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my mom came to me the other day and suggest i sign up for dating apps just to get out of the house and maybe get some free meals but i really dont know if thats right for me. there is nothing "wrong" with me for her to suggest that i cant socialize/get a relationship on my own im just introverted and choose to be alone. im fairly attractive and im employed i just dont have friends because i choose not to. but she said shes worried about me despite me feeling completely fine. but is she right should i really be getting out there?
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>>34300652
You're right.
Not every woman is fit to be a wife, let alone a mom.
You shouldn't force yourself to date or be in a relationship, if you don't have the capacity to care and love other people. You'll only make yourself and the other person miserable.
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>>34300697
Cope seethe and dilate
You already have 5 siblings and even more nieces and nephews so anon is right all y'all resources are stretched and shouldn't be reproducing more unless you actually have the impetus to
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>>34300673
You're arguing with a guy who watches political podcasts by people pretending to be Christian for money. Don't bother.
Unless you, yourself, are also a creepy religious person. In which case you should care very much.
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>>34300629
Your mom is strategically right, but morally wrong. I'd feel used if you just dated me for food without even trying to be interested in me. By the sounds of this, you are female. You could get free meals, but free meals do have an expectation. You'd just be using some guy's wallet and they're trying to find either a life with you or casual sex with you. If you're not looking for either of those things you're leading them on.
However, dating could get you life experience and you might find a guy you really like. If you're fine with being alone now, that's okay. Are you fine with being alone forever? In my 20s, I thought I was fine with being alone forever. In my 30s, I am realizing I'm not so sure about that.
If you go on dates and don't want to feel pressured into anything, offer to split the bill. Guys with ego who don't like that, are more of the controlling sort.
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