we didnt make it work. he ghosted me after over a year of talking

>>34304562
yes, it didn't work.

>>34304562
The only way to make it work is for one of you to move in with the other one eventually. If that option is not possible, you know what that means.

>>34304675
they don't EVER work.
I was in a relationship for 4 years, and in the 6 months we were apart whilst I was preparing to move, she cheated.

>>34304562
Yes. It’s hard and requires people who are not afraid of actual compromises

>>34304675
This is somewhat obvious anon. You’re supposed to be LD for a few years at the most.

I've done it multiple times. Most recent one was over 4 years long and we got engaged but we decided to split over some fundamental differences.

>Spend at least two weeks together every quarter if not longer
>Talk every day and have open dialogue and honesty
>Get to know their family and attend family things like holidays so that you become more tangible
>Use virtual resources to offset the distance

>>34304851
My best bud was LDR with her now wife for 5 years while he was abroad for his PhD. They met once or twice a year and they made it work. When he finished he moved back and got married. Now they’re having twins in two months or so.

>>34304562
this yaoi is moving me wait...

Its chill for her to move in whenever.