>>34302375
Women are attracted to confidence. If you are not confident enough to approach women, they will not be sufficiently attracted to you to want to approach you.

>>34302375
they don't need to approach. they'll only approach chad or to complete a business transaction.

>>34302386
Someone, get this gen X/Y man out of this thread.

>>34302398
Basically.

>>34302375
By your own experience, you can say that it's is not effective at all. The factors on if you'll be approached are you, her, the place, and the time. If you see something that you think want, you have to go get it. The whole point of approaching and dating are to see if you two are a good fit for each other. You can't even begin to know if that process doesn't start. You can also approach without committing to asking her out as well. Small talk chat about something, and if that goes well then ask for digits or snapchat or whatever your age group does.

>>34302375
it's very effective if you like bpdemons

>>34302375
It's not effective. You're waiting for something that isn't even a guarantee.

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>>34302375
Perhaps this is arcane to you. But you don't "just" approach.
First, an experienced man sends body language signals he is "hunting". Women that find him attractive send body language signals that she is "ready for action".
And after that exchange, the man starts the approach with some hope (with some small talk, that will become flirting).
No book will teach you to do it.
Observe friends or coworkers in some social setting, and you will learn something, if your perception is not impaired.
>never approached a woman
Then start now just speaking to women(and people in general) and learn to be human.
Contrary to what howie incels claim, it's fully legal.

>>34304356
I kinda do because they make me feel alive. Tell me this is stupid so I can agree. Never had sex before but I imagine its much more exciting and thrilling than your average plain girl. Is this bad? I want to live life.

>>34303325
>Someone, get this gen X/Y man out of this thread
knock it off. this has NEVER been a site for hateful ageism

>>34302375
Women almost never approach men.

Waiting for them to risk rejection, when most literally never have to, is a terrible idea.

The idea is to wait until a woman is comfortable with you, and then ask her out. If she declines it's no big deal, move on.

Cold approaching strangers has a low rate of success. They have less time to appreciate you and become comfortable with you.


>I have never approached a woman in my life.
Like anything else:
Try.
Fail.
Learn.
Try again.
Fail better.