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Call me a child or whatever but it's so tiring everyone has problems we will always be like that until we perish I know
So it's just the matter of who can cope better? Who can forget and deal with whatever cards they got dealt but if you coped too hard you become an addict?
I know not everyone is shitty but I saw some people paying someone to torture someone so fun right? And I can't deal with the fact that some people might like that even others who hate it but still found a way like me to be nosey enough to find stuff like this why are we weird who is the perfect coping one ig? where are the good people
to put it into perspective everyone I meet is just like any other board on here weird and disgusting
You rarely meet someone who enjoys being on /adv without being weird to even check the other boards
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How tf can I cope How can I be normal What's the way to just get through iam religious I believe that there will be heaven and hell I just wanna be sane until I die
BTW it's not just having an access to the internet which made me like this, I am always pathetic and pessimistic I won't deny it I got bullied for all my life I didn't like standing up for myzelf, I even tried bullying, I hated it but the fact that I tried bullying other erks me it still makes me cry which is the only thing I like about myself regarding trying to bully and annoy other how can I grow up and stop being a child
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>>34435356
>So it's just the matter of who can cope better?
Life is a matter of becoming wise. With wisdom, there's no need to cope because nothing is painful anymore. You see the good in everyone and everything, and only care about doing as much good as you can for as long as you can.
If you want to be happy and healthy, I'd recommend daily meditation and regular studying. Get to know yourself, improve yourself and heal yourself. Anyone can do it, you just have to decide that you're done suffering and are willing to find a better way at any cost.
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>>34435391
>If you want to be happy and healthy, I'd recommend daily meditation and regular studying
Isn't this pure cope tho I know this rhetoric and narrative is tiring but really who am I helping I am just minding my own business worrying about the small things that I can actually do instead freaking out about the big events outside of my reach ig?
Idont know but yeah hopefully I stop getting anxious and emotional in general
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>>34435420
I don't see anything "cope" about learning how to distinguish between what you can control and what you can't. Clinging to, craving and desiring things that are outside of your control are copes, because they're delusions that are at odds with reality. Accepting reality for what it is the path that doesn't need any coping, because it accepts whatever happens as tolerable. Reading The Discourses of Epictetus is what put me on the path to a calmer life, so that's what I'd recommend to anyone starting out.
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>>34435356
With all due respect, how can you be confidently religious and have this problem? You know that your life has a meaning and that it's all part of God's plan. You know that even the most evil people can be forgiven and that you too can be saved. So why worry yourself?
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>>34435356
I think I understand. Just to be sure, you're saying that you believe that people who do nasty, twisted and evil stuff are seemingly more common that those who do the opposite, yeah?
If that is so, I think you just need to clear your mind and distance yourself from sick environments. Despicable acts are universally reprehensible in every culture, and for obvious reasons. They are a reflection of ignorance and misery, and their existence also spreads the same to the world... but so does good, altruistic, charitable deeds.
So, don't focus just on the evil of men, there is also good to be found, it's just sometimes hard to see it amidst all the muck. Including in this site, but everywhere else, too.