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Thread #34308938
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>men only started showing me more attention after losing 20kg>people who said my weight was never an...
Is it safe to assume all women cheat
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Lately I’ve been really wanting a girlfriend, but after reading horror stories from other people a...
How to deal with being bullied by coworkers / classmates?
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What is the method to dealing with bullies, be they male or female in school and workplace situation...
how to post photo with asian gf?
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My [32M] ex-gf [29F] dumped me 3 months ago. Our entire relationship only lasted 2 months. I started...
Thread #34311851
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How do i even find and hire a sex worker in my local area? Im completely new to this and im not a vi...
/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #339
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>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your ques...
/gioyc/ - get it off your chest
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you fucks never have a thread to vent when i need one. fuck you
Thread #34310542
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There's a woman I've been talking to for almost 3 months now and I want to meet her. She is a six ho...
Thread #34311843
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How do you deal with rejection? I have become attracted to two separate people and they both politel...
Thread #34311779
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Drank 8 beers and went insane the other night and shouted at my parents and just acted horrible. I b...
Thread #34311776
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How do I stop hating myself?The problem is I don't even know why I do, I just do. I don't like being...
Thread #34311812
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>23yo shut-in in uni, loneliness and anxiety caused me to delay my degree by almost one year now.>ne...
Thread #34311559
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Is this really what modern dating is like? How the hell do you keep from being demoralized with dati...
Thread #34310076
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I wanna visit a hooker, however I jerk off with a gorilla grip at least 3 times a day. How long does...
Thread #34311802
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I used social media a lot, and I mean a lot. Bored? Twitter. Lonely? Twitter. I've been on social me...
Thread #34306089
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Is there anything i can do to look better?
Thread #34310623
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help i have a crush that's 10 years older than mehow do i even start a conversation?>be me 26yo>ravi...
Why not just end it all?
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Whats the point of going on with life anyway?
Thread #34305776
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is there a category of porn that's specifically about white women and ISN'T bbc cuck shit?
How do you make up with someone who's frigid
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I'm leaving and don't want my dad to think I hate him. We didn't have the best relationship and I di...
Advice Regarding Escort
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I have got seriously mixed feelings about my latest visit to an eescort. This was the 5th time I've ...
Thread #34309400
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Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work
How do I stop being me?
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I'm selfish as fuck, and I suck at thinking about others. I struggle to consider how others might fe...
Commiting a crime.
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I worked for a large company in Western Europe where my manager had a tight clique. Over time, they ...
Squatters moved into my house
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Okay I urgently fucking need helpI went on vacation and squatters moved into my houseI called the co...
Where can i vent and talk to people
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Cant seem to find friends irl since isuck ass at socializing,But im in a dire need to connect with a...
Thread #34311726
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Got retrenched lately, and is just trying to decide my life direction now.So I'm looking for advices...
Thread #34308582
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Hello folks. My problem: Since november I am severly in love with a cartoon character and I have a h...
Thread #34282771
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Why is finding a girlfriend on the internet so hard? I've been trying for years with no luck Literal...
Thread #34306661
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There's this dude that I know. Everytime I talk to him he just goes off on these intellectual tangen...
Thread #34310726
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Literally wtf do I even do with my life?
Thread #34304875
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How to never be intimidated by people?You see some guy and he's got more muscles than you, he's got ...
Losing touch with people and life
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I need help on overcoming antisocial and misanthropic behaviors. I work security in a warehouse wher...
Thread #34311472
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why do employers think this wouldent they want there basic needs met so they can support there busin...
Thread #34304681
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I'm in a position where I have to bike 1 hour and 30 minutes to and from work. Is there anything I s...
Dumped by virginal army man
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Ive been friends with someone for about 8 years, he ended up joining the army for 6 years but we tri...
How to
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>came out as FTM to family when I was 9>they refused to accept it, old me I was brainwashed by the l...
Thread #34308616
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Sexually, the only thing I have going for me is an above average dick. I'm otherwise socially awkwar...
Cheating/adultery general
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Thread #34309508
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Why are wicked people so prosperous? Is there any sort of transcendental justice in this world? Or a...
Approach or attract?
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>only talk to women who approach youAs a man, how effective is this? I have never approached a woman...
Thread #34306201
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I messed up really bad and cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years with numerous girls and her best frie...
Thread #34308528
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I currently earn about $138k USD before taxes. I have the option of adding some on-call work for ext...
Coming out of the closet the other way
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I grew up in a very liberal family. My mom has some BPD traits and I obsessed with being on her good...
Alcoholics thread
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Tell me anything alcohol related stories or advice
Thread #34310090
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Sage advice
Lied on my resume and I’m freaking out
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>be me>desperate for a job in law or politics since completing my bachelor's>put lies/embellishments...
Thread #34311539
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How do I cope with the fact that my mom would have probably aborted me if she knew?
how to get idiot father to understand calls vs texts
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my father resisted getting a cell phone when everyone had them and only ended up doing it maybe 8 ye...
Thread #34306474
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My little brother told us that he's a girl when he turned 17. I was shocked at the time (over a year...
How do I stop being a faggot?
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I keep having thoughts of wanting to be a girl or femboy and be held by guys and have sex with them ...
Thread #34310675
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How do you not become a hoarder during recessions and layoffs? I used to throw away shit but I find ...
Tagmap and meeting strangers from the internet
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>register to the tagmap site>send messages to thirty people across my country>literally only two res...
Dad got cancer
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A week ago during the gallbladder removal the surgeon found a growth of some kind around my dad's li...
Thread #34303437
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Question for anons, who had a shit teenage life and missed out on all the cool stuff and canon teena...
Thread #34300315
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Over 40 with v-card. Never dated. I feel like sex and relationships seem distance and inaccessible f...
Thread #34309752
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Is it weird if I call an old man "paw paw" if that old man is just a friend of mine and not my fathe...
AI art generators advice
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Trying pic related, what should I try next? Also any recommendations for AI image upscalers. Finally...
How do I make my boyfriend more active in bed?
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any time I google it or ask more common places they all tell me to just "let him know what I want" w...
Thread #34305881
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Alright, so at the beginning of last semester I sat next to this girl. I thought we were hitting it ...
Thread #34311088
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If I want to learn how to use AI, to compliment it with my career (business and finance), what shoul...
Thread #34305949
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>a 8/10 girl, almost 9/10 keeps staring at me for few weeks whenever we meet since she moved here so...
Thread #34308003
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I've gone on two dates with this woman and we still haven't held hands, hugged or kissed. As a late ...
Dealing with insecurity as an asexual
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Okay so I'm asexual and my girlfriend is not and it's making me really worried. I've never had a gir...
Thread #34310960
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>PixivFanbox niche porn for years & gets reset >Now only Jap cards can be used>Same for Pixivcoban>P...
is he a serial sex haver or does he have sovl
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>he's attractive(though i don't think anons here would call him chad ngl)>never seen him talk to ano...
Thread #34289797
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Is it a waste to try dating apps in your late 20s?
Thread #34310806
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I just woke up from sleep and i feel like i have a different view think i have some form of mental i...
Big let down to my family over concert
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I'm a loser basically, barely leave the house most days of the year. Used to enjoy going to concerts...
how stop watching porn?
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Ive been watching pron since i was 12, now im about to turn 21 in a few months. Ive tried blockers, ...
Thread #34307999
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How do normies immediately find out that you're on the spectrum? Do they like do this on a subconsci...
I think women are disgusted by good/intelligent men
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I came to the conclusion, that women hate good, intelligent, emotionally mature and open, empathic m...
I find it difficult to integrate with people
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Say you're giving advice to Eliot Rodger but with the problem of having friends and willing to liste...
Thread #34310488
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>meet shitty narcissistic/borderline psychotic girl at uni>she seems true to me, we can talk for rea...
Thread #34302570
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>be me >short>in my 20s>work as a busboy>most if not all of the girls who work at the restaurant ign...
Thread #34308693
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I’m so horny, but I’m on my period. What do?
Thread #34310176
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I have nightmares every time I go to sleep, how do I stop this? I thought I had a good dream but I w...
Advice to anyone
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There no room here for fake god/gods
Thread #34310489
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Tips for living in my car for a month? I think I have the shower part taken care of. I have a week t...
Indie game
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I want to make a simple and short low poly action indie game like devil may cryIm 27I know how to pr...
Being too handsome
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>At the convenience store>An old lady turn toward me>"pretty boy" she says while looking at me>She w...
What do you include in a sui letter?
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>whether you want to be buried or cremated>any financial stuff>reason why suiWhat else? Also any tip...
How do you handle a GF who has a "secret" insulting nickname for you with her male friends?
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Throwaway account for obvious reasons.I (M21) recently caught a notification on my GF's (F21) phone ...
Paranoia
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I regularly have severe paranoia the police are building a case against me. It’s not entirely with...
Thread #34305137
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Advice for someone who is very intelligent but has no motivation and can barely hold a job?
should I rope atp
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>be me, 20yo thirdworld autist trapped in dad's basement hell>need 600$/mo remote SMM gig for 4 year...
Thread #34310106
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Im trying to figure out if a job calls for me to go from place to place and meet clients, as opposed...
Thread #34310386
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is my bf a unicorn, or am i weird and he's the normal one?he compliments male actors looks in movies...
If you're mentally unstable and have children you disgust me.
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My parents are so fucked they call me names, avoid me and dont want anything to do with me, not new ...
How do I stop watching BBC porn?
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This will seem like a troll but I promise you this 100% real. Im a white nationalist but pretty much...
How should I cut my hair to get laid?
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not sure where to post this, but what hairstyle do you recommend for me? Im pretty sure I have to cu...
Thread #34307083
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I went to a doctor for a severe back pain prescription, the stuff he gave me didn't really do shit, ...
Thread #34307007
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How did you come to terms with your duck being less than 6 inches and not very girthy? I'm 25 and st...
Is it bad if I don't really want to study my actual career?
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I'm 20 years old and currently studying medicine. I've never really known what I wanted to do, and m...
Socialization issues and find friends.
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Anons, I was just diagnosed with autism/ADHD, and my therapist strongly recommended that I meet with...
Thread #34309575
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I'm not cool, never been a cool person. It's not in me, I'm not inspiring or interesting or even rem...
Anyone have similar thoughts?
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If you have surgery and are able to walk back from the checked-in room to your operating table, they...
Thread #34307676
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Has anyone else ever thought that their purpose in life is more than just getting married and having...
Fear?
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You as people are not afraid of death, haven't you started thinking that when you die all this will ...
first interview in my life sucked ass fml
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was nervous as hell and the interviewer fucking ditched me like a cumrag, i feel lesser than everyon...
Should I sabotage?!
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This is a messy one.My family adopted a dog in 2024, after losing our childhood one. 2 weeks in, one...
age gap
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am I crazy to love a 25 yo woman as an 19yo? am I destroying my future and gonna kms in 5 years when...
psychotic nurse
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Let's say a relative of yours (being a bit vague here on purpose) was pressured into going to a plac...
Thread #34309565
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How does a 30 year old practice sex? I hooked up with a 40 year old when I was 19 simply because it ...
too tired to socialise?
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I'm not very sociable but it's not really because of anxiety. It's more that I feel dead inside all ...
Why do strangers talk to you?
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More specifically, what do they want from you? What's their end goal? I can never tell, I know I'm n...
Thread #34309441
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Lost my job a while back, had major car issues around the same time.My family doesn't know about my ...
do the advices from the "dog whisperer" work on women?
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idk i tried some stuff and it seems legit and workedis it like okay for short termsound like alpha m...
estradiol enanthate (HRT)
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I'm a guy who wants to start injecting this weekly for my appearance. What should I know before star...
How to start a business
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How do I learn this? I have no idea how businesses operate.I need to know what the most basic of bus...
Married Woman
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Me and a married woman had a weird emotional affair a few months ago. We constantly communicated. Sh...
Thread #34309087
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My current situation is pic related. Any helpful advice is appreciated. Perhaps from someone who has...
atoga
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ask the opposite gender anything seething and deleting editionprevious >>34308455
Thread #34308413
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Is there any woman out there who will love and accept my true autistic self?
Should I tell my dad I'm doing THC again
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>Dad is super religious>Discovers my weed gear when I'm 19>Extremely disappointed>I move out shortly...
why dont men yearn anymore?
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is it just me being on the internet too much or is every guy these days really so heartless? all i s...
wtf does it mean
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how do you figure out whether or not a shy/reserved girl (looks just like picrel) is interested or n...
Being Gaslit by Everybody About Finding a Job
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I got a finance and math degree from a lower tier Ivy League School, got the CFA, ended up working a...
Thread #34299822
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How can I know if a woman is an anal freak? Are there any tells in their personality or body languag...
Was this wrong to do?
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I went into the public toilets at a shopping centre and squeezed out a gigantic log. I tried flushin...
Thread #34308350
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Flayed the tip of my thumb like so. is this thing going to heal or do I have to see a doctor or lop ...
Thread #34308613
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Sometimes people don't say hi to me when I'm passing them in the hallway and this is after I say hel...
Thread #34307050
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Sup Anons, I’m looking for a bit of advice. I’m in an ok position in life, I’ve got my own hou...
What to do
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I'm 22, and I live in turkey. I've been working with my family past 4 years, but I realized we don't...
Thread #34308744
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My shoes have this "non marking sole" rubber on them and every time it's humid or I step on some wat...
Thread #34303733
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By back is deteriorating so im planning on buying one of these. How safe are they? I can't find any ...
How do i find an indoors GF/Wife?
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I cant/dont want go out my house, i like staying indoor but im living this way over 10 years already...
Any skills for the avg zoomer should have/invest in:
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Any skills you wish you invested in in your 20s? Like, indespensible ones. "Gamechangers", if you wi...
Is it possible
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I want a incel truecel bf as an neet mid girl Problem is idek if they’d want me
Thread #34308781
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I'm gonna tell you all the ultimate piece of advice there is that'll help you out all through life.T...
would you spend money on a girl just because she is ur gf and u sympathise with her
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just curious of what you guys think
Confused
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I'll put this into greentext and maybe you anons can tell me if I either fucked up or if she just di...
Thread #34300847
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How do I stop fetishizing Asian women? They're just so darn cute. But I feel like it's gonna cause m...
Thread #34303058
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Two years ago I made the decision to face my fear of women and finally get laid. I joined a dating c...
Thread #34308808
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should i get forklift certifiedi tried all sort of minimum wage entry level jobs for a long time now...
MDMA first time advice
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I just acquired two 100mg caps and am planning on dropping one for the first time at a drum and bass...
Thread #34306202
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How does sex even happen in a long-term relationship? Do you agree on a schedule? Do you basically h...
Pretty sure coworker is hitting on me
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Follow up from >>>34296381 She came up to me to me today, very smiley, started asking me questions a...
Thread #34307699
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I got diagnosed with psychotic depression. I'm in treatment for it. I'm taking my first semester in ...
Thread #34299979
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I can't move on. It's been a year and a half since it happened. It's totally fucked me up and nothin...
Thread #34303185
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I'm a hardcore right-winger, fundamentalist Christian. I want to do my part to preserve the white ra...
Think I fucked up during sex
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So last night I went on my third date with this girl I really like. She seems to like me too cause w...
Thread #34299496
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How do I get a skinny girlfriend with really big tits? Im 27 and a NEET. Is there anything I can do ...
Thread #34308598
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Im writing this late at night because now i feel different than usual. Usually I see things very ser...
help a retard out
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the counter girl at my gym and me always smile at each other when saying bye / greeting , i was wond...
Ed coach/accountability partner ad
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I have an ed, but I have been struggling with losing more weight due to binge compulsions and my own...
How do I Become a Prison Guard?
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My dream in life is to get a job where I can afford rent and food. I have a finance degree from Whar...
Sex and HSV-2
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Have anyone of you had sex with someone with hsv-2? I worry about the risk but as long as Im protect...
Thread #34303005
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Should I just lose my virginity to a hookup? I'm a 25 year old fat virgin, I'm currently horny again...
Unethical Ways to Make Money
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Just got laid off from my job. I’m tired of trying to do it the right way. I have medical bills an...
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