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Is life better if you avoid women? Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone, but then again it's stressful dealing with FOMO on romantic experiences
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>>34433710
damn I would fuck that stupid bitch
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One rape accusation and your entire life is ruined. You don't even have to actually touch a woman for her to permanently destroy your life.
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Nope, it isn't. Living a life where you try to be peaceful with everyone leads to a less stressful life.
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>>34433710
no of course not. men smell bad, they aren't fun to hug (too muscley instead of soft) and they don't ever give sweet compliments.
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>>34434076
Attention seeker.
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>>34434511
Grumble grumble grumble.
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>>34433710
nah, ever since my ex wife cucked me I've had nothing but peace. Just the other day I dreamt of her and woke up stressed.
Don't think I'll ever commit to a woman again, just whoremaxx and lie to dumb cunts I don't pay for.
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>>34433710
>Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone
It's more complicated. Life is stressful.

If a person brings more joy than misery to your life, then it might be worth keeping them in your life. Gender is irrelevant.

What fucks people are up is developing various expectations on themselves and others and then stressing over meeting those expectations.
Drop your expectations and imagined meanings. Respond to the reality in front of you.

If the woman you're with is upset over insane nonsense you don't care about, the reality in front of you is that she is upset and you should probably care about that.
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>>34434564
>lie to dumb cunts I don't pay for.
what do you mean by this?
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>>34433710
Short answer: yesn't (yes if you're somewhat in the ace spectrum)
Long answer: If you're one of the types, subconsciously or not, trying to prop up your dating value by selling a "strong independent man" appearance, then give up. It won't work and you'll end up more bitter and frustrated.
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>>34433710
Getting your heart broken is worse than being alone.
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>>34433710
You can literally buy romantic experiences. Love isn't real anyways. Fucking and just enjoy a woman's body is real. Intimacy and orgasm is real. To each their own but I never be able to live with a woman 24/7. Women are sex objects, and wants to be treated like such. This is my experience, maybe I'm wrong, but who gives a fuck about women anyway? Getting into a relationship seems so anticlimactic..
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>>34434932
>buy romantic experiences.
How do you go about this without breaking the bank?
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>>34434932
>Love isn't real anyways.
No, love is entirely real.
What you're likely confusing it with is individual perspective. Your individual perspective of reality isn't truth. It's just your flawed perception.

>Women are sex objects, and wants to be treated like such.
Yes. So are men. It's treating them *only* as sex objects that causes issues.
And I'd like to add that I can respect your willingness to acknowledge that your mother is a sex object. Not everyone can appreciate that.

>who gives a fuck about women anyway?
Giving a fuck about "women" is a losing proposition that I don't recommend.
Giving a fuck about a specific woman can be an incredibly gratifying and wonderful experience.

>Getting into a relationship seems so anticlimactic.
That's likely from your perception of what it was going to be like versus the reality of interacting with another individual human being. Flawed perception is fairly universal. It's important not to learn the wrong lessons from such things though.
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>>34434803
>Getting your heart broken is worse than being alone.
Having experienced both I can testify that is true but only for so long. Eventually, being alone is worse.
I handled the first decade fine. After fifteen years I felt being alone was worse than heartbreak could be. Then I experienced heartbreak while still being alone and confirmed that being in love and having your heartbroken was better than not having loved at all. And I continued to be alone for another five years, rounding out the second decade.

Ironically, I disagreed about this with the girl who ended up breaking my heart after we heard that song.
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girls are not that stressful. Yes, the first year after a heartbreak is the most brutal thing you will experience but you will eventually forget about it and realize you get to search for newer, hotter girls. Being alone is only "worth it" if youre in school or training or investing in yourself in some way. If youre stabilized there is no reason not to have a dating and sex life.
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>>34435502
>there is no reason not to have a dating and sex life
Zero privacy/freedom
Money sink
Compromise

Basically zero upside except sex (hookers and tinder exist). Long term relationships used to be called marriage and having children, which nobody is doing anymore. I feel like this is a case of an old way of doing things becoming obsolete before it fully hits everyone. Actually women are ahead of the curve on that front, men are still stuck being romantics
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>>34433710
>Is life better if you avoid women?
Yours maybe, sure.
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Test.
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>>34435540
Nta

>Zero privacy/freedom
That's just your inability to set boundaries.

>Money sink
Meh, it beats WH40k

>Compromise
Alright, settle down, Rorschach.
Human interaction involves compromise. And, like it or not, human beings are social creatures.
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>>34433710
women treat me right so I like it when I have them around
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Yes.
Humans kill themselves trying to make kids. Then the kids turn out gay like op
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>>34434675
He means, fuck girls who are stupid enough to believe his lies that he loves them and wanted to commit, girls who he met off dating apps, through friends, or just irl, and without paying for them.

>>34434564
And honestly, I agree. Based fellow cucked individual. I was cucked after 5 years together. Heartless, she is.
Whoremaxx is the answer
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>>34436160
Setting boundaries does not result in women obeying boundaries, it just results in women leaving you.
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>>34436443
>Setting boundaries does not result in women obeying boundaries, it just results in women leaving you.
That's either unreasonable boundaries, communicating reasonable boundaries poorly, or the boundaries working extremely well.

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you and your respectfully established boundaries?

My girl awkwardly but angrily punched me on the arm once. I got out of the parked car, walked to the end of the block, stood for a bit, walked back, got in the car, and calmly explained that she wasn't going to hit me again because I was never going to hit her and I wasn't tolerating a relationship where she could hit me in anger and I was just supposed to take it. It didn't even hurt in the slightest. It was simply crossing a boundary of respect as she'd hit me as hard as she could at that angle.

She was stunned and had never had a guy react like that but accepted my rule immediately.
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>>34436760
And then everyone clapped.
But probably better than my corrective rape idea.
You're very mature.
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>>34433710
Life is better if you follow your true will.
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Life is better if you unironically disregard the appearance of women and choose them based on the quality of their character.

95% of men can't do it

caveat: quality of character and appearance are not completely unrelated. if she has retarded tattoos and smells like cigs and cat piss then obviously steer clear
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>>34436975
Why should I waste time and money on a woman I don’t find attractive
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>>34437000
because it doesn't matter. You will become desensitized to her beauty after a while anyway. Have you heard the expression that goes something like "every 10/10 has a guy thats tired of fucking her" or something? Its pretty true.

also looks are the literally the bait they use to turn you into her servant and provider. The looks which are pretty fucking fake in terms of makeup, shapewear, flattering clothing, expensive creams and the rest.

If you are smart you will flip the script and get woman who percieves you as being better than her, who is willing to serve you, submit to you, etc. Thats how you find happiness with women. You MUST be better than her.
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>>34437012
It's more than beauty eventually fades anyway.
Invest in a person who you want to spend your time with.
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>>34437277
people also change. Every girl is in her best behavior up until marriage where she can slack off and you can't do anything without risking half your assets to her plus tip
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>>34437277
No, its more what I said. Contrary to popular 4chan belief, hot women tend to remain hot for a very long time unless they are mexican or have a thyroid issue or let themselves go.
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>>34437345
why do latina women age so poorly? Is it their diet and lack of self control?
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>>34437345
40 yo white women can be incredibly hot, but sometimes incredibly gross. It depends on lifestyle, genetics and god knows what else.
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>>34433710
Yes and no. On average western women suck. They've been ruined. But, finding the right woman will make life a lot more sweet. Unless you suck as a man too, in that case, the shitty women won't feel as shit.
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>>34437349
Their food is incredibly good and incredibly unhealthy. Genetically they are also just more predisposed to obesity than white people. And everyone is more genetically predisposed to obesity than asians as well.
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>>34437372
western = white women?
that's the only ones I'm into.
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>>34437377
Yes and no ig, since white women are the majority of women in America. But I mean overall. If you want to torture yourself with a white woman who thinks she's on par with men, go for it. But Asians know how to be feminine
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>>34437394
Yeah but your son will be feminine as well. I would unironically rather impregnante a sheboon than an asian. At least I could mold my mulatto son into an elite athlete or something
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>>34437405
Especially given that we are approaching a future where IQ doesn't mean shit since AI does all the thinking.
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>>34437405
I didn't mean physically feminine. Asian women know their role as feminine women. I know a lot of physically masculine af Asian men at my Mauy Thai gym. Don't hate on Asian men, they might have smaller peens, but they're a warrior race.
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>>34437405
Also, I have a black gf and I'm going for a mixed son as well lol. I was going to suggest a black women, as they are very feminine as well. But just assumed you weren't gonna be interested at all, so I just went with Asian suggestion for you.
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>>34437394
can you find asians in America or must it be japan/thailand etc?
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>>34437449
asians in america only live in the bluest of the blue george soros controlled hellscapes and are worse than white girls imo
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>>34437449
You can definitely find Asians in America. Chinese have done great things for themselves here. Find a Chinese woman or Korean. But if you want the best, go to a real Asian country. If me and my gf don't work out, I'm heading to Thai land and getting a Thai gf. But, having a feminine trad woman means you need to be a masculine trad man. Don't think you can just be a gay loser and keep a feminine trad woman.
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>>34437455
yeah that's true in my experience. That or massage parlors.

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