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Do you just lie to them and pretend that they are the most beautiful women in the world, the smartest or whatever? Do you make them believe that you are rich, have property, a well paid job, or that you are willing to spend all your money on the girl?
Is that how things work? I'm autistic, the son of a single mother, and I never had someone to teach me (well, maybe I could, but never asked), so please explain in detail.
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>>34300508
If you have a decent and well functioning brain, you'd just drop it and not be that kind of piece of shit.
Of you know the gravity of what that can cause long term, living in the back of your mind, it'll suck for both sides. (Probably).
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>>34300508
Pump & dump works as follows:
>Find a woman
>Socialise with her, make her feel wanted or important or interesting
>Smooth things into a sexual direction
>Have sex
>Next day, cease being interested in her, eventually becoming strangers
That's what it looks like. Some people think it's about being a masterminded evil calculating psycho who plays mindgames and 4D chess to con others into it. It's not. It's simply impulsivity at its finest is all
>Get horny
>Feel lonely
>See a woman, talk with her
>She seems amazing and sexy and nice and blahblah, feel strong emotional pull
>Tell her this, she feels flattered and special
>Have sex
>Uh oh it was just horniness masquerading as 'meaning' and 'purpose' again. Now another human being was sold on feelings you only had for a few hours and they expect a lifetime out of you now.
>Fuck this is embarrassing, better slowly tuck tail and leave.
That's what usually happens. Someone with impulse control issues gets horny, finds a woman, and because he is thirsty she seems like absolute nectar. Kinda like how when you are starving and you eat plain bread and peanut butter, it's bland but the hunger makes you feel it's the best food you ever had. Same is true here: horny low impulse people trick themselves into feelings all kinds of spontaneous shit for people. Only for it to disappear once the impulse goes away.
Some people villainize them as evil love bombers or whatever. That's silly modern speak shit. Actual pathological manipulators are rare as hell. And when you encounter one it's not to have sex with you, it's to either ruin your life or subvert it or take something permanent from you.
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>>34301139
>Finally some mental soundness. Why on earth do people fell the urge to moralise on such trifling matters
Because it's an emotive topic. Sex, love, romance, marriage, divorce, lust, pump & dump. It's all topics talking about humans doing stuff that comes from emotional places. Even the most cold hearted people have emotions, just kept to themselves. So everyone has something to say about it. And when people get emotional they get irrational, and to make up for the irrational blind spots they will always run to morality or legality depending on which type of human is seething. But this is dumb because morality isn't built on emotion, it's built on reason, specifically intuition.
Some people have a gross lack of intuition so they always have a meltdown and demonize themselves or others over something as petty as a relationship that was rigged to blow up anyway. Tl;Dr immature people make immature noises lol. And by immature I don't mean stupid, just people who are young. 18-25. It's their first rodeo so they will always think heartbreak is the worst thing to ever happen to a human. Wait till they see what cancer does, or dementia or being targeted by either corruption or genuine evil. Then they'll learn what matters as they get older
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>>34301147
you are 31 am I right
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>>34301138
Ok, cool, thanks for the explanation.
So what's the socially accepted/normal behavior if one is just looking for a quick fuck and finds some hottie out there? Just be honest and tell them that you find them hot and want to fuck their brains out and nothing else? Do people even do that?
Assume you are talking to a socially retarded guy (you are, BTW). How do you even say that shit diplomatically? Or you just act say things like the horny fucker you are?
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>>34302918
OP here. I know, I'm not ethically able to do shit ike this. I've only done it by accident (e.g., I once told a girl from a dating app that I liked her.... Only to find out she wasn't like in her pics. There was no sex, though).