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Fyi im 24f
When it was over with my ex(like 2y ago) I randomly made a tinder acc just for hookups to forget him. I matched with a guy and It was just one night stands (without the night) like everyday in the evening after dinner i told my parents to go on a walk to improve digestion of the food i ate. But instead of a walk i went to the nearby bus station and went to my fwb. It was everyday like this until it became an obsession. I wanted more abd craved him more. But he told me from the beginning he didn’t want a relationship bc he still has feelings for his ex as well and were agreeing only bc i had the same so he doesn’t feel the same emotions like me.
Anyway recently i dated another guy and we had sex on the first date but i didn’t feel anything. No chemistry., it was boring, plain, no feelings, didnt even cum. Just lasted until he cummed and then went straight to the toilet, masturbated myself and then was showering. His penis was also small compared to my fwb
Is there wny chance my fwb will catch feelings for me?
Also i dated that guy too to see his reaction if he would be jealous but he didnt care :/
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Have you thought of being friends with the guys you are with? This to me is like how I treat pornstars on Pornhub. Find one hot drop it go to the next video until I get off. Femanon, that type of behavior is not right to men in real life. That guy probably wanted to be your friend and you're going to lose an opportunity on all of the men unless one of them forgive you. You can't treat men like how men treat porn.
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>Is there wny chance my fwb will catch feelings for me?
No. He told you he isn't interested in that.
>Also i dated that guy too to see his reaction if he would be jealous but he didnt care :/
Yeah. Because he told you he isn't interested in a relationship.
How about you be a grown up and talk to him about this? Instead of destroying your value by riding the cock train and hoping he gets jealous, how about you just use your words like a big girl?
Granted, you already know the answer. Chances are he will say no and cut things off because you were always and still are just a hook up. Nothing more.
Now is an important part of your life. Will you act like an adult and talk about your feelings with the person you have feelings for or will you keep playing games that ultimately just hurt yourself and everyone involved?
I mean, just look at what you did. You fucked another dude to hope your hookup would get jealous. Why are you farming negative emotions?
You need to self reflect on your actions.