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Dude at work thinks I hate him and continues to act like I hate him when I don't hate him at all.
He comes up to me and asks "why do you hate me?" and I tell him point blank that I do not hate him. But he continues to think I hate him.
And he continues to ask me that question several times and I still tell him that I don't hate him but he just doesn't believe me.
What's wrong with this guy? What do I do?
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>>34292503
Just tell him that you hate everyone. He won't change his point of view, so you will have to go along with it. If you say you hate everyone, he will accept it, because it will make him feel like its your fault, and he is probably a narcisist who needs to project his own psychology onto you.
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>>34292503
Talk it out further then answering a sentence.
"Why do you think I hate you is it because of my behavior, appearence, movement, stare, coldness?"
"Is there any proof, otherwise I would have called you names, treat you harshly then this, cause problems for you but I don't cause I'm just doing my job, I'm here to earn money to live."
"Is this a joke? Or did my action made you misunderstood I'm hating you"
You can gift him some hamburger on off days or shift to chill out a bit and tell him "I have no reason to hate you and i'm giving you this burger if I ever did wrong to you sorry k?"
The idea here is, don't just respond the same answer and try to understand and talk it out like an adult both of you to clear up misunderstanding, goodluck.
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>>34292503
Tell him that you’ve given him his answer, and if he continues to bother you about it again, then you will bring in HR to help him understand. Ask him to be professional and get back to work.
If he stands there and doesn’t move, tell him that he is stopping you from achieving your goals, and it’s becoming an issue of his making.
I do have to say, put your phone on audio record before he approaches, this is something that you must document for your own protection.