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>meet girl through social media
>we go on a date, got dessert, enjoyed it, we made out
>after the date, she seems receptive
>she seems to text less bc shes busy with school or wtv so I just dont bother texting her anymore
>she eventually says she had a dream about me and wants to audio call. I said yes
During the call, the topic of films were brough up and she said "have you seen Donnie Darko with Jake Gyllenhall? He's so hot." I was really hurt bc I thought it was disrespectful, but I tried playing it off saying "he has a big nose and big eyes." This bitch then says "he just has an aura, and you don't." I was so stunned to the point of speechlessness. She then said "I like insulting you. you just take it." Again, I was so stunned and speechless. I just went quiet. She then said apologized after a few seconds. My incel trauma was activated. I've also had girls in the past complement male celebrities like this so I'm really traumatized by this. I felt hurt and disrespected.
Here's the thing: this all happened one month ago. After this call, neither of us reached out to each other. I thought she ghosted me. Then this past Friday, she texts me out of the blue asking if Im free that night or sometime this weekend. She said she didn't mind seeing me late at night after my shift on Friday. I declined bc I was busy this weekend. She now wants to know if we can hang out tomorrow.
Should I even see her considering what she said on the call? I feel that she is only reaching out to me bc other men (chads or men approximating chads) are done with her. Do you think she wants to have sex or am I expecting too much?
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>>34302349
I wish I had a picture of a little puppy getting lead around on a rope by a woman in BDSM gear.Maybe it's a two panel where she kicks the puppy every now and again but it comes back and loves her, jumping at every command.
In case you didn't realize, you would be the puppy. Get some self respect and don't respond.
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>>34302700
>I like insulting you. you just take it
This rancid cunt has no respect for you. She’s “open” to whatever she feels partial to. Don’t give her the time of day; do as the other anon said and find a way to sprout an ounce of self-respect because you clearly have no love for yourself if this is how low you’ll let yourself sink.
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>>34302713
u don't think she was shit-testing him?
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>>34302713
Anon, relationships are built on *mutual* respect for one another. You're not treating this like just a fuck, you clearly want more.
If you're going to continue to contact her, don't treat her like a girlfriend or anything and try to get to sex asap and don't respond otherwise.
>>34302732
Shit test or not, who cares if you have to wonder if she even likes you? She is insulting OP!
>>34302758
>hot 18 year old
nvm you're just in that stage of life where you sort out what you'll put up with and how far you'll go for validation from women. No advice here will land for you, so keep doing whatever it is you're doing til something either breaks or you succeed. It's all really luck anyways.
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>>34302781
>where you sort out what you'll put up with and how far you'll go for validation from women
Wdum? Do you think I will do anything for female validation? I ignore them most of the time regardless of their attractiveness.
>don't treat her like a girlfriend or anything and try to get to sex asap and don't respond otherwise.
Thats my plan, anon.
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>>34302686
Yeah that's pretty much OP right now.
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KEK so this bitch played me. I told her that I’m free at 7:30 but I’m out of ideas and asked if she knew any places. This morning she replies with “Something happened last night and I don’t think I’m really feeling like going out.” I just said “ok then” because that’s clearly a lie (unless that “something” means reconnecting with a chad). I feel like a sucker.