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I dont understand why do they feel so insecure about it? Its not even realistic kind of insecurity it doesn’t make sense to me at least the bald looks fits most men
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>>34435014
Because it's one of the few features we have that helps us differentiate from one another. Women have all types of shit to stand out, from makeup to dresses and tit size and hip size and ass size and hourglass this and pear shape that etc. All men have really is height, muscles and hair to feel like a person. And for a lot of men when they start to lose hair they feel less of a person.
Eventually they stop giving a shit and just accept it.
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>>34435014
I rationalize that the reason is that it might be seen by some as a sign of one being sick or that you're getting old, even though none of those are necessarily true. Seen plenty of bald dudes much healthier and/or much younger than me.
Most men, like most women, like to feel confident about the image they present to others, so they fear being seen as something negative, to have something that goes beyond their control, so they frequently make a big deal out of it. I guess it'd be the equivalent of uh... crow's feet or other aging lines in women. Most tend to not like having those. Or just going bald too I guess, although women tend to be less affected by it.
Me personally I do care a bit, personally I'd prefer not to go bald if I can help it, but I don't think it's the end of the world either.
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For me, it's because my hair is great to play with and protect against the elements, notably the sun.
If i see a tiny patch of wispy hair, i'm immediately seeing a dermatologist
I don't think it'll be likely, because it started greying and my family is lucky to have no bald men.
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>Very good looking people often hate themselves
I can confirm this, not because I was very good looking myself (only good looking), the people who were on the extreme end of attractive were really fucking tense and high strung all the time. They knew they had to keep up some appearance of beauty or handsome shit and feared any single day when they looked less than perfect, and when they aged or something went wrong physically my fucking God the self hatred was real. I think it's not just conventionally "ugly" people who have it hard with lookism, attractive people do too.
But good luck trying to get others to accept that. Funny story:
>There was a show where they paired an ugly person with a supemodel to chat about life
>They picked this deformed severely deformed woman and a supermodel bimbo woman
>The deformed woman acted above it all, pretending she didn't care about looks and was all humble
>Supermodel vain as shit, shallow as shit
>But when they discussed about life being hard and having hardships
>All of a sudden the ugly person didn't wanna hear it, didn't wanna acknowledge other people have hardship
>Supermodel tried to explain the immense pressure to perform and the fear of failure and the feeling less than human and being iconized thing to her
>The ugly deformed woman got angry and screamed "EEEUUUAAAAGHHHHH!!!!!!" and stormed off
Shit was funny. Apparently attractive people are not allowed to have inner demons, people think they need to be perfect and have no struggles or else they glitch out or something