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Met a girl online great personality but not my type physically. Should I go for it anyway? 04/13/26(Mon)22:18:24 No.34431916
Met a girl online great personality but not my type physically. Should I go for it anyway? 04/13/26(Mon)22:18:24 No.34431916
Met a girl online great personality but not my type physically. Should I go for it anyway? Anonymous 04/13/26(Mon)22:18:24 No.34431916 [Reply]▶
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So here's the situation. I met this girl in an online game and we really hit it off. We're from the same city. I really liked her personality from the start she's funny, interesting, and has these cute mannerisms.
We started hanging out more, flirting escalated, and she told me she loves me. We've even had some intimate moments on Discord. The problem is when she finally showed me what she looks like, I wasn't attracted to her at all. She's overweight and just not my type physically, not even close.
But personality wise, she's amazing. She's already talking about having sex, and here's where I'm conflicted. I'm 19 and a virgin, and she's around the same age and also a virgin. I'm not bad looking by any means, but I don't meet a lot of women in general.
So my question is: should I have sex with her and continue talking to her, or should I just end it? Part of me thinks this might be a good opportunity to finally have sex with someone, even if I'm not physically attracted to her.
What would you do in this situation?
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OP here.
>>34432005
That's what i'm planning to do. She has a great personality so maybe that will make up for it idk.
>>34432048
About a week of like 12 hour hang out sessions
>>34432113
Nah not that bad
>>34432129
I'm not there purely for the sex don't worry
>>34432205
Hoping on that. Guess ill see what i think once i meet her and that should answer all my questions and concerns
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>>34431916
70% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, so dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes up
use this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be lucky [/spoiler] , good luk
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>>34431916
70% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes up
if it doesn't end up well, use this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be lucky [/spoiler] , good luk
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>>34431916
70% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes up
if it doesn't end up well, use this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be the 30% [/spoiler] , good luk
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>>34431916
She will be able to tell and will hate herself if you try to settle and accept her as is. Much affirmation and doting will be required as you support her transformation (if it's something reasonably achievable).
>t. slim dating a chubby chaser
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>>34431916
Start by meeting her in real life and taking the time to get to know each other. It’s better to slow things down, go on a few dates together, and then see how you both feel before considering anything more serious.
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>>34431916
What is wrong with people just abandoning honesty.
You've had intimate moments on discord, whatever that means. She says she loves you.
If she actually does love you she'll try to improve herself because being a fat lard isn't good for you anyway. And if you loved her you would improve yourself for her too I bet.
So why not just be honest?
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