common interests
I just tell em about things I'm doing that they might also be into
>I want sushi for lunch
>I liked this movie
>this subject is tough
then ask followup questions

girls always ask for my insta first these days
I'd only ask for a number if they were laughing hard or dropping the really obvious hints like touching your arm multiple times

>>34302210
Don't start with this. If you're an autist, you will start interrogating and the person will lose confidence. Learn from others and listen to the way they ask things. Trying them out is the hardest part. I haven't tried it but I have heard the following pattern.

>Go to a context you enjoy or you haven't tried before AND have no qualms about. (If you feel uncomfortable you're set up for failure, would be salvageable if you knew how to cling to people but that's a skill check above your level)
>Greet someone and comment the situation. Ask follow up questions chaining from the answer.
>Use contextual clues from their answer to guide the topic tree
>First encounters are about knowing people superficially. Their purpose there, their living condition, building mood and recognition by discussing good events from their past that stand out.
>Do not discuss work in depth, nobody likes working, only dig if they sound proud about what they do, but most people hate working. Do not discuss family beyond what they bring up if it's something happy, people have shit families or well meaning families that fucked them up.
>Everything you say must sound light, lively, low stakes. Joke about answers and tease lightly, but don't say anything that sounds offensive and risky, you will always remember it if things fail later.
>Find a way to see the girl consistently. Show up with the same vibe every time you find her.

I don't know the rest, but humor between people, depth and trust are developed from spending time with them. If they're not accustomed to your presence, if they see you inconsistent and fickle, they will never trust you.

>>34302074
If you have to ask, it's over. Considering that no underage posting is allowed on 4chan, and you're at least 18 years old, you're beyond saving anon.

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Just be sincere and well intentioned.

Understand that women feel vulnerable. They are always under attack. They are hastily judged, and often too harshly.
You need to make them feel secure, make them see that you're no danger.

>>34302259
This looks so fucking stupid and useless, and expensive as fuck as well, working there must be a dream.

>you need to make them feel secure
That's the hard and troublesome part. They don't react to intention or meaning, if you tense up they read you as a rapist, that's why douches play them in the first place.

>>34302242
I can't even parse all that shit you wrote bro
did I need to specify "dont only ask questions" and that my advice was for humans?

>>34302259
Notice how none of the girls in that group look younger than 30.

>>34302242
>I haven't tried it
Stopped reading here and I usually read everything in a post.
Your formatting is garbage. Greentext is for short form. Easier to read long stuff in paragraph form with line breaks. Also, if you haven't tried it, you don't know what you're talking about. You're just parroting other advice you've read which you don't know if it works. Only comment when you have experience with what you're talking about so that OP can get good advice.

>>34302259
What is this subhuman shit
This is why /pol/ is right

>>34302074
Wanna fuck?

Either way, it saves time