is it possible to "bend" my penis straight? It shoots towards the ceiling, which makes it appears sm...
Sincere advice seeking
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I'm M19 from middle eastern country. I was being groomed & sexually assaulted by my cousin for almos...
Thread #34433159
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I want to learn karate at 27 but I’m worried I’ll be ridiculed by the Dojo for being too old com...
How do I deal with OCD (if I can't get therapy)
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I can't get therapy for... reasons.But my OCD makes me wipe my ass for 90 minutes and have 6 hour hy...
Why does everyone try to ridicule me
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People I talk with regularly are respectful and alright to talk to, we can keep adult conversations ...
Thread #34427423
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Girl says God revealed to her that I am going to be her husband, but I find her ugly. How am I suppo...
Thread #34433942
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>make Tinder profile>tons of girls explicitly saying they're looking only for new friends>no problem...
Thread #34430736
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I met a woman the other night while at a local concert. We danced together for about two hours and e...
Thread #34433541
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>spends 2 months super locked in, hyperfocused>accomplishes said goal>crashes and burns in bed for w...
I need your opinions
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Fyi im 24fWhen it was over with my ex(like 2y ago) I randomly made a tinder acc just for hookups to ...
I don't like working in tech - where to pivot?
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I am lucky enough to work from home, so I don't have to deal directly with any shitty people, which ...
Thread #34433951
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I live in a very dangerous town in northern CA. Are there websites that tell which street prostitute...
Should i even attempt to make freinds in a new environment
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Im going to community collage somewhat soon, my life before this for awhile has just been being at h...
Just a reminder
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Hold onto that relationship with your grandparents! Remember every moment, ask them for advice, and ...
Thread #34432389
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> Come out as trans> NO anon pushes and promotes agenda I'm in lcn constantly like because he's tren...
How to cope with low IQ?
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I paid 492 for a test and i scored 78. I feel like kmsing, not going to lie. All the people in my li...
Thread #34433878
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While staying where you are feels safer. It only leads to more and more regret. Don’t let fear dic...
Thread #34433962
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The only thing I've ever wanted in life was to be liked as a person and for be wanted by someone. bu...
Thread #34433945
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how do you actually just go and get shit done?I feel like I'm going to kill myself out of regret fro...
Met a girl online great personality but not my type physically. Should I go for it anyway?
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So here's the situation. I met this girl in an online game and we really hit it off. We're from the ...
“Intelligence” Agency
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I’m an FBI agent and I am having trouble coping with the erection I get when I watch someone strug...
Thread #34431499
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about two months ago, my dad killed my mom and then took his own life, and nothing has gotten better...
Volunteering with Children
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How do you go about this exactly without seeming like a pedo? Already tried it once and I was practi...
Thread #34429399
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I can't stop watching sad animes and crying until I have flu-like symptoms. How do I snap out of it?...
How Do I Adjust to My Adult Life?
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>Be me>just out of college>23 y/o>Job: Paralegal at local gov.College was rough for me. Knew a lot o...
When is an age gap too big?
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I am a 24 year old male and I have been going on dates with a 19 year old female college student. We...
How to lose virginity
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Im about to be a 22 year old KHHV. I am 6 foot 3 and have a six pack. I have no problems socializing...
Thread #34434014
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Well, fucking Windows here is telling me that I'll no longer be receiving updates and shit for my la...
My gf is 19 and I am 29
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>Be me>Skinny gaming nerd from 16-23>Start looksmaxing and going to the gym>First gf at 23 (she is a...
Question for people here
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What applications do people in their 30s use to meet people? Facebook seems a bit weird and nobody s...
Thread #34433666
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I turned 18 recently and I want to sign up on grindr to suck older man cock but if someone at school...
Thread #34432934
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I don't have the time or money to do anything train related. What am I suppose to do when the rare s...
Thread #34433426
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Why isn't my life fun?>I wake up from bed>I watch anime, YouTube, and use 4chan>I go to work>I come ...
Afraid of crying during last therapy session
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I've been going to the same therapist for 13 years (70% of my life). It helped me with a lot of stuf...
Thread #34434087
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How attractive do you have to be to have success approaching girls in public?How attractive for succ...
I want to get rid of the brownskin curse
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(dont hate being brown nor white people at all) I just dont want my kids to face the same shit I wen...
Thread #34433944
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Does acting improve social and communication skills? I got fired at my last job cause boss thought I...
Thread #34424429
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Any copes for being an actual manchild?In my heart all I really want is to not grow up, and to also ...
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