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I'm probably an autist and usually an anxious wreck that can't socialize because I'm too nervous outside. I've made cringe threads about being lonely and wanting friends here before.
Anyways I never drink but I just drank a bottle of soju and I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my chest for the first time in my life. I actually want to try going outside and talking to people now.
My question is how bad is this? Is it okay if i just drink a little bit before I talk to people? I didn't drink before because my dad quit but this is life-changing maybe I can make friends now
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>I've made cringe threads about being lonely and wanting friends here before.
Stop right there
Here's your problem: sounding too desperate is a sure way to push people away
>Drinking to socialize
No. Bad idea.
You still won't make any friends because eventually you'll be sober and get clingy-desperate again.
But now you're an alcoholic. A lonely alcoholic.
These are saddest/worst ones to be. So don't do it.

Work on your own issues first. If you can't figure that out, then consider psychotherapy.
No, you don't have to take medications if you don't want. It's mostly to sort out your own issues.

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