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I have next to no luck when it comes to dating. I mostly use hinge for online dating and a friend who lives in New York basically told me that some cities / areas are just complete ass for dating where some are amazing. In New York, you apparently will never see the same faces twice in online dating. Whereas with me, on my hinge, I regularly see the same faces. I live in a city of about 75,000 people. So my question, is it pointless for me to use online dating? I don't have any luck with it. I even tried paying money for a subscription and it helped a little but still not getting much for matches(zero). My friend also told me that where I live is pretty fucked up and full of trogolodyte women. But its mostly because I guess this area had a bunch of factories at one point and the factories packed up and left and now the city is ass. I think the women here are... decent. I wouldn't say ever single one is a model or something. But they are okay. I just consider myself average as well.

I tried experimenting with distance and set my location to like down town Mexico City(I like Mexican women). and the women there do look heaps better on average than the women where I live in USA. Am I bias though because I like Mexican women? What am I missing? I just want to date a woman who lives within 30-45 minutes of me. My buddy said to basically give that up because the amount of people is just not enough. How the fuck does everyone else meet someone then? It can't just be new yorkers, bostonians and Los Angeles people hogging up all the women.