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Has anyone ever been able to find a woman that didn't care how much money you had?

Is that even possible?
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Yes, but you have to make up for it by being very funny.
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>>34288499
yes, trivial even
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>>34288499
Even when they don't, it's usually temporary. My last ex didn't, but I think had some kind of underlying expectation that I would become rich during the relationship or something. The way she left me felt like she got bored of waiting for me to become more successful. It was a 2 year relationship so I don't really understand the thought process, or if that actually played into at all.
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>>34288527
That's racist.
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>>34288528
Damn man. We as men need better ways of screening for women that actually love us for us and not our money.
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Yes but you can’t be an asshole
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>>34288551
I don't even think she loved me for my money. I just think she loved me for some nebulous potential version of myself that never existed and probably never would. I don't know, that was almost a year ago and it was a deeply traumatizing breakup because I really loved her and she just sort abandoned me out of nowhere. Still no t really sure how to move on from it.
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>>34288499
if you are hot tall and good dick they will literally not care and even let you live with them doing nothing all day.
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>>34288527
This person has downs syndrome. A literal retard.
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That only works if you're tall, handsome, and charismatic. There are guys who can couch surf through womens lives just like whores who monkey branch from guy to guy. These guys are called "hobosexuals" and it's very real. Mostly limited to mid 30's and under guys who are very physically attractive and charismatic but are complete fucking losers otherwise with nothing going for them.
If you're not tall, attractive, and charismatic (note AND, nor OR - you must have all 3 traits to succeed here) then prepare to live the rest of your life alone or be an ATM for a single mother.

>>34288551
The only things a woman will ever love in her life are herself and her children. The only woman who will ever love you in your life is your mother. Don't be fooled into believing any woman loves you and not the things you provide her.
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>>34288571
Yeah. This is why choosing guys/girls based on looks usually works out better.
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>>34288907
A women that loves you will want to take care of your children as opposed to someone else's.
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>>34288527
she's got beautiful... eyes...
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>>34288547
fork found in the kitchen
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>>34289093
>A women that loves you
1. Does not exist. Women do not love men. They love what men can provide, be that money or status.
2. Your incorrect grammar tells me you're ESL, probably third world. Your women are entirely different than western women. Consider yourself lucky.
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>>34289482
>Your women are entirely different than western women.
The fuck does that mean?
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>>34289857
It means he is a basement dwelling incel fantasizing about asian tradwives.
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>>34288499
>Has anyone ever been able to find a woman that didn't care how much money you had?
Yeah, I've always been a broke ass with nothing financially going for me, yet it never stopped me from dating several times in life since the age of 16. I genuinely do not know how it why other guys complain about gold diggers, I have never dated one in my entire life. They are so fucking obvious to spot before befriending and dating them so I don't know how other guys keep falling for vapid gold digging cunts only to act late and surprised that she was a gold digger as if it wasn't obvious.

The reason I was able to get plenty of women without money to offer is because I offered something else in it's place, and that was emotional security. I was not a self victimising 'poor little me' kinda guy. What I gave to women was laughter, understanding, humanising them, having a connection and being sincere about it. And for some women that shit is priceless.

But even then it doesn't matter how nice and down to earth the woman is, at some point the man does need to roll up his sleeves and go get busy. Because women don't want to be with a chronically unemployed Trainwreck. They want to build a future with the man, have kids and have a life. And you can't do that off of $0.00. kids need to eat and have clothes and the lights need to be on in the home and the house needs to be warm for winter. That costs money, and that's why every woman at least expects the man to earn bare minimum.
Good women expect it out of a need of security. Shit women demand it out of a need of vanity and narcissism.

And if you are a guy who struggles to tell the difference between the two, you're fucked. You are gonna have to go and make hard mistakes and learn the hard way.
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>>34288499
Yes, just be more attractive than her
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>>34289860
It's because funny if he was a Asian female enthusiast complaining about western women and money. Because he'd find out really quick that Asian women are obsessed with money and climbing social ladders to the point her parents will brutally punish her if she does not dump the guy if he's broke. In Asian cultures, you ain't really dating the girl you are dating her entire family.
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>>34289954
>have kids
Not everyone wants that dude. I sure don't.

>chronically unemployed Trainwreck. $0.00.
Well duh, I was talking about someone working a decent minimum wage job but they want a dude that makes six figures.
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>>34288499
I've never met one who DID. At various times in my life (especially in my student days) I've had to say to the woman I was dating "Cash is a little tight this week. Do you mind if we [Here I name some free or cheap date idea]? I've never had one drop me for that.
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>>34288710
That’s racist.
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>>34288499
The male equivalent of that is a man who doesn't care if the woman weighs 200lbs.
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>>34290178
200lbs? Shit that's nothing. That fine with me. Some chubby girls are actually hot when they're chubby. Look at Rebel Wilson back when she was fat and sexy and now she's skinny and unattractive.
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>>34290536
Likewise, there are women who date homeless men. They are usually homeless too though.
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>>34290558
See I need to find me a homeless girl.
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>>34288499
Most women don't care about this.
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>>34288499
Probably 99.99999% of women don't care about money.

Women in the West and also China and most other countries have been allowed to work jobs and own bank accounts and credit cards for generations now.

No one's impressed that you make 80k a year, or even 800k a year.

Kids in middle school start dating when they can't even work minimum wage jobs. People who work min wage jobs as adults or even just collect disability/welfare also are constantly replicating themselves via sexual contact.

The farce of it all is that these poor chudcels run away from women in teh Western world to instead try and marry some Uzbekistani or Nicaraguan woman who is 100% only interested in their money, and nationality.
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>>34288499
Nah nigga. If you arent a trillionaire who has impossibly manly traits and a 14 inch black dick, stay out the dating market faggot ass beta.
-God
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>>34288499

Depends on what kind of relationship you're in - standard one with a good looking women you're ought to have deep pockets.
If you have to offer a lot in the genetic department than she may stay with you but it is more convenient for her to stay with a simp which is controllable.
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>>34288499
There are plenty of girls who don't care, most don't. If girls only cared about riches, we would not have the poor or the middle class.
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The guy I'm seeing is pretty broke and it doesn't bother me, but there are a few extra factors at play here. One, I will be finishing up grad school debt-free and likely making more than him once I do - I don't need or expect a man to provide for me financially, and I'd feel bad going 50/50 if our salaries would make that unfair. Two, we were good friends before we started dating; I already had a pretty good grasp on his character and understood the way he treated others, so there was nothing he needed to prove by shoving a steak in my face. I also know his money habits, which matter WAY more to me than the number you bring in. I'd feel so much more secure with a man who brings in 20k but saves 1/4 of it than I would with a 200k salary guy who spends everything as soon as he gets it. Pay your damn bills before you buy a new watch.
I'm not going to begrudge anyone for wanting to be with someone they see a future with, and unfortunately, finances are definitely something to consider there. But there are also plenty of people who just want someone who they really connect to and who makes them feel loved, and money has very little to do with that.
Excuse the rambling, but if you can live a good life - whatever that looks like to you - on your own, any woman worth her salt shouldn't give a shit about your income.
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My ex was obsessed and worried over money, career salary and home ownership that it destroyed the relationship before finances even mattered. I helped them through their education, job prospects etc but when it was my turn to struggle with getting a career starting it obviously caused resentment, and finally cut me right after I finished graduating a degree I only did to fast track a career out of desperation. I got a job a month after being dumped. Almost a decade of building a natural, and dedicated relationship down the drain in exchange for a career, the one thing i couldnt get at the time.
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>>34288499
Many women think about potentially having kids and theu know that they're getting uglier all the time. That leads to materialist concerns often. I like being poor, women leave me alone.
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>>34288499
I think most of them don't usually don't care about how much do you have as long as you give them big amounts of money. Like she would prefer someone that has 50k dollars and give her 45k, over someone that has 80k but gives her only 30k
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>>34295374
So, gold instead of diamonds.
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>>34288907
>If you're not tall, attractive, and charismatic (note AND, nor OR - you must have all 3 traits to succeed here) then prepare to live the rest of your life alone or be an ATM for a single mother.
your post is correct but there is a loophole. you do not need all 3 but you have to lower your standards. The thing is literally everyone can get laid it just depends how low you are willing to go. A fat ugly loser can monkey branch but the the women he does so with are going to be even worse than him. The less points you have the less you get. Women date up, men date down, always. One way or another
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>>34288499
Commonly, yeah. You just need to have, I dare say it, a personality and some decent looks.
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>>34288499
Yeah but you have to be confident (not fake it to you make it cope, actual confidence) and attractive. If you're asking about this, it's too late already. These are unattainable qualities for you.
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>>34298035
That's what I meant by
>be an ATM for a single mother
Yeah if you lower your standards enough you can have the privilege of raising Chad's offspring, but at that point is it even worth debasing yourself like that? Just how low are you willing to scrape into the barrel?
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>>34300347
Money money money.... Money...
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>>34288499
My wife never cared that I was a broke-ass buster. And now that I make really great money she deserves it since she has been with me since way before I had my money. Basically, you have to find an actually good woman. Easier said than done, I know.
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>>34288499
I've been in relationships with three different women who didn't care about how much money I had.
That said, it's probably worth mentioning that my type of woman definitely includes her being functional yet mentally ill. Not even a conscious choice on my part.

>>34288513
>you have to make up for it by being very funny.
Also, I am very funny but correlation is not necessarily causation.

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