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best friend pt. 2

>she treats him like roadkill>he pays to fly her to Arizona for some stupid comic con thing>they arrive, she won't even ...

best friend pt. 1

>be me>was 18 years old>best friend says i should start an OnlyFans because i’m a needy attention whore>he opens all the...

I'm 21 and I've never masturbated, is there something wrong with me?

I like to look at hentai, read erotica/smut, and watch regular porn. I am by no means a prude. I've gone to a striptease...

Where would I go to find a virgin girl aged 17 - 21?

I have the time and the financial means to go abroad, if necessary. She must be white as well. I am looking for marriage...

Thread #34604042

Does anyone know any foods I can eat that can provide me with carbs and can be sweet as a dessert?Every fucking food I b...

Thread #34604032

I was off work for 10 days because I had an accident with my right knee. It's not serious, but I can't do any physical a...

pumpkin eater cuck

>be me>cheat on partner of 4 yrs>have nowhere to go>continue living with ex>ex bothers to initiate sex>mfw he has a gf>a...

I'll be going to a speed dating event this Friday. Has anyone ever gone to one? What were your experiences and what shou...

Thread #34604002

How do I meet people postgrad (not that I did anything at university I commuted) if I'm a male, introverted, have social...

10/10 girl wants to go out with me

She looks kinda like pic related. We matched on Bumble and hit it off because we both like classical literature a lot. N...

i have this old range rover the original buyer had made a new key before he sold my dad the car which doesnt quite fit r...

Are motorcycles worth it?

I'm 28, and I sold my last motorcycle about eight months ago because I got in an accident (wasn't my first) and needed a...

Stupid people are gonna make my skin fall off

I have dermatitis and i'm told that stress makes it worseBut I can't stop being stressed because interacting with stupid...

Thread #34603420

Watching Horimiya reminded me that I will likely not get to experience pure and genuine love with a girl. I might get a ...

Thread #34603377

How to lie?How to quickly think of believable lies and evade compromising questions?

pretty sure I'm gonna kms soon

lost faith in humanity and don't want to live in this world. lost faith in myself and don't want to live in this body. s...

Thread #34603232

Has anyone managed to stay on Facebook after getting banned from instagram? If so, did you make a new account or used an...

Thread #34603227

My girlfriend died 5 years ago. I knew her since i was 9 and we were best friends and extremely close to each other. We ...

should i just get over him? if so, how?

yes, i will be bawwwing. i finally found a boyfriend and i ruined it all. i thought he was too mean to me, but i was the...

I don't really care about life much

I'm not sure if that's the best way to describe it but whatever. Whenever I think about doing things or having jobs, get...

Thread #34602851

Do you actually have any meaningful conversation on messaging apps? I only manage to get texts from people that need som...

More enchacments?

Yeah my gf was always pretty average would sayBut last year she convinced me that she watned to increase her confidence ...

Thread #34602745

>be a guy>get in shape, work on myself, etc>sleep around with 50-100 women>fairly redpilled at the time>get really bored...

(23F) thinking about moving away from bf (23M)

Me and my bf met each other a few months following college graduation and have been together for seven months now. We've...

I'm not sure if i have to marry my current gf. She's from the USA, I'm from West europe (we're both under 30yo), she'll ...

Is the way relationships happen just messed up nowadays?

I ended up having a relationship with someone who I completely did not expect I would. She was a coworker and we would s...

I'm a quarter ahead in uni, 2nd year and want to study abroad for a quarter.Japan is the most popular for my school but ...

Thread #34602660

Why did you drop out of college?

Thread #34602648

How can I stop being attracted with girls out of my league?

/ATOGA/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

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best friend pt. 1

>be me>self-declared and peer-reviewed sociopath>became best friends with the hottest alt girl in the grade above me my ...

Living with a limp dick

My dick doesn't work. I have a porn addiction but I am trying to quit and after years of trying I can say it's getting e...

So I am working on my YouTube Channel, years after my previous ones. I promote every single upload since my last few upl...

Thread #34602574

>have a mildly pleasant human interaction with fellow human (parent, coworker, stranger at a hobby)>later get anxious th...

Tell me about women who grew up with single mothers

I've heard somewhere that women with absent father figure tend to fuck around early in life because they feel a primal u...

I need to kill myself so badly

Ive fantasized about and wished for myself to be dead since at least late middle school. The amount of suicide notes Ive...

Thread #34602499

>nooooo you can't fall in love with the 38 year old woman with mental disorders who had a train ran on herWell why the f...

Thread #34602424

>Raised in an abusive christian household and left my faith years ago after a lot of research and prayer>Sister stayed i...

Why do women hate it when their bf plays video games?

Studying? She doesn't careReading the news? Doesn't careResting, not doing anything in particular? She doesn't care eith...

Thread #34602286

How do I become a better conversationalist?I am pretty awkward and quiet and lately I've been trying to make friends for...

Thread #34602278

Just have fun on this gay earth. Thats all you have to do.Live. Breathe. Ride.

get over a girl

a little over a year ago i was friends with a girl, we hung out quite a bit and talked a lot over text. i really enjoyed...

My brother died on this day 10 years ago and I can't cope whenever his anniversary comes up. How do I cope?

Thread #34602080

How / where can I live alone (roommate is fine too) as a 19yo cis female who doesn't have a job? My family isn't abusive...

Thread #34602024

I wanna pick up fishing as a hobby, but I keep noticing the guys fishing in the rivers in my city are the types that hav...

33 year old need some money help

Howdy /advI make about 2200$ a month, with expensies being 800$ a month. I have 0$ in my bank account because until very...

Thread #34602005

What's a video game I can just shut my brain to? League of Legends was it, but I got permanently banned in 2013. I moved...

Thread #34584584

I spent 5 days in jail for attempted burglary back when I was 20. It was a plea deal for trespassing. I'm 40 now. Is the...

Broke up, got fit, now floating. How do I find purpose?

Approximately 9 months ago I got dumped. I was fat and depressed, so I used the heartbreak as fuel to fix my life. Got h...

Thread #34601933

You know how we should be grateful to be in a first world country and think about others that live in worse conditions? ...

Thread #34601864

How can I stop seeing women as sexual objects?

Thread #34595984

Should I text a girl I like on her birthday? She left me on delivered in December.

y мeня oтпaлo любoe жeлaниe чтo тo paccкaзывaть..

I feel useless; everything has become very difficult because I cannot talk with my best friend about something unusual a...

how do i stop lucid dreaming?

after months of attempts and guides i finally was able to lucid dream as easy as i breathe, but now i cannot stop ti whe...

Thread #34601862

When you're talking to two or more people, how do you not let one of them cut you off from speaking and getting your poi...

What to bring to mountain retreat?

I've signed up and paid for Rich Cooper's Alpha Male Unplugged course and I'll be joining other men at a retreat house i...

Thread #34601860

Why are men repelled by women who travel a lot?

Thread #34601858

Does anyone else feel too lazy to change and grow as a person and therefore believe suicide is the answer because you re...

Thread #34601837

Got no one to ask around me and I'm not sure if this looks good on me anymore.Any tips on how to make it look better?Als...

How to find another life purpose

I'm 25 and have never had any long-term ambitions, dreams, goals, etc. besides getting a gf. I've felt this way ever sin...

What kind of girls should I go for?

I love the paranormal and all spooky stuff, monsters, vampires, ghosts etc but my love towards it also led me to believe...

Thread #34601709

>Huhhh.. Guys, how do I [solve problem]? I can't do it! It seems impossible for me!>You should try [suggestion 1]>B-b-bu...

I'm shitting blood

I got diarrhea with bright red blood, never happened to me, it can heal without hospitalization and doctors?

Trapped with a cheating wife

6 months ago my wife became friends with this guy on discord. Yesterday I discovered her confession to him.>I wish I met...

Thread #34601804

Male anons who have been in a relationship with women, what did you learn about women from the relationship? I am seekin...

How do I make my sister have kids?

OP here. I was born unable to have children. My sister could have children but chose to live a childfree life. I want a ...

How to use coffee/caffeine to improve digestion/energy

>Tries coffee for the first time>No effects, except it unlocks the ability to take a shit whenever I drink coffee>Been l...

Thread #34601784

How do you make sure you don't become just a wallet and a jester for your girlfriend?

Have I completely fucked my life up?

I’m a 27yo NEET with zero work experience or education.I’m applying for jobs but I’ve yet to get an interview, and every...

Thread #34595264

How do you live a good life if you’re chronically exhausted? the only time I feel well enough to go out for fun or start...

Thread #34582663

I want a drunk driver to do a hit and run on me at night and then I lay there barely able to move in pain and then get i...

Thread #34601645

If I manage to get my driver's license, can I say I've accomplished something in life? That's my biggest accomplishment ...

Thread #34600251

Wife of almost 3 years thinks i'm cheating on her when I didn't and it makes me sad that she is accusing me of such thin...

Thread #34598966

Trying a different angle with meeting people.Are there any well-known sites that pair you up with an international perso...

Thread #34598533

I have anger management issues. I'm starting to pick on fights just because everyone pisses me off. Now I had a tough we...

Intimidated by women?

I am intimidated by relational and possibly sexual experience that most women probably have. I am 32 and prefer to date ...

Thread #34600486

How the fuck do I fucking clean my fucking room

Thread #34599937

Is it possible that porn could have induced PE in me? What can be done about it? Genuinely considering starting a SSRI, ...

Thread #34599939

Everyone around me kinda just fucks everybody, nobody ever seems to discern too much about anything anymore. Someone i k...

How do I hold myself accountable?

I want to study but my ADHD makes it so hard. I hate reading shit I don't care about. The most productive I've ever been...

Can twinks be chads?

Are there instances of twinks being seen as chads?

Autistic dude with Obsession-girl type girlfriend

We are like opposites, I am very emotionally dull, she is hypersensitive and slightly crazy. We both have a very strong ...

How to smile without looking fake?

Bot in photographs and irl in front of girls

Time to take the bald pill?

I have some deep anger.

I have some deep anger, I see a lot of ways the world could be a better place. Lots of very simple big picture things fo...

Thread #34598741

How should I handle a friendship with a trans person as someone who just doesn't understand all this stuff?I formed a me...

Pretending to be a cheater?

I'm a 27-year-old incel, but I'd like to get into dating. The problem is I'm also a complete social outcast, which means...

Should I go for the promiscuous girl?

I met a girl on tinder that told me she has lots of casual sex, she texts me a lot and I won't lie, she is really attrac...

Overcoming Hidden Transphobia

One of my friends came out as trans like a year ago and I was supportive. They have been my friend for a long time and I...

Thread #34598086

Any advice for getting over a breakup, lads? I was alone for a while, years actually, because I was too depressed to do ...

Thread #34596481

Suppose you had to start from 0. You don't have a single cent. You have a job that's stable. You live at home. You have ...

Thread #34600960

Why are you expected to stop having sexual thoughts once you graduate high school? I keep reading comments about how peo...

Thread #34600890

Hey everyone, no gay retard teenage relationship sob story here.Anyone know what sites I can order from in Canada that l...

Is my attraction of getting fucked by male feral pokemon problematic and something to worry about?

Just to preface, I have no attraction to irl animals. I just am worried if this current fetish of mine is something to r...

Thread #34600377

I kinda hate my life dude and I think I have autism or some shit

Another boring relationship thread

My gf was drunk last night and told me that she had been fucked in the ass once before, because she was pressured into i...

Should I bother trying to repair this friendship?

Background: I've known this guy since late high school (I just turned 40), In HS we hung out all the time. In my 20s I m...

My gf is into raceplay and idk if I should encourage it

So... This story is a little special.> be me> 23 yrs old white guy> But like... Really white. I'am hitler wet dream.> I ...

Need help moving out (abroad)

I will be moving out this September, but I am not all that sure as towhat I need to do and how.Oh, and I will be moving ...

Is siring triracial children a bad idea?

I'm biracial and recently for the first time ever I actually found a girl to respond to me on OLD. I flaked because of h...

am i wrong for being mad/upset at my brother for not having kids?

i was born with a condition where i cant have kids. my only sibling is my brother. its just me my dad mom and brother. m...

Think I may have been misdiagnosed for bipolar II.

I have literally never had an episode of hypomania in my life. I've been horribly depressed, and had some periods where ...

Thread #34594880

Am I a loser if I pay for an AI girlfriend?

Thread #34594740

ive noticed that when i jack off i dont care about girls or relationships anymore, until i have to jack off again. but t...

I’m not sure if I want kids or a partner, but I’m curious how people actually experience it

Hi, I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I don’t fully understand it, so I wanted to ask people who actually li...

My volcel life is being threatened, how do I effectively ghost a chick?

I'm just enjoying my volcel boyfailure life but this stupid fucking 10/10 blonde coworker with big tits just wont stop t...

Visual Novel Mod Advice ( Katawa Shoujo)

Hey /adv/, I'm currently writing a script for a Katawa Shoujo mod and could use some writing advice.The Concept:It’s a 4...

women keep rejecting me

>39>5'2>Morbidly obese>427 pounds>bald>no high school or college education>never had a job>can't drive>parents are broke...

Thread #34598670

>Pretending eye contact feels natural>Being expected to smile on command>Saying "How are you?" but not meaning it as an ...

Help, why do i feel extremely insecure about my game log?

https://backloggd.com/u/MG13/I've been developing an addiction to video games, i played video games almost every single ...

Attractive but women don't like me

My aunt and cousin saw me after many years and were gushing over how fit and handsome I've become. Then I had to disappo...

How do you make sex happen

I’m just confused about how you are supposed to have sex with a girl when you’re alone. You can’t just bring it up becau...

paternity fraud

has anybody managed to knock up some other guys wife(s) and have their hubby(s) raise it for 18+ years without him(them)...

How do you not become a doomer?

How do I combat feelings of despair, desperation, and demoralization in a time like this?Our culture is very hostile aga...

Thread #34600230

Is it normal to be reluctant to attempt to make friends because of the effort involved? The forming and upkeep of the re...

Thread #34598115

I want to do big ambitious projects, but I keep learning the hard way that the more effort I put in, the more disappoint...

What kind of workouts would it take for my wife to have a transformation like this?

My wife (31) has been out of shape for a few years and is in the territory of the left side of pic related. I was lookin...

/ATOGA/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Bernd pls editionIn this thread, we ask the opposite gender anything.This thread has no rules of its own, but as we are ...

what are some of the least painful ways to follow sports and engage in conversation with other men for networking and so...

Thread #34599909

Why is it so bad that instead of dying of old age after many decades of hardship and poverty that you choose to chill ou...

Accepting what can't be changed

Years ago, I used to post the same topic here almost every day about losing my teenage years to sickness and how to acce...

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #349

>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting ...

Thread #34599593

My autism symptoms are getting worse each year>constantly stimming when I'm alone>have even worse communication issues t...

Thread #34599468

I know there are millions of these threads but instead of the generic complaining I have a vision of where I want to be ...

Fighting against porn induced dysfunction?

Unfortunately I am a long time porn abuser. However, I am trying to improve my mental state so I won't need to use it ag...

Thread #34599250

Should grown men have Instagram profiles?

Thread #34599239

>loser khhv>finally get my first girlfriend after she approached me>together for one month>instead of being happy I'm an...

Thread #34599221

Im sure this wont get much sympathy here since people have much worse problems but damn how do I stop only wanting the b...

Thread #34599110

Is it reasonable to avoid marriage unless a girl is a virgin or has an equal or greater income/net worth?

Thread #34599013

What do you do when you're outdoors like hiking or something and there's no buildings around you for miles and suddenly ...

Thread #34598967

I was at the grocery store yesterday and a short, cute, chubby Latina looked at me and made eye contact and smiled at me...

Thread #34598871

How do you make it in life as a sensitive young man?

Help me frens. Honestly at last of my hope.

How do I talk to women besides "Do you have a boyfriend? OH MY GOD YOU ARE SO HOT! WANNA FUCK? I WANNA FUCK YOU! PLEASE ...

Ways to annoy someone

Got this dickhead coworker that I can't fucking stand. He goes on about how God is good and whatever but scams people an...

Waiting until marriage

Is it retarded? I graduated from inceldom a long time ago (as in I could finally attract women) but never had sex. At so...

Thread #34597304

Why is it that every single time I eat a meal, I have to then immediately go and take a shit?

Why would he block me?

Don't kill me but I'm unironically a tranny and I was on vacation and I was this hotel gym and this guy approached *me* ...

starting to realise my ex is not coming back

How to find find a joy in life when you know you will be forever alone and won't have a beautiful family that you wished...

Thread #34596734

Where do you find kinky women? I’ve tried Feeld, fetlife, Reddit, /soc/, discord for the last 5 months and have had no l...

Do women make it obvious they like you

Thread #34596412

Had my first ever wet dream as a 28 year old man last night. I dreamt I was getting head and woke up mid-orgasm with soa...

Thread #34596128

I've been chatting with a girl since January, but I can't seem to get her to commit to anything. I've taken her out on 2...

Thread #34595127

>32 years old>most people who guess my age say I look 25-26>a few go as young as 22How do I use this to my advantage?

Thread #34594877

>soon 25>bullied and ostracized all my life>never had any frens never gonna have any due to scandinavian social envirome...

How to avoid and skip PNC when I have sex with my gf?

is there any way to sus out if someone is a virgin?

I'm a hopeless romantic and I want my first time to be with a virgin so that we carve oursleves (metaphorically) into ea...

Thread #34569870

Sex with prostitutes. Is it worth it? I'm sick of fapping and need a real woman.

How to fix my SHIT life at 25yrs old

I'm a huge fucking LOSER.I failed once or twice and then I just kept losing for a looong time now.I know it's stupid to ...

Thread #34539729

Anybody know what it takes to make a successful PMV? I've been trying for years to make one that people like, but I only...