>ask nicely
>give step by step instructions
>find a new bf
those are you options
asking for graphic details is sex-pest behaviour

>>34296479
okay but the first two are literally what I've been told multiple times and what I've been trying for months

>>34296452
There's a few ways to get it done.
- "accidentally" grind ass on his crotch in bed.
- casually talk about your own boobs or butt or pussy in a nonchalant manner to make his ears prick
- walk around in provocative clothing, or lack of clothing as if it's no big deal
- pheromones, if all else fails skip showering for a day or two and do not apply perfumes, female sweat and natural scent is packed with pheromonal signals that make men horny when in close proximity. Especially if you are currently ovulating

Good luck

>>34296486
thank you, but even IF he does initiate he'll wait for me to go further or just get on his back

and I'm not going to break up with him over this? that's just...stupid

>>34296452
>too submissive
maybe he likes to be pegged aggressively?

>>34296499
I peg him anon, not often, but I DO peg him, I'm good at it too, but I want him to be less submissive outside of those moments

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>>34296506
damn. Did he mention that he has some kinks? Maybe latex clothing?

Have you directed him during sex? Eg after kissing, laying back and spreading, telling him "come over here". Grinding on him and tugging at his waist band saying "I want it" until he takes off his pants himself

>>34296497
>or just get on his back
There is the possibility that he's just lazy and has become complacent. Even if you've had discussions about what you want, he doesn't have much pressure to actually follow through because you'll end up doing the work anyway.

>>34296515
Armin?
>>34296519
yeah but you're straying from the topic
>>34296534
yeah sometimes I ask him to be on top, he just says something like "can you get on top"
He's not lazy either, he works out and he eats healthy, he's outgoing which is the reason we even got together

>>34296540
>he just says something like "can you get on top"
And what happens when you laugh and say "no, get over here"?
>He's not lazy either, he works out and he eats healthy, he's outgoing
Those don't really have anything to do with being a lazy and inconsiderate lover. Maybe if you had examples of him going out of his way to do things for you?
If he's talking back to you this reads more "passive" than "submissive"

>>34296540
idk with this latex thing i'm just looking for a way to make him more into making moves towards you. If it won't work then i'm sorry but i'm all out of options

Maybe his sex drive is lower and he's not that into it. Just going through the motions. Do you two do a good amount of foreplay other than kissing? BJs? Does he touch you back?

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>>34296452
When it starts to get hot, just put yourself in the doggy position and order him to fuck you. He seems to be a real sub, you'll have to take the lead at least for the time being.

>>34296506
>Pegging
I'm outta here. 'men' who get legged or want to be pegged are not men at all, closet homosexuals.

>>34296550
I don't really do that, since I want to be fucked, I'm not willing to do the back and forth
Yes, maybe passive is a much better description
>>34296575
yeah, we do foreplay, I give him blowjobs, then when we're done I masturbate...

>>34296595
>I don't really do that, since I want to be fucked, I'm not willing to do the back and forth
Well if you want to get fucked you're going to have to insist instead of caving and doing the work of fucking on your own. Hopefully he'll get the idea and you won't have to do the back and forth forever. If he never does, that's a bigger problem.
>we do foreplay, I give him blowjobs,
Does he reciprocate? Fingering, eating you out?
>then when we're done I masturbate...
Would this be solved by him taking the initiative? This also sounds like a bigger problem.

>>34296506
Fuck me

>>34296619
he rarely eats me out or fingers me, I'll have to do my best to not cave I suppose
when I masturbate it's not because I was left unsatisfied after SEX, it's just after a give him a blowjob that I do it
>>34296624
what

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>>34296452
"You know what might be nice? If you ..." [insert something you like - squeezed me there, tried entering me from behind, whatever]

or

Watch porn together. "Ooh that looked exciting. Let's try that sometime."

or

Wait for him to accidentally do something you like and say "Ooh. Don't move on, keep doing that for a while."

>>34296452
>a woman has a higher sex drive than a dude
i didn't know these exist

I won't read threads about men who let their girlfriends push plastic penises into their poop holes.

>>34296519
also
>>34296540
i promise i'm not straying from the topic, i'm tryna make him more enticed that's all

>>34296452
Your boyfriend is clearly gay. Or you look like a gorlok.

Probably something like the gym. Something that gets his genes moving. I'm probably lazy af too and prefer peg, but if that is off putting then, I don't know, the ability to go ham on a womans ass isn't something in everyones toolkit. Maybe make him good food if he does it, as if to train his brain to want it like food.

>First girlfriend

>Been with two boys before him
God I feel so bad for him; just do him a favour and leave, fucking whore.

>>34299450
virgin by the way

>>34296452
You're lazy pillow princess.