>>34239934
Do you take drugs, alcohol, or something else that could altered your blood circulation ?

>>34239934
>She seemed a bit colder than normal at the end.
Its because she was developing feelings for you, but since you couldnt get hard in her pussy it made her feel bad, and she snapped back to reality that you arent the guy for her.

>>34239992
no

>>34239995
please don't say that

>>34240050
>please don't say that
Its over. See another escort for a while to make her jealous, it'll work probably

she's read the text message I sent her 25 minutes ago asking about our next meeting but hasn't replied yet

I am mentally preparing myself for her ghosting me

>>34240137
Dude, she's an escort. It's not hard for her to "like" you. To get on an escorts "like" list just be a regular that comes clean, never haggle on pricing, doesn't hurt her physically and you are golden.
She's used to smelly negros trying to bareback her and short her on the payment.
You are overthinking this.

>>34240379
Well I do all that. I did spank her a bit today but she told me to.

Yet it's now been 2.5 hours and she has left me on read.

>>34239934
>idk why this happened.

It's nervousness, even a tiny bit (you won't even notice that you're nervous) makes your penis numb and makes it hard to cum. The time pressure experienced with a prostitute doesn't help.

btw anyone visiting escorts should be aware that you can literally get throat cancer from ingesting saliva or vaginal fluids:
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HPV-positive_oropharyngeal_cancer
There is a vaccine against the most common carcinogenic strains of HPV

>>34240460
It's Superbowl Sunday, a notoriously busy day for escorts. She's fucking busy making money by getting gangbanged at some party. She is an escort, she already has you as a regular, what do you expect? She is used to getting paid for her attention. Send her a gift card or something - she'll respond.
You think you are her first regular that fell for her? Escorts love and hate guys like you: they love the nice thing you have but hate when you try to turn her into a girlfriend... there ultimate goal is to have like 20 good regulars then she doesn't have to meet smelly negros.
You would need to see her ALOT more for her to want to make a relationship.
Let me ask you this - Do you eat her pussy?

>>34240690
I'm not American.
She's logged into AdultWork recently.
I'm seriously worried she's ghosting me.

>>34240566
>btw anyone visiting escorts should be aware that you can literally get throat cancer from ingesting saliva or vaginal fluids:
This makes me so incredibly happy.

>>34240753
A john falling for his escort is a tale as old as time.

>>34240753
You should text her "please respond"

>>34239934
>>34240137
Are you the same guy that posted some time ago about some escort not replying?

>>34240759
Did your man cheat on you with an escort? Lmao

>>34240566
With the high body count that most women have these days this risk is pretty much everywhere not unique to escorts really

>>34240929
Well I was but now she's not responding to me which has seriously reduced my confidence.
I am seriously panicking that she thinks I'm too emotional. Am I being stupid? We've met 5 times now but I know what women are like.

>>34240942
I plan to text her again today specifying a time for our next meeting if she doesn't reply within 5 hours or so.

>>34240690
>Let me ask you this - Do you eat her pussy?
Forgot to say yeah I do

>>34239934
You’re probably overthinking. Sometimes it can just happen. On another note you seem to be catching feelings for a prostitute which is unlikely to end well if I had to guess. You could try talking to her about it and make sure she knows it’s not like a part of the services.

>>34242356
>On another note you seem to be catching feelings for a prostitute which is unlikely to end well if I had to guess. You could try talking to her about it and make sure she knows it’s not like a part of the services.
I thought I was but now I don't think I am.

>>34241285
Yes. She eventually did.

I am worried I have blown it now though. This is what I said to her in my last text:

>"thank you for this morning, it's lovely getting to know you and I had a great time. You're right, I do overthink things haha. Would you be happy to meet on Sunday 22nd?"

She read that at 5pm yesterday. We have met 5 times. Realistically how likely is it that she is going to ghost me now? I worry that she thinks I am being too emotional.

>>34242484
She’s fucking Chad for free and debating whether seeing your clingy ass is worth the money.

>>34242484
So basically you are going through the same thing that you were going through last time huh

Well she responded bros. She said we can meet on Sunday 22nd February and used a smiley face emoji so maybe things aren't so bad.

>>34242926
Yes. I think I have an anxious attachment style. I always fear that she's going to ghost me.

>>34242980
How much do you pay her each time?

>>34243040
It's £200 per hour or £270 for 1.5 hours, the last few times I've gone for the 1.5 hours

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>>34242980
Anon, for your sake, don't get too attached to her. You pay her to be nice to you, don't forget that. If you feel you have too much emotions for that girl, take a new one.

>>34243217
You are right anon.
Problem is she's exactly my type and every time I see her I get to know more about her. I even found out she likes games like LA Noire last time which really surprised me. I lost my virginity to her which doesn't help. She's also only a year younger than me. We have similar interests like reading which we talk about.

But I sometimes feel like she's a bit formal with me. I think she's a bit of an arrogant woman and at the end of our last meeting she seemed a bit cold.

I wish she'd be my girlfriend though.

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>>34243342
You're already too deep with her. Find a new girl and keep it casual this time.

>>34243361
There aren't that many escorts in my city who are good. She ticks a lot of boxes for me.

>>34240753
>I'm seriously worried she's ghosting me.

As long as you're paying, she's replying.

But it's strictly commerce. She's providing a service that you pay for. Don't read more into it than that.

>>34243473
I'm just a bit worried that she's gone sour on me.
She was quite affectionate in her messages the last few weeks, now she seems formal again.

First off, sorry you're falling in love with a literal whore. That must be confusing.

Bro like the other anons are saying you gotta protect your heart man. Odds are you're just another joe to her. And furthermore ask yourself why you would want to date a sex worker? Even if she magically changed careers how are you ever gonna stomach the fact the woman you love was a literal cumdumpster? That's gonna be the mother of your children? I am an OG incel and I understand being clingy towards affection but dude the chances of you being burned at the end of this are extremely high. Heart break is way way worse than being lonely. Nothing wrong with banging whores to get some notches on your belt, but it's time to leave the nest and pursue your first practice gf. Lower your standards as far as you can(not so low as a sex worker though come the fuck on) and just get some experience with a non sex worker. Use the confidence and skills you've learned from the prostitute and monkey branch. I believe in you son.

>>34243624
>First off, sorry you're falling in love with a literal whore. That must be confusing.
I thought I was but her coldness is putting me off.

>And furthermore ask yourself why you would want to date a sex worker? Even if she magically changed careers how are you ever gonna stomach the fact the woman you love was a literal cumdumpster?
She's intelligent and kind. Or at least I think so. I reached 29 as a virgin so it's not like I have a lot of choice for women.
But she's a very individual woman and a bit arrogant I think. I think she has sensed my emotions and has pulled back.

I might try banging another escort

>>34243077
bro come to Reeperbahn in Germany 10/10 hotties for 60 euro

>>34243934
Yeah I wish we had brothels here man.
Complete seller's market in the UK. Escorts seem to put their prices up each year.

I'm trying to break my emotional attachment to her. But how can I do this while remaining attracted to her enough to have sex?

>>34244316
Bump

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>>34244316
You don't. You're WAY too invested in this whore. She should be just a hole for you, you shouldn't even see her as human, just a cum dump. Yes, she is pretty and nice to you, but you're forgetting she is paid to be. She probably wouldn't even look in your direction if she had enough money. Stop the bleeding, move on and find another girl. I assure you she is not the only one in town that can satisfy you.

Will you faggots stop humoring this failed man. He makes this exact post multiple times and you retards tell him the same thing over and over again and he pretends you’re right but never actually listens.

>>34246506
I fear you're right.
I have already arranged to see her again on Sunday 22nd. My plan is to avoid masturbating and maybe even take Viagra so I know I can get hard during penetration. But after that, I might have to break things off with her.

Every single thing I've read and seen regarding escorts and the people visiting them have been depressing as hell. Guys that lose their virginity to them either feel depressed when the high ends and they realize it was all transactional or they drop regular women in general and become one of those creeps who regularly gets them and makes these women their interim girlfriend.

I've been through escort sites and a lot of them aren't even pretty. Onlyfans and camwhore sites have completely ruined attractive escort finding, even South American countries are struggling.

>>34239934
if I concentrate in what she's thinking or if she's judging me I also take forever to cum or I lose my erection even, I have to concentrate on how it feels and how she looks and think some nasty thoughts to cum
this helps me with escorts and one night stands, with gfs I've had a harder time cumming unless I completely detach from the love I feel for her and I imagine it's a casual fling or stuff
I find this a problem I'll have to tackle eventually because my two exes were kinda sad I could hardly creampie them

>>34248469
>even South American countries are struggling
I don't know what south american country you're talking about but mine is just ok
but you gotta know the right people
you can get pageant winners even but you gotta know people that can get them to you.
I've been more into girl next door girls that do this on the side and look like everyday girls lately, it's way more realistic and if you find someone you know on your way to your apartment you can always tell them it's a girl you've met at a party or a night out.
model tier girls are kinda hard to pull out, they always look like sugar babies or trophy wives at the minimum.

>>34248469
>Onlyfans and camwhore sites have completely ruined attractive escort finding, even South American countries are struggling.
I remember going on Chaturbate and seeing a handful of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. All from colombia. Not just beautiful, but they rode the hell out of those dildos and danced like they were professionals. Then I look at a few Colombian escort sites and it was all nasty.

>>34248614
>if I concentrate in what she's thinking or if she's judging me I also take forever to cum or I lose my erection even, I have to concentrate on how it feels and how she looks and think some nasty thoughts to cum
That sounds like good advice anon.

It's annoying because the last two times we met, I fucked her in missionary and came. I don't know what happened really. Only thing I can think of is that I relapsed on NoFap in the two weeks between our meetings and masturbated a few times with a firm grip. I've got to try avoiding masturbating until our next meeting on the 22nd.

How can I focus on just fucking her and enjoying the pleasure when I next see her?

I've tried to treat her with respect but should I just enjoy the power dynamic and see her as a toy?

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Just don't visit the same prozzie more than 3 times

>>34250157
I'm gonna try banging a different one this weekend.

>>34239934
A lot of people create emotional bonds with the people they sleep with, it's natural. Understand your position and then hers, she probably has a lot of clients, she probably gets mixed signals from many men, she has to be careful with her clients because men are unpredictable and do dangerous things once attached or possessive. Men can be sadistic too. In your case, I think she is comfortable that you treat her nicely, but realistically she doesn't see a future in this, do you? Enjoy your time with her, if you feel this is messing with your head, end it. What does it matter if you could or couldn't have more? You can love someone even if you are not committed. See it as something positive for both of you, she gets money doing it with someone gentle, you get the joys of feeling warmth in her presence. It's a service exchange, maybe you feel things you weren't aware of before. Love can be in all kinds of places. Don't overthink it.

Are you fit? Daily cardio makes your dick work much better. Don't have sex unless you've done your cardio for the day; the improved circulation will make you hard as a rock

>>34250167
>In your case, I think she is comfortable that you treat her nicely, but realistically she doesn't see a future in this, do you?
IDK. She is my type.
I wish I could see her every day to practice sex.

>>34250200
Yeah I'm in decent shape, not fat.
I did some light skipping on Sunday morning but I was a bit tired.

I just find it worrying that I couldn't stay hard during intercourse. I struggle to maintain erections in general but during our last meeting in January, I was able to fuck her in missionary and finish.

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>>34250221

The more I think about her the more she pisses me off.

She think she's intelligent but she's shallow and I can guarantee what sort of woman she was in school.

pop a sildenafil an hour or so before meeting her, it will help with your nerves.

>>34250697
Brother, it's been four days.
Let it go.

>>34250970
Yeah I was thinking of trying viagra.

>>34250980
And do what?

>>34251117
buy it online, plenty of online pharmacies sell sildenafil and tadalafil. no prescription required. take 50mg of sildenafil. it will help you stay hard.
but you should also be shagging other prostitutes, not just the one escort.

>>34251155
>but you should also be shagging other prostitutes, not just the one escort.
You're probably right, problem is there aren't many that I'm attracted to

>>34251160
thats horseshit and you know it. London is full of fit escorts. Manchester. all the cities have dozens of decent pros.

>>34251165
My city is smaller than those.
There's only about 10 or so in my city that I want to see and they're not always available.

>>34239934
The problem is you are extremely neurotic and lonely

>>34253269
You're right. If I had a gf things might be different.

I might try seeing another escort who I've seen before this weekend.

>>34253285
That would miss the point I'm making. Its not a solution.

>>34253296
So what is?

>>34253246
go into a proper city for the weekend

Before we met on Sunday, the escort used the smiley face with hearts emoji in her text to me. She didn't afterwards though.

Is this good or bad? Was it just her looking forward to seeing me?

I seriously need to stop seeking validation from her but she lives in my head rent free.

>>34253740
she doesnt love you lad
im sympathetic but you need to hear this
she is an escort
she is not in love with you

>>34253740
>Is this good or bad? Was it just her looking forward to seeing me?
Its obviously bad. She got cold because of your performance. She doesnt see a future with you as anything more than a client. She thought you could love her like a man, but you failed. She felt unattractive. You made her feel bad and unworthy.

>>34253740
bro I guess you're coming back to get some sympathy from anons but there is not much advice we can give you anymore, it seems like she's ghosted you
offer her more money if you're that desperate to see her, but otherwise just let it go and see someone else
I made the mistake of trying to warp a sugar baby arrangement I had last year into a relationship and it didn't work at all, it only created suffering.

>>34253795
>it seems like she's ghosted you
She agreed to meet again on Sunday 22nd.

What I find most annoying is that I couldn't stay hard during intercourse.

The last time we met on the 25th Jan, I was able to fuck her quite hard in missionary and she moaned a lot which turned me on.

But this time I tried thrusting in her and I lost hardness. Is it worth trying Viagra for next time?

>>34253762
Do escorts really care about that?
Surely if she liked me beyond being a client she'd text me.

>>34253830
its worth a try but the issue you have is psychological and viagra is for physical ailments.

>>34253888
Does it help at all with psychological issues? I thought it helps you stay hard.
I mean I did cum eventually, just through her hands rather than her vagina.

>>34254028
It has a placebo affect that is a powerful psychological tool but the fact is that viagra is to aid in physiological issues. For one thing psychologically you still need attraction and stimulation and viagra doesnt provide that.

>>34239934
>>34253269
don't see the same excort more than 3 times.. and that's usually too many times
>>34253756
that^
also herbs

>>34254142
I kept losing hardness when she put the condom on last time. Idk why because the meeting before that was fine.

>>34254154
Well our 4th meeting was by far the best. I came twice and fucked her hard.

Is it normal to not always be able to get hard during intercourse?

>>34254154
>don't see the same excort more than 3 times.. and that's usually too many times
not him but i concur. i saw the same one twice in my early days of shagging brass and it was a big mistake. first time she was full of fun and life. talked about hanging out and smoking weed. i was still young and smoked then and i went back with weed but she was like a completely different person. i dunno if its because she was Russian, bipolar, or just another woman but i couldnt wait to get out of there.

>>34254177
I've seen this one 5 times in 11 weeks.

I know that might be a lot but she's seemingly quite open with me. We've talked a lot and she knows I lost my virginity to her.

>>34254204
Yes thats a lot and probably a heavy burden for her. You always have to consider these things with women, even when you pay them.

>>34254366
Well she agrees to keep seeing me. At the end of our 5th meeting (on Sunday 8th), I asked about meeting again in 2 weeks and she instantly said yes and kissed me. But then she seemed a little cold when I was leaving.

I just don't know what to think. IDK if she genuinely likes me as a person or just sees me as an easy client.

I've decided to order Sildenafilil/Viagra to try.
gonna try one in the next few days before I see her again on Sunday 22nd.
Is it safe?

>>34254512
dont overdo it. gives me a bad headache.

>>34254514
I've ordered 50 mg

Why can't I just go fuck an escort and come home with no emotions?

I keep going back and forth between being attracted to her and thinking she's a cold hearted cunt.

Am I normal or am I just not cut out for seeing escorts? I don't know if I have the temperament.

>>34254515
that should be ok

>>34254543
>Guys I did the pairbond mating ritual with a female prostitute

>Why do I develop pairbond emotions after doing the pairbond ritual?

Maybe if you don't wanna develop feelings for people, don't fuck them.

>>34254377
>I asked about meeting again in 2 weeks and she instantly said yes and kissed me. But then she seemed a little cold when I was leaving.

Because she's a psychotic BPD chick as most prostitutes tend to be. They love bomb you and make you feel high and drunk off of the emotions during the paid sex then act like cold cuts when you leave because you triggered their abandonment issues. So they devise a way to strip your cash by love bombing again to get you to empty your wallet for them so they feel like they got "payback".

That's prostitutes in a nutshell. They hate you for only wanting their pussy, so they make you pay for it literally so they feel in control.

>>34254787
You might be right.
She says she likes Sylvia Plath, do you think that's further evidence of her being nuts?

>>34254776
Yeah but what I find annoying is how escorts complain about emotional/clingy clients.
Maybe the other anon is right, it's emotional manipulation

>>34254543
>Am I normal or am I just not cut out for seeing escorts? I don't know if I have the temperament.
You are not cut out for dabbling with escorts. You get attached.

>>34256232
I fear you're right.
What's annoying is she asked me for film/book recommendations during our last meeting so I do wonder if she genuinely liked me.

When I see her again, should I say something like this?

>"You know I'm inexperienced, so shall we just take it slow? You can guide again and I'll try to relax more and not rush"

also this is what I've learnt about the escort I've seen
>likes Sylvia Plath
>likes being spanked and spanking me
>likes vampire stuff
does she give off red flags?

>>34239934
she is no longer a whore or a slut in your eyes and the novelty of it and the excitement is gone because what you are doing is not perverse or taboo anymore.

>>34243077
holy fucking shit. Is she that cute? What does she look like? Is the sex worth it? What does she do to you that could possibly be worth this much??

>>34246627
I need to know what she does to him or how hot she is / what she looks like that she charges such a high price for sex. Does she give him the best orgasms ever? Like wtf, is the sex mindblowing? Is she the hottest girl ever? That price is insane

>>34239934
Bruh you are dumb for being emotionally attached to escorts

>>34257543
>she is no longer a whore or a slut in your eyes and the novelty of it and the excitement is gone because what you are doing is not perverse or taboo anymore
That might be it.
Maybe I just need to treat her as a toy. Problem is she's nice to talk to and we have similar interests.

>>34257547
She is cute. Naturally pretty, blue eyes, dark blonde. She has a nice looking pink pussy, although it doesn't taste that good during oral.

I don't last long during intercourse. I've fucked her in missionary twice and it was nice. Came really hard when I did.

She's kind, patient, she knows I'm inexperienced. But she comes across as very business-like over texts sometimes.

Also idk if I'm just imagining it but she did seem to take a genuine interest in my recommendations for films/books
I even recommended a bookshop near to where she lives that she didn't know about and she seemed really enthusiastic
tbqh I'd see her to just cuddle and kiss her

>>34257642
Sorry man.
You lost it at 29 to an escort, you must really feel a lot for her, I understand why you can't let it go. Regardless of all the advice here, your relationship with her will end eventually, and the best thing you can do for yourself is to think of the next girl, of the day after. Like other anons said, go to a different city. Get a different girl that seems alright to you, get experience seeing other women.

This advice works universally, not just for prostitutes. I'm 29 too and had one irl ltr, for 5 years. She cheated on me and I've been alone for over a year. I'm over her mostly, but I'm not over the loneliness, it's driven me to a profound lack of happiness and I'm starting to get suicidal thoughts in recent months. But one thing that is true for both me and you is that when I went out there into the world and saw beautiful people and went hiking with them, some women gave me attention and I made some female friends. Likewise I got into new hobbies and met some girls, though it wasn't as strong hitting it off as it was during the hobbies, but the bottom line is that I SAW and experienced that other ladies are out there and that I always, always have options. And it made me so happy. And it helped me get over a lot of things. I didn't succeed in turning it romantic with any of them but seeing that I have options made me very happy.

Although I'm a lonely person still, completely detached from reality and with no sense of self and about to hit 30, I depart to you this useful advice that helped me in a time of great need and sadness. See other women.

This is the best chance you have so listen up: cancel your next appointment with her. Dont talk to her for 1 month. Fuck other escorts for the next month. Develop or feign an arrogance that you have other options. Message her after you have some experience with other escorts. Dont act cute or clingy this time. Just be direct "I want to meet up again" or whatever. Be a little cold and direct. When you meet her again fuck her hard like shes a sex doll. Give her the hardest fuck youve ever given. Devour her body and rough her up a bit. Then leave coldly and dont message her again. But the next time you do message, maybe after 2-3 weeks, act warmer and nicer, give her one backhanded compliment. If you repeat this process over several months it is your best shot to get her to respect and like you. Also, always ALWAYS make sure to subtly let her know youre seeing other women. You absolutely need to activate her sense of feminine competition. You cannot have her know she is your oneitis.

>>34242355
This nigga’s trolling

>>34242337
I can’t even imagine being so pathetic that I literally become the guy from the memes about “falling in love with an escort”. And I’m a fucking loser! Get a grip dude jeez

>>34258479
>You lost it at 29 to an escort, you must really feel a lot for her, I understand why you can't let it go.
Yeah I think that's why.
>Regardless of all the advice here, your relationship with her will end eventually, and the best thing you can do for yourself is to think of the next girl, of the day after. Like other anons said, go to a different city. Get a different girl that seems alright to you, get experience seeing other women.
I saw another escort today, another one I've seen before. We did oral on each other (she swallowed which was nice) and we just chatted for the rest of the time, she's really nice. A few years older than me.

>>34258521
Shall I take viagra for next time I see her?
I don't want to cancel on her, I'd feel bad.

In other news, she updated her AdultWork profile today with some weird comment about "only seeing clients with genuine chemistry".
She's seen me 5 times and has arranged to meet me a 6th time, so am I safe to assume that's not directed at me?

Imagine cleaning up the hole of a whore lmao cant make this shit up.

I might not have had any score in years, lost ability to connect with women, but at least I'm not this desperate. I know myself well enough that paid women are not an option, nothing good can come out of it.

This is something OP should realize but let's not kid ourselves he won't, he enjoys cleaning up other men's cum from women who get fucked by 5-10 men per day(!).

>>34261326
I will see how the meeting goes next Sunday.

Honestly at the moment I am really worried she will cut me off.

>>34262107
Do you eat her ass too while you're down there?

>>34260072
When she says "genuine chemistry" she is talking about getting along, not actual romantic feelings. She does not have feelings for you, anon. Face reality.

>>34262176
No, I don't like rimming and her butthole is a bit brown.

>>34262193
Well we've talked a cuddled a lot so am in the clear you reckon?
I just can't help but feel she will be evaluating me carefully.

anyway it's less than a week now until we're due to meet again

I honestly don't know if I'll be up for intercourse with her. Should I just suggest we cuddle/kiss next time?

Another problem is that she's a very popular escort and she doesn't work many days now. She gets booked like a week in advance.

Why did this have to happen to me?
I find an escort I like, who is a similar age to me with similar interests, and I end up like this.

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>>34262608
She is a paid whore.
You pay her to show up for 90 minutes.
You get to choose the activities, you can do whatever you want (within the established limits/boundaries).
If you want to play Monopoly or rub her feet for 90 minutes, just do it. Do not consider what she wants to do. Be a fucking alpha and don't make excuses. Always act like you don't give a fuck what other people think. Be kind, but be assertive. Women hate wet noodles.

>>34254543
Whoring can take a bit of practice. I've been doing it for many years and my personal advice, that you won't follow because you're already in too deep and you want to feel in love instead of just fucking:

Change the woman often, it's the way you'll get over the attachment feelings. 2-3 encounters and then change. After a while, you'll be a lot more casual and avoid very dangerous attachment feelings. You can get played and lose a lot of money if the pro is smart/cunning and you're dumb.

Take viagra. Being with a different woman, with time pressure, with pressure to perform because you paid for a good fuck, etc... it can mess with your head. 50mg of viagra on a healty body have no side effects, very cheap, and keep you hard even if your mind wonders a bit.

>>34262923
I was gonna suggest a massage to her.
We've massaged each other before.

>>34262960
I'm more worried she's gonna cut me off with her comment about "chemistry" >>34260072 that I mentioned here

How can I relax ahead of my next meeting with her on Sunday?
I have a terrible fear she is gonna cut me off.

>>34262315
She doesn't see you as a romantic prospect.

>>34265148
Hopefully she does cut you off. You are extremely mentally ill and maybe this will lead you to stop this delusional thinking you have.

>>34265169
I don't mean that. I am more worried she's gonna ditch me as a client.

Am I being unreasonable to think that "only continue seeing clients with genuine chemistry" is a horrible thing for an escort to put on her profile? It's basically creating anxiety.

I'm 50-50 on whether to text her before our next meeting asking if she's happy to keep seeing me. Or is that going to torpedo our arrangement?

Decided to text her asking for clarity on if she's comfortable with me since the comment on her profile is driving me insane with anxiety. I said this:

>"Hi (her name), I saw the update to your profile regarding client chemistry and comfort. I just wanted to check if you're comfortable with our rapport and to continue seeing me? I'm looking forward to Sunday :) "

I will get clarity one way or the other.

Either she
A) Tells me she doesn't want to see me
Or
B) Says she enjoys seeing me and I can relax

I still maintain that putting something like that in her profile is absurd for an escort and extremely offputting. How can a client like me build a connection with her if she just cuts clients off when she feels like it?

6 hours since I texted her. No response, she hasn't even read my message, despite the fact that our meeting is scheduled for Sunday 22nd.

Her shit communication style is causing me constant stress. Unless she is very warm in her response to me (if she even replies), then I'm going to have to cancel our arrangement. I can't live like this.

I've lost my virginity to some heartless, bipolar, prostitute cunt who likes Sylvia Plath. Fucking put a bullet in me.

Still no response.
Cunt.

I'll hijack this thread with some escort drama of my own. I recently moved to Denver. Single guy, plenty of money. I have seen two or three working girls over the last month. I'm very vanilla, no trouble, pay immediately. Of course there are a few numbers I reached out to that ghost me or are obvious gift card scams. I block, delete, move on.

Suddenly I get a text from a new number saying it's a girl's pimp and he is going to go to my old address (actually where my elderly parents live) and "take care of me." Specific street address listed. 90% chance it's an Indian scammer trying to get me to venmo him "protection money" but I also have a nightmare of my dad getting an envelope with photos of me raw dogging a whore.

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She replied bros
She said she's happy to keep seeing me and used this emoji
Is that good?

>Thread is still up
What do you need advice on if you've already decided you're going to keep simping for her?

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>>34270009
By this many visits, she should be letting you fuck her raw. That's the number one reason to have a regular escort.
Ask her if you can bareback her.

>>34271773
She doesn't do bareback

>>34265316
A lot of escorts put that in their profile. You are too emotionally fragile for this.

>>34265468
Yes anon, really show her how much you love her and report the results, please.

>>34272425
I haven't seen any other escorts do it.
>>34272426
I did text her. She replied with this >>34270009
Didn't say I love her obviously

>>34260072
The chemistry comment is not directed at you.

Goddamn, man, her life doesn't revolve around you. She has other things going on. Come on.

Now, I'm not OP, I'm this guy >>34273665
But I also have a big crush on a escort. She looks like redhead Lost in Translation Scarlett Johansson. What I'm curious is, how do I get her to spend time with me for free? I don't mean exactly make her a girlfriend but actually feeling truly attracted towards me so in the future I might have her as my gf if I want?

>inb4 "DUDE SHE'S A WHORE"
I like whores.

>>34273665
Well I know that now but it caused me distress.
Hopefully everything goes ok on Sunday with her.

>>34273722
Ask her about her personal life

>>34274947
Wouldn't that bother her? This girl didn't like when a guy kept asking her "personal questions" this month. I plan on taking her to a restaurant, and it gives me a bit of the feeling of eggshells of whether I'm asking personal questions or not.

>>34272583
>I haven't seen any other escorts do it.
The fact that you're paying attention to that is proof you're too soft for this.
>>34274192
This too. You're too emotional.

>>34275702
what's wrong with being emotional?

>>34239934
>she said yes instantly and kissed me
>she's happy to keep seeing me
if this is an act she's a great fucking actor. If so, then idk how can she keep this up without an emotional connection under it

>>34275772
Do you think she might genuinely like me?

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>>34275772
Also is it normal for escorts to use emojis like this?

I'm this guy >>34273722
How do I transition a girl like this into a relationship where I can be with her for free? Not necessarily a girlfriend.

Also I plan on bringing her over to my city for a day but I can't drive, would it be ok for me to get a driver for her? She likes to be treated like a princess.

>>34277379
You are probably one of her better regulars. She likes regulars that treat her well and are clean. She likes your money.

You should ask her out to dinner or something. Take her someplace cool. Then take her to a nice hotel room, open some champagne, feed her some strawberries and then ass rape her.

>>34277379
>>34277482
honestly, i have no clue if she genuinely likes you. I'm convinced that 99% of what escorts do while serving you is an act just for you to come back to her, but the levels she pushes this act make me question if she really pretends

i'm assuming that this is all financial to her, because she is an escort; but it's easy for me to say that because i only ever eyed an escort and i never had one; however you were with her, and you were physically close to her, so maybe you might have come to some other conclusions. Besides, fuck knows if she has a boyfriend or a girlfriend, either of which letting her just have it with her clients, as an extra buck

i presonally wouldn't say that she has a genuine interest in you, simply because it's sex for money, and not because you're unattractive or boring or anything; i still am convinced this is all transactional. But there is a possibility for an escort to develop feelings to her clients, and she might have feelings for you, considering her behaviour. All that being said, with a heavy heart, and i'm sorry to say that, but: i'll leave you to decide

>>34279070
>but the levels she pushes this act make me question if she really pretends

I will see how she is in person.

> But there is a possibility for an escort to develop feelings to her clients, and she might have feelings for you, considering her behaviour. All that being said, with a heavy heart, and i'm sorry to say that, but: i'll leave you to decide

My only hope is that she does genuinely like me as we're similar in age and interests.
I would honestly be ok with dating her even if she kept working.

A former friend of mine has gotten together with an escort. Apparently she has stopped working in the industry, they both had kids beforehand - But while I was still in contact with him, she did things like threaten him to leave and cut contact, which she also acted upon. They're still together to this day - But from what I've seen and heard it's pretty much draining + an off-on thing. Do with that information what you will.

I saw her again this morning.

We didn't have intercourse (again) but we just masturbated each other which was nice. We cuddled really closely and kissed and talked a lot which was nice, learnt a lot more about her. Agreed to meet again in another 2 weeks.

The problem is I don't think she sees me as anything more than a client.

>>34280424
>former friend of mine has gotten together with an escort.
Did he see her as a client?

>>34281193
Why don't you hang out with her more and get to know her more deeply? Maybe take her someplace nice like the zoo?

OP, its only natural to develop feelings for somebody after being intimate with them. However, this will eventually hurt you - you need to recognise she's an escort: she's had 100s of cocks inside her and will have 100s more in the future. She sleeps with you for the money.
My advice, view sleeping with escorts as a way to relieve your sexual frustration. Don't sleep with escorts to try to woo them/ develop a romantic connection. For practical adivce, I would say don't see the same escort more than three times max. This will stop you developing feelings.

>>34282362
What if he doesn't get bothered by her having 100s of cocks inside her? What if he likes that?

>>34282176
I don't think she's like that.
She seems like quite an individual & aloof woman. That, and from what she said during our meeting yesterday, I don't think she'll ever see me as anything more than a client. I texted her after the meeting saying "thank you" and she agreed to meet again. I then said "have a good week xx" and she just left me on read.

However, she did tell me her birthday and asked me for mine, and she did ask me about my daily life. I don't know if that's normal for escorts.

>>34282981
It honestly wouldn't bother me dating her but I just don't think she'll ever see me that way.

Our next meeting is scheduled for Sunday 8th March. I don't know how to approach it. I'm not gonna text her at all until 7th March. I like being with her but I just don't think she gives a shit about me once I leave.

Question for guys who see escorts: do you ever text them between meetings? Just something friendly like "I watched that film you mentioned". Or do they get annoyed at that?

>>34283631
What did she tell you that made you think she doesn't seem you that way?

Also you're way too sensitive to her not replying o your messages, its normal to not reply to a goodbye message like you saying "have a good week"

>>34284493
>What did she tell you that made you think she doesn't seem you that way?
Because she was talking about "work". Not directly in relation to me, but I don't think she sees me as anything more than a client.

I got to know her a bit more. Turns out she does a bit of artwork in her free time. I asked if I could see some of it and she said no as it has her real name on it. I was a bit hurt by that, honestly. I thought she'd trust me. Or at least she could've hidden her real name.

Also I often suggest things to her (books, films, TV shows, games) but I don't think she takes any notice, despite her saying so. She seems to have a bad memory, or she just doesn't value me.

>its normal to not reply to a goodbye message like you saying "have a good week"
She could at least react with a heart or a kiss emoji.

>>34282981
Then that makes him a cuck

>>34284159
Absolutely not. Sometimes they may text you, but it's with the goal of getting more money.

>>34284760
Then maybe I need to reconsider seeing her.

I wish she'd see me as more than a client but I don't think it's gonna happen.
Worst part is because I've grown attached to her, I don't even want to have sex with her really. I just want to cuddle her.

I just don't think she'll ever see me as anything more than a client. I think she deliberately manipulates my emotions in the way she texts. I guess I have three options:

1. Keep seeing her, just accept I'm a client who she probably doesn't care about beyond the money. At best I'd be her favourite client.

2. Just cut things off with her. Would be harsh but would maybe hurt her.

3. Tell her that I like her as a person and am unsure how to process my emotions about her. This risks her potentially refusing to see me if she thinks I am too clingy. Alternatively, maybe she'd reciprocate.

What should I do?

>>34285204
on a second thought why not just ask her out or something? I mean it's not like she will reject your visit offers or anything or act deadpan at your visits; it's her fucking job and she's getting paid for it. I think that if she rejects your romantic offer then the only pain in this case will be the initial awkwardness due to misread intentions, and then i'm sure it will be back to business as usual
but i've never had a hooker so those are just assumptions of mine

>>34287158
>it's not like she will reject your visit offers or anything or act deadpan at your visits
She might. I think she's quite a popular escort so she could probably refuse to see me.

I might just tell her next time that I think about her a lot and that I don't even care about sex that much, that I just really like her as a person.

I keep going back and forth on whether I like her or not.

Am I just coping? Or is this what infatuation feels like?

>>34282981
Wonder if she's cut her tubes

>>34289764
She has a scar on her stomach, I can't work out if that's from an operation or an injury.

>>34278876
>>34277379
>>34277482
>>34278847
>>34239934
your loneliness mindfucked you so hard you guys completely forgot who the fuck you retards are dealing with. Prostitutes are sex workers. She's got a financial incentive to make sure you come back. She's also got an hour with you, and if she can spend it kissing your forehead while you play pretend gf instead of getting her asshole railed by some smelly loser, she absolutely will and you'd be a fool not to just appreciate the performance like one appreciates a movie without believing in it.

Second of all, she's probably the worst fucking person to have a relationship with. At BEST she rejects you and explains her boundaries and you get a life lesson about parasocial relationships. At worst, you're now in a relationship with a prostitute 1) fucks dudes for a living and may not want to stop 2) either still considers you a john and is in it for the money or 3) she is batshit crazy enough to have an actual relationship with you, and please note : potential rape victim, personality disorders, inability to work an honest job, potential hypersexuality, addictions, etc.

I have no issues if you're just into cooming but if you're that down bad you should seriously just look for those agencies that set you up with someone if youve got no luck. Ive had one prostitute become a fuckbuddy and its tons of fun, but a prostitute becoming a girlfriend ? Isnt your life shitty enough already ?

>>34290073
>but a prostitute becoming a girlfriend ? Isnt your life shitty enough already ?
I don't see what's so bad about it.

>>34239934
>Is my problem that I'm too emotionally/intellectually attracted to her? Why couldn't I get hard this time?
Yes. You're treating her like an actual girlfriend. It's all performance, bro. She's gonna forget you even existed in the next hour and put you in her contacts as "Client 1"

>>34289843
That's a cesarean section scar. That's where she gave birth to her black baby.

>>34290219
I've seen her 6 times now over the past 3 months.

I'd love to know if she ever thinks about me between sessions.

>>34290756
>I'd love to know if she ever thinks about me between sessions.
She does not

>>34290813
:(

So when she asks me about films/tv/books/games, she's just brushing me off?

>>34290832
You're finally starting to get it. This is common sense to people who aren't blinded by feelings they have for a prostitute.

>over a hundred replies to a retard who doesn't understand how prostitutes work
>again
I hate this board

>>34290845
Well that's depressing.

>>34290832
She is doing her job. Please try to understand anon, it's really not a difficult concept.

Do you work? I mean I assume so because you're paying £270 for hookers and fuck this country if that's what the tax I pay towards your benefits is going on lol. Anyway, I do and between when I start and when I finish work, I do things because I'm getting paid to do them. If work stopped paying me, I wouldn't do shit for them.

You are engaging in business transactions with a whore but because her transactions consist of letting you put your dick in her rather than doing what some old boomer tells her in an office for eight hours a day (like mine), you're thinking about it as something it isn't. The fact it makes your peepee feel good doesn't change the fact that it's entirely a transactional business arrangement.

None of that means she isn't being genuinely nice to you IN THAT MOMENT, in the same way that I genuinely do the stuff I'm asked to do at work to the best of my abilities because I'm being given money to do them, but the fact I'm being paid remains the only reason I do them at all. If my boss phoned me at 11.30pm to ask me something about work I'd tell him to go suck a dick and speak to me tomorrow.

Put it this way anon - if you paid her £270 to call you a neurotic dickless faggot and mock your inability to maintain an erection for an hour and half, I'd be pretty sure she'd do that instead. She will provide what she is paid to provide because that is what a whore does. It is literally the purpose of the occupation.

She does sound like a good whore, but a whore she remains.

>>34290832
Omg!!1! She asked me what my favrit m00vie is, omg!!1 our convos are so dEep!!!1 I think I found the love of my life!2!! She's so special!!4 not like other girls, she cares about m00vies and tv shows, s00 d33p and interesting omg,

>But I am worried.
What the actual fuck are you worried about

>ghosting

...
Tldr

People really stay in their delusions for this long

A bitch who wanted easy money and could get easy money cuz she got the right body type and look for retarded society to hoeflate her worth did what was logical to do and siphoned the easy money out of you, what the fuck more needs to be laid out to you? Stop wasting your time, money, energy and resources on some cunt who would probably never choose to spend a single second of her time with you if you did not pay her $325 for every 8 seconds of her "divine" hoeflated presence

Like? Once the $ stops pouring in you'd be kicked out of her life with not even a second longer to spare

And all this shit about muh I need to practice muh sex. As if sex is something that needs to be practiced before it can be done for real. Just fucking do the sex with a partner who actually likes you hence will be patient with you and learn together with your partner, why the fuck paying for that shit, neck minnit sex instructor.jpeg holy mother of whores society is a fucked up construct that needs to be nuked and reset

And if you're not getting that partner, then why the need to practice sex at all? Not like you're ever gonna have the "real" sex, so wtf you practicing for? The grand slam of sex tournament that's about to happen in a few months time? TF?

>>34290977
Damn
So all the emojis she's sent me mean nothing?

>>34291319
>Just fucking do the sex with a partner who actually likes you
I lost my virginity to her.

I'm tempted to go for a Thai massage this weekend to get her out of my head.

>>34292127
>So all the emojis she's sent me mean nothing
You can't be seriously asking that. You think an emoji is meant to be some kind of high stakes emotional indicator of one's committal love to you, and can most definitely not be faked to fool idiotic buffoons like you

>I lost my virginity to her.
Is that supposed to make a difference? She just got easy $$ and lower STI risk in one, good for her, L to you, loser. Enjoy your hollow fake-ass sex where you're seen as a walking ATM and nothing more.

>I'm tempted to go for a Thai massage
You need to just stop purchasing these services period, and go find an actual girl you can potentially build a future with. If that's really not in the cards because you're just that fucking disgusting then sure, maybe pay a hooker for a few sessions to see what the "big deal" over sex is like to knock it out of your system once and for all. But that would mean you aren't repeatedly purchasing the same service and seeking the same sensation as if it's some sort of meaningful build-up to an actual committed relationship, you dumbass. That would mean you go see a whore to see what sex is actually like (or what some particular sexual experience is like), then you fuck off once you know. This repeat customer gimmick is like some cope addiction swindled gacha shit. You're fucking dumb to fall for it. If you really want to test the waters out, don't pay her any $$ and see if she sticks around.

>>34292291
>You can't be seriously asking that. You think an emoji is meant to be some kind of high stakes emotional indicator of one's committal love to you, and can most definitely not be faked to fool idiotic buffoons like you
What I'm more curious about is if escorts use these emojis commonly.

Are all escorts bipolar? I don't understand how they can do the whole GFE thing then forget about clients.

>>34292291
Like mate, if all I had to do is a press a few buttons with smiley faces and love hearts to suddenly get $842 a minute for my highly coveted presence, I think most people wouldn't bat an eye and do it, and the people who do choose to do it are disingenuous and probably of low integrity and do not give a shit about swindling your money away from you. So yeah, if that's who you want to charitably donate your money to then by all means

>>34292312
It's not bipolar, it's just putting on a fake persona to extract more $$. And yes, I'd imagine all escorts do something of the ilk in order to maximise $$.

>>34292332
>>34292334
Well this is depressing.

I have already arranged to see her again on Sunday 8th March. Should I try viagra between now and then? And maybe just try to have sex with her as hard as possible?

You know what, I think you guys are right.

She's a bipolar, moody, arrogant, impulsive cunt who thinks she's smarter than she is. She doesn't give a shit about my wellbeing.

Is it pathetic for a virgin 30 year old to visit an escort and be open to her about my virginity?

>>34292488
I didn't tell her I lost my virginity to her until our second meeting.

>>34292540
How did she react?

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>>34292461
Anon, I think you should stop thinking about what she is and worry more about the state you're in and your current thought process.

You are so deprived of social contact and affection that you mistook what is ultimately a service worker being extra nice to you due to you being a good tipper /john with true love.

That means that your life is shit, through and through. You're not getting the human contact you need for a reason or another and you should work on that in a healthy way.

Prostitutes are for people who want to take the edge off sexually, or for people who have admitted that life in a couple isnt for them and can handle and will enjoy pretending to have a gf for an hour or two and move on. Neither of which you're able to do in your current state.

To be quite blunt with you, you're exactly the type of people prostitutes really dont want to deal with, and her being evasive with you proves my point. She's trying to keep it casual and you should take the hint and drop that shit if you want to see her again.

>>34290209
I thought i was being pretty clear, but most women avoid being prostitutes if they can help it, meaning the subset of women who are ok with the concept are weirdos themselves.

Beyond that, prostitutes have a higher prevalence of mental illnesses and are often exposed to traumatic shit.

You can't even deal with your own emotions, Anon. Do you really want to get yourself tangled up in someone who's far sicker than you ?

Thread about prozzies so I'll just ask here.
Lads can you still get infected with shit like herpes even if you do everything with a condom on and don't kiss the hooker? Is it worth the risk to let a hooker blow you bare, or should you just like for sex, wear a condom for a blowjob too?
t. never been to a hooker but my dry spell is starting to make me go insane

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>>34292579
>You are so deprived of social contact and affection that you mistook what is ultimately a service worker being extra nice to you due to you being a good tipper /john with true love.
I didn't say it was true love.

>That means that your life is shit, through and through. You're not getting the human contact you need for a reason or another and you should work on that in a healthy way.
I've never had a gf at 29, I don't really get how I'm meant to cure that.

>To be quite blunt with you, you're exactly the type of people prostitutes really dont want to deal with, and her being evasive with you proves my point. She's trying to keep it casual and you should take the hint and drop that shit if you want to see her again.

So why did she use cute emojis before? She's used the red heart emoji with me before, why didn't she now? It's pissed me off that she isn't reciprocating. She's manipulative.

Also it's bullshit that prostitutes want to avoid people like me. I've been nothing but good to her. If I were violent, unhygienic and rude, would that be better? What do they want?

>You can't even deal with your own emotions, Anon. Do you really want to get yourself tangled up in someone who's far sicker than you ?
I can handle my emotions, what I can't handle is someone not reciprocating basic friendliness.

It's pointless now. I've lost my physical attraction to her. My plan at the minute is to maybe try Viagra and then just fuck her hard at the next meeting. Either that or just confess how I feel.

Let's see if we can keep this thread alive until Sunday 8th March.

>>34292631
You should
>confess how I feel.
Just curious how she'd react n handle that

And you're clearly very insecure about erectile dysfunction or something, it sounds like you just want to go again to prove you are competent at sex or something rather than for the pleasure or anything. But that's why you can't sex, because you're too busy focusing on being able to sex or not and not on the actual fun of it. So either want to have sex for the good feelings, or don't sex. You don't need to take those dumb pills and fuck up your bodily functions just to "prove" (what are you even proving, that your body reacts to vasodilating chemicals or something, not even proving you can control your erection at will yourself) you can get it up and "fuck hard"

Like what are you trying to prove? That you're a real "man" or something? Because this is not proving shit, just proves you're retarded

>What do they want?
Your money for as little input as possible, it's alr been said repetitively what they want

>>34292678
>very insecure about erectile dysfunction or something
I have had intercourse with her before (4 times in total) but I failed the last two times.

Yes, it bothers me. I should be able to get and maintain an erection with her but I struggle. I just want to be sexually normal. I wish I could not care about her but I keep thinking about her.

>>34239934
yo this thread has been going on for almost 3 weeks bow did you do any advances towards her?

>>34292726
*now

>>34292726
I haven't yet.
Debating whether to when I next see her on Sunday 8th March.

>>34292312
>I don't understand how they can do the whole GFE thing then forget about clients.
have you ever watched TV?

>>34292461
>She's a bipolar, moody, arrogant, impulsive cunt who thinks she's smarter than she is.
I don't particularly think any of that, I've never met her so I can't judge. She's a businesswoman and you problem is your expectation/assumption that she's something other than that.
>She doesn't give a shit about my wellbeing.
This though is likely true.

>>34292579
this is an excellent post

>>34292602
do anything without a rubber with a brass and you're rolling the dice lad, not only on her but on every other bloke she's seen because if she lets you do stuff without a rubber, you know she does it with everybody else too

>>34292631
>So why did she use cute emojis before? She's used the red heart emoji with me before, why didn't she now? It's pissed me off that she isn't reciprocating. She's manipulative.

>I can handle my emotions

these two statements are incompatible

>>34292631
>I can handle my emotions, what I can't handle is someone not reciprocating basic friendliness.
in fact the two clauses in that single sentence are incompatible

>>34292808
>She's a businesswoman
lolno

>>34292826
>>34292828
Her not reciprocating basic friendliness is annoying. I don't see how that's wrong.
Again, I don't get how these women operate. Are they just mentally damaged?

Also I'm planning on taking viagra later as a test. 50mg tablet.

Is it safe? Should I be worried about side effects? I have no health issues and I don't drink/smoke.

>>34292838
>lolno
She is literally a self employed businesswoman, operating as a sole trader, selling sexual services. Until you can internalise that fact and how it frames your interactions with her, there's nothing else to add.
>Are they just mentally damaged?
In the vast majority of cases, yes. But respectfully, so are you and it's the intersection of the resulting paradigms that's the root of the problem here.

>>34292867
Prostitutes aren't "businesswomen".
>But respectfully, so are you
How am I mentally damaged? For wanting intimacy?

>>34292631
>I didn't say it was true love.
You didn't literally say it but you sure as fuck were confused about her deal.

>I've never had a gf at 29, I don't really get how I'm meant to cure that. That's my point. You should make a thread asking why you went from being hopeful about a prostitute then calling her manipulative and arrogant when you came to the realization that she was just doing her job.
The bigger issue you should be worried about isnt that your lack of sex (even though it does suck), but that you're so desperate that you think prostitutes are even an option. Thats an even worse thing than being a john or an incel, and you should at least try to back to something healthier, even if its not ideal.

>So why did she use cute emojis before? She's used the red heart emoji with me before, why didn't she now?
Probably because she was using it to be cute and charming at first, but then stopped when she read the room and realized you mistook that for a declaration of love or whatever the fuck you think it is. You probably changed the vibe and she got weirded out.

>If I were violent, unhygienic and rude, would that be better? What do they want?
I'm glad you asked. Putting yourself in her shoes, would you rather have :
1) Bob the smelly trucker who will get his handjob and have nothing but a goodbye and a thank you with the occasional chocolates if he stopped to a nearby walmart and hes just got a raise
2) you, the love now scorned who went from thinking he could have a life with her to calling her arrogant and manipulative, who is already pretty much given up on life, projects and sweats complete despair so much he actually thought a red heart emoji (some female coworkers send these to acknowledge mundane stuff btw) is a signal of some kind ?

I know Bob can get rough once in a while, but i also know he won't report me to the IRS out of spite.
i know im being an asshole but you need to get this into your head so you can then build yourself back up, Anon.

>>34292937
You didnt just want intimacy bro. You didnt just flirt with the girl next door and we've told you this plenty of times. How can you be so oblivious

>>34292942
>some female coworkers send these to acknowledge mundane stuff btw
I've just counted up and I've received seven so far this week on teams for things like taking a call for somebody when she was out of the office, answering procedural questions etc. Pretty sure none of them want to fuck me lol.

>>34292942
>but that you're so desperate that you think prostitutes are even an option. Thats an even worse thing than being a john or an incel, and you should at least try to back to something healthier, even if its not ideal.
But I got to 29 as a virgin so it's not going to happen.

Realistically, if this goes badly I might just give up on women.

>but then stopped when she read the room and realized you mistook that for a declaration of love or whatever the fuck you think it is. You probably changed the vibe and she got weirded out.
Then she's a cold hearted cunt. She knows I'm nervous and lack confidence. Fucking cunt. I put my trust in her.

Right now my plan is to tell her how I feel next time I see her. I will tell her that I think about her a lot and that I struggle to maintain an erection because of my emotions.

I expect her to shut me down but I see no other good option.

My only other options are

1. Try to ignore my emotions which I can't do.
2. Cut her off immediately and stop seeing her.

>>34293146
>2. Cut her off immediately and stop seeing her.
Assuming you're going to do this anyway when (not if) she does shut you down, why not take the mature path of just doing this now and saving her from an uncomfortable scene? Because despite what your misfiring synapses are telling you she has done literally nothing wrong.
And for the love of God don't sperg out at her and start calling her a cunt and babbling about her sending the wrong emojis if (when) she tells you t0o col it because if like a lot of escorts she has somebody she can call if a client starts getting weird, you might get the shit kicked out of you into the bargain.

>>34293235
>Because despite what your misfiring synapses are telling you she has done literally nothing wrong.
She has. She has been rude and cold over text. So I'm gonna be cold next time I text her.

>And for the love of God don't sperg out at her and start calling her a cunt and babbling about her sending the wrong emojis
I'm not that stupid.

>>34293146
>cold hearted
In polite society, when women see that someone they're not interested in is flirting with them, they will try to lower the temperature so as to make sure you dont get the wrong message while letting you save face by not confronting you directly, which could lead to something unsafe for her. This is even true in her field of work since intimacy and therefore strong emotions are on the line that can lead to harassment, sexual or not.

As much as you think you should be special because you're nice or she's your first or whatever, you are not owed shit beyond what you pay for, and she has everything to lose by taking a chance on people like you and telling them the truth they really don't want to hear.

And everybody's like this, so maybe they're all assholes for keeping it safe, or you're an asshole for wanting things your way, and accepting that fact would be your first step towards being someone who isnt a loser socially.

>>34293376
If that is true then I see absolutely no point in even trying with women at all.

Why couldn't I have been born gay?

>>34293385
Then don't. If you don't want to learn how to get the hint because it is a bigger hassle than being alone, pay the girl, fuck her, go home and stop pretending you've got something going on.

Men are like this too, btw. No one wants to tell a weirdo that they're not wanted. You don't want them to lash out on you.

>>34292838
>Her not reciprocating basic friendliness is annoying. I don't see how that's wrong.
Because nobody owes you friendship, especially not a whore who you pay by the hour to fuck.
Just because you offer a facsimile of friendship, albeit one which in it's own way is just as transactional as what she is offering you (i.e. her cunt), the other party is not obliged to accept it or to reciprocate and thinking otherwise is pretty much the embodiment of incel entitlement.
I'm speaking from personal experience here; I had the worst case of oneitis you can imagine for literally years until I accepted that and was able to move on.

>>34293289
>She has been rude and cold over text. So I'm gonna be cold next time I text her.
Mate your emotional development seems to have stopped around the early teens stage. I don't say that unkindly but it's why you're struggling to process the way people in their late 20s expect others to act and react.

>>34293660
>the way people in their late 20s expect others to act and react.
Which is how?

>>34293641
>the other party is not obliged to accept it or to reciprocate and thinking otherwise is pretty much the embodiment of incel entitlement.
lol that is such a ridiculous argument
Guess everyone should just be a horrible cunt then

>>34290209
You are an actual cuck

>>34295229
No but I am probably pathetic

>>34295245
Thinking that actual intimacy is possible with an escort implies that there is a disconnect with your conception of physical and emotional intimacy. Anybody you pay to use their body you can never have a real connection with. You are brain damaged.

>>34295254
I've never had any intimacy so probably.
But what does that make prostitutes? How can they be intimate with so many people and not care?

>>34294859
You seem to have an odd, binary view of the world where everybody is a friend or a cunt and your threshold for somebody entering the cunt bracket is frankly absurd. It's like your entire framework for social interaction is lifted from YA fiction.
The vast majority of people we interact with are neither and sit in the vast space between those extremes.
Look at your posts here - you went from wanting a relationship with a hooker to calling her a mean-spirited bipolar cunt, on the basis of her literally not adding cute emojis to a text about hooking up to pay to fuck her. No matter what you think, this is not normal behaviour and until you can see that, I'm done.

>>34295322
>Look at your posts here - you went from wanting a relationship with a hooker to calling her a mean-spirited bipolar cunt, on the basis of her literally not adding cute emojis to a text about hooking up to pay to fuck her.
It's her rudeness that annoys me, leaving me on read after I wished her well.

I won't be so friendly in future. If she wants to act like a cunt she will get that.

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>>34294859
>>34295329
Again, either everybody is a cunt or rude, or maybe it's just you.

And the latter possibility may probably explain why nobody wants you as a partner, but it's also something that can be worked out. And not getting laid at your age (prozzies dont count) can easily be explained by your attitude and your inability to just go "oh, she's only letting me down gently and I should move on"

I'd agree that the woman would be a cunt if she didnt reciprocate spontaneous kindness. But whatever you're doing there isn't spontaneous, you fuck. You're doing this to seduce her and she saw you coming a mile away. The actual rude move would be to either string you along so she can get even more stuff out of you or to just tell you to fuck right off with your advances.

This will also be my final post here too because i'm starting to think you're just fishing for reactions at this point. Do what you will at this point, but what you should do is use your money to see a shrink that can help you understand basic human interactions.

Not once have you conceded that you're the one in the wrong when called out repeatedly and, like the other dude said, went from wanting a relationship with a hooker to calling her names when we told you she wasnt into you.

I have sympathy for folks that are having trouble with human connection but once you're told what's up you go from unlucky bro to narcissistic douchebag real fast if you don't get on with the fucking program.

>>34295398
>You're doing this to seduce her and she saw you coming a mile away.
Basic politeness isn't trying to seduce her.

Dude, don't "confess your love" for her. That's cringe.
Instead, ask her out on a date.
Tell her you want to take her to some restaurant or something.
See what she says to that.

>>34295507
What if she says no?

>>34295581
Pretend like you don't care.
Then at your next meeting, ask her out again.
You need to change your mindset. You are projecting weakness. Women hate weakness.
Chad doesn't care when Stacy says no. He keeps trying. Women love that energy.

My current plan for the next 8 days until I see her again on March 8th:

1. Try 25 mg viagra tomorrow. I want to be able to get a rock hard erection to hate fuck her as hard as possible if nothing else.
2. Avoid masturbating as much as possible.
3. Stop caring about her as much as possible.
4. Be cold when I next text her on March 7th.

>>34295635
She seems like an arrogant, haughty woman
I suspect she'd kick me out if I did that

My hatred towards her has subsided.

I forgot to mention she said her parents are divorced, surprise surprise.

>>34295659
Then continue being a little bitch, keep fucking her for money, shut your mouth and leave it at that.
You realize you're acting like a fucking stalker right? She should kick you out. Crazy motherfuckers like you are the exact reason why whores are all invariably massive flakes. They're all like this bro. They play phone games. They don't answer for hours or even days at a time. What you're describing is a typical experience. Yeah sometimes you get lucky and they're surprisingly punctual but that's not the norm. These women are no different than drug dealers except they sling pussy instead of fenty. They come and go like the wind man. All you can really do enjoy the getting while you're getting it and move on when you're not.

>>34296189
>why whores are all invariably massive flakes.
They're like that because they can't hold down a real job.

>>34292631
>I can handle my emotions

>>34293146
>My only other options are
>1. Try to ignore my emotions which I can't do.

you can't even be honest with yourself

>>34296857
I'm an emotional guy, it's hard.

Anyway I think I've got over my obsession with her. I'm gonna try Viagra 25mg today. My aim is to basically just go see her Sunday next week and be much cooler towards her.

>>34292838
>Her not reciprocating basic friendliness is annoying.
You misunderstand; its the decent thing to do. Evil women. would lead you on & drain your seed.

>>34292838
> Again, I don't get how these women operate. Are they just mentally damaged?
By far the biggest reason is for the money. The other stuff varies from person/person.

>>34292847
Hit the gym. It can only help.

Friend you sound delusional.
Im not saying love with prosties cant happen, but delusion is far more common, and you don't sound right.

>>34297545
>By far the biggest reason is for the money. The other stuff varies from person/person.
She said she does art in her free time and studied it at uni. I find it funny that she thinks she can be a famous artist; what does she think will happen when her escort lifestyle is exposed?

>Hit the gym. It can only help.
I do exercise. I struggle to maintain an erection.
>Im not saying love with prosties cant happen, but delusion is far more common, and you don't sound right.
How does it happen?

>>34297523
Nah, you're just as obsessed. This is hilarious that you care so much what a literal hooker thinks about you.

>>34297752
Well she's my type. That's the problem.

>>34297747
>what does she think will happen when her escort lifestyle is exposed?
in art circles? literally fuck all. for example
>https://www.instagram.com/ameliewwwww/
that's Mayli from facial abuse lol, nobody cares

>>34298335
There's a difference between doing 1 porn scene a decade ago vs being an escort for 6+ years

>getting in his feelings about paid rape
Johns deserve the death penalty

>>34298367
Who hurt you

>>34298338
>1 porn scene
lol, sweet summer child
and yeah one of the main differences would be that several million people haven't see your escort puking on a cock and getting railed like a steam train, which personally I'd consider to be more reputationally damaging, or at the least on a par with it

>>34298601
Surely having sex with hundreds of men for money is worse

Anyway bros I tried viagra today.
25mg. Seems to work, definitely felt like my erection was much easier to keep. No sides either.

>>34298682
But the threshold between never getting fucked for money and getting fucked for money is where most people would consider the line to be. Once you've done it, you're into degrees.
Specifically in the art world though, I know that world and as I said, people in general won't give a fuck. Sure I'm not saying everybody would give her a pat on the back and tell her 'good job!' but if you're thinking it would be total career suicide you're mistaken.
That's if she's even aiming for a career in the arts rather than just doing it because she enjoys it.

>>34299048
>That's if she's even aiming for a career in the arts rather than just doing it because she enjoys it.
She said she has artwork in galleries. I asked if I could see it and she said no.

>>34299061
>She said she has artwork in galleries. I asked if I could see it and she said no.
And yet you're still obsessing. Dumbass.

>>34299154
I'm annoyed she doesn't trust me after meeting 6 times.

>>34299161
A hooker isn't going to trust you with info like their real name (which you said was on her artwork) after meeting you 600 times and the fact that you'd expect it at all, let alone after six (!) meetings is exactly why you need to cool it and move on, you have no grasp at all of appropriate boundaries.

>>34299183
Alright, then I'll make it my mission to find it out lol

>>34299161
She will never trust you
>>34299225
And this is exactly why. You're a creep.

>>34299225
"Totally not obsessing btw!"

>>34299245
I trusted her, if she doesn't want to reciprocate that's her problem
Guess I should've expected nothing less from a bipolar prostitute

>>34299449
It's your problem, not hers.

>>34299509
Her being bipolar is her problem
She said her sister is bipolar so clearly it runs in the family

I want to believe this is real

>>34299871
I wish it wasn't

>>34299225
OK I am done for real this time. This is either a larp, or you're a fucking weirdo stalker and I hope this girl keeps herself safe from you. Been giving you the benefit of the doubt so far but that one goes over the line. You're a fucking nutjob, which incidentally is the reason you can't get laid.

>>34239934

You had too much prolactin in your bloodstream. You need to reduce your prolactin levels to get properly horny and get properly hard.

>>34301738
How do I do that?

Alright I think I have got over my obsession with her now. I'm not thinking about her anywhere near as much and I've accepted it isn't romantic, so hopefully I can just focus on the sex.

I am seeing her again on Sunday 8th, only 6 days away now.

>>34303250
>I am seeing her again on Sunday 8th, only 6 days away now.
I just felt a wave of dread for this hooker

>>34239934
The coldness is probably in your head because you were having a hard time getting hard and you're projecting that onto her thinking you weren't good in bed. Hookers aren't about you being good in bed, they are about you paying to bust a nut. Getting emotionally invested in a woman who has sex for money is a problem and a bad idea. You're not special, you're just another john. Or maybe you are special. Both are problems. As for why you couldn't get hard, it could be mental and related to that, or it could've been a physical thing. Maybe you were tired, or you didn't eat properly. Not every sex is going to be great sometimes you have off days.

>>34301984
Google it. There's a bunch of info on diet stuff online, assuming anon is correct about that's the reason you couldn't get hard.

>>34303250
You're over it now, but when you go back you might get feelings again. It's an in the moment thing. Frankly this is why I don't go to escorts/hookers/prostitutes. I'd be worried about getting an emotional addiction. I already feel like restaurants should properly pay their waitresses instead of me tipping, yet do it anyway because I'd feel bad like they think I didn't appreciate their efforts. It leads me to eat out less.

>>34303304
>You're over it now, but when you go back you might get feelings again
I will try to manage it better.
She actually suggested we move the meeting up to Saturday 7th March which I've agreed to