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'm 21 and a virgin. My younger brother lost his virginity before I did, and I feel like a complete loser.
I have almost no contact with women my age. I am in college but all of my classes are online, so I'm rarely on campus. My issue is I'm just too afraid to "try" and I wouldn't even know what "trying" looks like. I'm terrified of rejection and interaction. I cannot even fathom approaching a woman, let alone flirting with her.
I have almost 0 friends and extreme social anxiety. I was also online schooled for all of my high-school years, so it feels like I am socially underdeveloped. And I feel as if it's too late now. Everyone's too ahead. But, I don't want to spend the rest of my college years rotting away. What do I do?
It's less about getting laid and more about being a normal functioning adult with a social life and wanting someone to love.
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When we don't really love, we try to fill that void with the love of others, with some titles and achievements, with many things we and others expect to reach. But nothing of that has the shape of the heart. And filling it with that is difficult. Honesty, acceptance, forgiveness and change was the necessary.