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Thread #34304681

I'm in a position where I have to bike 1 hour and 30 minutes to and from work. Is there anything I s...

Haunted by Past Relationship

Two years ago I broke up with my girlfriend because I had coom brain and wanted to be single. Honest...

Thread #34304875

How to never be intimidated by people?You see some guy and he's got more muscles than you, he's got ...

I want a incel truecel bf as an neet mid girl Problem is idek if they’d want me

why dont men yearn anymore?

is it just me being on the internet too much or is every guy these days really so heartless? all i s...

Thread #34304455

I have literally nothing in common with a girl I am dating. She basically begged me to ask for her t...

Thread #34304562

Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? If so, how did you make it work?

am I crazy to love a 25 yo woman as an 19yo? am I destroying my future and gonna kms in 5 years when...

I think women are disgusted by good/intelligent men

I came to the conclusion, that women hate good, intelligent, emotionally mature and open, empathic m...

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #338

>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your ques...

Thread #34304963

Anyone ever start going to AA and then start feeling annoyed by the obligation of going every day wh...

Thread #34280533

All that talk about 'we complete eachother, I will always love you no matter what' yet she still lef...

/htgwaaig/ - How to Get Women As An Incel General

>What is /htgwaaig/?How to Get Women As An Incel General is by incels, for incels, about femoids, so...

Should I bother giving you advice.

To be honest my life's always been neet, I don't go out nor do I meet strangers, I've started with m...

Thread #34300847

How do I stop fetishizing Asian women? They're just so darn cute. But I feel like it's gonna cause m...

You have a week to live, what do?

Nothing illegal.

Thread #34304913

I have my first in-person interview in 6 years for a kitchen position at Pizza Hut. What questions d...

Thread #34289797

Is it a waste to try dating apps in your late 20s?

Am I congatively impaired?

I feel a need to be in complete silence and isolation with nobody in my home to have the ability to ...

Thread #34301290

How do I not care what people think?I want to leave this place but if I leave people that hate me wi...

How do your lads stand being sober?

It's the worst possible state out of all of them. Like base Saiyan. How do I get through the weekend...

Have anyone of you had sex with someone with hsv-2? I worry about the risk but as long as Im protect...

Thread #34304812

>18 years old>has tulpa for 2 years>tulpa confesses his love to me after a year>dating my tulpa>ever...

Thread #34297225

I've been hearing a lot that women are basically brainless/driven by pure instinct and don't have th...

Thread #34300809

How do I know if a girl is into me?

Any /med/fags here, Are these treatments making my daughters rash worse?

>started 4 months ago in October (daughter was 2-3 months old) appearing as a small but itchy cradle...

Thread #34299822

How can I know if a woman is an anal freak? Are there any tells in their personality or body languag...

/gioyc/ - get it off your chest

you fucks never have a thread to vent when i need one. fuck you

Serious thread, this impacts my personal life

>experience immature people in university (they take photos of people they don't like, post it in pr...

Thread #34300315

Over 40 with v-card. Never dated. I feel like sex and relationships seem distance and inaccessible f...

would you spend money on a girl just because she is ur gf and u sympathise with her

just curious of what you guys think

Unethical Ways to Make Money

Just got laid off from my job. I’m tired of trying to do it the right way. I have medical bills an...

Thread #34297922

If someone says their name is "D-Money" should I take them seriously as a person?

Thread #34304344

I don't hate my brother but he expects me to love him, I just don't hate him nor love him ,if he die...

How do I stop letting my paranoid delusions stress me out?

People try to talk to me but I hear literally any random word and my brain assumes it's secret code ...

how do I do it?>therapyBeen on it for a 9 years. No results. Total waste of time and money>AAfuck of...

>be me>no degree>mid-30s IT / IAM / infra engineer>12+ years enterprise experience>cloud, automation...

Thread #34304656

My relationship with my BPD gf of 3 years is fucking killing me inside and I just let this happen to...

how to stay disciplined?

how can i keep up with my goal and do it everyday? i always seem to just crash and do nothing for a ...

How did it suddenly "happened" to you?

I'm 33 and a virgin. Not ugly, was told I'm cute by girls. Fit. Just didn't go anywhere beyond my jo...

How do i find an indoors GF/Wife?

I cant/dont want go out my house, i like staying indoor but im living this way over 10 years already...

Thread #34304609

Lost everyone after I finished high school. No one bothered to stay in touch with me. How do I make ...

Started a new job. Went from a very small, tidy, professional setting full of women to a large compa...

Moving into middle age

I'm halfway through my 33rd year at this point and my mortality is starting to weigh on me. In a few...

Thread #34304182

I put in my two weeks notice last week and management has already replaced me at my post with somebo...

Realizing im more happier without friends/

No longer have as much desire to make friends as I used to, couldn't be happier. When I've attempted...

Thread #34296501

What's the key to farting quietly?What do you have to do to your anus in order for that to happen?

I don't need to do anything

I earn a sizeable amount of money by doing nothing due to welfare. I will never need to work. Colleg...

I have dysphoria but I dont want to troon out

Ive had more persistant thoughts about wanting to live my life as a woman & would get uncomfortable ...

Thread #34303432

Hey guys. I post on this website called 4chan.orgThey have an Advice board, but I am not sure that I...

Thread #34292503

Dude at work thinks I hate him and continues to act like I hate him when I don't hate him at all.He ...

Thread #34302505

My socks always stink even though I wash them every day after wearing them.They're black colored. Wh...

Thread #34303002

If I’m not sure whether my parents hated me then they probably didn’t, right?

Thread #34303005

Should I just lose my virginity to a hookup? I'm a 25 year old fat virgin, I'm currently horny again...

my friend group is about to fall apart because of femoids

guys I fucked up and I don't know how to recover from thismy friend group's pretty solid, friends si...

What jobs won't be obsoleted if the digital ID CBDC prison panopticon is implemented and you optout?

I am interested in becoming certified as a marine engineer(and work in the merchant navy) as it's th...

My head hurts from wondering about her.

She made a few attempts at reaching out to me last year but I was caught off guard in every attempt....

Thread #34303674

If I speak 5 languages does that mean I am smart?

Thread #34303672

>be me>mid 30s introvert autist>used to be very extroverted and popular>circumstances led me to a li...

Thread #34303733

By back is deteriorating so im planning on buying one of these. How safe are they? I can't find any ...

Approach or attract?

>only talk to women who approach youAs a man, how effective is this? I have never approached a woman...

Thread #34303058

Two years ago I made the decision to face my fear of women and finally get laid. I joined a dating c...

Thread #34304252

I was diagnosed with depression today but I don't care enough to get better. I'm probably not even g...

is my mom right?

my mom came to me the other day and suggest i sign up for dating apps just to get out of the house a...

Thread #34303122

What's the least physically demanding job at a warehouse that would require the least interaction wi...

Thread #34303185

I'm a hardcore right-winger, fundamentalist Christian. I want to do my part to preserve the white ra...

Thread #34302570

>be me >short>in my 20s>work as a busboy>most if not all of the girls who work at the restaurant ign...

Advice Regarding Escort

I have got seriously mixed feelings about my latest visit to an eescort. This was the 5th time I've ...

Does it accelerate hairloss? And should I quit?

Thread #34299496

How do I get a skinny girlfriend with really big tits? Im 27 and a NEET. Is there anything I can do ...

What do you ask girls?

What do you ask girls to get to know them in a natural way? I imagine you can’t just go “Hey foi...

What fields should I get into?

>20>gonna graduate in graphic design by the end of this semester>no hopes of ever using this diploma...

How to stop being attracted to men

I know it's "normal" to be attracted to guys, especially when hormones are going nuts because that's...

How do I remove armpit smell forever

I tried everything including applying lemon,shaving, scrubbing but It would swell up into infected c...

I messed up my college years

I'm done with college after 5 years of law school. I have no idea where to get a job. I literally sp...

Thread #34301661

I'm a 23-year-old guy working a minimum wage job, and I feel really stuck. I want to find a girlfrie...

Thread #34304128

If you asked for something and the langauge was>Written statement Identifying -legal authority 'unde...

Is my Brain Strange

Is it natural or normal or even healthy to only feel motivation to do things / have them on your min...

Thread #34293137

As a short ugly black dude in his 30s, how do I make myself attractive to cute chubby Asian dudes my...

Should I see her tomorrow?

>meet girl through social media >we go on a date, got dessert, enjoyed it, we made out>after the dat...

Tagmap and meeting strangers from the internet

>register to the tagmap site>send messages to thirty people across my country>literally only two res...

Thread #34302706

I have to go to new york city for a business trip on on tuesday. The business trip only lasts for tu...

How to get stacies as an uggo

I am facially pretty uglyI’d say a 3 on my best dayHow rich do I need to be if I want to be able t...

Recently I have lost the capability to feel stress. I had diminished capability to feel positive emo...

Big let down to my family over concert

I'm a loser basically, barely leave the house most days of the year. Used to enjoy going to concerts...

I want to make a simple and short low poly action indie game like devil may cryIm 27I know how to pr...

I guess I'll do it.I'm taking what's mine. I'm taking what's your's too.I'm so fucking sick of givin...

Thread #34282771

Why is finding a girlfriend on the internet so hard? I've been trying for years with no luck Literal...

dick hurts after i jack off

It feels like my dick is swollen or bruised. doesnt matter if get hard and get off in 5 mins or mins...

Bros, I found the last good girl on Earth. We had one date and we have another planned. The first da...

Thread #34301362

>get talked into going on a boys trip to Columbia with a few of the fellas from work>know its hooker...

Thread #34301886

I am miserable and dead inside, I am ugly and uninteresting. Yet it hasn’t always been like this. ...

Thread #34301563

At 27 years old I got my first internet gf. We dated for about six months before she blocked broke u...

How to tell if a guys into you

I'm into my friend and I wanna be friends with benefits no emotional strings attached but I can't te...

Thread #34303437

Question for anons, who had a shit teenage life and missed out on all the cool stuff and canon teena...

I have no clue how to make friends online and I'm lonely as hell. I sometimes make friendships in a ...

Thread #34303438

How do I deal with being good at things I don't like and sucking at things I'm passionate about?

Buying a 10m2 studio

I live with my mom, I'm 28, I have a chance to get a 10m2 studio for like 9.5k bucks, it's not a lot...

Thread #34303684

I've ended up completely fucking hating every job i've ever done. How do some people not hate their ...

How to tell if your friend is into you

I'm a girl and i'm into my friend and I wanna be friends with benefits no emotional strings attached...

Thread #34302269

I am American but speak pretty good Spanish. I want to go to a Spanish-speaking country to teach Eng...

How do I achieve this?

I am currently planning to attend a prestigious university for a bacehlor's degree and eventually ge...

I'm so retarded

I barely have enough money to make it through the week most of the time yet just spent the last of m...

Thread #34302064

How can I stop thinking about her anons ?,I'm really sad,can't even study with a peaceful mind

Thread #34300611

How to get over having weird and uneven boobs? I am naturally thin / petite and have seen some women...

Why’d I stop is it likely I’m just attention seeking

>depressed for a good summer shuts myself in and licking dog piss to degrade myself and also get eno...

Should I make a dating profile?

Everywhere I go, people always say NOT to do it. But I feel like I have no other option. Going out t...

How do I stop being delusional? I do lots of weird things, specially around women/girls. How do I st...

how do i even make friends

i cant seem to be able to articulate myself, i am usually faking interactions. i am a troglodyte at ...

me m31 virgin got cucked by a turkey i howl at the moon hoping to ascend i bone smash every day and ...

Thread #34302955

How do people make friends online?I play a lot of competitive multiplayer games and it seems like al...

I feel like a complete loser.

'm 21 and a virgin. My younger brother lost his virginity before I did, and I feel like a complete l...

Help me find this person.

I have as much information as I can about this person. He is a pedophile and had some old posts that...

How does pump and dump work

Do you just lie to them and pretend that they are the most beautiful women in the world, the smartes...

I had a video call with my tinder match and I no longer wanna meet her

Seeing her face in her tinder bio was already jarring but seeing what she would look like in person ...

Thread #34302886

I'm probably an autist and usually an anxious wreck that can't socialize because I'm too nervous out...

Thread #34288499

Has anyone ever been able to find a woman that didn't care how much money you had?Is that even possi...

Help me understand poor people.

Most if not all poor people I've seen make bad financial decisions including buying weed, alcohol, e...

Thread #34299900

I need an alternative to /soc/ to find online friends.

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Thread #34299979

I can't move on. It's been a year and a half since it happened. It's totally fucked me up and nothin...

Thread #34302401

I have an opportunity for a job in a major metro. I've only lived in burbs and semi-rural areas my w...

Was this advice that caused a girl to break up with me from a therapist valid?

I started seeing a girl, who I was friends with for a month prior, 5 days ago and things were going ...

Thread #34301227

>sit comfortably>shit skids all down the back of the toilet>sit forward>shit straight in the water b...

How to stop being avoidant

How does one overcome the avoidant or the fearful-avoidant attachment styles?I've done a bit of rese...

Thread #34298598

I'm not gonna lie, 4chan is the only thing that is keeping me from killing myself.Is that bad?

Thread #34302332

Post more 'ascension' or 'self-improvement' icebergs. Looking for obscure schizo/biohacking charts

FOr a period of about 6 months we spent all day every day together, she sucked my cum out atleast tw...

Thread #34292547

Found this old Nintendo system today for $15.99. It’s completely sealed and never been opened. I w...

Thread #34301454

Should I stop trusting anything I see and be skeptical of everything because it's probably all built...

I like getting a cold

I've been a bit spoiled for 48 hours or so and I keep treating it like a game. It's super mild. I ha...

I hate my stepmother and her family

I hate my stepmother, that bitch makes my life a living hell, she steals from my father, none of her...

Thread #34299525

I'm a grown 40 year old man but I dreamt I was a young, delicate, 12 year old school girl being carr...

How do I make my boyfriend more active in bed?

any time I google it or ask more common places they all tell me to just "let him know what I want" w...

Thread #34301808

Recently went on first date of my life. Girl is an aquaintance from high school whom I've met again ...

i’ve been abusing coke for not too long now… i’ve been using it every other day up till feb 1s...

Thread #34301945

If I'm homeless and live in a shelter, is it stupid of me to keep and maintain a car when I can just...

how do i get my mom on meds?

title. she's nearing her 50s and she obviously won't do it on her own volitionespecially my mom, she...

I want to have fun with people but hate drugs and alcohol

Is it just impossible? If I want to dance or sing I have to go to a bar or a night club. The only pl...

Thread #34301164

How do i stop playing video games even though they bore me? I literally have nothing else to do in m...

Is Meditation a meme?

All this hype about meditation(especially mindfulness meditation) from being endorsed by celebrities...

Thread #34298583

I just need to say this out loud! Two years ago I met this man on the street while on vacation and I...

Thread #34301664

What is the best app to learn piano that works on a tablet so I could put it on the music stand of t...

Thread #34300399

Best friend has been dealing for an eating disorder for nearly 10 years now. It seemed like she had ...

Thread #34295377

What are your career options who will provide you for your entire life as a man whose family has aba...

Thread #34296771

At what point do you begin to look like a tool when you call people Sir or Ma'am?

Thread #34297063

Just got broken up from my first relationship bros. It lasted five years. I tried lifting and didn't...

universities and studying abroad

currently i'm a high school student and i want to be an international student in MIT after 12th grad...

Thread #34298058

A week ago my best friend/flatmate admitted to me that she has been secretly dating my ex bf for a m...

How are you supposed to defend yourself as a Christian

Blah blah forgive, don't say anything bad, they're just misguided souls. Ok sure, but that doesn’t...