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I know it's "normal" to be attracted to guys, especially when hormones are going nuts because that's how your body tricks you into making babies.
I don't want to be a mom. I don't want to be attracted to men anymore. I want to be asexual and focus on my writing without distraction.
I grew up with my family being my dad and two brothers so I'm kind of a tomboy and something about dating a man feels sort of gay coming from that background anyway.
My friend, who I slept with once while high on marijuana, is trying to get me to do more weed with him and I would like to eliminate my desire to say yes.
I'd be alright either being asexual, or a lesbian if that's what it takes. I tried dropping my yaoi habits but that just made me feel more pent up.
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>>34293921
Why not just masturbate? What happens if you do? I'm 40+ dude and I never approached women, never felt the need. To me the reason is obvious: I masturbate on average twice a day (mainly doujins and h-manga), and have been keeping it up for 20+ years by now.
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>and focus on my writing
Oh great more sloppa to enter the sea of sloppa, how bout stop writing your inane hogwash and get a job loser cunt artfag who will never make it with that egoslop. You will never make anything good whilst you're a mentally under-developed stunted imbecile. Give up now and become normie so we don't need to clog up the sloppa sea with more sloppa
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>>34293923
I don't want my creative efforts saddled with trying to have a relationship.
>>34293947
Masturbation doesn't really help me much. I feel too weird and self conscious to like it.
>>34293952
If it's a sea of slop, I'll write a ship that can sail it.
>>34294035
Can men change their sexualities?
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>>34294552
Do you even know how to masturbate/reach orgasm? It's meant to feel good until you cum in the end. Whatever you're doing doesn't sound like masturbation at all, or some kind of failed attempt at one
Your sloppa will be devoured by and join the sea sloppa, adding one extra droplet of slop into the ocean sloppa
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>>34294552
>I don't want my creative efforts saddled with trying to have a relationship.
Every normie in this world ends up marrying somebody from the opposite sex and raising kids with them despite their interests being something very unrelated to the opposite sex or kids.
You may be lacking a female role model so being a mother may seem as a compromise to you, like giving up a part of your autonomy for a man. But men have to give away some of their autonomy to become fathers. It's just life.
Something very liberating that I read on this board once is that it's okay to be the way you are because that is how you want to be.
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>>34293921
changing sexual orientation
Not happening. Even those homos who got electrocuted became gay again after a while. What makes you think you can stop being straight and force yourself to be lesbian? Other lesbians will easily tell you're not a lesbo too.
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>>34294552
>I don't want my creative efforts saddled with trying to have a relationship.
Just because you're straight doesn't mean you have to date.
I'm a straight male who writes and I don't date. I'd rather just go home after work and write. Lots of writers are like that because it's a naturally solitary hobby.
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>>34293921
You give off the vibes of a Brazilian trying to speak English. I hope your writings are in a different language.
If not... then you might want to date someone with a broader vocabulary.
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I'm like you but male, I wish I wasn't attracted to women because it would've saved me a lot of pain and anguish because no woman would ever be attracted to me. I hate you specifically because your reasons are retarded "Muh writing" fuck you roastie.
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>>34293921
Sexuality is a core part of a healthy human experience, being a tomboy and a writer shouldn't deprive you of the joys of getting laid. I know it seems overkill but you're going to struggle to write believable characters if you yourself don't understand such a core driving force for humans, at our base instincts our desire to fuck motivates us more than we could possibly recognize. What is it about sex that drives you away from it?
>>34294552
>Masturbation doesn't really help me much. I feel too weird and self conscious to like it.
Did you have a bad experience with this before? Was sex a really taboo subject in your home, or something brought up way too often?
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>>34301188
you're going to struggle to write believable characters if you yourself don't understand such a core driving force for humans, at our base instincts our desire to fuck motivates us more than we could possibly recognize
True. You can tell when an author doesn't write a book because all their characters are stereotypes of stereotypes
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>>34293921
>as a woman being attracted to men feels gay
This is the most woman moment thread on 4chan. How about you therapize yourself until you’re comfortable with your attraction because attraction is a reflex, just like I tell the closeted gay dudes. If you try and ignore what you are attracted to reflexively you will be miserable, you aren’t built to accept and interpret affection from anything else so get over yourself, suck it up, and date who you like because anything else will simply be hell.
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>>34294552
> I don't want my creative efforts saddled with trying to have a relationship.
So you would rather have your creative efforts saddled with trying not to have a relationship like right now where you waste time posting here and energy fighting your biological urges?
Also, not to be a jerk but sex on drugs is not "a relationship". My advice would
be to chill out because if you truly have the inner drive to write every day, taking an evening off to smoke weed and have sex is not gonna make it go away. However making writing a constraint that prevents you to get laid might.
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>>34293921
u can't change ur sexuality lol
i'm sure you're now realizing why people sympathize with fags, they didn't have a choice. straight people cannot magically make themselves attracted to the same sex, or erase their attraction to the opposite sex
this is also why anyone who thinks being gay is a choice is probably also a closet homosexual (because an actual straight person would know it's not a choice, and that you cannot feel attraction to the same sex no matter what you do)
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>>34304207
i mean is it not a self-report? if you say you're straight, yet you also believe that gay people are choosing to be gay, wouldn't that mean you believe you can change your sexuality?
because a real straight person would never be able to feel attraction to the same sex. if you think that you can, you are a closet fag
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