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I had a video call with my tinder match and I no longer wanna meet her 02/28/26(Sat)17:53:13 No.34298819
I had a video call with my tinder match and I no longer wanna meet her 02/28/26(Sat)17:53:13 No.34298819
I had a video call with my tinder match and I no longer wanna meet her Anonymous 02/28/26(Sat)17:53:13 No.34298819 [Reply]▶
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Seeing her face in her tinder bio was already jarring but seeing what she would look like in person was an entirely different thing. She is not attractive in the slightest. If I were to post her face here, you people would be replying with puking reaction images.
I already let my dick do the talking and we had phone sex and she wants to meet up. Thing is that I feel bad and believe the best thing I can do for her and myself is find a way to gently land this plane before it goes anywhere.
I am a degenerate and I just see her as a piece of meat to satisfy my addiction for oral sex that I got from being molested as a kid. I have absolutely no intention on being anything more than maybe a two time fling. I feel terrible enough for getting her to masturbate on the phone, I don’t want to break her heart when I have post nut clarity and want to get out of that hotel room we were talking about getting, or worse, knocking her up
How should I approach her so I can have her let go of me in a way that doesn’t hurt her? Should I be honest about being molested and let her know I’m not mentally right?
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>>34298837
I’m asking on this board because I tried /r9k/, hoping i’d get more advice since it’s a faster board, and got told to fuck off
I don’t see what’s so unbelievable about my story. Are you saying you never gave those fat unattractive girls you always seem to match with whenever you make a new tinder account a chance? That’s what I did and I’m honestly regretting it
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>>34298819
There is NOTHING you can do to prevent her from being badly hurt. Literally nothing.
Given that this is the case, you might as well just make a clean break and not overthink it. Send her a message saying "Look, I'm really sorry, but this isn't working for me. Best of luck to you." and then block her.
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Shit thread semd Dungeon Meshi
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>>34299578
I don't think I have the will to see her in person at this point. I recognize that going through with this will damage me in the long run by reinforcing the idea that I should be going after cheap thrills instead of looking for girls that I am genuinely interested in. I need to stop if I ever want to have actual meaningful love and start a family
>>34299581
Obviously but I want to know what is the best course of action. I already lied that I find her sexy, or sort of. I complimented her body, which I do like
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>>34299786
stop being a pussy and say you dont want to continue the relationship. It doesn't matter how you word it it's the same result and you don't owe a lengthy apology to someone you've never met. If you're an absolute retard I will spell it out for you
>[name] I have enjoyed chatting and spending time with you but I'm not interested in progressing the relationship further. I don't think we click/we don't have enough in common/im not ready for a serious relationship right now and I don't want to lead you on in any way/it's not you it's me yadda yadda yadda. I hope this doesn't upset you too much/theres someone better for you out there/im going back to jail for 25 years
If you want to skip the formalities because you got catfished it's perfectly reasonable to stop messaging entirely at this point but she will probably text you a couple of times asking for an explanation
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