>>34301661
The picture is bullshit who goes to someone at the dollar store and asks how did you get like this lmao. Then gets a monologue of life advice. Go out to places with girls. If you can't think of any genuinely ask ChatGPT for a list of 100 hobbies and pick one

>>34301671
The only hobbies I have are reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games.

Do you mean that I should try to find a community in my area for these interests, both online and offline?

>>34301661
Let me help you:
What use is a girlfriend when you can't even enjoy your own company?
Remember that.
Subsequently, remember the tiers of women you deal with per hobby.

>Toys
Womenchildren, furries, or the mentally unstable.
>Fishing
A secret serial killer in the making or some bitch from Minnesota.
>Exercise
An onlyfans woman.
>Chilling
A druggie's mistress.
>DnD
Ugh, don't.

You need to curtail not only yourself, but your hobbies very carefully, so you don't wind up even more a loser than how you feel right now. One DnD guy I know has a deadbeat stinky loser girlfriend who whines constantly about her miserable life, and she's as fat as a bean bag chair. You can clearly tell neither of them have sex since 10 years ago.

In any case, sex is mediocre, really. And I hate cleaning up after myself more than I have to in the mornings. You could just use porn if you're that weird about it, but don't seek hookers or sex carnivals.

Moderation is key to a quality life.

>>34301676
those interests are very much full of women you just need to make them social rather than reclusive

>>34301689
>>Toys
>Womenchildren, furries, or the mentally unstable.
>>Fishing
>A secret serial killer in the making or some bitch from Minnesota.
>>Exercise
>An OnlyFans woman.
>>Chilling
>A druggie's mistress.
>>DnD
>Ugh, don't.

I have none of these hobbys but thanks anyway.

>What use is a girlfriend when you can't even enjoy your own company?

I enjoy doing stuff on my own, but this does not help.

>>34301691
I will try to find some online groups or in-person events

>>34301661
Well if it makes you feel any better OP I'm in the same "rut" as you currently. I just work security, go home, play vidya and sleep. Rinse repeat.
We just have to keep trying, bro. Staying stagnant when we have the biggest advantage right now (time) can have disastrous consequences. Are you in school?

>>34301763
I’ve just finished my computer science degree and started a help desk job. It doesn’t pay much, but it’s easy

>>34301733
no man no online groups ffs go outside

>>34301773
He means meetup.com groups I think.

>>34301773
I meant more like a community that connects online and also gets together in person

>>34301781
I did not know what meetup.com was but probably I should give it a try but all the people in the photos look old

>>34301814
Online groups do be full of old people

>>34301689
Please stop posting here. You are not as smart as you think. You certainly aren't helpful, either.

>>34301771
Maybe you should focus on your career than some random foid who’s likely going to chest on you anyway

>>34301671
The anon in OP's image didn't go ask a random dollar store dude and ask his life story. The guy was his neighbor in an apartment complex.

>>34301661
First, stop working minimum wage. There are plenty of jobs out there which pay more, don't need a whole lot of experience and are easier jobs than whatever you're doing.

As for meeting women with interests that you have. You'd have to make a dating app profile, list your interests, and browse until you see a girl who also lists those interests. If you'd rather try in person, that is harder, but if you live in a city with group activities relevant to your hobbies, you can go and try those things and maybe you'll meet someone.

What are your hobbies?

>>34301661
Forget girls for a moment. You want to meet people of any genders who share interests with you. Get enough of them and some of them will be girls.

Ask yourself this: what are your interests? What sorts of people might be interested in that? Where would such people be likely to hang out?

Go there. Say hello.

>>34303480
>Meet people with my interests
>My interests are all male dominated so they are all guys
>Now know 20 guys
>None of us know any girls
The struggles of being a nerd.

>>34303662
This also applies to being a gearhead.

im OP

>>34303316
> stop working for minimum wage

I'm trying to get something better, but this job is close to my house, so I can go on foot.

>What are your hobbies?

The hobbies I have are reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games.

>>34303299
I don't hate woman bro. If she cheats on me, I'm gonna leave her

>>34303480
> What are your interests?

reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games. But all the people with these hobbies are always at home.

>>34303662
Unfortunatly is trua

>>34301671
Lol you've never spoken to an old working stiff before have you

34302924
If it makes you mad, I'm just gonna keep on doing it. Fucking retard.

>>34301661
What works is being confident and not expecting anything to result in anything. Ever.
You aren't investing your future into the conversation. You're enjoying a chat.
I talk to female strangers all the time. I just walk up, comment on something relevant, and if they laugh at my joke or engage, we chat.

Approaching strangers never once resulted in a date for me but I'm not great at closing. It was fantastic practice for talking to women though. It's literally easy.

>>34301676
>The only hobbies I have are reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games.
Those are solid interests and you should pursue communities for them.

Also, you might consider stepping outside of your comfort zone and try other, more social hobbies sometime between now and when you're, say, 54.
It's uncomfortable trying new things.
It's more comfortable doing nothing.

Become comfortable with making yourself uncomfortable. It's like getting into a bath that's a little too hot. A little painful, definitely unpleasant, but after a moment you get used to it and can determine if you actually enjoy it or not.

>>34303815
>reading, writing, drawing, and playing video games.
There are book clubs, talks by visiting authors, library events, CC evening classes

There are writers' workshops in person or online, open mic poetry jams,

There are art shows, art workshops, galleries, museums, or just sit in the park drawing and wait for people to come chat with you

There are video game cons, trade shows, online communities, just hanging out at the store

Also look sideways. At least some people who enjoy gaming also enjoy manga, some readers also like theater or old movies, etc.