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My relationship with my BPD gf of 3 years is fucking killing me inside and I just let this happen to myself. I get headaches because of how depressed I am some days. She says I never notice the things that she does for me, maybe that's true. But I've absolutely ruined myself emotionally, financially, and mentally to give her a better life. She's so emotionally unavailable, never listens to shit, can't control herself, has no job and just smokes weed all day. I fucking hope and pray that something will change because I love her, but at the same time I can't take this anymore
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Do you have any guy friends? If so go see them/arrange a bro trip; you'll get a chance to destress, ideally some time away, and get some perspective. That can be all the difference in deciding what you want and whether or not maintaining this relationship is worth it to you.
If you don't have any buddies then I think it's time to admit she's killing you slowly and that it might be time to walk away.
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>The relationship with my gf is fucking killing me inside
>I get headaches
>Depressed
>Ruined me emotionally
>Financially
>Mentally
>She never listens to shit
>Smokes weed all day
>Can't control herself
>I can't take this anymore
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>I love her
Were you aware you're just as mentally ill as she is?